So who is it? It looks like at least 5 moms are in the same boat so far and have filed with PP.

http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=966563

04-13-2010, 02:01 PM #1
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*update*sent PP 4/10 and seller not responding now

**update 4/22** No further contact from seller since being told it would be “a few days/week” I am a pretty patient person but to not communicate with buyers who were very prompt in sending money is really not OK. What should I do now????

*update 4/15* apparently there is a family emergency which is resulting in the delays. Seller said that it should be “a few days/week” That is fine, just wish I’d been told.
COMMUNICATION is key!

I bought several items from a seller here and we communicated back & forth via PM multiple times to set up the transaction.
I sent the PP on the morning of 4/10 and now after several PM’s (which were read) I am not getting a response AND I have not received a shipping notice from PP.
What should I do?

ETA: she does have @150 positive feedbacks and 0 negatives, only a handful are within the last 6 months or so though (does that matter?)

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  1. ~*~Momma~*~ says:

    uh oh

  2. cheesewhiz says:

    I have no idea…

  3. Redhead says:

    I looked, nobody has left this seller negative FB as far as I can tell.. yet. Anyone else have an idea as to who it is?

  4. kitty1163 says:

    This is the seller: http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/member.php?u=48825

    I saw her FSOT listing yesterday and sent a PM to DS mods.

    Here is what they put at the top of the FSOT listing:

    “Edit by Admin :Mama, I think for the safety of your buyers everyone needs to go ahead and be refunded. Usually, a few days delay in shipping is okay with people. A few weeks is not okay. I can’t see thinsg smoothly working out if buyers end up waiting weeks.”

  5. MotherMoonPads says:

    Wow. I almost bought shorties from her. Glad I didn’t!

  6. Redhead says:

    Ick, looks like a lot of people are filing. Hope she didn’t clear out her PP..

  7. smartassmama says:

    Fill a dummy in – H2BAMod edited the original FSOT post.
    Then she posted the same thing in a reply.
    Then she quoted the entire OP, her edit, pics, description, and all.

    Anyone know why that would be needed? Just curious. I tend to miss the obvious FTTT.

    But wow at how cute some of that was. And I’m such a nosy ass. I’m wondering what the emergency is.

  8. Redhead says:

    does this seem odd? She is a birth doula (I thought they had to have some knowledge of birthing/labor??) and she is asking this question…. http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=972739

    Gross!

  9. Aj says:

    Oh and 8, seriously? Someone forgot their filter before posting tonight.

  10. Redhead says:

    9- I saw that. I hope I never have buyers like that OP.

  11. Aj says:

    If anyone’s confused, I was referring to the crazy doula poster, not Redhead πŸ™‚ in #10

  12. Redhead says:

    Hahah, I know πŸ™‚

  13. redfish bluefish says:

    Someone fill me in on these links…I don’t go to Virus Swappers.

  14. redfish bluefish says:

    Okay I got nosy and risked it. The link in #8….EW! Laboring in a public pool….just WOW.

  15. Messy says:

    I am totally disturbed that anyone would think laboring in a pubic pool was a good idea. PUKE!
    Now every time I see a hugely pregnant woman at the pool, I am going to be looking to make sure she doesn’t look like she is in labor :p

  16. redfish bluefish says:

    LOL 16

  17. smartassmama says:

    When I was a kid my mom said we couldn’t go to the city pool because people pee in it. Right now, pee ain’t looking so bad.

    I think kiddie pool sounds like the perfect alternative.
    But does anyone else wonder how they are taking hot baths/showers right now?

  18. Redhead says:

    she is due in August ….but their hot water probably won’t be fixed before then?
    Like 18 said.. how are they taking baths or showers now? Weird!!

  19. amessymama says:

    They don’t even need to buy a kiddie pool. Just boil water for the bathtub, it ain’t rocket science.

    !8-Exactly! What have they been doing? Not smelling too good, I bet.

  20. Myself says:

    WOW, isn’t that against the law to tell someone’s STD status?

  21. DSDM2 says:

    Myself, no it isn’t, not unless you are the healthcare provider.

  22. Sala says:

    Might be against the law to lie and say someone had stds they don’t, though. I’m not sure what I’d say or do, I’m thankful it never came up and all my mild canoodling days. Now I’m boring and married (and all the happier for it).

  23. Aj says:

    What the hell is this?
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=974224
    Today, 05:41 PM #1

    KMA1986
    Registered Users

    Join Date: Apr 2010
    Posts: 8
    Feedback Score: 0 reviews Question about the unmentionable site?

    ——————————————————————————–

    can someone who is a part of the unmentionable site (TB) please PM me? I have a question.

    I joined and am trying to post my intro but it keeps telling me to verify my email addy…except I’ve already done that and it still is telling me my acct is pending my email verification

    wth?

    Is she talking about CDN?

  24. DSDM2 says:

    She isn’t talking about here, lol.

  25. cheesewhiz says:

    #26 – Oh no, that is bad. 😦 I can’t imagine they would be earwigs, unless he was eating them.

    I have an awful story about earwigs but I won’t share it cause I don’t want to give anyone here nightmares. πŸ˜‰

  26. hot_tamale says:

    does she mean this site?

    that post was changed,but someone quoted it

    Originally Posted by stringbean02
    i had to learn the hard way. i mentioned it and i honestly didnt know what it really was even, i stumbled upon it during a google search when i was trying to find this site before i joined. dont mention the unmentionable site….your post will get deleted and im halfway certain this whole thread might get deleted. the site is pretty pathetic, its someone who has spent all their time making a site making fun of this site pretty much. if you google this site, the unmentionable site will pop up in the first few listings. its a pretty stupid site though…its not really worth your time to google it.

    like the PP said, i would delete this so you dont get a strike. i dont know if i got a strike or not for mentioning the unmentionable before, but i hope not because i REALLY did not know. its best just to not worry about it, the site is, like i said, stupid and nothing special. but it can stir up drama and hurt feelings, which isnt needed on here.

  27. Redhead says:

    26… OMG! I wonder if they were alive or dead? :shudders:

  28. Redhead says:

    25- stringbean02 apparently has decided it *IS* DODS….but then she deleted her posting and left a “.” …. someone else quoted her though. Kinda funny…

    “Originally Posted by stringbean02
    i had to learn the hard way. i mentioned it and i honestly didnt know what it really was even, i stumbled upon it during a google search when i was trying to find this site before i joined. dont mention the unmentionable site….your post will get deleted and im halfway certain this whole thread might get deleted. the site is pretty pathetic, its someone who has spent all their time making a site making fun of this site pretty much. if you google this site, the unmentionable site will pop up in the first few listings. its a pretty stupid site though…its not really worth your time to google it.

    like the PP said, i would delete this so you dont get a strike. i dont know if i got a strike or not for mentioning the unmentionable before, but i hope not because i REALLY did not know. its best just to not worry about it, the site is, like i said, stupid and nothing special. but it can stir up drama and hurt feelings, which isnt needed on here.”

  29. DSDM2 says:

    It isn’t this site, we don’t have a registration or email confirmation. Maybe TheBabyWearer.com ? She used the term TB, and that is all I came up with.

  30. hot_tamale says:

    maybe they tried registering with the word press thing?
    google put this site as 3rd down. whats the problem,why unmentionable site anyhoo?

  31. amessymama says:

    That is one confusing thread. What does this mean form sourpatch-babe:

    “Have any of you heard the story about the emperor’s clothes? And how everyone was pretending they could see his clothes in penalty of severeness (love that phrase!)? Until an innocent child spoke? Well, the emperor is wearing a beautiful robe IMO.”

  32. Redhead says:

    lets just start quoting strange sayings on the thread & throw everyone off…

    I love trolling, too much, sometimes.

  33. amessymama says:

    Hi, to all the googlers!!!

    Join us!! You know you want to. πŸ˜‰

    We’re a sweet n’ friendly bunch.

  34. hot_tamale says:

    im game! how do we know who is who ?

  35. Redhead says:

    34, maybe sourpatch means we should shut up about it? That is my only guess.. IDK. lost.

  36. hot_tamale says:

    or sourpatch needs a innocent someone to suggest names…? sacrificial goat?

  37. DSDM2 says:

    I think she might be saying that what DS wants is that if everyone is forced to pretend it doesn’t exist, it won’t.

  38. Redhead says:

    hot_tamale.. where’s the love?

  39. amessymama says:

    Since I can’t post over there, I’ll post here.

    I love Dumb and Dumber!!!!

  40. Redhead says:

    the best movie, like… EV-ER.

  41. hot_tamale says:

    oh,its there.with worms

  42. Just Peachy says:

    Mike and Ikes are better πŸ˜›

  43. hot_tamale says:

    so,whose gonna suggest this site? hot tamales ftw!<3

  44. amessymama says:

    I love Hot Tamales, but prefer Red Hots.

  45. Redhead says:

    that thread rules. Ugh, hope the mods don’t remove it!

  46. hot_tamale says:

    its off the unmentionable topic now 😦

  47. sourpatchbabe says:

    DSDM2 Says:
    April 26, 2010 at 4:30 am

    I think she might be saying that what DS wants is that if everyone is forced to pretend it doesn’t exist, it won’t.

    ****************************************************************That’s exactly what I meant. DS is the emperor and everyone can plainly see his undies. Except no one is allowed to say it out loud but for the innocent child. This site is supposed to be the child but is not as “innocent” as the child in the story.

  48. sourpatchbabe says:

    And I guess with that I have made my grand entrance.

    Hi, I’m sourpatchbabe and I lurk here a lot. I usually don’t post because of a fear of being yelled at on penalty of severeness.

  49. Myself says:

    51 – but it’s FUN to be banned from DS (well except then you can’t see any of the opt ins and you can’t see the user profiles) But otherwise it is fun to see what you get banned for.

  50. amessymama says:

    Well, hello there sourpatchbabe! πŸ˜€

  51. amessymama says:

    33-I think you’re right, she must’ve been doing that. I think her (TB) stands for The Blog.

    Hopefully, she’ll figure out that all she has to do is put in a user name and e-mail addy under her comment. πŸ˜‰ Then she can let us know.

  52. Redhead says:

    Hi Sourpatch! πŸ™‚

  53. iken says:

    Kookabum diapers is back, getting bad reviews. I love that she told someone to boil their brand new inserts, as they might be repelling…..
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=973981

  54. zamgrawrz says:

    Is DS down for anyone else? I think my net is being a pita, but I figured I’d ask….I wanna see the links. 😦

  55. Myself says:

    It wasn’t down for me.

  56. zamgrawrz says:

    Stupid Comcast.

  57. Redhead says:

    57 — it is working for me, but slower than normal. I have charter.
    Also, they deleted the thread of awesome quotes.. whaaa 😦

  58. smartassmama says:

    Before I post the link, let me preface by saying my math is no longer perfect πŸ˜‰ and I’m not trying to pick this post apart. It just doesn’t make sense to me?

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showpost.php?p=10091487&postcount=175

    Someone smarter, does the math work for you? I know the 11yo is a step, & saw a post where she said she has 6 kids. So I don’t think any are losses (and I truly hope not). Like I said, I’m not trying to be mean at all. I just stared at this and couldn’t wrap my head around it?

  59. hot_tamale says:

    they deleted the unmentionable thread 😦

  60. smartassmama says:

    You will find a LOT of the threads posted here will get deleted, or at the very least, locked. And 95% by the same mod.

  61. Just Peachy says:

    I don’t get it.

  62. hot_tamale says:

    so DS hates this site? I find it very entertaining πŸ˜€

  63. smartassmama says:

    Very, very much.
    DS likes to pretend it’s the best, happiest place ever. Everything is pleasant, happiness, and no one gets scammed.

    Ex.: If a bear shits in the woods, and nobody sees it, can the other furry creatures still smell it? Yes, yes they can. Some may choose to pinch their nose as they pass by. Others may hold their breath. Some gag, and yell, “dammit bears! Quit leaving your piles everywhere. You’re contaminating the streams with shit.” then the H2BAMod’s of the forest will cover it up with potpourri and pretend it isn’t there. Or dig a hole and burry it. “Shit? What shit? I don’t see no bear shit!”

    We’re the irritated creatures.
    Those other furry creatures are the ones who like to talk bad about us, call us immature bitches, and give the ultra creative “get off the Internet and take care of your kids,”
    The bears are the people who scam and/or troll.
    Their shit is their scams, twatwafflery, and such.
    Potpourri & wholes are closing or deleting threads when things get stinky.

    And if anyone wonders why I have time to come up with ridiculously colorful analogies (this one’s to you, new googlers), my kids are napping right next to me. They’re perfectly fine.

  64. hot_tamale says:

    twatwafflery? is that like lint licker?
    DS has the best drama ever

  65. Sala says:

    ahahahaha, that’s awesome, smartassmama.

  66. me says:

    smartassmama-LMAO! That is so perfect.

  67. altaem says:

    61 – if dsc was 3 when she was 19 and she’s 30 now, then dsc has to be 14. Not 11. It is confusing.

  68. kukukachoo says:

    32. Maybe TB=The Blog?

  69. smartassmama says:

    Well at least i’m not the only one confused with the math there.
    DC2&3 are both 8. That makes them either twins or both within a year of each other. Either way, she won’t get older faster than they do.
    I’m starting to see why other people scratch their head about her.

  70. Messy says:

    LOL #72 smartassmama, I have two boys that are only 3 months apart πŸ˜‰ I speshul!!!
    But I think that OP is a troll…

  71. DSMBH says:

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=974478

    This is just irritating the crap out of me.

  72. smartassmama says:

    It’s just strange. Why mention some of your kids, & leave out others.
    And none of them are losses, because in the Many/Multiples forum she says that they have 6 there, & talks about 4 of them. I think I’ll put her on block. Just because she’s confusing my head.

    And I know kids can be very close in age, but she has 8, 8, 7, & 5. She was 19, 21, 26, & 30. Most people who fib their age do so to be younger. Like my friend’s mom who’s had about 17 32nd birthdays. :p

  73. Myself says:

    Yeah, I “harness” my child. Not frequently, normally only when I am extremely pregnant because I get that SPD and even then only when I have to take all of them out by myself.

    (And I bought a product called Love Handles which are supposed to be the best for not putting pressure on the children)

  74. DSMBH says:

    I just hate it when people have an opinion and then apparently that parent needs to be “schooled” even when they weren’t being an a-hole-ish at all. To each there own. Why the hell can’t people get along?

  75. Just Peachy says:

    Ok thats impossible if she has 2 8 years and a 7 year old unless one of the 8 year olds is a step child or something.

  76. smartassmama says:

    Unless one just turned 8 & the other will be 9 soon.

    Still though, I keep looking at the numbers, getting my thinker all clusterfucked.

  77. smartassmama says:

    I’m wool terminology-illiterate. So this is a shot in the dark: she calls them shorts but they look like longies in the pictures??

    I love those colors though. I’d put them on my DD daily. Cute.

  78. CJ says:

    70: She used the wrong too/to/two.

    “no one to gift these too”

  79. CJ says:

    And those woolies are completely gender neutral, bordering on girly with some of the pinkish tones in the colourway! Why are they designated for a boy only?

  80. Just Peachy says:

    #81 cus the inseam is short. Those would be board shorts bordering on manpris for a lil boy.

  81. altaem says:

    I *think* I read in a thread by her once that 3 of the kids are step-kids, that’s why the ages didn’t bother me at that point. Dunno…it is confusing, though.

    Now my brain hurts.

  82. kimbella says:

    The listing originally read, “YOUR a star”. I know my spelling (or would it be grammar?) isn’t perfect, but I’m not listing items for sale in a HC store!

  83. Redhead says:

    whatever those shorties are, they are super cute. I wish I could knit.. 😦

  84. smartassmama says:

    What was it? Already buried.

  85. ~*~Momma~*~ says:

    yeah, already gone

  86. thewitch says:

    Sorry, DS keeps crashing on me. This chick:

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=975633

    My ignore list is growing by the day.

  87. Just Peachy says:

    Unless it says inserts are included I assume they are not.

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