Where the buyer lied about diapers and put poop on them? She even left positive feedback for the seller and then she came here and was all up in arms?

You ladies brought it up yesterday, so I assume you do.

The t&f thread was deleted of course, but forever in our memory here… https://thedramaofdiaperswappers.wordpress.com/2009/05/28/ebil-post-office/

Well you will never guess who she is now…

She switched her Screen Name and somehow doesn’t have her old name of FlordiaMama under it…She apparently wanted to hide her SHADY past to start a WAHM company…

it is…

wait for it…


Baltic Creations

Interesting isn’t it? There must be a reason I never bought from her…

(For the fact-checkers, the photobucket matches: http://i423.photobucket.com/albums/pp312/mycraigslist09 and so does the feedback she left; she also has 2UNs on CDN).

  1. naturalmamadot says:


  2. naturalmamadot says:

    I never saw the ending of that whole situation, I thought it was only speculation that she actually put it on there, but thats messed up!

  3. redfish bluefish says:

    wait. is she on cdn??

  4. DSDM2 says:

    To be honest, I never believed her, and when she came to the blog spewing (whatever it was she was spewing) it was clear that she was lying. I have noticed her crazy on DS once or twice too. A few posts were deleted.

    People who come with that much anger, or that much to post are lying 90% of the time.

  5. redfish bluefish says:

    whats her name on here? what # does she chime in?

  6. JustPeachy says:

    She is on CDN.

  7. NoOneImportant says:

    I SOOOOO remember that thread! What a mess it was.

    Her name on here is “thenewbie” I think. You can check the thread up there, she came here to try to crucify the seller. But made her self look so guilty by what she posted.

    She was such a liar.

  8. redfish bluefish says:

    username? please 😀

  9. redfish bluefish says:

    damn duplicate thing.im getting it now. whats her UN?

  10. DSDM2 says:

    On DS it is Baltic Creations. On CDN it is the same 🙂

  11. redfish bluefish says:

    oops-sorry. baby climbing me and im having posting issues.

  12. DSDM2 says:

    and she is flordiamama on CDN with 2 UNs

  13. redfish bluefish says:

    thanks! 🙂

  14. smartassmama says:

    I wasn’t here yet, so I think I may have toread that one. Or not. It just sounds bizarre.

  15. DSDM2 says:

    We are all having posting issues. WP is working on it… off to email them now actually.

  16. redfish bluefish says:

    oooooo I almost bought from her on DS once! Inspired By Finn was more affordable so I went w/it. Excellent cust. service!

  17. Kitty says:

    I think I saw when I was on DS the other night that they were doing a coop with her……. wow

  18. naturalmamadot says:

    Hm, I read through all her posts and I didnt skim but I didnt hang on every word. I didnt find anything to lead me to think she was lying but meh I dont care either way I guess ill trust yall on this. I think that judging how angry she was or how much she typed is wrong though. I can ONLY imagine me in that situation and I would probably come off the same way when I get pissed I am PISSED and I type a lot, I normally have to cut my posts down because I think I bother ppl with how long they are lol.

  19. redfish bluefish says:

    Okay-are we talkin about Alidave or w/e her name is? It’s late here-I’m all confuzzled.

  20. smartassmama says:

    18. I do the same thing. I just tell myself, “it’s ok. You’re just verbose.” and then I post anyway. lol

  21. Kitty says:

    call out on CDN for her now

  22. Pariah says:

    and to think i just bought my son an amber necklace. i didn;t even look at ther shop, but i thought about it. i stuck with inspired by finn though since i’ve bought from them before.

  23. redfish bluefish says:

    Sweeeeet! I’ll have sthing to read tomorrow.

  24. redfish bluefish says:

    Good choice, Poriah. I love Inspired By Finn! I’ve bought I think 3 necklaces from there and got a great coupon code w/at least one of the purchases.

  25. redfish bluefish says:

    I need to go to bed. I messed up your name. I’m so tired, lol. *PAriah

    I’m off.

  26. naturalmamadot says:

    I love Inspired by Finn too! My DS just broke his necklace and I do believe they said theyd stop selling that color 😦 I guess I can restring but boooo lol. Its been a LONG time since hes needed it for teething but it looks so cute.

  27. Kitty says:

    I agree dot. nate looks naked without his necklace on!

  28. smartassmama says:

    So, I can thank all of you ladies here for redirecting me to CDN. I finally joined! Getting acclimated to my surroundings now. . . aka, wandering around confused. Nothing new in that though. 😉

  29. thenewbie says:

    well i guess i should again come and rectify what happened. im not here for any drama this will be my only post. im just here because it was brought to my attention. yes i am/was floridamama and baltic creations i have never tried to hide anything. i did not wipe poop on diapers i received i did however receive diapers that had some on them. i was very new to ds and asked what i should do about it AFTER i left positive feedback which i left because i thought i would get retaliation fb if i left anything else i did find out after the fact that would not have happened. but i did not know much about the forum back then and was also extremely pregnant and emotional so i did go overboard with how upset i was and it did get a bit out of hand. i did send the diapers back to that mama and she did send me a full refund i apologized to her for going at it the way i did and all was done. i am not the type of person to do the things i have and am being accused of so im sorry if any of you feel that i am. anyhow i just wanted to clarify i am not hiding from anything nor did i lie about anything. thanks

  30. smartassmama says:

    I haven’t been here (tha blog) very long, and didn’t have the wherewithal to read 700+ comments on the original. Am I correct in the deduction that there were two orders, from two different mamas, and both (separate) orders were poop-laden?

  31. thenewbie says:

    ok i wasnt posting more than once but you are correct in there was 2 mamas but the 2nd one wasnt poop just stains i was not aware of. we had that mediated and again all was forgiven and forgotten

  32. DSDM2 says:

    Only one seller’s had poop, the other were stained more then disclosed… so she said.

    She also left positive feedback for both, LOL. And not just “thanks” but “just as described” and such.

  33. DSDM2 says:

    I have a feeling that things are going to get interesting 😀 Watch here and CDN ladies. Lies find a way of coming to the surface.

  34. thenewbie says:

    yes you are right i did and i shouldnt have left feedback that was not warranted but this was nearing a year ago if you really want to hold on to mistakes i made in feedback back then im sorry. but that is now done and over with and i have grown with the ds community and have learned to not leave feedback that is not warranted and not give credit where credit is not due. im sorry if any of you feel you cannot buy from me because i had 2 very bad experiences when i was new to the board. im sure everybody has a bad experience or two that they learn from. goodnight ladies i hope you all have pleasant dreams

  35. smartassmama says:

    Last night I had a dream I was back in my high school marching band. It wasn’t unpleasant as much as it was unsettling. Like, why on Earth did that happen in my sleep? So, I hope tonight’s are better too. . .

  36. lysol says:

    last night I had a dream i was kicking it with Steven Tyler from Aerosmith. we were hanging out playing guitar hero in my room. no kinky stuff though. bummer

  37. smartassmama says:

    Dear brain,
    Tonight I would like to trade in a desperate search for a Baritone mouthpiece for some Channing Tatum. Or Eric Dane.


  38. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Ahh. More poop. Ugh. I’m watching to see when she drowns herself in it.

  39. DSDM2 says:

    Do you still have the poop pictures? We would love to see them.

  40. lurking says:

    yeahh! I want to see the poop.

  41. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    40- LMFBO- That sound ridiculously morbid.

  42. TaraC says:

    thenewbie – so you are saying that you do in fact have two usernames on DS? Or that you changed your username from floridamama to BalticCreations?

  43. Mylilgirls says:

    42-she had her user name changed since she opened a biz. most of the time DS approves a name change they put what your user name used to be, but not always.

    they changed my user name and left off what I used to be, but that was for 2 reasons. 1) I closed my business 2) I am being internet stalked so they did me a favor and didn’t put the ‘formerly’ below it.

  44. redfish bluefish says:

    I wanna see the poop too! And I’m sorry thenewbie but I’m having a hard time reading your posts.

  45. TaraC says:

    Oops didn’t see that, as redfish bluefish said I find her posts hard to read as well, sorry!

  46. melmelly says:

    A period(.) and comma(,) would be nice every now and then when one is posting. It makes it easier to read. If there are no periods, then it is rambling along, making no sense whatsoever!

  47. smartassmama says:

    Yes, her post last night on CDN was definitely missing something. . .

  48. melmelly says:

    Missing a lot of somethings!

  49. FunnyMama says:

    I hat eto be the “needy” girl, but could I get that CDN link?

  50. FunnyMama says:

    beautiful, thank you!

  51. FunnyMama says:

    ahhhh, bulletin board; that’s why I didn’t find it

  52. FunnyMama says:

    OMG I’m having flashbacks of my 89-year-old editing professor from college yelling at us about commas

  53. smartassmama says:

    It’s ok to be the needy one. I’m usually the clueless one 😉

  54. angie says:

    OMGosh, those run on sentences! Too bad I can’t whip out my red pen and mark my monitor!!

    (Luv this site ladies!)

  55. TaraC says:

    My major was english. I seriously want to quote and fix both posts, but that would be snarky . . . right?

  56. FunnyMama says:

    snarky and fabulous

  57. MotherMoonPads says:

    I’m confused. What’s the big deal about her changing her name on DS?

  58. MotherMoonPads says:

    Why am I getting a duplicae comments error too?

  59. smartassmama says:

    Because WordPress is having issues.
    And I think it’s a big deal on CDN because she has 2. On DS it’s a big deal because there is nothing saying “I used to be this person.”

  60. redfish bluefish says:

    I’m SO glad it’s not just me! LOL And yes, I’m fighting the urge to re-do the sentences.

  61. TaraC says:

    Love your last comment!

  62. redfish bluefish says:

    Me? If so, spanx! =D If not, carry on.

  63. redfish bluefish says:

    :err: I translated. MUCH better. =)

  64. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Scamming has gotten SO bad on DS. It’s so sad that it’s because DS seriously goes out of their way to protect the scammers. I truly want to see one of the major Admin be duped in a bad way. Then maybe they’ll see how sucktastic their own rules are.
    Then again, the rules would likely change to meet their own needs only.

  65. FunnyMama says:

    I bet you 37 cents that Admin has been duped but they’re too asstastic to admit it

  66. redfish bluefish says:

    67-Sum it up please? I don’t go to DS.

  67. redfish bluefish says:

    *que the crickets*

    or anyone…..anyone could explain

  68. sciencefair says:

    FunnyMama – I will see your 37 cents and raise you one first class ‘forever’ stamp.

  69. sciencefair says:

    67 was some person that has just joined DS and wanted to sell a bunch of diapers wondering why people don’t want to buy from someone that joined in February 2010 with 7 posts (though 2 of them were from the thread). She decided to go sell on ebay. The thread alone makes me think, must be a scammer.

  70. FunnyMama says:

    Sciencefair – getting rich for my blood, but I’ll call. I wonder what would happen if someone posted in T&F asking if any Admin/Mods have gotten uber-scammed? I would love to know how long THAT thread stayed alive. Maybe I’ll try…

  71. FunnyMama says:

    Done and done. I wonder if I’ll get a strike for this – I got one a few months back for agreeing with a mama when she called herself a bitch.

  72. Lolanae says:

    Why is it so hard for a person to use BASIC grammar? Especially as a WAHM. A run-on sentence with little to no punctuation, no capitalization, and rambling just makes my eyes bleed.

  73. naturalmamadot says:

    Lolanae – your eyes are just bleeding? Mine fell out after reading all of her posts. I had to call my neighbor over to help me find them and put them back in. I then copied the posts, pasted them in a document and went to town making them readable! I just pretended I was getting paid to edit 1st grade schoolwork. (no offense to firstgraders)

  74. Mom24Babes says:

    OMG her posts on CDN drove me batzy…punctuation anyone?

  75. KickinItPioneer says:

    76/77 Bad grammar always makes my eyes bleed then subsequently they shake loose from the socket.

    Maybe bad grammar starts when someone is young as a result of a bad breakup?

  76. TaraC says:

    79 – Thank you for sharing that, I am laughing so hard that I’m crying!

    66-67 Yep I was talking about your last post, and awesome job on the “fixing” of her post.

  77. TaraC says:

    Oops, sorry meant 65-66, redfish bluefish.

  78. FunnyMama says:

    Figures, my post in T&F was deleted. Basically I asked if the same protocol was followed when any DS member was scammed, regardless of their status (ie Admin/Mod vs. “regular” member)

  79. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    82- I still see it. 🙂

  80. memyselfandi says:

    I bought from Baltic Creations and had a great experience.

    I am not paying Inspired By Finn 3.95 to ship one necklace first class….I believe it used to be even higher than that. And priority is 8.95??!? Any discounts they might offer are negated by those ship costs.

  81. TaraC says:

    I want to go look too but am afraid of the e-herpes.

  82. FunnyMama says:

    83 – looked in the wrong forum. Golly, this baby must be eating my brain cells

  83. Aj says:

    79, that was freaking hilarious, thank you for that.

  84. sciencefair says:

    LOL! 79 – That is so freaking hilarious. I love the “world-d-d-d-d-d–d-d-” part. Well, there are more parts, but but still. Hilarious!

  85. JustPeachy says:

    I won’t buy from either one honestly. IBF ship costs turn me off and Baltic Creations prices are insanely high compared to other sellers.

  86. smartassmama says:

    Interesting. The “we’re just like you” card. . .

  87. smartassmama says:

    What is a good place to get them that has reasonable shipping, & isn’t shady?

  88. cubanita says:

    I’ve been turned off by Baltic Creations since they day I won a FFS lotto she held on HC and I never received the item. She emailed me saying that two mamas won instead of one by mistake, me being one of them. She said she would work on the item and get back to me. She got back to me and told me she will not send me the bracelet because she was not happy with the way it came out? Not an apology, not even an offer for something else. I was miffed!

    THEN, because you know how this little thing we call life works… I get a PM from her offering to do a bracelet for my DD. She saw my listing on M2M on DS of needing one. STILL haven’t heard from her! I don’t think she knows I’m the SAME person she sold out last time!


  89. screenname says:

    Wasn’t there some drama with her tester thread as well? Something about her design not being safe?

  90. DBSBMH says:

    I get a duplicate message but can’t see what I typed?

  91. DBSBMH says:

    Ok, I think third time was the charm. I feel like an ass. :p

  92. magpiedpiper says:

    Oh, I was just going to link that. I clicked on the link from the main page, not knowing it was a thread she started – thought it might be related to the one about possibly losing her kid due to non-vaxing. I expected a much different response than the one fluffalump is getting. HA!

  93. DBSBMH says:

    I think more people than not are catching on to her very blatant BS. Sadly, I don’t think she will ever just “go away.”

  94. magpiedpiper says:

    Also, cracking me up that in a matter of days fluffy apparently now considers herself a carseat guru, and is dispensing advice like pez candy in threads. The same advice given to her that she laughed about. lmao

  95. FunnyMama says:

    90 – party line, right? I really want to know if Admin bans anyone who effs with them immediately and finds some BS loophole to do so.

    96 – thread must have been deleted b/c link doesn’t work

  96. DBSBMH says:

    I know, right?! She attacks everyone’s opinion and gets defensive. Then days later, she has adopted the very same opinions! With that husband of hers gone (and obviously her poor baby doesn’t require attention) ,she sure has a lot of time on her hands (or shoes)

  97. smartassmama says:

    Post #18 on that thread – I LOVE it! Kisses to you if you live here too!

  98. cubanita says:

    what’s the thread about? don’t wanna catch dstd’s.

  99. DBSBMH says:

    fluffybutt’s Avatar
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    CPS questions.. long..
    I made this thread about it before.

    Well, I was at the neighbors a week or two ago and the people that used to live in my duplex was at her house. (in the one connected to mine)

    There is a 10yo girl, 15yo girl, and a 5yo autistic boy.

    The neighbor has a 8yo boy.

    The day this happened the neighbor had her friend and 10yo boy over too.

    Everyone was inside but the 10yo girl, 8yo boy and 10yo boy, They were outside playing in the snow.

    I run home really fast to get Maddox some food and when I come back I look at the ground. The 10yo girl had already drew a penis from when she lived there before in spray paint. When I look someone had drew the penis ejaculating in white spray paint. I run inside and say “SOMEONE DREW WHITE STUFF COMING OUT OF THE PENIS! WHO DID IT!” We confront the boys because you’d think it would be one of the boys but it was the 10yo girl!! WHY does a 10yo girl know what that is!?

    We make her go outside and scrub it.

    The mom comes to pick them up at 10:30 pm (said 7pm) and she is SO drunk she can hardly walk!! SHE DRIVES OFF and I call the police and they said since I don’t know where she’s going and they didn’t see it they can’t do anything. I also didn’t know her name.

    They’re over there again and the mother picks them up on a week night at 10:30-11p (said 7p again) and again is VERY drunk. I call the police again but got the same story.

    Today, I got a piece of mail with her full name. I texted the 15yo and asked if they got a place yet (was living out of a hotel for the past few days and not going to school) and she told me the area that she lives.

    So, Do I call the police, CPS or what? What steps should I take?

    Normally I’d mind my own business but I just can’t stand it anymore! The 10yo is drawing penises every where, the 15yo is running around doing drugs having sex with all sorts of men (she told me this) and the 5yo is autistic and I fear he’s not getting the help he needs. When they’re at the neighbors they talk about how miserable they are and how drunk the mom is all the time.

  100. smartassmama says:

    Magpiedpiper – not arguing at all, I just think I’ve missed something. Where are you reading to know she already called? I think I missed some posts where she put her foot in her mouth. Bahahahaha! Punny

  101. screenname says:

    It says it right in her post.

    “The mom comes to pick them up at 10:30 pm (said 7pm) and she is SO drunk she can hardly walk!! SHE DRIVES OFF and I call the police and they said since I don’t know where she’s going and they didn’t see it they can’t do anything. I also didn’t know her name.

    They’re over there again and the mother picks them up on a week night at 10:30-11p (said 7p again) and again is VERY drunk. I call the police again but got the same story.”

  102. screenname says:

    It says it right in her post.
    “The mom comes to pick them up at 10:30 pm (said 7pm) and she is SO drunk she can hardly walk!! SHE DRIVES OFF and I call the police and they said since I don’t know where she’s going and they didn’t see it they can’t do anything. I also didn’t know her name.

    They’re over there again and the mother picks them up on a week night at 10:30-11p (said 7p again) and again is VERY drunk. I call the police again but got the same story.”

  103. smartassmama says:

    Ok. I just got my reading comprehension skills busted! lol I’ll blame it on my adult ADD, or the fact that I just skimmed it. I got lost when she listed the various ages. And talked about spray painting snow. I totally own the dumbass card on that one though!

  104. pariah says:

    god will they just hurry up and get rid of her.

  105. screenname says:

    Sorry about the double post. Silly WP.

    No worries smartassmama. It’s really easy to let your eyes glaze over when you try to read anything she writes.

  106. DBSBMH says:

    Another thing that just doesn’t add up…. If you TELL the POLICE that something serious is going on, they have an obligation to report it to a social worker. There is no question, they must report! Sure, there are some ahole cops, but come on…

  107. redfish bluefish says:

    80-why thank you! 😀

    100-how funny!

    105-WOW. Shes just surrounded by everyday dramaz huh? Ha. I’d hate to live near her! I think I’d be deadbolting my door everyday just to keep her drama ridden ass away.

  108. Pariah says:

    113, god forbid you went out to get your mail and she saw you. she’d make up something about you retreiving love notes from your secret lover, before your husband got home. and then you;d bury them in the back yard next to where you bury you sacrifices to satan. or some BS like that.

  109. redfish bluefish says:

    ROFL! And while I was doing all this, my kid was drawing penis shapes all over my walls….with POOP.

  110. screenname says:

    So when she said that she was hanging out at the neighbor’s house, is this the same neighbor that has dog feces all over her living room? Or was that the neighbor that abuses her kids? Maybe I’m weird, but do any of you hang out with your neighbors this much? I mean, I wave to mine and share tomatoes in the summer…but I’ve never been INSIDE their house, KWIM?

    The other thing that doesn’t add up is that if she knew they were living in a hotel, then why couldn’t she tell the police that’s where the drunken mother was going?

  111. thewayhome says:

    umm I’m confused I thought she only talked to one neighbor? With a little girl
    Am I wrong?

  112. smartassmama says:

    I tried to wave to my neighbor and give a nice smile on the chip isle at Walmart the other day. She walked faster, no lie. But they’re new, and they are oddballs anyway.

    Fluffernutter just posted a picture. No worries though, it’s just the spray-painted peenie.

  113. Rocket says:

    She’s nuttier than squirrel shit.

  114. smartassmama says:

    It’s the same neighbor who’s 6’1″ and thinks that good parenting (RFing babies) is laughable material.

  115. nu says:

    It is possible that the 10yo girl learned about the “white stuff” at school….I say this because my 10 yo learned about it–in Human Growth and Development. Also, I had to teach it last year to the 5th grade girls….who are 10.

    I thought the neigbhor made too much noise and didn’t want to be her friend anymore.

  116. Mylilgirls says:

    Awwww, it’s gone. Does anyone know if it got heated and deleted?

  117. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    122- Nope, not deleted. The links work fine for me.

  118. Madre says:

    I still see it too

  119. smartassmama says:

    It’s in Sensitive Subjects. Go to your User CP, edit subscriptions, and join. Worth it if you like-a the drama.

  120. newhere says:

    why cant i see the picture?

  121. smartassmama says:

    “you don’t agree with me 😦 stay outta my threads, you big mean meanie!”

    Blegh. She’s such a drama whore.

  122. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    LMFBO- but, but, CooterShoe just said she was putting MagPie on iggy…. Then she answered her questions. Can we count this as yet another lie? 😛

  123. Who cares? For real.

    You guys need to get a life.

  124. Mylilgirls says:

    I found it! The link won’t work for me here though :(. Oh well. Ya know, I’m glad people are really starting to call her out on everything. Some posters still give her ass pats, but that’s mostly newbies that haven’t had the pleasure of following all of the drama that she attracts….er, starts…er, fabricates.

  125. JustPeachy says:

    What is that lie #1250324249834?

  126. Messy says:

    I hate you all for posting links to cootershoe’s dramas ROFL.
    I hate me more for posting in it a.g.a.i.n!!! ROFLMAO!

  127. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Messy, I freakin’ love you. LMFBO!

  128. Sarah C says:

    Messy, that post was the best.

  129. amessymama says:

    Messy, I feel that your post in that thread, should be available for all to see.

    So here it is:

    Registered Users

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    Re: CPS questions.. long..
    Felisha, you are totally right. You have done everything right. Everyone here who disagrees or questions you is totally not getting the real picture of a person doing everything in her power to help those poor kids. After all, who on earth would think that an underage older teen would be having sex or that a school age child would know what a penis does? I know that kids here in the rock I live under don’t do those things! No mama should jump in to save a kid from an abusive drunk mama who is beating her toddler!!! NEVER! Calling 911 is not an option! You must watch and report the incident here.
    The police are wrong. They should listen to your every word and watch your house for when the drunk mama comes for her abused kids. The neighbors are all trash. You are so above them.
    Now, I suggest a break from the interwebz. Do you have a hobby? How about you go do some shoe shopping?


    I about died!!! Hilarious!!

  130. magpiedpiper says:

    dang, sorry DSDM. I’m logged into another email and it keeps autofilling on this site instead of what I usually use. The above is me. I’ll try to check that before I post from now on.

  131. Mylilgirls says:

    and I’m ignoring you, but replying anyway, and ignoring you….oh look nattybat is bringing up her past too….

  132. smartassmama says:

    OhmuhLord. This is getting funny.

    Teacup just outted herself.

  133. JustPeachy says:

    So who is teacup?

  134. JustPeachy says:

    Since I can’t view SS and all someone better damn well tell me ROFL.

  135. Mylilgirls says:

    keeps giving me duplicate post errors too…..

    if this shows up twice sorry, but really wanted to point out that nattybatsmom just brought her crazy past into the thread. how is that even related????

  136. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand cue Janeen, trying to turn it into a thread about herself.

  137. JustPeachy says:

    Enough about nattybatshitcrazy. I wanna know who teacup is!

  138. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    139- When you get the duplicate message, just hit the back button, and refresh. Your message will be posted. The duplicate thing is just an error.
    In regards to Batty Janeen, she takes every opportunity she can imagine being relevant, to jump up and down, wave her arms and scream, “I have tragedy in drama in MY life! LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!!!”

  139. smartassmama says:

    137 – Mama2acrew: . . .Now, I suggest a break from the interwebz. Do you have a hobby? How about you go do some shoe shopping?

    TuthGuru: Great advice. Or maybe you need a new teacup?

    Mama2acrew: Exactly!!!

  140. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    LOL Peach, everyone does.

  141. smartassmama says:

    I thought she had her IP blocked?

    I don’t really pay her much mind. I’ve never been through the trauma of seeing anyone shot, and I’m not warped from it. Not saying she’s correctly on her rocker, but she kinda has reason to be off kilter. So I just don’t pay any attention to her. No asspats, but no gotohells either.

  142. smartassmama says:

    How do I need to do images here? IMG codes, Direct links? HTMLs?

  143. kukukachoo says:

    aw hell- now everyone’s gonna think i’m teacup. don’t get excited everyone- it’s not me. sorry!

  144. smartassmama says:

    Is that you? my bad!

    *retracts former statement!

    But I loved, LOVED, the go shoe shopping part. It made me lol.

  145. DeviateFromTheNorm says:


  146. amessymama says:

    Dun dun dunnnn.

    Prepare to download your PMs. 🙂

  147. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    LMFBO- I’m preparing for my third strike, though honestly, I don’t see my post as being ban-worthy. Anyone else?

  148. magpiedpiper says:

    Aw, it got locked before I got to add my t-shirt design.

  149. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    152- I’m seriously LOLing so hard right now!

  150. kukukachoo says:

    count me as one of the people who are getting ready to get banned. i just couldn’t keep my mouth shut. sayonara DS. LOL!

  151. smartassmama says:

    happy2Bamommy – – Here she comes to save the DAAAAY!


    If you aren’t a DS reader, I’ll paraphrase.

    “How dare you call Felishuu on her lies. Shame shame. You are going to make the kid cry. I’m giving you all a warning, now go sit in the corner. If you’ve been sent to the corner before, you have to eat lunch by yourself today. If you have eaten lunch by yourself before, you better get the numbers of the people you’re inviting to your birthday, because you are about to be expelled from the 2nd grade. shame.”

  152. amessymama says:

    153-Spit out my coffee!! LOL

  153. smartassmama says:

    OH.MY.God I love it!!! You should sell em on WAHM Wares, so maybe she’ll see them. Maybe post a linky in her blog.

  154. smartassmama says:

    Ok. Something I’ve wondered for a while.
    If you request a new name, your old one is put under your name, “formerly: shuulover” or something like that.

    And then there’s the people who skirt around it for whatever reason, understandable or scammy.

    But why is it that some folks say “formerly: sh**lover.”??

  155. JustPeachy says:

    That would be how many people Felisha has managed to get banned? Wouldn’t it just be easier to be rid of the troll instead of knocking down your member numbers?

  156. JustPeachy says:

    Ahhhh hell I forgot again! Im in moderation cus I forgot you cannot type HER name out.

  157. MotherMoonPads says:

    Wait, where did Teacup out herself?

  158. smartassmama says:

    I was wrong. me=dumbnoob some days.

  159. piratebaby says:

    The most annoying thing about DS is that you have to hurry up and try to read through all 10 pages of drama in 10 seconds bc you KNOW it’s going to go *poof*, or all the really good posts will be edited/deleted! I have dishes and laundry calling my name, but can’t tear myself away from da dramaz bc I know it will be gone by the time I come back!

  160. amessymama says:

    160- I didn’t realize that would happen. Doh. That must be why my C&P of messy’s post to fluffycrotch is in moderation.

  161. Aj says:

    I wonder if Felishuu is getting strikes as well?

  162. Aj says:

    Her siggy is 6 lines–someone should report her. 🙂

  163. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    165- It’s 4 lines on my screen.

  164. Aj says:

    Damn! 🙂

  165. magpiedpiper says:

    I honestly don’t think anyone should get strikes from that thread, because while people joked around or pointed out her lies, no one really attacked her. At least not from what I saw.

    Now, what should happen and what will happen of course are very different at DS.


  166. smartassmama says:

    Has anyone gotten a verbal finger-shaking yet?

  167. amessymama says:

    I’ve been banned.

  168. screenname says:

    Oh, the dramaz! They hurt so good!

    As for the “Formerly sh**lover” thing, that’s the DS way to offer protection to members if they are getting their name changed because of cyber stalking. Although a simple search for the old name will yield the results of the new name.

  169. amessymama says:

    All I did was quote magpie’s last post so that fluffycrotch could see it. I was just being helpful. 😉

  170. smartassmama says:

    Gotcha. I’d wondered about that. Makes sense, but I saw it as protecting scammers. But I’ve never been in the shoes of someone who’s been stalked.

    Sucks you were banned!

  171. amessymama says:

    You know, I didn’t think I’d care. But I’m actually kind of upset.

    This was my response:

    You have got to be kidding me! Of all the things I could have said to that drama inducing, lying, skank, you ban me for [I]that[/I]!? Wouldn’t it just be easier to get rid of her?

    Have a great day! :thumbsup:

  172. magpiedpiper says:

    I love that Felisha isn’t being banned for blatant lying. Even shack lady was banned for making crap up.

    However, I have no strikes, and was told 5 months ago ONCE to be nicer, and am being banned for 6 months.

    Oh, DS, how you love your trolls.

  173. JustPeachy says:

    I didn’t think I’d be pissed but I was. If it was for something well deserved then fine but to get banned because shes a fucking whiny cry baby troll cunt? Thats humiliating.

  174. magpiedpiper says:

    I love that Felisha isn’t being banned for MAKING UP LIES. Even shack lady was banned for making crap up.

    However, I have no strikes, and was told 5 months ago ONCE to be nicer, and am being banned for 6 months.

    Oh, DS, how you love your trolls and scammers!

  175. magpiedpiper says:

    whoops. sorry dsdm. I forgot her name is moderated. You can leave those if you want.

    I love that fluffalump isn’t being banned for blatant lying. Even shack lady was banned for making crap up.

    However, I have no strikes, and was told 5 months ago ONCE to be nicer, and am being banned for 6 months.

    So I asked H2BAM why I was being banned without strikes, and cc’d Sweet Fantasy Fox.

  176. Hexe says:

    Non of you ladies is showing upas banned yet. It is rediculous, on ds you cannot write what you think, you allways have to agree with the op.

  177. magpiedpiper says:

    Nope, they are giving time to download pm’s. Whatever.

    Ban not the source of problems – ban those who call a spade a spade.

  178. Aj says:

    I’m sad now, who will be left on ds if they ban everyone? 😦

  179. amessymama says:

    Magpie, that’s exactly what happened to me. I was told one time to be nicer. No strikes. I also asked her about it, but didn’t cc anyone else.

  180. smartassmama says:

    I got a fuckin strike.

    Ok cunt. It’s on.
    Before I didn’t like your ass. I thought you were drama-riffic and down right ridiculous, rude, crude, and totally socially unacceptable. But you tattled, ‘wah-wah’ crybaby bullshitted, and I got a strike. I hope you get athlete’s foot in your cooter.

    Not going to copy and paste the IM, but I was told that I was being rude and inflammatory with my one-liners of agreement and laughter. I was also told that I would be banned if I posted anything else racist. wtfuck? When was I racist. Insinuations are insulting as shit, too, ya know.

    “. . . Also, out of curiosity, is the person who makes drama out of 50% of their posts getting any strikes? Because I have read things far worse than one-liners come from that person. I hardly think that saying something was so funny it nearly made me spew juice on my screen is hateful.”

  181. kukukachoo says:

    i’ve been given time to download pm’s too. 6 month ban-a-rooni.

  182. Messy says:

    I just got banned from diaper swappers. I may have to cry… ROFL~! Yeah, I’m so sad. Happy2bamommy can KISS MY ASS.
    Had I known my generic statements agreeing with Cootershoe would get me banned, they would have been MUCH MORE COLORFUL! Oh yes, they would have been rather interesting…

  183. kukukachoo says:

    i’ve also been given time to download pm’s before my 6 month ban-a-roo .

  184. smartassmama says:

    Messy I agree. I mean, if laughing at her gets you in trouble, might as well go for the triple-whammy right?

  185. Messy says:

    Quick Note~
    You have been warned in the past for the same type of posting I just saw in a thread regarding CPS. Since you have been warned before and made the choice to once again go against the rules of DiaperSwappers you will be banned for 6 months.

    Please,download any pm’s you may need for transactions you are in.

    Go for it. I just do not care. This site it no longer what it used to be; it has turned into a preschool teacher’s rendition of babysitting Felisha. So, I will not be missing anything important. DS loses members left and right over her, so I hope that she will replace all the FSOT’ers who have left and the people who will no longer be advertising with DS for those reasons.
    That said, the reason you are banning me is BS and you know it. But hey, whatever makes you feel happy!!! :goodvibes:

  186. Messy says:

    My PM and reply are in moderation… wonder why…

  187. Hexe says:

    Would be nice if they would ban fluffyass but this is not going to happen. If at least everybody on ds would ignore her and not commenting on anything she says…..
    I am sure she is reading on here, can you allow her to post on here again, I am sure she is happy she got everybody banned. Where is teacup, it would be nice if she could post a nice thank you to fluffyass.

  188. Messy says:

    Eh, me being banned just keeps me from commenting. I NEVER EVER buy or sell on DS because of the “scammer saver policy”. If my money is going for something, I want it protected and the only place I feel safe is on CDN 🙂
    I haven’t even posted on DS since the last Felishacootershoe fiasco.
    It is interesting that my comments were banable but are still there… ROFL!

  189. naturalmamadot says:

    Can yall still pm fluffyass on DS while they are allowing you to DL pms? If so Id do it or id post something nice in response to her on some obscure thread they wont find for a minute 🙂

  190. sciencefair says:

    Wowsers. I don’t know what the thread causing all the bans is, but its gotta be good. Too bad I avoid the DSTDs like the e-plague…especially when there is athletes foot involved.

  191. amessymama says:

    Actually the thread was very tame, I thought.

    Fluffycrotch said, “Blah, lies, blah, penis, lies, cops, blah, lies, cellphone, blah, drunk driving, cops won’t do anything, lies.”

    Others then proceeded to call her out on the discrepancies of her story.


  192. Kim says:

    LMAO>#179…..OMG, that was HILARIOUS. ..

    that’s as far as I’ve gotten so far. I had to comment on that. lol

  193. Kim says:

    #79 not 179….

  194. FunnyMama says:

    ain’t that some shiz. Welp, for every cloud there’s a silver lining – at least those of you that are banned will have eliminated one potential source of viruses for 6 months

  195. not me at all says:

    mama2acrew you made me spit Dr P all over when I saw your avi on DS

  196. Mylilgirls says:

    Hasn’t H2BM ‘warned’ Fluffster already? How many warnings does she get? I seem to remember this one chick people kept calling out on her lies (her sons name was Jaimez or some sort of weird spelling) and she got banned, not the posters calling her out on her lies. Why isn’t that happening now??

  197. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    195- Yeah, no idea. They adore CooterShoe and the traffic she brings DS.

  198. FunnyMama says:

    CLASSIC!! I LOLz’d my mini Butterfinger all over myself

    YAGE (again).
    Random lurking.

  199. .bin. says:

    mama2acrew don’t know your name on here, but your siggy says banned, but you aren’t yet(still says ‘registered user’) , if you want to make a nice good exit.. just sayin’.

  200. Lolanae says:

    What does Fluffy nut have on Mama2be or whatever her name is that she constantly comes in all shinning knight to defend her?

  201. werd says:

    wow. I leave to clean Xander’s room and miss all this.

    On a sad note… my 3 month old little baby just rolled from his back to his stomach for the first time. CRYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

  202. eeek says:

    Lolanae- exactly! WTF is going on that she isn’t banned? How does that happen, when anyone else would be smacked long before this? It’s obvious enough that doesn’t it seem like there must be more to the story?

  203. Mylilgirls says:

    Just for shiznits and giggles I went and counted all the threads that luv-me-some-shooz has started that have been locked.

    She has started 134 threads. Of those 134, 6 have been locked.

    There are 2 additional threads that were not started by her, but ended up with drama surrounding her and were also locked.

    So really, she’s managed to have 8 threads locked. No way to know how many have been deleted and mods are insistent that it’s everyone else ganging up on her????

  204. newhere says:

    whatever Felish has on H2BAM, she must have shared the secret with loverbugsmommy…she defends her too despite all her negs.

  205. redfish bluefish says:

    202-Wow that’s crazy! I was a member of DS for years (until I left due to virus’s) and never once started a thread that got locked. Maybe I’m just boring?

  206. Booyah says:

    202 I see what you’re saying, but honestly it’s not hard to get a thread locked at DS. I used to be a regular poster at MDC until they started getting heavy-handed with moderation just like DS, and then all of a sudden I had three of my threads locked/removed within a week and had my hand slapped numerous times. And I am as non-confrontational and non-inflammatory as it gets (unless someone is being a straight up cunt and then it’s ON). So, yeah. I’m not saying Shoelisha isn’t trolltastic, just that it’s not hard to start drama absolutely unintentionally.

    (oh and I left MDC for good after that, I was not about to let them ban me over stupid shit like that)

  207. DSDM2 says:

    My My My ladies… I just got in… off to read, and sorry to hear so many good moms are banned over a twatwaffle.

  208. Mylilgirls says:

    205-yeah, but you gotta think, there’s been 8 threads (6 started by her) that have been locked since 12-28-09. The first two that were locked were both started by her and locked on the same day. I mean, 8 threads in like 7 weeks that had to be locked. 3 of which H2BM was the last poster. It really just seems that this is a pattern and I’d like to think that at least she’d have enough strikes to get banned at this point. Wait…..then, what would we talk about????

  209. Messy says:

    I’m totally not bothered by my *one* name being banned ROFLMAO!!! DS is sooo not bright.
    Happy2BaMommy is a raging dumbass and it will be funny to watch her fall to her doom on her ass on that board. She is too busy being a drama moderator and trying to run a preschool that she is missing the big picture that is spinning all around her. It is kinda sad… But I can’t help but laugh. And you know Cootershoe is laughing at her too. She thinks she is protecting her but in the end, it will blow up.

  210. smartassmama says:

    Just wonder when and how.

  211. DSDM2 says:

    I found another site Felisha was banned from, a racing forum … it was kind of funny to read about her. They thought she was a giant, fat slut, and an attention whore LMFAO.

  212. Pariah says:

    216. i stumbled upon that one aswell.

  213. kukukachoo says:


  214. Mylilgirls says:

    Racing? Good God it’s no wonder she’s so fat. She’s too busy sitting on her at ass getting banned from sites.

  215. smartassmama says:

    Gee. I didn’t know Suzuki hatchback’s with car seats on board were such hot whips (isn’t that what MTV calls them now?)
    I’m old. lol

  216. Pariah says:

    has anyone else seen this on the photography website. at only 20 years old fellatio is already on her second marriage? she’s a winner.

  217. Myself says:

    218 – correct about what?

  218. JustPeachy says:

    222 her being a fat slut and an attention whore.

  219. Myself says:

    223 – oh

    who in their right mind posts their full name on a photography site? I mean seriously :headscratch:

  220. bearista says:

    Wow…she has been trolling web forums for at least three years. I actually did feel a pit of sadness in my stomach about that. 😦

  221. DSDM2 says:

    Felisha, darling… do you want to post here? Really? Is it bothering you soooo much that you insist on trying to make fake names and use more IPs? Really? It wasn’t hard to figure out it was you. It isn’t the first time you have used that IP…

    Well, guess what darlin’, you get your wish. Welcome back. Post away.

    Ladies, have fun with the poking and jabbing.

  222. werd says:

    OH SNAP!

  223. juliankenziesmama says:

    Aaaaaand here we go……….

  224. smartassmama says:

    You know it’s you, you fuckhead. It’s probably how you roped a lonely soldier. With your vaj spread on the Internet. Classssy. You’re a very strange, strange little girl, Felishu.

    My only question – what tha fuck with the shoe? I mean, I’ve heard the expression “she really put her foot in her mouth,” but for you that brings a lot of real health concerns.

  225. werd says:


  226. kukukachoo says:

    Welcome Back Shoe-chie Mama!

  227. naturalmamadot says:

    hahaha did everyone get the posts from “former mod? you dont say…”? I think out of everyone DSDM2 has been one of the tamest calling fluffyass names but she called her a cunt…for what moderating her blog? Isnt that what YOU do fluffy? You were a cunt before that though so I guess you dont mind the name.

  228. naturalmamadot says:

    129- now that you can post you dont have anything to say? what cant think of anything other than random swears and storming off like a 12 yr old? ya big meanies, i hate you, youre ruining my life *slams door*

  229. Aj says:

    Come out, come out, wherever you are fatty….

  230. DSDM2 says:

    Wasn’t she sweet in that thread? She is such a wonderful girl who is opposed to nasty cursing language…


  231. naturalmamadot says:

    Yea shes a keeper, I can totally relate to her hubby loving deployment. Really, her being blocked for a while was sort of like us being deployed, it WAS nice 🙂

  232. RmeWife says:

    Alright, Fluffverse, give it to us straight- Are you have Lee’s baby?

  233. DSDM2 says:

    I took off all block with her name. You are free to use her name here, all you want.

    Felisha, baby, I know you are watching… I can see you. Please come back, we would love to chat…

  234. theinvisible says:

    I think she IS lee’s baby.

  235. Madre says:

    She’s demented and gross…

  236. Myself says:

    come out Felisha!

    why in the world would you type out your FULL name on a public forum? I mean seriously, that along with your cell, goodness

  237. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    239- Nah, it’s way more fun to come up with immensely more appropriate names.

  238. thewayhome says:

    Break out the popcorn please

  239. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    I’m getting out my knitting-at-the-keyboard. This could be a loooong, immensely entertaining evening.

  240. Roxyrocks says:

    That is almost mean to say that she is Lee’s baby. Not even Lee deserves a child like that. She is fucking crazy. I thought she didn’t care what we say about her why is she trying so hard to get on here to see what is being said.

  241. Pariah says:

    no thanks DSDM2, i much prefer to call her fellatio. i don’t respect her enough to call her by her name.

  242. RmeWife says:

    I wonder if being a site supporter effects your chances of being banned.

  243. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Peach was banned as a Site Supporter.

  244. Roxyrocks says:

    How in the hell do you get banned from as many boards as she is does she just go around the internet and troll? She should get offline and do some crunches or pop in a sweating to the oldies tape.

  245. ladylili says:

    249 Wow, I thought the only thing Lee cared about was money. But I guess he must be a chubby chaser? That’s why they are keeping felishaho around.

  246. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Aaaaaah, Sweatin’ to the Oldies. Good old Richard Simmons. Now THAT is a train wreck. She may find some serious inspiration from his crazy butt, and even shed 100-150 much-needed pounds. That would require work, though, and more than just her pudgey little sausage fingers flicking away at her keyboard and BlackBerry. Le sigh. Life is so hard as CooterShoe.

  247. smurfmeat says:

    I second the request for an explanation about the va-shoe-jay-jay photo. Seriously?

  248. ladylili says:

    Maybe Lee is a chubby chaser. That’s why he keeps felishaho around.

  249. Mom24Babes says:

    Woo more dramaz!

  250. Pariah says:

    252. hey don’t say that, she does other things… like light cigarettes.

  251. whateva says:

    How did her nasty ass get banned from a photography site?

  252. Mom24Babes says:

    Boo it keeps saying I am duplicate posting?! I haven’t posted in ages~!

  253. mmspirit7 says:

    in many ways i think mom should have gobal iggyed fluffy LOL that would have been funny

  254. werd says:

    hey now, enough with the fat jokes!! There are plenty of fatties who aren’t crazy and don’t like to hump shoes!

    just sayin’

  255. ladylili says:

    Sorry about the double post from me. I got the error and messed up.

  256. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    257- It’s just an error on WP right now. When you get that screen, just hit the ‘Back’ button, then refresh. Your post will be here as normal.

  257. Roxyrocks says:

    I can see being a chubby chaser there is some hot chubby girls LOL but I couldn’t get past those boobs they would make me run the other way screaming. Also I am not into chicks who like to shove shoes up their twats.

  258. RmeWife says:

    259 LMAO

  259. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    259- I’m one of ’em! I could bare to shed 50 or so pounds myself, but now that has to wait until the fall. 😉 It takes one to know one, is all I’m sayin’. :-*

  260. screenname says:

    I nearly wet myself with the chubby chaser comment!!!!

    And walking over to her neighbors to watch them abuse their kids is exercise, too.

  261. Hexe says:

    Has fluffyass been back? Off to check if there are news on her block.

  262. thewayhome says:

    what I am having a hard time understanding is how she is banned from so many sites but yet…..

  263. screenname says:

    And I could stand to loose some weight, too. But I also haven’t plastered the internet with pictures of my vag. Nor have I offered to have cyber sex with strangers while my DH was deployed. Just sayin’.

  264. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Has CooterShoes been banned? I see her Avi and siggy disappeared, just like those of us who were banned today. I will wear my banning proudly, if her rear end was finally canned.

  265. ladylili says:

    werd, I’m not making fat jokes, just stating that maybe Lee has a preference. Hey I’m not exactly a super model myself.

  266. Hexe says:

    I wonder how she finds the timefor her son with all that drama, posting on sites, writing a block, drama with the neighbours, buying cell phones for teenagers….
    When is her dh coming home, she allways says he will be home shortly. If he is lucky they will cancel his R&R.

  267. Pariah says:

    269. her junk is showing up for me.

  268. thewayhome says:

    269 nope she is stll there

  269. Roxyrocks says:

    If I had to come home to all that drama I might try to push back my R&R too, or I might just take it and not let her know.

  270. smartassmama says:

    I could lose plenty myself. But at least I have nice tits. Hers looked like basset hound ears. Sad, thin, & droopy. I’ve BFd two and could still put her to shame on the interwebz. Hell I gave birth to 2 & my vaj looks better than that, with or without this season’s Nike Air Va-jay-jay.

  271. Pariah says:

    from her blog:

    I am done letting stupid people on the internet that do not know me at all effect me.

    They are stupid and childish.

    I am happy with my life, With my husband, My son, and my family.

    I am disappointed in some people that felt the need to message my MOTHER! It’s one thing to message my husband, because I know he’d just laugh at you. But to message my MOTHER?! A woman I hardly even talk to?! People seriously need to grow the hell up! I didn’t know I was in kindergarden anymore!

    A few got banned from a site I’m on for being rude bitches. Serves them right if you ask me! I will be on my best behavior from now on. They were talking about getting strikes.. Well It’s not MY fault you get strikes.

    But eh, I don’t care. It’s whatever.

    Going to hang out with Stacy and Nick tonight. Fun fun. Michael will be home soon! SO EXCITED!

  272. smurfmeat says:

    Don’t care? Obviously cares enough to blog about it immediately.

  273. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    278- Exactly. And she’s here reading, and now that she can post, she’s not. I’m getting a great kick out of that.She’ll post under all the fake IPs she can, but as soon as she’s ALLOWED, she won’t post. She reminds me of my three-year-old. What? You mean I can eat candy ALL DAY LONG?! No, I don’t like candy anymore.

  274. Pariah says:

    she said she did car how many blog entries ago? seems to me like she still cares. so can we count that as lie # 398,625,936?

  275. Pariah says:

    she said she didn’t care how many blog entries ago? seems to me like she still cares. so can we count that as lie # 398,625,936?

  276. kukukachoo says:

    Felisha- for the record, my ban is not like “OMG I can’t believe it, what shall I do?”. It’s more like, “Yeah, I knew before posting I might get banned but i figured what the hell, I don’t care.”

    So don’t get all happy and on some power trip. I chose to leave DS today and don’t you forget that.

    Now, since we are here in the Blog- where we can let it all out- why don’t you come out and play?

    I know! Let’s play house! You be the door and I’ll slam you. C’mon, it’ll be fun.

  277. smartassmama says:

    So did we decide that Felisha is teacup after all?

  278. Hexe says:

    Hanging out with friends tonight and tomorrow she will post on ds that she wants to call the police on them for being rude to her, funny. Can’t wait to see that thread tomorrow…..
    I am sure that she will have to look for dh number three shortly.

  279. ladylili says:

    Honestly, she hurts my head.

  280. naturalmamadot says:

    279 – she reminds me of a little kid too, reverse psychology works so well on her! Quick, now we should tell her NOT to ever leave the interwebz, please felisha, do NOT step away from the computer and take care of your child…in fact you need to post on DS more often.

  281. me says:

    283- No. they found out that teacup has posted here under I think three different names and has a name on CDN too.

  282. BFF says:

    Teacup is on CDN? Hmmm… username?

  283. thismelrocks says:

    TEACUP…come out, come out wher eever you are…

  284. thismelrocks says:

    TEACUP…come out, come out where ever you are…

  285. DSDM2 says:

    Old Yeller, come back yeller…

  286. Aj says:

    Hexe, you do realize Felisha has a blog, not a block, right? 🙂

  287. DSDM2 says:

    Felisha doesn’t like people to post on her blog, but she can post here?

    Let me make this clear…


    You are a giant liar. We know.

  288. smartassmama says:

    Aww. Big tear.

    My comments to her blog go to moderation. 😦 but Janeen’s get approved. This saddens me deeply. It hurts my little heart.

  289. ABCDEFG says:

    Anybody link the thread she made about vax yet?

  290. JustPeachy says:

    Twatwaffle needs to get the fuck over herself. I cannot wait til the day she fucks up royally and DS bans her ass. Shit then she’d prolly just move on to the HC forums EEP!

  291. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    PEACH! Don’t tell her there’re forums on HC! She’ll get started now. WHAT’RE YOU THINKING?! 😉

  292. Aj says:

    Mel, love your avi & siggy!

  293. smartassmama says:

    This Mel rocks is certainly an accurate SN. I ❤ it!

  294. Myself says:

    man, just when I thought it would be dramarrific and keep me awake worthy…… it slows down …….. now I could go to sleep

  295. Pariah says:

    cal someone link me to mel’s profile.

  296. Pariah says:

    but fellatio, we want you on our blog. we are bored, come play with us.

  297. Myself says:

    Oh how life works…
    February 11, 2010 by felishasjourney
    Little edit: STAY OFF MY BLOG, AND I’LL STAY OFF YOURS. Just a little FYI to the liars out there. Get your facts straight. I’ve NEVER made a fake account and I’ve NEVER used a fake IP. lies.. lies spewing everywhere.

    I’m so glad I have an honest heart and no bad karma

    so that was posted on her blog

    anyone have screen shots to prove she is lying?

  298. DSDM2 says:

    I can tell you she is lying.

    She posted here 2 times with two different names, and she has posted here under her name.

    There is a post on this thread that I approved that was posted by asdfasdf, which is her, I cross checked her IP (which was new to her posting here) with other sites. I changed the name to include the new name.

    The first time she posted on the blog was under a hidden name as well, it was discussed in length when she did it.

  299. Myself says:

    It is dull without her posting, ugh

  300. Roxyrocks says:

    She isn’t going to post here she will get called out and not be able to back track and delete post or have threads closed.

  301. DSDM2 says:

    Here is Mel’s siggy/photo.

  302. DSDM2 says:

    hmmm. Trying again.


  303. Myself says:

    Is it a pink shoe to make fun of the pink cookie thing?

    Regardless, awesome siggy and avi!

  304. I hope it is ok that I am posting here. I was confused at first with the email we got about her today. I had to read all the posts and past posts to make sure it was the right place.

    Felisha is a fucking liar.

    I am someone who posts on a board she got banned from. She was a lying little whore who kept posting sexual comments all the time, she lied and caused drama all the time, and no one liked her. She cussed at people all the time, and then tried to pretend we didn’t understand or that we were mean because she was the only girl in a large group of older men.

  305. DSDM2 says:

    I think it is a mix of pink cookies, and the sex with the shoe thing 😀

  306. Myself says:

    312 – okay that makes sense

    sorry my brain isn’t working this time of night

  307. thewayhome says:

    311 so you are from the racing forum she used to be on?

  308. sciencefair says:

    So let me get this straight, felitio is blaming you ladies for messaging her mother? Well, I just don’t believe that at all. But, I bet her mother reads her blog, and this way she won’t get yelled at for putting her mother’s contact info on the internet…no wait, she isn’t talking to her mother. Gah, those lies are getting hard to keep straight felishuu. As hard as it is to keep a straight face when I read about all the moronic things you say.

  309. sciencefair says:

    Holy giggles batman. I looked at the waffle post, and clicked on Janeen’s name and her blog is called life in a shoebox.


    I wonder what came first, the blog or the shoe.

    I think I know why she likes Janeen now.

  310. Roxyrocks says:

    #311 That sounds like Fluffynuts she really needs to get a damn hobby and get a life. She spends way to much time on message boards starting crap.

    She didn’t get enough hugs from Mommy and Daddy.

  311. Kitty says:

    I got my second ateije on ds today. Guess I should have made sure I was not spamming cdn right after a mod posted LMAO!

  312. not me at all says:

    With all the rules at DS I can’t believe lying and trolling are not breaking ANY rules…..oh wait yes I can.

  313. not me at all says:

    Melissa Coffey
    Why the ban request at CDN?

  314. monkey says:

    I wasn’t gonna say anything, but screw it.

    I’m gonna make a wild guess that it has something to do with this:

    I go to DS for the first time in a long while and found it while I was bopping around.


  315. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    321- C&P?

  316. .bin. says:

    It’s been deleted but basically:

    “If I’m being harrassed somewhere else can I talk about it here”

    mod/admin: blah blah blah pm me blah blah blah

    another poster: If it’s the “place” I think it is, that is what they’re like blah blah blah

    MC: oh it’s so awful, I need to decide whether to “take action”or not, I’m going to pm you another poster. delete this thread.


  317. monkey says:

    It’s been deleted… but fortunately I kept a personal copy.


    Is there a place to post about…
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    Yes somewhere else online and it’s seriously scaring the crap out of me. I am trying not to take it too seriously, but I’ve been in cloth diaper world for over 6 years and I’ve experienced NOTHING like this. I can tell the story without names or details, I just need advice whether to let it lie, or take action to protect myself.
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  318. mmspirit7 says:

    Link doesn’t work

  319. monkey says:

    I c&p’d

  320. DSDM2 says:

    I’m not too pleased that MC deleted her fb for bethsflutterby. (Another thread in Ask the Pros) but wasn’t going to say anything until after moderation. That is some shit right there though.

  321. mmspirit7 says:

    sry i see now

  322. monkey says:



  323. not me at all says:

    So what was her HB thread about? I can’t find it.

  324. looking and lurking says:


    Her hot button thread wasn’t bad. She just couldn’t tell the truth to some people and it was going to come out.

    I’m fairly certian she would have been banned anyway.

  325. not me at all says:

    Weird I have never seen CDN delete threads before…

  326. JustPeachy says:

    Wow now i think MC is a total asshat. Way to wear your BGPs.

  327. naturalmamadot says:

    I knoe 332! did anyone see the thread or posts? Im frustrated haha

  328. naturalmamadot says:


    also, I just had to do the “diaperswappers thread rush” to try and read something before it was gone on CDN haha it was sad

  329. Aj says:

    So, MC lied about things too?

  330. theinvisible says:

    A game they play? The twilight zone? Maybe I’m just grumpy this morning but WTF? Really? If you can’t be real, stay at DS but the drama whoring is just stupid. I get so tired of the “they’re so mean over there” shit. Asspat, asspat. Now get on back to the preschool that is DS.

  331. theinvisible says:

    What was going to come out?

  332. mmspirit7 says:

    The thread was what people were passionate about like bf and ff erf and cloth diapers and such.

    Her lifestyle is one like the duggers the quiverful movement.

  333. theinvisible says:

    I read the HB thread and didn’t see anything twilight zone or even remotely “scary”.

    #331 ” Her hot button thread wasn’t bad. She just couldn’t tell the truth to some people and it was going to come out.

    I’m fairly certian she would have been banned anyway.”

    I’d love to hear more….

  334. Messy says:

    CDN would NOT put up with someone stalking MC on there. If she is talking about another place she is being stalked at, then CDN DOES care and they would do what they needed to do to make sure she was not in “danger” posting on their board (to the best of their ability). I know this. They DO NOT want people stalking other people via CDN.
    So, it pisses me off if she is talking about CDN in those DS posts. I don’t know about a thread on CDN being deleted. That sounds odd. But if she said someone was stalking her and came to that thread, then I can totally see the point of removing it.
    I hate when people spew shit about CDN and they have no idea the work the admin puts in to make sure everyone has a safe, fun, ADULT, hang out, or even home on line!!!

  335. Mylilgirls says:

    I know what freaked her out on CDN. She couldn’t handle the responses she was getting from HB and then her twilight zone issue must have had something to do with -you-. Instead of reading further, she took it personally and ran back to DS. Me thinks that about sums it up.

  336. theinvisible says:

    Hmmmm. Maybe the twilight zone thing was the [ you ] trick. I hope not lol. It really isn’t that serious.

  337. not me at all says:

    I love CDN! I certainly hope she was being stalked there. I never saw anything twilight zoneish. I don’t know that a thread has been deleted just that when you search for threads started by here nothing comes up anymore. Weird.

  338. theinvisible says:

    Dammit. This delay thing is really irritating lol.

  339. Messy says:

    If the [you] thing bothered her sooo much, then HOW FREAKING HARD is it to PM admin or a mod or even a friend that has been on there a while to ASK about it??? Heck, I have been there a while and I still freak out sometimes when I see it ROFLMAO!
    As far as a HB issue, I have no idea, I can’t find one. But she can walk away from that forum. Easy. Many CDN’ers don’t post or even read in HB because it is just that~ HOT BUTTONS.
    And I have a few kids (LOL) and have never had anybody be rude to me or make me feel inferior because of our family… If I am in HB DEBATING it, then I should be ready for the comments, no matter what. It is called being a big girl…
    I am just floored that someone would run to Diaperscammers to talk about a situation on CDN that could have been quickly explained. I am sure Diaperscammer mods will do all they can to make her believe she was in danger on CDN :::shakehead:::

  340. werd says:

    so let me get this straight:

    Melissa- wah wah DS sucks

    -enters CDN-

    Melissa – wah wah DS sucks

    -no asspats on CDN-

    Melissa – wah wah CDN sucks

    -runs back to DS-

    Melissa – wah wash CDN sucks

    -asspats all around-

    is that about right?!

  341. Aj says:

    Can someone explain the [you] trick please?

  342. zosiasmama says:

    The thred was not deleted, it was moved to an admin only section.

    The [you] trick- put you in brackets in a post or title and when anyone looks at it it shows their name instead. So if you want to make it look like you are bitching someone or making a joke you do that. It shows their own UN for each user. So if I saw the title where someone use the you in brackets I would see “Hey zosiasmama…get in here”

  343. zosiasmama says:

    The thread was not deleted, it was moved to an admin only section.

    The [you] trick- put you in brackets in a post or title and when anyone looks at it it shows their name instead. So if you want to make it look like you are bitching someone or making a joke you do that. It shows their own UN for each user. So if I saw the title where someone use the you in brackets I would see “Hey zosiasmama…get in here”

  344. not me at all says:

    The [you] trick makes the UN of the reader show up where the [you] is so it would say AJ over here to you and Messy over here to her etc

  345. sciencefair says:

    Well, I gotta admit, she has been getting on my nerves. So if she decides to stay away from CDN from now on, I am not gonna cry about it.

    Oh and the [you] trick, is that part of the board’s coding you can add [you] to your siggy or a post and it comes across as whomever is reading the thread. So it could say I need to talk to [you], but if i were reading it, I would see ‘ I need to talk to sciencefair

  346. sciencefair says:

    Well, I gotta admit, she has been getting on my nerves. So if she decides to stay away from CDN from now on, I am not gonna cry about it. But I can be pretty witchy sometimes. I call drama queen on this one though.

  347. Incognizable says:

    so MC did you pm all those that responded to your DS thread bashing CDN?? I see your advisor Veronica is now on CDN posting in the twilight zone too…blah

  348. Aj says:

    Thanks for the explanations ladies–sounds kinda funny.

  349. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    I’m honestly shocked and disappointed that Melissa stooped to such a level. The Admin at CDN take the safety and security of their members VERY seriously, so honestly, I find Melissa’s accusations quite bogus-sounding.
    >>>edited by DSDM2 for personal reasons>>>

    Mmmmmkay, sorry for the tangent. All that to say, MC is full of bull poop. Admin/Mods care DEEPLY about the safety and security of their members, and will do everything in their power to protect their members if sufficient proof is shown.

  350. Messy says:

    #356 EXACTLY!

    I just read the [you] thread and MC does not look like she is not understanding it. She seems to get it. So, if that is not the problem, then WTF?

  351. ladylili says:

    356 please tell me I’m not the only one who wants to know who the cyber stalker is.

  352. nicole says:

    CDN does not allow their members to be stalked, new or old. If MC was in fact being stalked via email, ds, pm, rep etc.. Admin would have put a stop to it. We are serious about the safety of our members.

    I did not read the HB thread, it didn’t strike my interest. I’m sort of glad I didn’t. Other then what’s being said, I get to sit this one out of the clueless couch. LOL

    I will say, though, that if MC was being stalked she still had no reason to go to DS and start a thread about CDN. Miles much? MC has been on the boards long enough to know that’s not going to help her at all. In fact DS is pretty strict about even mentioning other boards. I’m sure her thread over there went poof pretty quickly.

    We don’t expect everyone to fit in on CDN and sometimes the transition from DS to CDN can be hard to grip. It’s two different sites with a lot of different rules and settings. It’s not for everyone, but I know I’m glad I found it. I did not fit in over at DS, at all.

  353. Booyah says:

    I can’t believe all this kerfuffle was over the [you] code. It’s a goddamn FORUM PROGRAMMING CODE THINGY. It has nothing to do with MC, or stalking or anything like that. I think she was just looking for an excuse to be butthurt over whatever happened in the HB thread…at least that’s what I hope, because if she was seriously that self-centeredly wigged out over a simple programming trick that had nothing to do with her, then she’s a sad sad person.

  354. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    LMFBO- ….<<<>>>….

  355. Incognizable says:

    If in fact she is talking about the [you] thread that was started in July 09′, then I’m seriously laughing at her stupidity. Thinking she is that speshul to have 21 pages dedicated to her, LMFAO!

  356. ladylili says:

    361 That’s just creepy. Sorry that is happening.

  357. cdnation says:

    We take our members safety very seriously. I can guarantee you that if MC had contacted me directly things would be a lot different than they are now.

    The posts have been moved to a private section of the board. They may be moved back out shortly.

    One persons definition of harassment is different from anothers.

    I know that I won’t put up with any kind of cyber bullying on my forum. I’m sure that the rest of the admin team feel the same way.

  358. Incognizable says:

    361..you are killing me………….hmmm answer one question here which do you “dislike” rain or snow?

  359. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    365- Rain is definitely not my fave. 😉

  360. not me at all says:

    What was the “moved” thread about anyway?

  361. kukukachoo says:

    365 & 366- Quit that talkin’ in code stuff. it’s a Twilight Zoney and stuff.

  362. Myself says:

    Man, I go to bed to get some needed rest and wake up to all this fun stuff.

    What gives?

  363. smartassmama says:

    I posted on the What Is Your Passion thread, came back a few hours later, & there were more replied than I cared to read.

    Is she mad because she’s of a quiverfull mindset due to religious convictions, and people disagree with her? I can understand being put out if someone shows blatant hate & intolerance of your lifestyle, but I wouldn’t rush right to DS about it. That’s silly.

    I’m pretty sure she’s not the first QF mom who’s met opposition. When you live away from the societal norm you have to arm yourself.

  364. smartassmama says:

    369 – me too!

    btw, check the other blog’s comments. . .

  365. Myself says:

    371 – which one ?

    Sorry I’ve had a hellacious week and little sleep so my brain isn’t going top speed at all. :tired: :thud: :zzz:

  366. Mylilgirls says:

    On the blog comments…(paraphrasing) poor me, they are calling ME fat. Can you believe it???? I mean, I’m short and outweigh my husband by 80lbs. That doesn’t make me fat!!! They are fat!

  367. Mylilgirls says:

    I gotta run and get stuff done today. Ya know, shower, pick up a v-day something or other for DH, post office, all that jazz. So I’m peace out for a bit. 🙂

  368. thewayhome says:

    I’ll admit I detest the [you] trick but I have a simple way to take care of it. I make sure it is not about me, then I put it on ignore.

    Makes my heart race everytime I see it.

    but oh well

  369. thismelrocks says:

    aww, my avi and siggie made the drama blog. I feel special. 😀

  370. Myself says:

    you know I wrote on her blog and I was really nice about it, but she still didn’t publish it

    I recommended to her various supplements that she should take.

  371. smartassmama says:

    My comment to her, since I know she won’t publish it: We can call you fat and ugly because you have pictures of EVerything your mama gave ya on the interwebz. I might not look like a Playboy centerfold, but I didn’t splay floppy A cups and a roast beef sammich all across the world wide web.

  372. Myself says:

    Let’s think.

    How many of us would say that we have an honest heart and good karma?

    NOT ME. Sure I try not to lie, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t and that doesn’t mean I don’t. (How many of us have told white lies to our children?)

  373. smartassmama says:

    Well guess who has a FFS. I almost entered, then I saw who it was. Even if I’m just paying for shipping, I don’t want to wait 3 months.

  374. Myself says:

    I entered. LOL

    If I don’t win or don’t get it, I don’t care. LOL.

  375. Madre says:

    I entered too. My oldest needs XL wool

  376. twiddling*thumbs says:


  377. thismelrocks says:

    Aww a MOD(H2BM) just pulled my siggy. 😦

  378. Myself says:

    why did they pull your siggy

  379. Aj says:

    She’s Felishu’s lesbian lover.

  380. FunnyMama says:

    Late on the uptake, but the whole MC thing is kinda sad. I was in her corner until she boo-hoo’d on DS, which I have incidentally removed from my bookmark list and will no longer visit due to an unrelated trade semi-fiasco

  381. thismelrocks says:

    Because they were not happy with my loving a shoe free cookie nation.

  382. Myself says:

    388 – I would like to hear what Melissa has to say on the matter

  383. BFF says:

    The goodvibes smiley is the most passive-aggressive smiley (in certain situations) ever. It cracks me up every time I see it.

  384. FunnyMama says:

    390 – as would I, because it sounds very odd from the outside looking in, especially after her recent debacle at DS

  385. magpiedpiper says:

    Well, she could explain here since she has before, but maybe the drama blog is too Twilight Zone-y for her taste as well.

  386. monkey says:


    As always Messy, you sum shit up perfectly.

    The admin/mods on CDN honestly try to watch out for and help everyone. I have NEVER been on another message board (and I’ve been on plenty) where I actually felt like the folks in charge gave a shit about me. What other folks see as “mean” is actually a refusal to accept bullshit from anyone. CDN doesn’t do DS handslaps, but if it’s necessary to protect the boards or the mamas they will give one hell of a smackdown.

  387. naturalmamadot says:

    lmao 393 she sure as shit liked us when we helped her get her side of the story out, she sure didnt like DS too much when they were letting her get scammed but she must be WAY off in the head if shes gonna overreact like THAT and flounce off. huff huff huff i think i can be a crazy loon I think I can I think I can

  388. cheesewhiz says:

    Ding-dong!!! Gonna go grab some snacks and settle in for a night of reading…I gotz me some catchin’ up to do!!!

  389. naturalmamadot says:

    I am SO hungry and we have no food.

  390. cheesewhiz says:

    #361 – Now I’m way to curious about who your stalker is…and who YOU are…I have been away from the blog for TOO long…lol.

    And “floppy A-cups and roast beef sammich” made me spit my drink!!! I SO wish I wasn’t so darn curious that I now have a distinct visual whenever I hear that description…

    Athlete’s vag BE GONE!!!!

  391. cheesewhiz says:

    #397 – No roast beef sammich to be had??

  392. Pariah says:

    399. OMFG LMFAO!!!!

  393. naturalmamadot says:

    *gags to death*

  394. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    398- LMFBO- I used to go by my name, but started a WordPress blog, so now it auto-fills the info for me. You can easily find out both by checking out the [ you ] thread, starting about post 730. 😉

  395. BFF says:

    There she is. Mah yeller dong.

  396. Aj says:

    Has anyone see this? That’s a pretty ugly diaper!

  397. Aj says:

    *Did* anyone see this? UGH

  398. iken says:

    402-I think I figured out, but I promise not to stalk you:)

  399. TyAndCheyMommy says:

    This must be the time of year for stalkers to come out… I have on of my own… but it isn’t a “flattering” stalker unfortunately…

  400. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    407- She STILL hasn’t let up? Jeepers creepers, the woman has got to realize already that she’s an absolute idiot. I know that no one will pay her any mind. She’s brand new, and has nothing but negative FB. She needs to shut her trap any day now.

  401. TyAndCheyMommy says:

    She has e-mailed me rude e-mails and now doing this shit of posting in my FSOT threads (that actually had sold a few days ago anyway)….
    I am just getting tired of her- I am not refunding- I have no reason I should.

  402. smartassmama says:

    I must be missing something. Which fsot post was it? Not seeing it unless it’s real old.

  403. DSDM2 says:

    The response was deleted.

  404. TyAndCheyMommy says:

    This is a c&p of what she put in the thread for G-diapers.
    Can I C&p the e-mail she sent? OR is that a no no here as well?

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    Re: 11 L GDiapers, 36 Sposie Inserts, 3 Cloth inserts, and more. $75ppd FOR ALL
    Watch what you buy from this girl. I bought a whole lot and they smelled and she refused to do anything about it. Didn’t know how bad the stink was until I tried a few of them….it brought out the odd smell even worse.

    It took 2 strippings and a crap load of washing to make them somewhat useable….

    Do yourself a favor and find someone else….

  405. Pariah says:


    i don’t know about you ladies, but all i had to do was sow my DH how to fold a prefold, and he understood. so wither her husband is an idiot, or she doesn’t think very highly of him.

  406. TyAndCheyMommy says:

    413- I don’t think it has anything to do with her hubby- I think it has to do with her need of attention and wanting to “brag” that she may need to buy some more diapers…
    If you look she just posted a WWYD thread about she has waited 1 week for custom diapers and is now all worried because she won’t be able to get them when her hubby comes home…

  407. Hexe says:

    Oh man, it is not exactly rocket science to use a cloth diaper. But it wouldn’t surprise me if her dh is not the smartest one either, I mean a smart guy wouldn’t marry her.

  408. Myself says:

    In my limited experience men actually prefer prefolds.

    They are my husbands favorite diaper because he can get an awesome fit with them.

  409. bearista says:

    Prefolds are my DH’s favorite as well. Who’da thunk it.

  410. rainbow says:

    Yep, my DP always went for the prefolds first too, even if there were fitteds clean and on the shelf.

  411. cheesewhiz says:

    #402 – Ah, thank you! 😉 Very interesting…I should have kept reading that thread…lol!!! (Nosey I am…;)P

    And hi BFF!!! 🙂

  412. sciencefair says:

    My DH prefers prefolds too. I did LOL when i read that she has carpel tunnel pretty bad. Who’da thunk.

  413. cheesewhiz says:

    #420 – Yeah, didn’t you know? Spending all your time on line typing lots of fabricated stories and posting odd nudey pics is a new therapeutic technique for easing carpal tunnel pain.

  414. try me, i'm new! says:

    good god, the way they talk about their husbands in that thread is terrible. paraphrasing – no mater what he does, i praise him, and kiss his ass for even thinking to change a dipe, and he gets better!

    ummmm, he’s a grown man, not a dog or a 4 yo. it’s ok to tell him he messed it up and show how to do it right. I can only imagine the conversation. “oh, dh! you wonderful manly man, thank you for lowering yourself to changing a diaper on your child! your half-assed job of putting the dipe on inside out and backwards is so appreciated! what a help!”

    why is it so uncommon for women to expect their husbands to be competent and equal child rearers? why the need to kiss their asses and fall all over themselves over the smallest of efforts? if my dh couldn’t figure out a prefold, i’m laugh at him.

  415. naturalmamadot says:

    ditto 422 …oh and 423 is my bday (excited)

  416. žába says:

    When is she going to buy some more freaking diapers?! She has been whining about only having 6 diapers since she first showed up on my radar months and months ago. It kind of makes me wonder if she actually uses cloth. I know when I first started out CDing and only had like 5 diapers, as soon as I knew I was going to stick with it, I was all over FSOT looking for more.

    Oh. and back to the original Baltic Creations, I was one of her testers and she was very pleasant to work with. I didn’t see what the issue was with the testers, can someone fill me in on why they were maybe unsafe?

  417. DSDM2 says:

    Ty & Chey, You can post any communications that you want to here.

    I am of the mindset that once you send it to someone, it becomes their property to do with it as they please. (As far as the law goes, that is the case for email, snail mail, and such too.)

  418. TyAndCheyMommy says:

    Re: Diapers‏
    From: Melissa Schultz (melissa.schultz08@gmail.com)
    Sent: Wed 2/10/10 8:39 PM
    To: TyAndCheyMommy (removed my e-mail addy)
    You know, you’re a horrible person. I hope no one else falls prey to your shitty diapers. I hope karma comes and bites you in the ass. You knew these were crap. That’s why you didn’t want to do an invoice so I had no way to fight you on this. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. I hope no one ever buys anything from you again.

  419. Hexe says:

    Ugh… Never heard that someone sends an invoice with used diapes. Is this the first email she send to you in hope to work something out with you? Sounds pretty heated, care to share what you send to her?

  420. Hexe says:

    Does it bother anyone else when people tell on FSOT that they have to sell because of a financial emergency and you see that they shop all over the place and show their latest buys on threads? Is that the new selling tactics?

  421. DSDM2 says:

    Man she is google-able. messa00 is her SN all over the place.

  422. screenname says:

    What difference would an invoice make? Unless it was sold on ebay, PP couldn’t care less what you send as long as you have DC.

    As far as pity party FSOT posts, I don’t get it. If I want your diapers it’s because I want them. I won’t buy from someone just because they have to sell of their NIP GMs to pay their electric bill. I don’t think it would deter me either. I usually only read the rambling at the beginning or end of a post if I’m actually interested in the diapers they’re selling.

    Don’t get me wrong, I love a pretty diaper. I love pretty wool even more. But they also serve a purpose. I buy these things because my kid doesn’t poo in the potty yet. Therefore, if I had to sell something because we had no money and they were going to shut off our heat in the middle of winter, it wouldn’t be diapers. Because any diapers I buy, I take out of the pack and use.

  423. screenname says:

    I just googled messa00 and found the post she made on TyandCheyMommy’s FSOT post. Weird.

  424. downy20 says:

    428 – It bothers me to see anything about anyone’s finances on a FSOT thread. I don’t want to get personal with someone to buy something from them. I really don’t care. I can give them support on another area of the board, if I so choose.

  425. screenname says:

    Happy Birthday naturalmamadot!

  426. naturalmamadot says:

    lol 423 as in april 23rd but THANKS haha 21st yay!

  427. downy20 says:

    Dup post thing is confusing…I hope my last message didn’t go through a hundred times…sorry!!

  428. Tyandcheymommy says:

    That was the last email she has sent. I will post the rest in the morning when I am on my computer where I can copy and paste.

  429. smartassmama says:

    What a weirdo. No wonder it was deleted then!

  430. Aj says:

    A diaper is a diaper, any person who can’t figure that out is an idiot.

  431. screenname says:

    D’oh. I misread. Well, happy early birthday then. lol

    That DH help thread is nuts. Is it common to coddle your DH when it comes to child rearing? It’s my personal theory that some men act inept and stupid (“Oh honey, you know I don’t know how to work that washing machine.” “Dear, those diapers are too complicated!” “Schnookums, it’s really difficult for me to remember to put my smelly socks in the hamper instead of on the floor NEXT to the hamper.”) to get out of helping out. $.02

  432. monkey says:


    This is a huge pet peeve of my husband’s. He was a SAHD for the first year of Jem’s life and he’s like, “Why do people assume that I’m some kind of idiot who can’t change a diaper and care for my child? The only thing I can’t do is nurse.”

  433. bearista says:

    #439 My DH is pretty good about not pulling the “Schnookums I’m helpless card” but he did fess up last night that he purposely doesn’t cut the kids’ finger/toenails so I will know that they haven’t been done and I’ll take care of them. He admitted that it was a lame copout, but that it was intentional on his part WTH? *doh*

  434. noneyabiz says:

    E-stalking?? Maybe if she didn’t put all her shit online for the world to see, people wouldn’t call her out on it. Or at least if you’re going to post all the intimate details of your life, keep your stories straight.

  435. Aj says:

    You know what’s even funnier is that there’s been quite a bit of talk lately about internet stalkers, both here and on DS; and now all of a sudden Felisha has stalkers. Funny how that works! Everybody say it with me…drama whore.

  436. kukukachoo says:

    I’m laughing so hard at that E-Stalking thread. Just another “Me, me, look at me” thread.

    You’re so transparent Felisha.

  437. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Aaaaaaaaaaaaah, C&P for the recently-banned! :gah: 😛

  438. smartassmama says:

    My DH doesn’t cut the kids’ finger/toenails because “My hands are so bigggg. Theirs are so smaaaalll.” lol It’s true though. He says he doesn’t want to hurt them on accident, but hell. Neither do I!

    He’s coined a new phrase this weekend. He used it 3 times yesterday. “Pampers Parents.” It’s people who use sposies, formula, don’t give a hot damn about car safety, think babywearing is weird, and drop their kids off at Grandmas every weekend to go clubbing. It’s like, anti-crunchy.

    Now off to read the stalking. . .

  439. kukukachoo says:

    446- don’t forget you can clear your cookies and still go read by following that link :o)

  440. smartassmama says:


    So she finally gives an excuse for the Air-Twat.

    “My ex’s “computer got hacked” or he posted all my info on some site 3 years ago..

    I had to change my phone number but it has my moms address, phone number email DOB too…

    They(these girls now) stalked me and found the site with all the info..

    I tried to get the site down every few months for 3 years now with no success..”

  441. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    My DH is great wih the CDs. Even PFs. He can Snappi and pin with the best of the women. 😉 The joys of being a SAHD. LOL
    I’ll say, though, on occasion he will pull the, “What? I’m confused,” stunt so I’ll do things. He hates buckling the kids into their car seats, and the other day I FREAKED because DS was totally improperly and unsafely buckled- as in shoulder strap around his upper arm, and chest clip at his belly button. I FREAKED. He knows better, and kept playing dumb like, “WHAT? I thought it was right.” That was a pretty decent tongue lashing right there, including exactly how DS could fly through the straps of the car seat, out the back window and be instantly killed, should we get in an accident on the snowy roads. It took him about 30 minutes to get over the embarrassment of me ripping him a new one right in the parking lot, but he apologized for being careless. He pulls the, “WHAT?” card on occasion, because he knows I am anal and will just do it myself, but I was just so appalled that he’d do that with something so intensely important to the kids’ safety.

  442. screenname says:

    Clearing cookies won’t work. It’s in Sensitive Subjects. I don’t believe this is her first radio IYKWIM.

  443. magpiedpiper says:

    Can we post C&P from Sensitive Subjects? I forget.

  444. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    448- LOL, yep, cookies have been cleared already. 😛

  445. DSDM2 says:

    I don’t care if people c&p from sensitive subjects.

  446. žába says:

    IDK, her ex’s computer getting “hacked” doesn’t explain the shoe at all to me, I still can’t figure out that one at all. LOL

  447. kukukachoo says:

    451 my bad, sorry!

  448. smartassmama says:

    So she wants to report me. :/
    I’ve been commenting. I suppose I’ll keep my commenting to here. meh.

  449. mmspirit7 says:

    I am being E-Stalked and harrased as well as my family.

    A few people (i think they’re using diff SN’s) have emailed my mother (who im not even close with) twice, my husband 5 times (3 via fake myspaces) and I’m getting constant emails and blog comments!

    I just do not know what to do anymore!

    I’ve talked to the mods here and they’re hands are tied because its off site..

    What should I do!?

    I’m desprate to have them leave me and my family alone!

  450. magpiedpiper says:

    C&P for my banned buddies. 😦

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    E-Stalking issues..
    I am being E-Stalked and harrased as well as my family.

    A few people (i think they’re using diff SN’s) have emailed my mother (who im not even close with) twice, my husband 5 times (3 via fake myspaces) and I’m getting constant emails and blog comments!

    I just do not know what to do anymore!

    I’ve talked to the mods here and they’re hands are tied because its off site..

    What should I do!?

    I’m desprate to have them leave me and my family alone!
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    I’m not sure about where you are located, but in Kansas (where I live) you can file for a “freedom from harassment” order. Its similar to a restraining order, however it is regarding communication and there don’t have to be threats, just verbal or written harassment. I’m not sure if it would be a similar situation, I filed for one a few years back when an ex-boyfriend would not leave me alone but was not threatening me. If violated the violator can be held in contempt of court.
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    not make your stuff private
    you can sent up everything to not be able to let just anyone leave comments. you can block myspace and facebook so that only friends can see…
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    If you feel threatened, you can talk to your local police.



    I have been researching heavily, and have found that indeed, the law does not differentiate between offline stalking and online stalking. If someone uses a computer to stalk you it is no different from if they were doing it by phone or in person. THEY CAN BE PUT IN PRISON!

    Do not threaten to have the stalker arrested. Don’t even let them know the police have been contacted. They might slow down for a while, but they will return, and the next time they will be more careful making it harder for the police to catch them. You should notify the police the very first time someone threatens to stalk you. You should follow up with the police each time they harass you. Once the police catch the stalker you should PRESS CHARGES (Never let the stalker talk you out of pressing charges – don’t believe their false promises to stop). In court, you should go in front of the judge and ask for the maximum punishment available by law.

    It’s too late for the ones you’re dealing with now, but you really ought to consider how much information you’re giving out online.

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    My stuff IS private but that doesn’t mean they still can’t email us and message us…

    And I don’t know their names to do that..
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    With email you can block addresses. That might be an option there. You can block on Facebook and MySpace as well and then just keep blocking even if they keep changing their SN. Report anyone bothering you on Facebook and MySpace to the admin on there and I’m not positive, but there may be a way for them to find out the ISP too. I know there is a way to block certain ISPs from a website but I don’t know how to go about doing that.

    You may still want to call the police though. Even if there’s no name or anything to identify the person, they may be able to look up the ISP and find out who it is from that end and they may even be able to talk to the Internet Service Provider and the person can get into trouble with that and lose the account. You might also be able to report the person to the email provider that they are using and possibly get something done that way.

    No one is totally anonymous online, there are ways to find out who is doing this to you. So sorry you are going through this. That sucks! How were they even able to get your mom’s email address?
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    My ex’s “computer got hacked” or he posted all my info on some site 3 years ago..

    I had to change my phone number but it has my moms address, phone number email DOB too…

    They(these girls now) stalked me and found the site with all the info..

    I tried to get the site down every few months for 3 years now with no success..
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    Print everything off that you are getting as far as threatening emails and stuff (comments on blogs too, whatever you get that is harassing), contact the police and see what can be done. They may be able to look up ISP for the person who is sending the messages to you. You would probably want to keep the emails though so that it can be looked up.

    Has your mom considered getting a new email address? I know it sucks but that may be the best course of action or at least a second account that she can use more frequently. Unfortunately, this is one of the sad things about the internet. People feel they can do what they want to others online because 1. they don’t think they can be caught and 2. because they don’t think anything can be done to them even if they are caught. But cyberstalking is a crime too.

    You should be able to block further contact though, I don’t know of any email service that doesn’t have the ability to block unwanted emails addresses. In most cases, the email service will delete the email before it even reaches your inbox.

    Unfortunately, anyone with a little bit of money can find out just about anything about you in this day and age. There really isn’t any such thing as internet privacy. The only way you can have internet privacy is by not being on the internet at all. It’s pretty easy to find someone and it doesn’t take much to get a person’s personal information online. So, it may not even be that one website unfortunately. Still, it sucks and I’m sure it’s making you feel very unsafe right now. I know it would for me.
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    Originally Posted by fluffybutt View Post
    My stuff IS private but that doesn’t mean they still can’t email us and message us…

    And I don’t know their names to do that..
    You have your location beside every post, your last name is on your blog and on your husband’s uniform in pictures of him. You’ve referred to him and your son by name in several places, you’ve said where you will be living when he’s done with deployment. Your first name is uncommon enough that anyone could pay a few bucks and get all kinds of information about you, to include your phone number and address. Your MySpace and FaceBook pages may be private, but you’ve put your info out there in other places.

    Online stalkers leave a trail a cyber crime unit knows how to follow. You don’t need their names.
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    I would think the first thing you need to do is to stop engaging them to come after you… and I don’t mean just for a few days.

    Don’t respond to them at all, not VIA your blog (which you have done), and not VIA the harrasser’s blog/myspace/etc. If you stop responding, here, on the blogs, on myspace, etc (and that includes posts like this) they will leave you alone.

    If you go after them, and post things to them, what they are writing it isn’t really them harassing you, it is you participating in it, you know? Yelling at them to leave you alone, cursing at them, and calling names isn’t really helping your case.

    Limiting personal information sharing would be a start. You have a lot of personal information out there, (as do I) but a lot of what I have seen you post is very personal, and probably not meant for online sharing. If you don’t want people to be able to find you/family/DH or things like photos and messages, don’t put them online. Nothing online is private, nothing. IMs, emails, photos, they are all shared, and are never just between 2 people.

    A quick google search of your screen names shows that you have had a lot of online info and drama, and if I were you, I would see what of that I could delete or have deleted by mods/admin on various sites.

    GL, I hope it lets up soon, but it will take time, and it will take effort on your part not to stir the pot (which posting this might be doing).

    You could call the police, but I’m not sure what they can do for you if you don’t know names. You would need court orders and a lawyer to get more information.

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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    This one might be hard ONLY because you are constantly engaging people. By arguing and making posts like this it is just fueling the fire.
    Please don’t think that I am saying that their actions are OK. I think that this situation has gotten way out of hand. Grown women should not be acting in this manner but you are definately not helping yourself.
    Take your blog link out of your siggy and set your blog to private. Make it so that anyone that wants to post has to be approved. Block people from myspace and facebook. Anything you post online can be found and you have of info out there. Too much IMO.

    Change your email address. Tell your mom to change her email address as well. If she is getting phone calls, then maybe she needs to get her number changed.

    Stop putting so much info out there. Locations, names, pics, etc etc etc…..

    Stop responding when people start in on you. IGNORE them. The reason people keep giving you a hard time is because you are fighting back. Giving them ammo to use. Seriously, if you just stop responding to them they will leave you alone after a while. Stop going to other sites to see what people are saying about you. Put the people bothering you on ignore and then DON’T read or respond to what they say.
    You say you don’t care what people think of you but your actions are not reflecting that.

    Print out all the stuff and bring it to the local PD. They are able to trace stuff with ISP addresses.
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    I am afraid that with that post you bring attention to yourself again. Try to get as much info of yourself from the web and stop posting more personal info. If you stop reacting it will go away by itself (the stalking I mean). You come across very attention seeking, take a break from the web. Good luck.

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    Re: E-Stalking issues..
    Originally Posted by ClothDiaperMePlease View Post
    I would think the first thing you need to do is to stop engaging them to come after you… and I don’t mean just for a few days.

    Don’t respond to them at all, not VIA your blog (which you have done), and not VIA the harrasser’s blog/myspace/etc. If you stop responding, here, on the blogs, on myspace, etc (and that includes posts like this) they will leave you alone.

    If you go after them, and post things to them, what they are writing it isn’t really them harassing you, it is you participating in it, you know? Yelling at them to leave you alone, cursing at them, and calling names isn’t really helping your case.

    Limiting personal information sharing would be a start. You have a lot of personal information out there, (as do I) but a lot of what I have seen you post is very personal, and probably not meant for online sharing. If you don’t want people to be able to find you/family/DH or things like photos and messages, don’t put them online. Nothing online is private, nothing. IMs, emails, photos, they are all shared, and are never just between 2 people.

    A quick google search of your screen names shows that you have had a lot of online info and drama, and if I were you, I would see what of that I could delete or have deleted by mods/admin on various sites.

    GL, I hope it lets up soon, but it will take time, and it will take effort on your part not to stir the pot (which posting this might be doing).

    You could call the police, but I’m not sure what they can do for you if you don’t know names. You would need court orders and a lawyer to get more information.

    Ditto all this. If you want the “e-stalking” to stop. You should stop engaging people and putting yourself out there to be “stalked”
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    Re: E-Stalking issues..

    Ditto all this. If you want the “e-stalking” to stop. You should stop engaging people and putting yourself out there to be “stalked”

    I don’t understand why your ex would have your mom’s info After 10 years together my husband doesn’t even know my mother’s birthday now. lol I don’t think he’d have it on his PC. I mean, address and ph# I understand, because they were once my address and phone number too (up til when we got married actually), but I’ve never shared her b-day.

    Anyhow, I agree with the above. Try to wipe up anything that may be public like myspace, blog, etc. Then don’t post things that open yourself up to it. You aren’t 100% to blame, but you aren’t innocent in it. I’ve seen the ‘C’ word a few times, no? I would call that harassment. I don’t know if it was warranted or not, but record of you calling someone hateful vaginal epithets is going to be hard on your case I think.

    Just know that once something happens on the WWW, it’s there for-ev-er (Sandlot ). It’s like telling a secret in Middle School. It’s not going to stay between you and that person.
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  451. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Wa-wa-waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. She’s so full of it.

  452. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    Please, some one suggest she take an internet break. That way her “stalkers” have no fuel, and will get bored and leave her alone. Idiot.

  453. mmspirit7 says:

    I am so tempted to say something like

    Well it isn’t stalking if you tell them to email your dh you and he don’t care, or tell them that you will post you addy so they can dfcs.

    It isn’t stalking if you go their site knowing you have been blocked from posting and trying to post because you have to say something and then running away when they remove the block.

    It isn’t stalking to call you on your bull shit and lies. You may have the admin here at ds fooled but you don’t have these woman fooled. and maybe one or two them did cross a line and have been called on it too.

    You will see that we didn’t agree when one woman emailed your dh and I told her it was fucking stupid.

    But hey it’s ok that you came and called many names and have stated your own hurtful things if I remember right this started all with your actions

  454. Aj says:

    457, did she pm you?

  455. mmspirit7 says:

    will i be heart broken to get banned from ds.

    maybe I need to work and get quotes of things she has said but it in the post.

  456. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    461- That’s perfect. Have you been threatened with a ban for “harassing” her? If not, you shouldn’t get banned. Maybe a strike and a warning if the Mods so see fit.
    Also, I would copy & paste quotes from her as proof that she said those things. Maybe, just maybe, with direct proof in response to her lies, DS powers-that-be will see her lying, trolling self, and do something about it.

  457. DSDM2 says:

    Ok guys, she has posted here 111 times since 1/07/2010.

  458. smartassmama says:

    No. She doesn’t know who I am. My SN is different, since DS=Ducks and Bunnies. lol But I know part of that was directed at me, since I have commented a couple times, only to have them never post. I c&pd one of them here though.

    With her being oh-so concerned with safety of LOs, wanting to call CPS on parents, you’d think she’d have more of a heart to not want to put someone’s Mommy away. (half sarcastic).

    I don’t care. I highly doubt she’ll do anything. Maybe if she’d stay off the net while her dear, sweet, gem of a hubby is home, and reevaluate the drama whoring, there won’t be an issue. Hell, we’ve had civil convos on DS before. It’s only when she chooses to be an asshat in general, or an asshat to me do I get irritated with her.

  459. DSDM2 says:

    I don’t think when you come and post 111 times on a blog, that people responding is harassment.

  460. mmspirit7 says:

    I am working on that post now with quotes it’s taking a bit to get it all done. will c&p when done.

    if you want to to help me find the quotes I would love that.

  461. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    467- AGREED!

  462. DSDM2 says:

    What ones, the ones here?

    I can give you a list, IM me

  463. Aj says:

    111 times here, plus the thousands of posts on DS, probably thousands more on FB and MySpace, and who knows where else…it’s a wonder she has time for anything else.

  464. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    467- She has offered each and every bit of info on the public domains of the internet. She’s the ultimate idiot.

  465. mmspirit7 says:

    yeah the ones here. let me get on yim, whats your I never added you sorry

  466. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    DSDM2 Just added you to mine as well. 😉

  467. mmspirit7 says:

    Well if I get banned I do I don’t care right now but she does have them snowed.

  468. smartassmama says:

    I don’t even have YIM. 😦 boo

  469. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    476- Did you post yet?

  470. mmspirit7 says:

    nope still working on it and quotes to add to it. when I post it I will cp here. and let you ladies know and then we can see how long to my banning

  471. screenname says:

    Lots of people have told her to back away from the internet, especially since her DH is coming home soon. Her bff NATTYBATSMOM told all those meanies that it isn’t fair because the interwebz iz like therapy and people shouldn’t be forced to live without it.

  472. volbaby07 says:

    oh, i couldn’t help myself. i bet i get a warning or it gets deleted.

  473. thewayhome says:

    no you shouldn’t have to live with out it as long as it is not controling everything about you. When you are on all the time. And all your drama comes from it. Then it is time to step away. She keeps doing the same thing expecting different results. I understand the thing of not having any IRL friends and you come to the internet forums to have adult interaction, but it is the same as in real life if someone keeps telling you they don’t like you why must you insist on getting in their face all the time?

  474. juliankenziesmama says:

    aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand here we go AGAIN.

  475. Booyah says:

    BAHAHAHAHAHA. Oh what a laff riot.

    “Boohoohoo! I put my address, phone number, and email up on an internet message board, then proceeded to act like the biggest attention-starved dumbass ever and seriously offended many people on top of that, AND THEN PEOPLE CALLED AND EMAILED THE PHONE NUMBER AND EMAIL THAT I PUT ON THE INTERNET. WAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Somebody asspat me quick!”

  476. DSDM2 says:

    Booya, repost that long post please. I didn’t want you to accidentally have your other name up.

  477. Booyah says:

    Oh crikey. I’m sorry DSDM2. 😦 I am effing up your comment page all over the place!

  478. Booyah says:

    Okay, you got it now as 486. Thank you so much. 🙂

  479. mmspirit7 says:

    cp of my post waiting on the ban hammer


    Well it isn’t stalking if you tell them to email your dh you and he don’t care, or tell them that you will post you addy so they can dfcs. Lets not forget because you didn’t care some other soldier was emailed instead. I told everyone I wasn’t happy and thought things had gone to far but you kept saying you had not part in the email to the wrong person. As much as you have been egged on you have egged on more.

    [quote] Message my DH PLEASE I need that laugh!![/quote]

    [quote] felishasjourney Says:
    January 14, 2010 at 3:02 pm
    Well, I know I’m not cheating on my husband, and he knows I’m not.
    You guys don’t have the balls to message him, so it’s whatever.
    After advice from someone on DS and what my DH told me.. I find it VERY funny that you guys talk about me here, now.
    I really do feel like a celeb… No one else gets their life tore into like a celeb.. They get lies splewed about them all over the place.
    It’s cool. I know I’m lying, I don’t care what you think.
    Call me fat, HA it’s true! You don’t think I don’t know that?! Maybe my DH likes that extra cushion for the pushin.
    Some of the shit you guys have said is heartless and cold. You have brought out the worse in me and you should be ashamed.
    If it wasn’t for the fact that curse words and names have been thrown at me left and right, I’d NEVER call someone half the shit I’ve said. I’m embarrassed I said it.. but not as embarrassed for you ladies that have to live with yourselves knowing you’ve talked shit on people, and dug through their lives to find any “lie” you can pin on them.
    Call me a liar. I don’t care. I know what happened in my life, and that’s all that matters. I love my husband, and he loves me. We’d never cheat. And do not use that I’m bi against me in this. My neighbor is NOT my type, and if she was I wouldn’t fuck her w/o my DH knowing or being there..
    And Violet, you little wah run to the mods cry baby…
    Want my address?! I’d LOVE to see you try and kick my fucking ass!
    Whats your email? I’ll give you my addy. When can I expect you.
    Wait, never. you fucking coward.

    [quote] wow, Messy. I agree with you.
    I wasn’t going to get back on here, but it keeps emailing me saying its got a new reply.. I just happened to click on Pariah’s email saying she sent a message to michael.martin@blahblah.
    I just want you to know, you did NOT mail the right person. And a military wife of all people should KNOW that there are more than one “michael martin’s” in the army.. AND THAT’S NOT EVEN HIS NAME!!
    I seriously hope whoever you messaged is not married for 1, is not deployed for 2 and doesn’t believe a word you said! I would hate to see a divorce happen because of you being stupid!!
    I “dared” you in a sarcastic manner, and would love to see what my husband would say back to your ass!
    I hope I don’t hear on the news of a Michael Martin that’s deployed going crazy and killing a bunch of innocent people because of your letter.. It DOES happen!

    [quote]I told her to email my DH NOT a TOTAL STRANGER[/quote]
    It isn’t stalking if you go their site knowing you have been blocked from posting and trying to post because you have to say something and then running away when they remove the block.
    It isn’t stalking to call you on your bull shit and lies. You may have the admin here at ds fooled but you don’t have these woman fooled. and maybe one or two them did cross a line and have been called on it too.
    You will see that we didn’t agree when one woman emailed your dh and I told her it was fucking stupid.
    But hey it’s ok that you came and called many names and have stated your own hurtful things if I remember right this started all with your actions
    And if you don’t like the site so much then why post 111 in one month. And some of them trying to fit in as well.
    Some random quotes
    [quote] What I find to be probably the funniest thing about this whole ordeal, is we had stopped talking about Felisha for quite a while and started talking about the welfare chick (around post 110). Felisha sees all has become quiet about her and comes and posts on this blog repeatedly just to stir up drama (post 135). What a twat. Not only is she a real life whore, but an attention whore as well.
    Felisha I hope you know that becoming a mother means you’re not the center of attention anymore, the world does not revolve around you. Your son is now the world and you should learn how to act accordingly.
    [quote] snip
    Keep talking about me tho, I’m LOVING ALLLL the attention!! LMAO
    I feel like lindsay lohan right now!! LMAOOO

    “Nothing ever is the right answer for you. People offer advice to you all the time, and you refuse to take it. Don’t ask if you don’t want it. Stop starting drama and it will stop following.”

  480. Aj says:

    And the murdered bil gets brought up, again. Score 1 for nattybatty.

  481. screenname says:

    Aaaaaaannnnnnnd NATTYBATSMOM ties it all back to her BIL. The circle is complete.

  482. Aj says:

    Deny, deny, deny. That’s Felisha’s new m.o.

  483. thewayhome says:

    it’s gone

  484. Aj says:

    And it’s gone.

  485. ladybugith says:

    What in the world is up with the murdered BIL? That was out of nowhere…

  486. juliankenziesmama says:

    The thread is deleted

  487. thewayhome says:

    how on god’s green eath can one person get so many threads deleted. Just delete the problem, instead of the threads

  488. DSDM2 says:

    I want to make it CLEAR that she does have multiple IPs here, and on other sites. We have cross-checked them. She has 3 names here under those IPs all of which have been changed to her name, with the old name next to it.

  489. mmspirit7 says:

    I am waiting on a pm

  490. thewayhome says:

    seriously I don’t post there anymore. I’m tempted to let someone get me banned. It might take awhile I’ve never got myself in any mischief there. But she just irkes me.

  491. naturalmamadot says:

    aw does anyone have c/p of nattys post ? last screen cap for me was prolly right before that, then i went to make food. dammit why did i have to be hungry, I enjoy seeing natty tie EVERYTHING in with the BIL, she certainly is creative.

  492. nu says:

    another one deleted?

    I use the web as my outlet…but not all.day.every.day and I think I go to 3 places and I’m not overly active on them.

    Why is that they keep her there??? It’s not like she is BUYING or SELLING anything…poor Maddox has 6 diapers.

    She needs help, mental that is!

  493. Aj says:

    I don’t have the c&p, but she asked Felisha not to use the word “cunt” because her bil used it a lot, and then he was dead. Makes sense, right?

  494. me says:

    Does anyone have a SS of the rest of it?

  495. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    500- Excellent post. It would figure that they’d again try to hide the truth. I still can’t figure out why, but hiding the truth seems to be the MO of DS. Sick.

  496. naturalmamadot says:

    hahahahaha omg, the word! I love when she flips out on ppl for that word, I met natty on cafemom when she SPAZZED the fuck out and tried to get me banned from a few groups because my avatar said that word.
    The groups explicitly said all swearing was allowed, do NOT join if you cant handle it and told HER to stfu and sit down. Still though she gives me major creeps to this day she sounded like she needed to be thrown in the loony bin, I wonder if I still have that lovely email from her lol.

  497. DSDM2 says:

    Natty, if you are reading… https://thedramaofdiaperswappers.wordpress.com/2010/01/24/former-mod-you-say/ post 234 here is the use of the Cunt word.

  498. FunnyMama says:

    Eff it, I’m going to law school and I’m going to be a lawyer, and I’m going to charge a fortune for consultations on “internet stalking” just so I can have the satisfaction of telling people like HER that she’s an idiot and brought this all on herself, and in fact could possibly be charged with several crimes within the Military community should the MP catch wind

  499. smartassmama says:

    I’ll be damned. If anyone has a screen shot of her using wordy dirds (C-word, hussie, all of it) please save it. If she finds a compassionate cop/sheriff I may need it. All for telling her I hoped she had her dancing shoes all polished or something like that (bc of her DH coming home). Or for the one I C&Pd a few hundred posts ago. I think she thinks that I am one of the people who contacted her family. I don’t know any of their info. And I could seriously give 2 shits less.

  500. mmspirit7 says:

    And still nothing.

  501. DSDM2 says:

    SmartAssMama, her first post on the blog was 1/07/10 and you can read all her posts to date. None are in moderation, and none will be deleted.

  502. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    512- I didn’t get banned for about 6 hours after they locked the thread and announced they’d be slapping hands.

  503. smartassmama says:

    One might be silly to say, “maybe they’re onto her??” Probably not though.

  504. Aj says:

    Maybe today will be the day they decide to ban Felisha–a girl can dream, right?

  505. smartassmama says:

    Thank you DSDM2

  506. smartassmama says:

    It would definitely help the Ducks and Bunnies not having drama thrown at them. Ducks and Bunnies don’t like drama. It hurts their widdle noggins.

  507. DSDM2 says:

    It might be that day. She probably already has 1 or 2 strikes…

  508. iken says:

    Huh!?! After all of the drama here?

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  509. Aj says:

    I think MelissaCoffey’s pregnancy hormones are making her bipolar.

  510. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    520- I’m SO intensely disappointed in her behavior over the past week. She has become seriously two-faced, and is joining the ranks of those hiding the truth at DS. I guess the truth is just too difficult to face or make people face.

  511. Myself says:

    520 – to say I am irked it putting it VERY mildly

  512. werd says:

    goodness, after making such a huge stink, she posts that??? Wow. I AM bipolar, and I’m about to suggest some good meds to her. Sheesh!

  513. justme says:

    a few of those crazies on ds should probably get some help. mc, fluffybutt, & nattys CRAZY mommy.

    you know what gets me about fluffy, she spends A LOT of time on the internet, which i know we all do, but she spends like 99% of her time on there. where is her kid during this?

  514. Roxyrocks says:

    I fucking love it! I saw fluffyass post last night about e-stalking and I about peed my pants. She is a troll that has been kicked off message board after message board for trolling. The Mods/Admins better be careful over on DS. In her post she talked about how their ‘hands were tied’ the next thing she is going to do is say they aren’t protecting her.

    She has severe mental problems and I honestly worry about her son’s safety.

  515. mmspirit7 says:

    still no pm!

  516. Pariah says:

    lol so i’m going to jail. i didn’t even email her DH. i just wanted to get her panties in a wad cause i was bored lol. bring on the jail time. i’ve got my rope soap packed and ready lol.

  517. Roxyrocks says:

    Pariah rope soap may be even more dangerous in a female jail LOL

  518. Pariah says:

    529. ewww gross. at least it’s cleaner than shoes.

  519. FunnyMama says:

    talk about Twilight Zone re:MC.

    And regardless of F’s interaction and ongoing dialogue with this blog and her posts at DS, I highly doubt there’s anything that has been “done” or “said” to her that would warrant jail time.

  520. newhere says:

    pariah, so you DIDN’T try and email her DH? Why didn’t you fess up before?

  521. kukukachoo says:

    I just read the MC passion thread and am even more confused than before. What’s the big effin deal with it? These people that cry stalker yet wanna keep posting their hearts out about their private lives make absolutely no sense to me.

  522. Pariah says:

    nope. i didn’t fess up, because i wanted her to think i did it. i wanted a bigger reaction out of her like “omg! no what have you done!”. but all i got was her saying i didn’t even get the email right and blah blah blah. so i just let it go after that.

  523. monkey says:


    I think that is a plea for people to “look how apologetic and sweet she is”… she’s trying to convince people that she’s doing the right thing etc.

    It’s a load of crap. She is a two-faced Janus and a twat-waffle of epic proportions.

  524. Myself says:

    535 – What does the reference to Janus mean?

  525. monkey says:

    Janus was the two-faced Roman god of beginnings and ends, doorways etc.

    It’s just a way to say someone is a two-faced twatwaffle while sounding smart.

  526. mmspirit7 says:

    Is it too soon to think that I am fine? No pm from a mod or anyone. I am about to quit checking.

  527. sciencefair says:

    537 – so if you say someone is a two-faced Janus, aren’t you being repetitive? Or perhaps indicating you don’t really know what a Janus is.

    Here I go stirring the pot. 😛

  528. monkey says:


    Yes, yes… it was definitely repetitive.

    I tend towards prolixity when I’m annoyed.


  529. monkey says:

    Bam! Prolixity and Janus in one day… I’m done for the week. My high school English teacher would be proud.

    Although you’re right, I would have been better off simply saying she was, “Janus-faced”. The point remains, she’s a two-faced twatwaffle.

  530. smurfmeat says:

    Would a two-faced Janus have four faces then? Two faces on each face? 😛

  531. monkey says:


    I’m not sure. I’m no good at math.

  532. werd says:

    omgzzz “prolixity” – I think I just creamed my panties. Former English major here!!!!

  533. JustPeachy says:

    Sadly I have no clue what prolixity means and Im too lazy to look it up. And I thought I haz the smartz *cry*

  534. Pariah says:

    Janus is also the name of a really good rock band. woohoo lol.

  535. chrissyb says:

    “448. smartassmama Says:
    February 14, 2010 at 3:57 pm

    He’s coined a new phrase this weekend. He used it 3 times yesterday. “Pampers Parents.” It’s people who use sposies, formula, don’t give a hot damn about car safety, think babywearing is weird, and drop their kids off at Grandmas every weekend to go clubbing. It’s like, anti-crunchy. ”

    Ok, way ot here (the felisha thing is way too much for me, prefer to ignore). I understand what is meant by this pampers parents thing, however for those of us who used formula out of necessity, its kind of hurtful to insinuate I don’t care. I would have given an arm to ebf my babbies, however mother nature decided to give me breasts that don’t work. Doens’t mean I don’t care about doing the absolute best for my kids, and its like a punch in the gut every time I read something that suggest parents who FF are inferior. If you never had to struggle with trying to feed your babies (and I don’t mean just cause it hurt or was too hard, but physically impossible) you can never understand the torment it causes with the breastfeeding issues in the “mommy wars” Thats all. Just don’t assume everytime you see a mom feeding a bottle that she is doing so because she wants to. Sometimes we don’t have a choice.

    Ok, off my soap box now and on to your regularly schedualed drama. This is just an issue dear to my heart. And the Melissa thing, WTH? just wow.

  536. naturalmamadot says:

    I know 2 people who REALLY honestly were part of the 2% of women who could not physically breastfeed and both of them realize they are no where NEAR the norm (no matter how many ppl believe their docs or decide for themselves they cant and go around saying it) and so they totally assume ANYtime a ffing comment is made that means someone who blatantly chose that when bfing was a totally viable choice.

    Same with c sectio comments OBVIOUSLY no moron is going to say oh yes i would rather a dead baby than a c section, they mean the women who let the doctor tell them they need one, dont do their own research, or choose one.

    sry that her comment was like a punch in the gut to you but I HIGHLY doubt anyone on this blog is stupid enough to prefer a baby to starve to death over having formula. were talking about parents who can and do choose.

  537. chrissyb says:

    548 I understand that the comment is reffering to those who choose, but the way its worded is to lump everyone into one. And it kills me to hear people say “I couldn’t breastfeed because (fill in stupid reason here)”

    My point is just that it is hurtfull to make blanket statements like that. And it really sucks to have this constant need to explain it. Just me being really sensitive about it I guess.

  538. Myself says:

    545 – it means verbose, wordiness – and yes I looked it up

    448 – I guess I’m a bad mother who doesn’t care. My daughter wouldn’t nurse this morning, and sat their clawing at my breast but wouldn’t suck when attached, she is 10 months old and I gave her 3 ounces of formula, horrors!

  539. chrissyb says:

    Oh, and about the anyone being stupid enough to want a baby to starve. With DD (my second) I assumed my lack of milk with ds was a fluke and I could figure it out the second time around. I nearly starved her because when I thought she might not be getting enough milk I went to mothering.com to get advice. The advice was formula was evil, she was fine, I was producing enough. My gut told me I was wrong, which I posted, to which the reply was she was fine. At 2 weeks old I made a follow up with LC, DD was below her birth weight, and weighted feeding showed a total of 1/2 an ounce per feed. I will never forgive myself for following the advice of people so averse to formula they said to shun it at all costs. Yes, it is my fault, I should have never listened. But it kills me that the natural parenting movement includes such an aversion to formula as to create an environment that makes you feel like shit for just trying to feed your baby.

  540. naturalmamadot says:

    I would probably be sensitive about it as well, breastfeeding is extremely important and dear to me so I cant even imagine. But unless it makes you feel better, I think its a waste of your time to have to explain it each time It would probably just get *me* worked up each time instead of just ignoring the comment or assuming that they meant those who can and choose not to 🙂

  541. Juliankenziesmama says:

    Yeah the Pampers Parent comment is a little much. It seems to group everyone together and for that I find it offensive.

  542. naturalmamadot says:

    550 – doesnt mean you are a horrible mother, but I could think of quite a few things for why she might choose the bottle over the breast this morning. 3 oz of formula isnt gonna kill anyone but I would rather find out the root cause myself and then fix it. not being snarky.

  543. naturalmamadot says:

    side note. smartassmama, if you dont mind this reaction then by all means say whatever you want, but I like a lot of ppl here and I have discovered that cdn isnt really in line with my parenting so I shut my mouth about stuff like that on here haha.
    I dont want to get into it with the women on here or on cdn so i just shut up about it. Hence the low post counts lmao, I dont have much to sy that wouldnt get my ass jumped on so I dont. Some things I refuse to back down on (car seat safety) and everyone can bite me if they dotn like the plain ole facts but other stuff I just ignore and dont talk about on there, I have other places that I can talk to like minded parents and not offend anyone 🙂

  544. FunnyMama says:

    Gee, I formula-fed, turned my kiddo around in his carseat just before 2 years old, and he’s staying at G-ma’s tonight as a huge favor to DH and I (we haven’t been on a “date” in forever and with another baby on the way it’s going to be another forever until we go again). I’m not offended at all by the comment because I’m secure in my choices as a mother. I know that my child is healthy, happy, and smart, and no matter what phrase is coined to describe me nothing can change the fact that I’m an excellent mom by anyone’s standards.

  545. Hexe says:

    What happened to the mc thread? I can’t find it.

  546. DSDM2 says:

    It was pulled per her request. :insert eye roll:

  547. Hexe says:

    I can’t believe it. She has some serious issues. The whole point of having that thread then was to create more drama??? Screams for attention….
    I haven’t been online since 5pm, how did it go down? I mean did she not receive the answers she liked?

  548. Hexe says:

    DSDM2, do you have the posts on it? I would like to know what people told her.

  549. naturalmamadot says:

    MC just HAS to have some sort of mental instability, besides pregnancy lmao, she acts like a fucking loon

  550. magpiedpiper says:

    As someone who formula fed after struggling mightily with breast feeding and a kid who took over a month to get back to birth weight, then exclusively pumped for a long while, and smelled like fake maple syrup was dripping from my every pore (so gross btw!), I didn’t take offense to the Pampers Parents comment. I found it amusing. Plenty of people use “crunchy” as a derogatory parenting/lifestyle term, while we use it as a positive descriptor. A “pampers parent” might feel the same.

    I think when someone gets defensive it is because of insecurity or guilt over their choice/situation. I can agree that breastfeeding is best. That’s just fact. Sometimes life doesn’t allow us to do what is just plain best, so we have to go with the best we can for our situation. If we know that as a parent we did the best we could for our kid, then it’s silly to feel lumped in with a group that is obviously being portrayed as NOT TRYING to do what is best. *shrug*

    Just my two cents.

  551. Hexe says:

    Did anyone of you respond to the thread? Was that the reason she asked to have it removed?

  552. Myself says:

    nope I didn’t respond, too pissed about the situation to respond

  553. Hexe says:

    I just don’t get it. I mean, what was the purpose of the thread? What makes it different to fluffyasses threads?

  554. monkey says:


    Are you talking about the “online drama” thread?

    Because it’s showing up for me. I responded to it.

  555. DeviateFromTheNorm says:

    562- I share your two cents.

  556. smartassmama says:

    I definitely didn’t post that to upset or hurt anyone. My husband can have a strange sense of humor from time to time, and I probably shouldn’t have even mentioned it. I don’t even know what made me think of it. And I’m sorry if you were offended (anyone here), and I didn’t mean to lump. Men have no idea what’s that’s like anyhow, and I definitely don’t begrudge anyone a much needed, long awaited date night! My mom & sister kept our LOs at our home for the first night *ever* last night, and it was glorious. He (& I) mean the people who leave the kids every Friday & Saturday to go pretend they’re 18, single, and childless again. But I did not mean to offend, hurt, anger, or even irritate anyone. And for that, I do sincerely apologize. I really like all of you here! I was worried that the online mommy world was nothing but baby-talking, sunshine, and bunny farts until I found this blog and realized that there are other people like me who are parents. And I was only not posting because I was visiting family this evening. I wasn’t mad, definitely not offended, and I honestly wasn’t thinking when I posted that. You all called
    me on it, and I’m sorry. I’m definitely not gonna pull the ole “it wasn’t me! Not my IP” line 😉 hope I can be forgiven 🙂

  557. monkey says:


    I don’t think it’s guilt or insecurity, I think it’s feeling like you’re being called a failure. I ended up having an emergency c-section. I had a nightmare time breastfeeding (between the c-section and a breast reduction I had huge supply problems). I became obsessed with breast feeding because I felt like I had failed at giving birth.

    And even though people say, “Well we’re not talking about people who had a genuine emergency or real problems nursing.” there’s still this element of “you failed”. And even being told, “Well, we’re not talking about you” can hurt because it’s like they’re saying, “You poor thing, you’re broken it’s not your fault.” And I know that most people don’t mean it that way, but it’s still painful. And yes, it’s our personal issues/perceptions, but when you see people putting down women for non-natural childbirth, FF’ing etc. you still feel like a failure.

    It’s not as big an issue for me anymore. I’ve worked through my issues with what happened and I’m happy that I did the best I could and took care of my son, but I can totally understand why some women still get upset.

  558. monkey says:


    For what it’s worth, I honestly did not think you were intending to insult or hurt anyone.

    I’m just trying to point out that even things that aren’t meant to can hurt those of us who had birthing/nursing issues. And while yours was not meant to hurt, a lot of comments are. You would not believe the things I have been told about the problems I had. (I’ve talked about some of them on here, like the woman who said I shouldn’t say I had given birth because of my c-section.).

  559. smartassmama says:

    Not to make light of the fact that I shouldn’t have repeated it, at all, but I (nor my DH) didn’t mention C Sections. I know you mean that towards anyone who may judge, but I don’t want anyone who didn’t see that to think that I look down on people who’ve had CSs in any way. My mother had two (that’s why I’m here) & I was very close myself. I would never think to say anything negative about someone who’s had a C Section. My mother’s probably saved my life. She could not dilate. I would not, have not, will not harbor any negative feelings toward anyone who’s had a C-Section.

  560. smartassmama says:

    I just read that “how to avoid drama” thread. I think I e-crush MommyKeller 😉

  561. Kitty says:

    mmspirit- I didn’t get a strike for posting links and references to CDN and for my siggy until 3 days later… so you may not be safe yet.

  562. cheesewhiz says:

    #572 – Linky? Purty puh-lease?

  563. cheesewhiz says:

    Mu-ah! ((smartassmama))

  564. chrissyb says:

    FWIW smartassmama, I don’t think you said it to offend, and I actually know what you mean by the type of parent you are describing. My point was things are not always as they seem, some don’t make choices as much as they have them made for them.

    For whoever said it doesn’t bother you because you are confident in your choices, it’s differant when it wasn’t your choice. Mostly I stay away from talk of bf vs ff unless I see a mom struggling the way I did and she needs to hear that its ok if you try everything you can and it doesn’t work, its ok to give formula. I am confidant that I did everything I could and my kids are fine. But I still hate the fact that they were not EBF. I condier myself as a natural minded mama, but to a lot of other crunchy (I consider the term a compliment) families I am not nearly as good as them because my babbies got formula.

    Anyway, I am not particularly offended by anyone here. I don’t think you owe an apology, just thought I would offer a thought on the flip side of formula feeding, and how it feels to be called a bad parent for something you had no choice on.

  565. iken says:

    I wish had a screen shot of the Melissa’s T&F thread. I only read a couple of responses, but everyone was telling her to leave a positive, or something. So lame.

  566. DSDM2 says:

    I didn’t get the TF thread, but she was told by 3 or 4 people to leave negative.

  567. justme says:

    man i must be a horrible parent to some people.

    i use sposies when im lazy, i formula feed because my daughter wouldnt nurse after 4 months, and i pumped for another 4 months until i dried up. when we go to see our family our kids stay with our parents or grandparents so we can have a night out and yes we go to the club.

    oh & i have had 2 c-sections. second one was a scheduled c-section first was an emergancy.

    people should really avoid the blanket statements like that.

  568. mmspirit7 says:

    well happy2beamommy pmed me

    While I realize members can’t stand Fluffybutt, the only thing that will happen by “poking” her her is those who “poke” will be banned.

    Until she does something that is actually strike worthy again she will not be banned.

    Please,refrain from responding to her post…

    This is not a strike or anything, just a reminder to please ignore members you have an issue with.

  569. magpiedpiper says:

    monkey and chrissyb – thanks for your explanations. That does help me understand that viewpoint a little more. As for it being our choices – maybe that did not come out the way I meant it too. Because breastfeeding absolutely was my choice, and what I really wanted and obsessed over even though my dd and I would cry together at every feeding, and then I struggled to pump 3 oz for at least 30 min every two hours after that no matter what I did. I wasn’t spending any time with my LO.

    What I meant was that ultimately I had to make a decision that didn’t fit my philosophy, and I hated that decision and myself and others for a little while. But ultimately I’ve come to the realization that most don’t look down on me for my choice, and for those that do – well, haters can hate.

    That’s what I meant. I’m sorry if the use of the word “silly” by me originally was too flippant.

  570. Taterbug says:

    Yes, by all means, let’s just ignore the elephant in the room. Even though it’s stinking up the place.

  571. kukukachoo says:

    sounds like she is indeed on her last strike though

  572. Mylilgirls says:

    Whew, just caught up from this weekend! The fluff-n-stuff thread got pulled before I could read, but I wanted to mention that I find it odd that we were talking about e-stalking on this blog and then she goes and posts about it on DS. I mean, come on, come up with something original!

    MC’s issue is getting old. She’s still hung up on all that?

  573. monkey says:


    Boy do I totally understand that situation. I nursed until 6 months. Pumping and nursing around the clock. I really was obsessed. It was DH who finally sat me down and was like, “Babe, this is not healthy… you’re exhausted and you can’t enjoy your time with our child because of the pumping/nursing.” I had been supplementing with formula because DS was underweight (still is… he inherited it from his chronically underweight father). And it was such a relief to me, even though I felt horrible about it, to switch to formula and actually enjoy being with my son.

    Like I said, I don’t think anyone was trying to hurt feelings or say anyone was a bad mommy, I just like to let people know the other side of the coin. I think if people know how some of us feel it makes it easier for them to do what they actually want to do, which is support moms who are struggling with these issues. Talking to other moms on CDN was one of the ways I finally got over my issues with my c-section. And some great mommies gave me tons of info on VBAC so I’ll be prepared to stand up for what I want when that time comes.

  574. Myself says:

    did anyone notice that H2BAM has that “how to avoid drama” link in her siggy?

  575. Lori says:

    Thanks, DS, for editing my post. Sorry, but I figured any of the smilies that happen to be offered on the board could be used. Forgive my stupidity! Oh, and you know, that’s what I love to do. Stir up drama. Because obviously my post was recognizable to the majority of DS as “drama” – since you know, this blog isn’t A PART OF DS! I simply said to stop crying to your MAMA (or someone else who wants to protect their widdle baaaaaaaby from the ebil of the world) about things, and BUTT THE FUCK OUT of drama if you don’t want it. – It was good advice. You know, to not run around to somewhere off of DS and bitch about drama if you can’t take it. To not make “friends” with someone, and then sell them out as crazies. To grow up and put on your big girl undies! (and I don’t mean the granny panties that are stuck up your ass!)

    Again, sorry for the stupidz. Must be the baby brain. Jeesh.

  576. smartassmama says:

    What smile did they deem to be inappropriate?

    And fwiw, I have decided to start putting the elephant advocates on ignore. The asspatters. It’s obnoxious. Yes, we know there’s an ignore feature. Not that it matters, we still see that you posted, then curiosity is sparked. But I won’t accidentally buy from someone who’s an idiot.

  577. TL says:

    I’ve never understood the mama pissing contest when it comes to BF and FF and cloth diapering. I think we all get that BF is the best thing to feed a baby, but you’re not abusing your child by ff it. Why others take so much interest in what other people do with their children is beyond me. If the child is being abused/neglected etc.. I get saying something. FWIW I did breast feed, I just don’t care what anyone else fed their baby as long as its fed.

    I also don’t buy the whole I didn’t mean to offend. How some one could not get that some one would get offended about that is beyond me.

  578. Lori says:

    589 – the “yack, yack, yack” smiley.. and all of my post before my ETA. 🙂

  579. FunnyMama says:

    dude, the whole issue of FFing and BFing and CDing and BWing and who does it and who doesn’t and who’s offended and who’s not is really harshing my mellow. That BS needs to stay on DS where it belongs; I don’t think anyone on this blog at this point is passive-aggressive. If she meant to offend someone, she’d be very clear about it. If you’re happy with your choices as a mother, it shouldn’t matter WTF other people say.

    IMO we need to all put on our BGPs and stick to the real issues at hand: MC and F.

    (FTR, I tried to use as many applicable acronyms as possible, TYVM.)

  580. smartassmama says:

    I am at a loss for acronyms. fml.


  581. iken says:

    Whoot, whoot, @ 592! l agree. I want more fartsie, less artsie.

  582. FunnyMama says:

    And now I have done my mitzvah for the day. You’re all very welcome.

  583. Myself says:

    What do you all think about those who were thinking of donating diapers etc….. to MC? What should they do? ASSume it is already in the works and mostly done

  584. mylilgirls says:

    596-uggg, that’s a tough one. If I were one that had donated I’d be pretty pissed right about now.

    I don’t think it would be the slightest bit out of line to back out and write a note explaining why. I mean, by self admission she knows she didn’t handle the situation well.

  585. magpiedpiper says:

    Oh, I forgot they were going to do that. Eep! That adds an interesting twist. I guess they could just to be super nice, but if MC now thinks the transaction was partially her fault somehow, and ultimately leaves positive…I say donate to the Pandas instead? Or some other deserving mama.

  586. Myself says:

    OK, does anyone know a mother in need of 12 nb diapers?

  587. Munklettes says:

    599 – Jessi (RocketQueen) on CDN will need a TON of diapers!

  588. Munklettes says:

    I can’t post 😦

  589. Myself says:

    601 – you just did post

  590. Aj says:

    Fluffyass hasn’t posted on DS since 8:30 this morning; that’s gotta be a new record!

  591. mylilgirls says:


    This one is from nattybats hometown. I rarely visit news and current events, but I was bored. Anyway, somehow this story is going to tie back into her BIL. I just know it.

  592. amessymama says:

    I must have missed something. MC thinks that the diaper fiasco might have been partly her fault? Did she say how?

    She’s definitely a drama whore. I sensed it after the first few times she said she never gets involved in drama then came an reported every single response she got from a mod. I was thinking, for someone not involved in drama she sure likes to pass it around and around……

  593. rainbow says:

    I wish that in the whole MC/bethsflutterby thing that we could actually know what the other side of the story was. I mean, if a whole bunch of people were in mediation with bethsflutterby, I wonder what part of it all MC played? Interesting.

  594. monkey says:


    Definitely Jessi! She’s awesome, she’s not a drama whore and OMG she’s expecting twins in a foreign country! And as another overseas mama I can tell you that cd’ing overseas is wickedly expensive because you can’t buy anything where you are and have to have everything shipped internationally.

  595. magpiedpiper says:

    Yes, definitely donate to Jessi, and her bebe girl and boy twins, aka The Pandas!

  596. smartassmama says:

    Sadly, I think I’ll just avoid any FSOTs from either of them. It is a completely confusing situation, to say the least.

  597. juliankenziesmama says:

    I am one that was gonna send MC some dipes. DS mamas have been amazing to my family over the past year and I try to help and give back when I can. After reading her post and being aware of the outcome I won’t be sending.
    I will be giving the them to my BIL….it’s only four but I am working on finding my nephew some NB squishiness 🙂

  598. Myself says:

    608 – it has been up for awhile, the only reason it would go poof is because MC and H2baM posted on it – falling under the “outing” rule

  599. screenname says:

    MC’s post is gone.

  600. mylilgirls says:

    I wonder if she asked that it be pulled too. That may be an ASSumption, but still….it’s her MO lately.

  601. Myself says:

    H2BaM added to her post in the thread

    “After reading through this thread I believe I know which parties were involved in the feedback being questioned here. Both parties entered mediation willingly and things seem to have been sorted out very well. FWIW, I think some members are beginning to try to create drama in regards to the situation being questioned in this thread. If you are not involved first hand in a transaction with the party/parties in question then you are going of hearsay. Not really a very fair (or mature!) thing to do.”

  602. amessymama says:

    Hearsay? Is it hearsay when it comes from the mouth of either party?

    I haven’t seen the thread in question, so maybe I’m way off base.

  603. melmelly says:

    From the quote in 615-“If you are not involved first hand in a transaction with the party/parties in question then you are going of hearsay. Not really a very fair (or mature!) thing to do.”

    Last I checked, it isn’t considered “hearsay” if ONE of the TWO involved is the one feeding info to people, then those people are repeating it. So that would make it first-hand information. Second-hand information is hearsay. Does H2BaM have a ball of wax stuck in her brain?

  604. melmelly says:

    Great mind amessymama!

  605. smartassmama says:

    I know this is totally o/t, but A few blogs ago I saw a lot of references to Werd’s pads. Werd, do you have a Hyena Cart page or something? After 18+ months, Aunt Flo has returned. And as much as I’d like to beat her in the head, I’ve come to terms with it. But the small collection of pads I had has dwindled down to 2 :/ I need to bite the bullet!

  606. melmelly says:

    Okay ladies! I am making my dinner and I have read all the comments up to 619. I am going to need some reading material in about 20-30 minutes.



  607. Myself says:

    620 – sorry can’t help you

    still pissed at being called immature, silly and guilty of heresay

  608. mylilgirls says:

    It would also be a very different situation if so many people hadn’t offered the ‘victim’ in the transaction so many nice diapers because of her side of the story. It’s not just about the two involved in the transaction anymore. It’s also now about the many others who offered their fabric and time and diapers to give MC warm fuzzies and make the best out of a bad situation (as she made everyone believe).

  609. MotherMoonPads says:

    #622, I’ll admit that’s what I’m upset about.

  610. kukukachoo says:

    Is Cinderella from CDN here? Nice YAGE on DS!


  611. Messy says:

    #624 will poof soon. Sad they are losing a long time member with so much activity because of what DS has become…

  612. amessymama says:

    melmelly, I actually thought I was losing my mind for a minute, glad someone else was thinking the same thing as me. 🙂

    Here ya go, Smartass (tee hee 😀 )


    You may want to be careful, her pads have magic baby making powers. 🙂

  613. Taterbug says:

    #619: She has a HC, but she sold out of everything at lightening speed on her first stocking. I hear you can find her on CDN or AMH.

  614. amessymama says:

    Dang, I guess I’m happy. Smilie over-load much!!

  615. theinvisible says:

    It’s already gone….

  616. screenname says:

    622 – You nailed it. I hope no one has mailed any diapers yet. If MC is SOOOO happy with the outcome that she’s willing to leave a positive, then she obviously doesn’t need any of the help that was offered to her. I guess I’m just glad that she showed her true colors sooner rather than later.

  617. Taterbug says:

    622-It’s also about all the people in the future who might actually be in the situation that MC claimed to be in. They might not be offered any help because of this.

  618. Messy says:

    The whole MC thing bothered me because I felt like she was using the death of her son to make people feel more sorry for what would have normally just been a transaction gone bad… She was looking for sympathy and obviously got it. I left a nasty taste in my mouth after I thought about it for a while.
    Now this latest twist just proves, to me, that she was going for what she could get from everyone involved and everyone NOT involved for that matter.

  619. smartassmama says:

    Poo. I’m wanting something instock 😦 the ones that my daughter thinks are toys (thoroughly cleaned, promise) were plain-Jane Happy Heinys. The inners had shrunk, so they were awkward. I guess I’ll just have to scour HC or somethin.

    And it’s ok. 😉 I have an IUD. And co-sleep. I might just be the exception. I’ll keep an eye there though!

  620. smartassmama says:

    Not inners. Insides. :doh:

    631 – that’s what I wad thinking.

  621. magpiedpiper says:

    Quick OT – but really, is it common practice to clean your fridge with PINESOL? Maybe I’m the only one who gags at the thought of that though, I don’t know.

  622. FunnyMama says:

    635 – that is downright disgusting. I HATE the smell of Pinesol to begin with, and to have it in your fridge is super grody.

  623. Aj says:

    So, I missed Cinderellas YAGE. What did she say?

  624. Munklettes says:

    635 Ewwww!

  625. Hexe says:

    # 624 what was it about?

    MC created drama to get attention. The transaction was still negative even if it has been sorted, I mean should mediation allways be involved ? The question to leave positive is rediculous and the “drama” thread started by her is pathetic. She should have printed out that article and put it on her wall. If someone needs instructions aboutr how not to create drama it is her. And the ‘please take the thread down now, I got all the attention I wanted’ pisses me off big time.

  626. magpiedpiper says:

    Good. Glad I’m not the only one. I saw on fluffy’s latest blog that she is using pine sol to clean her smelly fridge and I wanted to yak. I can’t imagine everything in my fridge smelling like that, let alone eating food that touched it. But wasn’t sure if it was something that normal people actually do and I just wasn’t in the loop.

  627. Hexe says:

    #631 I have no doubt that the transaction went wrong and that the diapers were not usable, but it pisses me off that after ‘moderation’ everything is fine. Even if the issues have been worked out, future buyers have a right to know about this WHAMS work. The fb feature is completely useless if people do not use it correctly or adjust it because they feel like it.

  628. Hexe says:

    # 640 I doubt that she cleans at all, when would she do that?

  629. Myself says:

    Cinderella got banned from DS and told off the mod who told her she was banned!!!!


  630. sheepthrills says:

    OK I had resisted and not actually gone to *look* at Werd’s pads until that link was posted. FFS. Babymaking properties be damned, I’ve got to have me some of those. I’ve put off buying myself MC long enough!

  631. sciencefair says:

    642 – maybe there are some cooter ketchup pics that explain the smell…something fishy perhaps?

  632. Rella says:

    Hiya – I’m cinderella08 from DS and cinderella on CDN. Yup, h2bam just banned me for that post in my DDC and I spoke my mind “nicely” VIA PM after she banned me…. Stupidest reason ever and my post wasn’t ban-worthy. W/E I’m happy to be outa there.

    I posted – that I was leaving diaperswappers because I was tired of some drama that seemed to be prevailing lately and I was also having major virus issues. I said that they could find me on facebook or also elsewhere – never mentioned another board. I just wanted to tell my DDC members goodbye.

    H2BAM felt that was ban-worthy.

  633. justme says:

    i give fluffy like 5 seconds before she deletes my comment on her blog. but i couldnt help myself this time.

    your a dumbass. seriously. get a life. clean a little more often then maybe your fridge wouldnt smell like dead fish. do you put your shoes in there after you stick them in your cooch?


  634. justme says:

    oh wait. i just realized she has them in moderation. so im sure she wont post it.

  635. thewayhome says:

    Her latest post

    Just a message to all the stalkers and people that will not leave me and my family alone.

    I WILL be pressing charges. I AM going to the police. A family friend is a detective and after my mother calling him and then me calling him and him seeing a few of the messages he is going to make a case.


    If you’ve harrased me or my family in the past this is a friendly warning.. I will press charges.
    Ugh sigh, whatever

  636. sciencefair says:

    Isn’t her hubby home now? Why is she spending so much time on the freaking internet still.

    Felishuu – here is a friendly warning: NOT spending time with a man you haven’t seen for months does not strengthen your marriage.

    I am guessing you are feeling popular. I mean your blog has had TONS of hits for only being around a short time. I mean dang, you are at the top of the google list…right after the suggested corrected spellings. If I were you, I would shut up and monetize the blog. No wait, don’t shut up it gets you more $.

  637. Kelolsen says:

    I really want to know when extended rear facing b/c “crunchy” or “AP”. IMO it doesn’t fit the categorty at all. How is ERF a “green” way of living OR an attachment parenting issue. Its just a car seat issue. Believe it or not, its extemely possible to be green as all get out, and your child *gasp* rides forward.

  638. Myra says:

    And a person can be not crunchy and ERF.

    I don’t really know that many people who are 100% Pampers Parents. Most do at least one or two things that would be considered crunchy.

    And seriously, Felisha, you perpetuate the drama with posts like that. Just be honest with yourself and admit that you love this. It’s the first step.

  639. FunnyMama says:

    She totally cannot press charges for comments on her blog. :inset massive eyeroll: But you know who CAN press charges?? If her husband really cheated on her like she has said alllllll over the interwebz, the Army can press charges. He could get tried and even if he wasn’t found guilty he could be dishonorably discharged. I don’t think she understands that if she pursues “Internet harrassment” that her ENTIRE internet history will be scrutinized.

  640. FunnyMama says:

    inset* – Elmo was distracting me

  641. FunnyMama says:

    insert** Really, Elmo?

  642. mylilgirls says:

    Felisha, if you’re reading this (and I’m sure you are). Understand that if your mom’s family friend detective lives in Kansas and you live in MO, there’s not a damn thing he can do for YOU. It’s a little issue of jurisdiction my dear, and he has none if he lives in another state.

    I also really hope you’re ready for the fallout if a true investigation does ensue because once they get your screen names and IP’s and start digging, I guarantee they are going to have to tell you that posting all the info and pics online, plus responding to everyone, on top of not taking anyone’s advice and MAKING YOUR BLOG/FB/MYSPACE/ETC PRIVATE, that they can’t help you. They will tell you point blank that you are partially at fault and will give you internet safety tips. Then those poor IT investigators will have to go bleach their eyes out.

    If you actually pursue this I hope you know what you’re getting into.

  643. DSDM2 says:

    So… someone find new drama. I’m totally over MC and FluffyAss (and I am totally not into mama-wars.)

  644. Myra says:

    MC/Felisha-like drama, mommy war drama and scammer drama were the only kinds I ever saw on DS.

    So where’s Meg when you need her?

  645. Aj says:

    Seriously, where has Meg been?

  646. JustPeachy says:

    Meg’s been drama free for a while now so I don’t quite understand the comments.

  647. Aj says:

    Just wondering where she’s been, that’s all.

  648. Myself says:

    Who is Meg?

  649. MotherMoonPads says:

    Anyone ever figure out what happened to tat2boutique?

  650. Myself says:

    664 – last time someone asked about her, I checked her profile on DS and she had been active recently

  651. theinvisible says:

    Not drama…just wondering. Is this the camellama(?) mama from DS or just another grandma’s wool blanket user?

  652. FunnyMama says:

    I haven’t read the whole thread, but I never understood why some people post about their SOs cheating or potentially cheating in Off Topic…


  653. Aj says:

    667, that girl’s all kinds of drama. I believe she was banned for a while actually, but has been kind of flying under the radar for a while. If things go as they should I’m sure her drama whoring will increase soon and she’ll be banned again. Why can’t people learn from their mistakes?

  654. FunnyMama says:

    One to watch, eh?

  655. MotherMoonPads says:

    #666, that looks like her 🙂

    #665, I’ll have to look her up. Her HC has been inactive for a while, and I wanted to try one of her diapers.

  656. Myself says:

    I thought you weren’t allowed to post that you were heading to the airport to pick up your husband if you were military?

    Though I guess it depends on how far you are from the airport. Though anyone reading her stupid blog would realize he is on his way with her references to a gift from Ireland or Kuwait.

    Way to tell someone where he is stationed. :doh:

  657. Kelolsen says:

    I agree that any lawyer who saw the “evidence” in this “case” would probably say “you have no case here” or “you’ve perpetuated this too much yourself for me to want to take this case”.

  658. amessymama says:

    666-Dang, 5 bucks for a doll diaper. Made out of old fabric. That’s a little much!

  659. iken says:

    at #666 Her DS username is momof3under3

  660. screenname says:

    A doll diaper that has no snaps or aplix?

    I like how she has NO RETURNS in red at the end of her post. That instills a sense of confidence in her sewing abilities.

  661. smartassmama says:

    I’m not like, super thrilled with her goods. I’m not a great seamstress, but I’m ok. And I could make that stuff for myself. It looks like she’s using an overstitch instead of a serger, which is fine, but obvious. It works fine on the wipes I’ve made, but I wouldn’t pay someone to do it for me. Just my 2cents.

  662. sciencefair says:

    #666 that is some not fabulous workmanship. I mean, I would rather use the zigzag stitch on my super basic machine and do my own upcycling. At least then I won’t be pissed about wonky stitching AND uneven cutting.

  663. me says:

    668- Why would she have been banned? I thought she just wasn’t on for a while?

  664. Aj says:

    :dunno: I could be thinking of someone else…

  665. iken says:

    Sorry to beat a dead horse, but the MC saga continues…. I will grab some screenshots of the thread.

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  666. Hexe says:

    I thought that thread was even deleted. Now it is back again? Feedback on ds means nothing and I mean not hypothetically.

  667. mylilgirls says:

    re-666-My word that’s some terrible sewing. Sorry, but it is. And when you’re trying to sell something, do yourself a favor and take decent pics. I’m particularly intrigued by the longies at the bottom that appear to have 2 different length legs.

  668. Myself says:

    681 – what the FLIP? That is fricking ridiculous!

  669. amessymama says:

    I think MC has multiple personalities. I don’t really care for any of them.

  670. magpiedpiper says:

    So she is saying that she was being nasty and malicious originally? Meaning her story was not true?

    So MC is admitting to being a bish and a liar. Interesting.

  671. naturalmamadot says:

    The whole thing is fucked up, shes really pissed a lot of ppl off, those who wanted to help her so badly and made things for her plus those who stood up for her and felt emotion on her behalf for being “wronged”. Now it all comes out shes a liar, a fake and a bitch. I say good riddance from CDN, I hope she gets what she deserves on DS, a fucked up computer and scammed out of a large amount of money.

  672. Myself says:

    Well I’ve added three people to my do not b/s/t list , ugh

  673. FunnyMama says:

    So can I safely assume that she’s only expressed in public posts that the situation was rectified and hasn’t contacted individual “donors” directly?

  674. naturalmamadot says:

    All of MCs personalities?

  675. mylilgirls says:

    ugg I can’t believe I read all 9 pages of ‘Do you ask others to take their shoes off when they come to your house’ thinking there might be drama cause it was so long.

    On the MC deal….has she gone completely bat shit crazy?

  676. theinvisible says:

    I suspect MC was a bit crazy to begin with. I was baffled by the passion thread on cdn. I can only sum it up by using an example. Let’s say I identify myself as a member of PETA. When someone asks me if I am therefor involved in the advancement of animal rights I say NO, I just like to stir the animal people up a bit and keep them on their toes. I’m actually a beef eater to the nth degree and kick my dog every day just because I can. Yes, I’m most definitely a member of PETA.
    It was nuts I tell you. She seems very confused.

  677. mylilgirls says:

    Yeah the passion thread got to be a bit much. I quit reading when it got to be too much for my little brain to handle. I can’t imagine joining a board and immediately running and starting a thread in a forum such and hot buttons. It’s like “Hi, I’m new, come attack me.”

  678. amessymama says:

    She’s a master of double talk. And she’s so sickening sweet. I think her diet consist of nothing but saccharin. It’s like she’s a lab rat for Trident gum. Every time I would read one of her post, I could visualize the :goodvibes: smiley.

    She posts like she has convictions, yet she seems to not understand what she’s talking about.

    And wordy. OMG all she had to do sometimes was answer yes or no, yet she goes into this long, elaborate story about some crazy ass family and that family’s extended family.

    I was through with her real quick.

  679. smartassmama says:

    Am I the only one being logged out of DS a few times today? I got a little worried that I was banned too. :p

  680. kukukachoo says:

    i was one of the people who brought forth my testimony to help MC. i would have never taken my dissatisfaction to admin if it weren’t for hearing about coffey’s plight. so melissa, thanks girl for letting me stick my neck out there for nothing. :thumbsup:

  681. Myself says:

    689 – I can’t speak for all donors but she didn’t contact me at all

  682. jakesmom says:

    Lookie they are going to start a blog now on DS??? WTH?

  683. smartassmama says:

    Where’d ya see that? I must’ve missed it.
    Wonder how long til it’s infected.

  684. me says:

    699- It is a post by Juan.
    It looks like a ripoff of BabyCenter’s mom blog things that started a few years ago.

  685. looking and lurking says:

    I like how Juan says to post here if you’re interested, but it seems to be in a forum that only admin can post in.

  686. ladylili says:

    I think I am a little behind on all of this but have any of the donors contacted MC to say “hey wth?” From an outsider pov this whole thing is SO shady.

  687. Myself says:

    paraphrasing – I said I found out it was resolved. Did she still need the diapers I was having done? If not, a mama having twins could really use them. Was it okay to send to them? Thanks, please let me know

    She sent back that it was resolved with sm/md diapers. But she traded for 12 nb and has 18 total now so it’s okay to send to the mama with twins.

    That’s the gist.

  688. smartassmama says:

    How nice of her to tell you before you sent them. Then she’d have too many. That would be sad.

  689. Myself says:

    The diapers are still in the process of being made. I sent OBV and enough of 12 different prints to make 12 nb diapers.

    The mama I sent them to graciously gave of her time, plus snaps.

    Upon seeing the resolution, she is waiting a few weeks to finish up the diapers as she needs to get some other things done that are time crucial.

    But, MC never told me about a resolution, I found out on the blog and just didn’t do anything about the knowledge until yesterday.

  690. mylilgirls says:

    Myself-it was so nice of her to grant you permission to send them to someone else /sarcasm.

  691. Myself says:

    706 – yup (thanks for telling me it was sarcasm, cause I really suck at telling when people are sarcastic :err:)

  692. Hexe says:

    #705 Did you let her know that you would have appreciated if she would have told you of the outcome?
    And how was the ‘positive transaction’ solved after all? Did the seller make new diapers or did she give her diapers to trade for nb diapers?
    I can’t believe that MC doesn’t appologize to the people she brought into this drama and that she did not contact the people who offered diapers to her, that is so shady.
    But at least she is good with her beloved moderators which she trashed in the beginning as well.

  693. Myself says:

    708- nope I didn’t. I’m a confrontation – wary person. You have to get me red cherry hot angry for me to confront.

    The person purchase sm and med diapers for MC. MC traded wool for the 12 nb diapers she has, no idea about the other 6

  694. Hexe says:

    Unbelievable. She is not sewing new diapers for her because she obviously cannot sew. She buys diapers for MC and therefore the transaction has been positive. I don’t get it. But nice that MC wants other customers to have the same fantastic experience. Thank you MC

  695. FunnyMama says:

    DS is becoming a cesspool, plain and simple.

  696. monkey says:



  697. sciencefair says:

    MC is a twatwaffle. The whole freaking situation pisses me off and I wasn’t even one of the nice people that volunteered to give her stuff. I thought she was just an over reactive hormonal woman, now i know it was all TWS – Twat waffle syndrome.

    Thanks for making my TWT MC, thank you very much.

  698. FunnyMama says:

    713 – good point.

  699. BFF says:

    In RE: to my post #391. What a douchenozzle. It’s not ‘good vibes’ I was thinking was passive-agressive, it was the one with the thumbs up. The blue one. What a dorkus.

  700. Messy says:

    Ok, is nobody going to say something to the chick from the CDN link at #666. Seriously, she CANNOT sell stuff like *that on CDN esp with a “no returns” policy. I don’t think anyone will buy it but she is scouting people for trades… Good sweet mamas are going to get screwed 😦 Cuz if I got that crap in the fluff mail, I would cry.

  701. Myself says:

    717 – What should we say ? That her stuff looks like crap and that we would never buy it?

  702. MotherMoonPads says:

    lol, #718.

    Really though, what should be said about it? I would hope that potential buyers could look at the pictures and judge for themselves the quality of the items?

  703. melmelly says:

    I don’t think I could even sew like that drunk and with my eyes closed.

  704. Myself says:

    If I sewed drunk and with my eye closed I would sew my hands together

  705. melmelly says:

    From the link in 666:
    outer- flannel
    inner- terry or warm and natural (your choice)

    Whoa, wait a sec! Warm and natural? As in the batting for a quilt? Is that a new thing to add as a soaker for a cloth pad? My personal ones have hemp jersey and hemp terry. But Warm and Natural? I will make sure and pick some up next time I am at the quilt shop and/or JoAnn’s!

  706. melmelly says:

    Well at least some of the initial pain wouldn’t be so bad. But the next morning? It might be a toss up between a hangover and sewn up hands! LOL

  707. melmelly says:

    and the duplicate comment thing is really starting to irk me.

  708. Myself says:

    Nah, the hangover would be worse.

    I’ve never been hungover ever. And I can take a ton of pain meds for the hands. You know, go to the hospital and have them drug me up (joking)

    The duplicate thing has been ticking me off for awhile but I figure there is nothing I can do so oh well

  709. screenname says:

    Camallama has actually came quite a long way with her stuff. I still wouldn’t buy it (especially the wonky sized “unpaper” towels) but I definitely see improvement.


    This new seller…I wish someone would just let wanna-be WAHMs know that it isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. If I’m going to spend my money on something, I want quality stuff that will hold up to washing and use. If you want to earn money at home, just watch another kid during the day. You’d make more than most mediocre WAHMs and not get your name trashed all over the internet when you send out subpar products. But who really wants to have that sit-down with her?

  710. Messy says:

    I DUNNO WHAT TO SAY ROFLMAO! That is why I asked if anyone was GOING to LOL!!! My jaw hit the floor when I saw that crap. How can she not see an issue.
    It was when I saw her asking other mamas (whom I adore) about trades that blew my mind! I hope they know she is not skilled but I would be so upset if I got that shit…

  711. theinvisible says:

    The lack of sewing skills is one thing. The lack of cutting ability is entirely another. She mentions that she will post more pictures as she completes more. I truly believe she just decided she wanted in on the action, started sewing for the first time ever and started a thread…all in the same day.

  712. Myself says:

    I sent her to this thread.


  713. smartassmama says:

    And that is why I only sew for pleasure. It doesn’t look good enough for the shipping it would cost, but it’s functional for us. My wipes are flannel from Walmart. My kids’ butts don’t care if they are ugly. But I’m pretty sure anyone who might accidentally buy them would! I envy those with the skill and patience though. Hell, I don’t even understand HC very well (and I don’t know why I just admitted it). I’m very computer literate, but couldn’t set up an Etsy/Hyena Cart page to save my life. Let alone make it spiffy.

  714. theinvisible says:

    As much as I hate it when someone gets their feelings hurt, I’m glad you did. A sewing wahm is a professional seamstress. That means a professional product that is as good or better than something mass produced. The skill level I see is beginner at best and she should not be selling her product to people who are expecting a professional product. The materials used even indicate a lack of understanding of function of materials used, etc. Just get some practice, use the products you make, fine tune them and then try again.

  715. MotherMoonPads says:

    #722, it’s pretty common to use warm and natural, actually. I’ve used it in the past. It’s very absorbent after being prepped.

  716. Messy says:

    #731 ITA! I mean, what can someone say??? The pieces are not even cut out nicely.
    I have seen people who can work without a serger and do a damn good job. That mama is not one of them though. Her stitches are uneven somehow ??? I don’t even know how they can be so off… But the quirky crappy cutting is HORRIBLE. Compare her wares thread to the others. Just pic for pic on the breastfeeding pads and the other stuff. There is a serious learning curve not being met there…

  717. Taterbug says:

    722-I believe that there are a couple of free pad patterns floating around online that suggest cotton quilt batting as a soaker option. For DIYers on a budget. I dunno, the mental image I get from that materials list puts me in mind of a shoe.

  718. thewayhome says:

    722 I admit I’ve used the warm and natural stuff to make pads for myself. Just cause I bought some for a project and had extra. I would never think of selling it though.

    So, far it’s worked okay. (hides)

  719. FunnyMama says:

    My kasloppis actually started itching thinking about Warm & Natural in a pad. I’m glad it’s worked for y’all, but I would never use a pad with it.

  720. MotherMoonPads says:

    Just for the record, I don’t use it in my pads for sale (I’m a zorb girl) 🙂 I made a few of them with some leftover Warm and Natural about a year or so ago.

  721. JustPeachy says:

    Kasloppis???????? Thats a new one for sure!

  722. FunnyMama says:

    I stole it from Chelsea Handler of “Chelsea Lately” fame

  723. kissmyass (AKA urassholes; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    I am the one that has the reuse caboose thread and i think its best if people try my work B4 they bash it!


    Do some research and W&N is very absorbent! each layer holds 1/8 c liquid which is good for mama cloth!

    I have NEVER had a hyena cart thread the only thing i have on there is a spots ad that for some i bought on ds from another mama

    I am trying to make money for my family but i see that DS is ALL about drama and its stupid

  724. kissmyass says:

    I am the one that has the reuse caboose thread and i think its best if people try my work B4 they bash it!


    Do some research and W&N is very absorbent! each layer holds 1/8 c liquid which is good for mama cloth!

    I have NEVER had a hyena cart thread the only thing i have on there is a spots ad that for some i bought on ds from another mama

    I am trying to make money for my family but i see that DS is ALL about drama and its stupid.

    it looks better in real life i am not the best at taking pics

  725. Messy says:

    Ok, I make things differently for me than I do for others or to sell (mind you, I only sell breastfeeding pads on ebay). But when I make gifts (the bulk of my making), I do things NICELY. For instance, the last batch of 100 wipes we just made for here at home, I used the wonky edge pieces and make *similarly sized* wipes with a curve or whatever, but they are for HERE not for someone else to get screwed with, KWIM?
    FTR, I would not even make things like what the link on #666 has for sale for us to use here at home.

  726. Myself says:

    Got TWO messages from #666


    # 1 – I’m gonna delete my thread cause people can’t appreciate them, I was just trying to do something for my family

    # 2 -thanks for this, I’m leaving both sites, now everyone thinks I’m a joke

    When did it become MY fault? Farking frack flip frick ! (GRRR!)

    Next time, someone else gets to message them.

  727. Sala says:

    re: 666 – we just want you to not sell your stuff, you can stay at the sites! But I’m embarrassed FOR you! If you sold or traded items like the ones pictured, I’m afraid you’d show up on one of these posts as the main attraction, not just a passing glance. Everyone needs to start somewhere, but really, you need to show your stuff to other people to see if it’s really worth your time and effort – sewing takes skill and not all of us have it (I’m certainly not great at it).

  728. kissmyass (AKA urassholes; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    i was trying to do good but i should of know people are just about drama so go fuck yourself

  729. Messy says:

    I couldn’t message her because I didn’t know what to say…
    That said, if you want to sell stuff, you have to learn to GROW and get better and “see what the buyer sees”.
    Owning a sewing machine does not make one a WAHM.

  730. Myself says:

    I was told by said mama to tell you all that you can

    “come kiss her ass”

  731. thewayhome says:

    742. Really, my sewing machine instructions came with a note saying if you buy and use this machine you are a world class seamstrist


  732. monkey says:


    Aw. I feel bad for her. But better she hears it here and now than from an irate customer down the road.

  733. Messy says:

    #743 And here I was feeling badly that she was upset… I hate to tick off CDN’ers because it is such an awesome group. That said, I would hate to see someone take her up on a trade sight unseen, KWIM?
    Sounds like she just showed up there to sell her stuff :::shakehead:::

  734. Messy says:

    And can you imagine how she would have handled the response from a victim… I mean trade partner or buyer :::err:::? She would have flipped out. That would be an unpleasant WWYD thread if I ever saw one ROFL!

  735. magpiedpiper says:

    I’m sorry she’s taking it so poorly. I guess better for her to find out now than later that her skill is very clearly not selling quality though. Just because it’s usable doesn’t mean you should sell it.
    Camallama (or whatever her name is) is a good example of someone who started out with subpar sewing skills, and with practice has become decent, but even in the beginning she could at least cut straight lines IIRC. I still wouldn’t purchase from her, because I myself can sew subpar to decent, and if I’m shelling out money it’s because it’s to someone much more skilled than I.

  736. monkey says:

    I think the big problem is that people don’t recognize sewing for the skill it is… I think there’s this idea that because it has a “functional purpose” it’s something anyone can pick right up. They don’t appreciate that it’s a craft and has to be honed.

    I mean, nobody goes out, buys a used parachute and says, “Hey, I’m a parachutist now. Pay me to be in your airshow.”

  737. thewayhome says:


    For Sale Parachute used once small stain

  738. melmelly says:

    749 – EXACTLY!

    My mom taught me how to hand-sew when I was 5, and then machine sew when I was 10. When I was 27 I started to sew tote bags and purses. But I didn’t start to sell them until two years ago. I felt like I had more improvements to make in my sewing, so I waited. It took me three years, and my bags still look pretty much the same, just more creative now. I just needed that extra little boost in confidence to know that I could sell them and not be worried about someone being unhappy. But I still worry about someone being unhappy about a bag, but I do my best and try to price as best as I possibly can.

    Just because one knows how to use a sewing machine doesn’t mean that an item coming out from under the feed dogs is suitable to sell. It takes lots of practice.

  739. Messy says:

    #750 But was it made with a recycled “granny blanket”???

  740. thewayhome says:

    752 never opened, just used once. Contents unknown???

  741. Grogwench says:

    I don’t know why people get so upset when they are told their “skill” sucks. I would want to know if my stuff was sub-par BEFORE I sold it to someone. Then again, I’d probably have testers first, too.

  742. thewayhome says:

    Yes, but when you state No Returns, that doesn’t even make sense if you are the worlds best at sewing.

  743. Messy says:

    If I made that crap, I would say no returns too! I would not want it back!!!

    BTW, my chihuahua just walked across my sewing machine peddle the other day and “sewed” on a wipe. I will be profiling him as the newest WAHM in town!!!

  744. werd says:

    I will never understand WHY people think that sewing pads is soooooo easy. Its definitely not! There is this sudden wave of pad makers and it makes me laugh when I see that they charge more than I do, but their sewing is AWFUL!

    I really don’t think you can just buy a sewing machine and sell a week later. I don’t even think you can practice and practice and be a great seamstress, without a degree of talent. It seems like so many people are desperate to make money, that they think being WAHM is an easy way to cash in. It’s definitely NOT. Its a ton of work and its a job like any other. Some days, I absolutely do NOT want to sew, but I do it anyways because I have taken people’s money and they are expecting a product.

    I rarely have 2nd quality pads (I rip them out and re-sew them if at all possible) but when I do, I won’t even sell them. I FFS them or give them away – I just don’t believe in charging for something that isn’t first quality. I’m VERY picky, though!

  745. Sala says:

    re: 666 – I’m embarrassed FOR her! If she sold or traded items like the ones pictured, I’m afraid she’d show up on one of these posts as the main attraction, not just a passing glance. Everyone needs to start somewhere, but really, you need to show your stuff (and not just sell your stuff) to other people to see if it’s really worth your time and effort to continue. Sewing takes skill and not all of us have it.

    I just suspect that some women want to make a little money on the side and they see others making money selling these wares. It doesn’t require great amounts of capital or equipment to make and sell pads and dipes, so it’s got to be easy, right? But if the basic skills (one would hope at least intermediate skills, but even basic is good) aren’t there, it’s not going to go well.

  746. Sala says:

    re: 666 – I’m embarrassed FOR her! If she sold or traded items like the ones pictured, I’m afraid she’d show up on one of these posts as the main attraction, not just a passing glance. Everyone needs to start somewhere, but really, you need to show your stuff (and not just sell your stuff) to other people to see if it’s really worth your time and effort to continue. Sewing takes skill and not all of us have it.

    I just suspect that some women want to make a little money on the side and they see others making money selling these wares. It doesn’t require great amounts of capital or equipment to make and sell pads and dipes, so it’s got to be easy, right? But if the basic skills (I would hope at least intermediate skills, but even basic is good) aren’t there, it’s not going to go well.

  747. kelolsen says:

    sewing pads when you can’t sew…. wonky as hell sewing… looking for trades for your poorly sewn pads. Hmmmm I”m having deja vu.

  748. rude (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, urassholes) says:

    i see that u dont have anything better to do but bitch about others why dont you stop and think and maybe u can improve yourself

  749. smartassmama says:

    Pads are like, the last thing I think I’d be able to do. Well, behind turned and topstiched fitteds. Totally couldn’t do those myself.

  750. urassholes (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    I think that you all need to get a LIFE and stop bashing other people. Its women like you that give SAHM’s a bad name, you just want to gossip all day.

    I think she is doing good to just be starting! Give her time, don’t be judgmental!

    Maybe it looks better IRL!


  751. urassholes (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    I think that you all need to get a LIFE and stop bashing other people. Its women like you that give SAHM’s a bad name, you just want to gossip all day.

    I think she is doing good to just be starting! Give her time, don’t be judgmental!

  752. urassholes (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    I think that you all need to get a LIFE and stop bashing other people. Its women like you that give SAHM’s a bad name, you just want to gossip all day.

  753. not me at all says:

    can’t cut, can’t sew. no returns, kiss my ass, YAGE
    wow that was fast!

  754. Myra says:

    736- I like it. I like it a lot. A tip of the hat to you.

    About my Meg comment – it was in reference to the call for other drama. I always enjoyed hers. That’s all.

  755. punktart says:

    Slunks from lurker status to ask: What does YAGE mean? I just can’t figure it out. [insert head scratchy smiley]

  756. zosiasmama says:

    Yet Another Grand Exit….basically You guys are so mean…I’m taking my sparkly crayons and going home *flounces hair and stomps off the board* But they generally come back for more.

  757. werd says:

    YAGE – Yet Another Grand Exit … its like this:

    OMGZ you guys are so mean to me, I’m leaving! Forever! Don’t try to stop me! No, really, I’m leaving now! Here I go! I’m doing it! I’m leaving! Seriously, I’m out the door! No, I swear I won’t stay. Don’t beg me to stay, I’m leaving! Goodbye cruel forum!!

    and then they typically come back and try to act like nothing happened or are all “Just Kidding!”

  758. Rella says:

    However in my case – my YAGE was an “I’m sick of diaperswappers BS and I’m moving on to somewhere that is actually for adults” kinda goodbye to my DDC girls. My YAGE also got me banned for 6 months – strike 3. However, I will NOT be going back. No more BS and viruses for me thanks.

  759. ladylili says:

    729 – I had sent her this thread too. I pretty much got the same response you did except she only sent me one message.

  760. mylilgirls says:

    Yeah, I feel bad for the woman trying to sell her wonky stitching stuff, but ya know, it does get so old when someone owns a sewing machine and thinks that means they can be a WAHM. If you like doing that kind of thing and just have the materials laying around, then sew for practice and FFS the items to someone who needs them until you get good enough to actually sell. Uggg, I’m not even in the WAHM biz anymore and this is something I’m very passionate about.

    FWIW here, I do consider myself a professional seamstress. I just wanted to sew for my family and chose to get out of the biz.

    I also get irate when I see disclaimers on the bottom of HC’s and such that state “not a professional seamstress, expect flaws.” Really?????? Then WTF are you doing with a WAHM biz? I know if I’m paying an individual to make me something instead of buying from a mass store, then I expect that item to be of absolute top quality.

  761. urassholes (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    You should have heart! you know she may get better! but now she wont have the chance to b/c you screwed her over!

  762. urassholes (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    And maybe she doing think she is professional but is trying to get more practice but cant afford to be spending money on fabric and then just doing ffs some people arent rich!

  763. Myself says:

    767 – I’ve actually never seen that on any HC.

    But I’ll steer clear of any that say that. Along with the NO Returns

  764. Incognizable says:

    Ugh annoying JDT has a co-op on CDN…I’m determined to boycott her biz after her $1.50 twat stunt on that raffle a few months back…

  765. JustPeachy says:

    Im surprised that twat actually came back. I’d never buy from her stuck up bitch self.

  766. naturalmamadot says:

    I still think its funny that MORE ppl held that comment against her than her past things. A few ppl havent forgotten her other bullshit but I guess since I was directly affected by it, I never will. She is like the great twunt leader. I personally dont care WHY ppl boycott her, even if I think shes done/said MUCH more boycott worthy stuff, I guess I cant complain.

    Oh and I know right jen? She came back like nothing was wrong, both times. I KNOW that not many ppl have really forgiven her but no one wants confrontation. *gag* Grow a pair ppl.

  767. urassholes (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, rude) says:

    u just pick a diff. person everyday to pick on dont you?

  768. Incognizable says:

    Dear God that twat has done more before??? I wasn’t on the CDN then. But I was there during the paypal fiasco over her buck fifty :::puke:::

  769. idontgetit (AKA It's A Snap , TEA CUP, Newherebutwow, MilkMaid) says:

    Why is JDT allowed a co-op on CDN if she has pulled shit in the past?

  770. magpiedpiper says:

    On the interest thread for her co-op, I said that I would be interested in a snack bag co-op, but would prefer a different maker and linked to the $1.50 thread.

    She wasn’t on my radar before that stunt, so I just have to take people’s word that she has done worse. But IMO if someone is willing to do that as a buyer in a FSOT relationship, then their selling practices can’t be too different.

  771. Cylon-Frakker says:

    #769 – I don’t so much hate her, but her stuck up attitude drives me batty. PLUS, basically asking the Baby Bloak for design info with the exact idea to rip off her product? She’s a knock-off artist, and while not exactly illegal, she is sure immoral/unethical….

  772. Messy says:

    Linky me to JDT’s co-op thread? I can’t find it…
    She is a real piece of shit FTR.

  773. Messy says:

    n/m didn’t realize it was the one Sunnie was hosting 😦

  774. Incognizable says:

    That twat was commenting and asking “questions” in the “show your stuff” thread of a new WAHM on CDN. It was like deja vu re: the bloak.

    So If JDT she starts making or gauging interest for prefolds, I will link her thread to the original WAHM.

  775. DSDM2 says:

    Ladies, I have to check some IPs, but the WAHM you are talking about has posted and is in moderation. You will have to go back and re-read in a few.

  776. mylilgirls says:

    I’m totally in the dark on this one. Anyone care to do a brief synopsis???

  777. DSDM2 says:

    Her posting names here are: urassholes; kiss my ass; rude

    She has not used her SN from DS or CDN which are: momof3under3; momof4pink

  778. sciencefair says:

    Wow, you weren’t kidding that she had made some comments. GAG ME.

    Dear uranasshole/momof3under3/I wish my cookie were pink –

    If you can’t FREAKING CUT A STRAIGHT LINE, you shouldn’t be selling. I can vaguely understand learning to sew a straight line and perhaps getting into the WAHM business with trades, but cutting? You can get a ruler out and cut next to it. OR cut around a bowl for round corners. There is no excuse for crappy cutting just like there is no excuse for your huge “maybe she is poor and wants to scam people cause she needs the $” comments.

    Oh, and if you were smart you would buy a seam ripper. After about the 3rd time of fixing a seam you WILL learn how to sew a straight line. If you need any more helpful advice, give me a call. :goodvibes:

    Just another one of those A-holes

  779. JustPeachy says:

    JDT has said far worse. She went so far as to say all teen moms need their asses washed out (ie get an abortion).

  780. sciencefair says:

    Ugh, this duplicate comment thing is obnoxious!

  781. sciencefair says:

    DSDM2 – I am going nuts trying to post in response to Ihad4kidsbutmycookieisPink.

    WordPress is driving me batty.

    MmmKay, thanks.

  782. sciencefair says:

    Well dang it, now all the comments show up.

  783. amessymama says:

    New pad making mama- I think if you take some time to practice, you could probably do a better job. You cannot be a beginner and sell the things you make. It just doesn’t work that way.

    Maybe come back in a few months and show us what you’ve come up with.

    I know it’s hard to hear criticism, especially in this form (drama blog) but try to take it to heart.

  784. magpiedpiper says:

    You know, cursing and poor grammar and writing skills are no way to win customers, or win over critics.

    If you were truly doing this for your family, you would have done better to keep your fingers off of the keyboard. Yikes. Also, fyi, but the WAHM world is not just about pleasing your family by making a little extra cash – it’s also about pleasing your customers. And you can’t do that with poor products, crappy photos, or foul language directed at potential customers.

  785. DSDM2 says:

    You have to press back, then refresh. Then the posts will all show.

    WP isn’t sure what is going on, we keep letting them know though.

  786. Grogwench says:

    URAssholes…why are you so upset? You can’t sit here and tell me that you would pay money for something that wasn’t serged and wasn’t even cut out smoothly, would you? When people buy mama made items, they do so because they expect better quality than storebought. I’ve been sewing since I was 7 (but I’m not going to tell you how old I am), but the things I throw together – doll clothes, unpaper towels, have better care in making them than what was shown in your items. People are telling you what is wrong so you can work twards fixing those details and making them better. Take it as constructive critisism and move on. If you have that much passion about sewing, you WILL get better. Then you can start with testers, etc.
    I’d also stop with the name calling. It just makes you look bad.

  787. Taterbug says:

    Previously, I thought this WAHM was naive and inexperienced. Now I know she is off her nut. “Try it before you bash it”? Really, she expects other people, who “aren’t rich” either, to spend their hard-earned money on items that obviously aren’t FFS-worthy, so that she can hone her skills because she can’t afford to give them away?

    Most WAHMs don’t do it because they’re rich and bored at home with the kids, they do it because they’re supplementing the family income, and have a marketable skill. If you can’t sew, and can’t afford the materials to practice until you can sew, try something else.

    The luxury of the internet is, you can walk away from nearly any of it long enough to get control of yourself before putting your crazy out there for the world to see.

  788. Munklettes says:

    I’m so glad someone finally posted in her wahm thread on cdn.

  789. mylilgirls says:

    801-I was going to say much the same thing.

    Yes, criticism is such a hard pill to swallow, but the people on here that ARE professional seamstresses are mentioning this for your own good. We are giving you advice. No it is not always feasible to FFS things, but it’s an option before you sell your stuff to a customer that is really upset with the end product and you have to end up refunding and loosing even more money by having to eat the shipping and material costs for a crappy product only to have your WAHM name slandered after the fact.

    You can’t open up a mechanic shop knowing nothing about cars or how to work on them and have customers bring you their vehicles with the hope that with more practice, you’ll get better. It’s the same thing.

    Practice, perfect, then begin a WAHM thread and sell. That’s how it works.

  790. theinvisible says:

    What an idiot. We don’t pick a new person every day…..it’s rare that someone who has never sewn a stictch makes a wahm thread. Rare indeed. Most people have better sense.

  791. mylilgirls says:

    You know what’s actually humorous to me about all of this? Another topic had already been started by the time the WAHM’s comments were out of moderation. If she’d have just taken a step back and not posted to the blog, then it likely wouldn’t have been brought back up.

  792. MotherMoonPads says:


    IMO, there are 2 ways to respond to criticism as a WAHM (and how you respond is especially important as a new WAHM).

    1. Respond as you did. The people who were honest with you obviously no nothing as your product is fine, right?


    2. Hard as it may be, accept that maybe your product DOES have some flaws in it. Be open to criticism, and be open to change. The ladies here (the ones who post, and even the ones who just read and do not post) are your potential customer base. Listen to them, for they are wise.

    On DS in the Craft Chat area, we have a mama cloth makers thread. http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=920345 Why not pop in there, and I’m sure we’d be able to give you some constructive criticism to make your product better so it appeals to a wider customer base than what your current product will appeal to? I promise we don’t bite 🙂

    I wish you the best in your business.

  793. kukukachoo says:

    ewww- the stains on the couch in pic. 1 and the dried up crusty stuff on the blanket in pic. 7 don’t really do the products any justice either.

  794. not me at all says:

    ‘rude (AKA kiss my ass; momof3under3, momof4pink, urassholes) Says:
    February 17, 2010 at 12:21 pm

    i see that u dont have anything better to do but bitch about others why dont you stop and think and maybe u can improve yourself’


  795. Kelolsen says:

    You know, I wasn’t that annoyed by JDT, and I have bought from her.. but then once she asked me for pics of the beaded watches I made b/c she wanted to get one for her MIL or mom and then after I sent her pics, she wrote back “thanks, I went on ETSY and found a cute one and bought it”. I know its petty, but I had bought 2 lunch bags and like four snack sacks from her – so I thought that was a pretty lame thing to do in return. Not t hat people I buy from have to buy from me, but at least be discreet and say “thanks for the pics, I’m still t hinking about it” and then go buy another one LOL.

  796. not me at all says:

    so she is posting as herself AND as someone else defending her….ummmm

  797. smartassmama says:

    Some of it may have been harsh, but you can’t expect to pick up something and be phenomenal at it. It just doesn’t happen. Wipes, imo, can look like crap (pun!). That’s why I make my own. But mama cloth is what’s keeping my pants from having a big red splotch in public, kwim? I’m not trusting just anyone with my bodily fluids + favorite jeans.

    And I am a self-professed grammar meanie. But I try not to let it consume me, and I try not to harp. But geez Louise. Those were awful. If you are wanting to sell a product, you have to sell yourself too. Women are critical creatures by nature, ime. If you are rude/mean/don’t know what those little keys under your left pinky are, I know that I would be hesitant to buy.

    O/T – I saw an ebay listing the other day that had bad pictures, dirty couch, and an original Nintendo, 5 games and went for 5 digits! I don’t remember the exact amount, but it was over $13,000. It was nuts. And her couch was fugly.

  798. JustPeachy says:

    #814 thats only because one of the games is super duper rare. DH was going on and on about that damn auction because one of the titles was one he would like to get his hands on.

  799. Messy says:

    I could not sit back and watch her WAHM thread after she has outted herself as a TROLL.

    Momof4pink/aka all your other stupid names: Your sewing skills suck. You cannot cut anything out. Even if you bought the most expensive nicest fabric on the face of the earth, you would ruin it with the skills YOU DO NOT HAVE! It is not a matter of sticking shit together and fucking someone over for your wallet’s benefit.
    For those trying to explain to her that it is better hearing it now than losing money when she has to refund… She has a no refund “policy”. So, she would point to that and say too bad. The thing is, she is asking people to do trades with her. Not knowing she is posting this craptastic work as a WAHM, someone might fall for it. I know I would trade a ton of stuff to get some of Werd’s pads for instance… Then it is a trade gone bad, a good CDN mama screwed, and her running off YAGEing because she is a twatariffic loser in the WAHM pool.
    Yeah, momto4pink, you suck. Sad. True.

  800. kelolsen says:

    Well, its not like her pics are really hiding anything. If people get into a trade with her, they can see her work first and make their decision, KWIM?

  801. Messy says:

    #817 But my point is that she is asking to do trades but NOT directing people to look at her stuff in that thread. KWIM? I would not run to a WAHM thread for a trade TBH; never thought too… People would be thinking pads like Werd’s pads and getting trash as in garbage.
    I might be crude but I tried to tread lightly until she started trolling. That tells me she is a fly-by-night-wanna-be who would have no issues screwing someone over.

  802. kelolsen says:

    ahh I get you.

  803. Myself says:

    Wow, I go grocery shopping and come back to all this


    Why is it you all only post when I’m gone ? :brat:

  804. Myself says:

    Who is JDT?

  805. FunnyMama says:

    Re: Wonky WAHM – selling her stuff would be like a virgin becoming a prostitute. Yeah, that just happened.

  806. Incognizable says:

    @821 JDT is a fellow CDN’er and a twat that filed a paypal dispute against Carmella of Clear Hills Honey on HC for $1.50!! Yes, one dollar and 50 cents.

    Carmella had a raffle going on for an org that photographs stillborn babies 😦 the dumb twat misread or failed to read the “raffle” part and thought she was actually buying a brand new melissa and doug toy for a buck fifty! Needless to say it got ugly and JDT showed her bitchtastic attitude. Here is the thread.


    Oh any I’m not bashing any other mamas that missed the “raffle” part but were good sports in the end, just the lame one that filed a dispute and called Carmella a scammer and shady.

  807. theinvisible says:

    I’m not sure what I find more ridiculous, that she tried to sell that shit to begin with or that she got so indignant when called on it.

  808. Incognizable says:

    Messy you snuck in a smiley, LOL. My post was directed to “myself”

  809. theinvisible says:

    I’m not sure what I find more ridiculous, the fact that she tried to sell that shit or that she got so indignant when called on it.

  810. FunnyMama says:

    Re: JDT – one word comes to mind: Asshat.

  811. kelolsen says:

    buy snack sacks from Yellowitchgirl on CDN. They zip closed. She graciously donated 3 to me for my MOPS talk on green living and didn’t even ask me to pay shipping- all she asked was t hat I give out her cards. I was super appreciative!

  812. Messy says:

    #826 my smilie was for #819. My posts are taking 5+ min to show up :/

  813. smartassmama says:

    #815 I know. My husband was uber geek about it. “It was one of 8 made before it was pulled from the shelves!” Meh. I got tired of blowing in the games and beating them on my dresser to play them. I was bummed that we tossed my NES when I first heard about it, then he explained. Seller didn’t have good feedback though. And her SN was somethin about a lacy thong.

    #823 I LOVE it!

  814. JustAMama says:

    Did anyone see that misanthropkitty or whatever her name is was banned for 6 months??

  815. JustAMama says:

    Did anyone see that misanthropkitty or whatever her name is was banned for 6 months??
    Heard it through the grapevine.

  816. amessymama says:

    833-Yeah, she has a thread on CDN about it.

  817. MotherMoonPads says:

    I don’t know #823, I think something about a virgin becoming a prostitute would make them highly desirable, at least in the beginning! 😉

  818. idontgetit (AKA It's A Snap , TEA CUP, Newherebutwow, MilkMaid) says:

    Sorry to tell you but I am not tea cup or milk maid..lol…

  819. mylilgirls says:

    835–LOL, Just once!

  820. FunnyMama says:

    Geez, could you imagine the marketing campaign? “Testers needed!”

  821. Sala says:

    Sorry about all the duplicate comments, I guess I was stuck in moderation or something. I’m a new poster (but not momof3under3 I swear!) and I abuse parentheses shamefully .

  822. Sala says:

    Sorry about all the duplicate comments, I guess I was stuck in moderation or something. I’m a new poster (but not momof3under3 I swear!) and I abuse parentheses shamefully .

    Also, what’s with the error message I keep getting when I try to post?
    408 Request Time-out

    This request takes too long to process, it is timed out by the server. If it should not be timed out, please contact administrator of this web site to increase ‘Connection Timeout’.

  823. monkey says:

    The JDT co-op kills me. I saw it and was like, “Oooh! I need snack bags!” then I looked closer and was like, “Nah, I don’t want pink cookie snack bags.”

    The problem with the whole $1.50 raffle was that she could have simply sent a polite email saying, “The listing was unclear, I didn’t realize it was a raffle, could I please have my $1.50 back?” and she would have gotten her $1.50 and an apology. Instead she goes into uber-bitch mom rips into a grieving mom and files a completely unecessary PP claim. And she made it seem like Carmella was scamming.

    What a dirty, dirty bitch. And she still owes me $2 from when I bought Christmas bags from her. I couldn’t even look at those bags after what she’d done. It was like her evil bitch taint was in them.

  824. FunnyMama says:

    O/T – what is it about Curious George that makes my son want to take off his diaper, sit on the couch, and try to poop??

  825. Sala says:

    Yeah, if you didn’t realize it was a raffle (and it was originally a bit unclear if I remember correctly), it would have been easy to ask for your money back. I remember the raffle host refunded several such purchases with grace and apologies. But to get your panties in a twist and say such horrible things? As a mom who has sadly been in need of NILMDTS and has used their services, it was super painful to read JDT’s carrying on.

    I hope Karma bites her in the butt but I certainly hope she never needs NILMDTS’s services; I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy. I do wonder how many potential customers she lost through that kerfluffle. You don’t need to dramatize a simple mistake when someone is trying to do something nice for a beautiful and sad organization and if you’re a WAHM, it seems stupid to carry on in such a public fashion. It’s one thing to be a twunt but maybe one should keep one’s twuntfullness to oneself.

  826. screenname says:

    IIRC, once Carmella realized that some people had mistaken the raffle for an actual item, she offered to refund anyone that wanted it. JDT was bitchtastic about it for no reason at all.

  827. werd says:

    I will NEVER patronize JDT after that whole thing. I did the same thing – got all excited about the coop and then saw who the WAHM was. NO THANKS! She is a truly awful person!!

  828. nu says:

    I saw the JDT co-op and passed. No way….not over a $1.50. Not my kind of person to do business with.

  829. BFF says:

    JDT also used the ‘puke’ smiley after talking about seeing a pic of a child with anencephaly. After that, I never wanted to talk to her again. Especially when a mom with an anencephaly child no longer here saw that post.

  830. thewayhome says:

    you know I have somewhere a pattern I got of the web for a snack sack that is round and stands up (calls for using a section off a pant leg). I know there is also someone who makes them. To me the ones with a drawstring that are a “sack” make much more sense anyway.

  831. screenname says:

    BFF – That was her, wasn’t it? I’d forgotten all about that. That was so horrible.

  832. theinvisible says:

    OH, I forgot about that. She sure did. For someone so snooty she really shows a complete lack of class.

  833. melmelly says:

    HOLY COW! I go and help at my son’s school, get held captive by a lock-down drill courtesy of US Cellular, and then I come back to this!

    Man-O-Man! It has been an awesome day! I am grabbing my dinner and I will be back to get caught up on some juicy dirt.

  834. Messy says:

    I am sad to see so many people willing to “get a good deal on a snack sack” from this monster that they overlook the pain she has caused other mothers. JDT is a nasty person who has no moral ethics and defends her nasty nature to this day! She thinks what she said was ok… She thinks what she does is fine… She can steal other people’s designs, because it is reinforced by those who buy from her. She can say nasty horrible things to other mothers because we will turn our heads when it comes to buying something at a reduced price. It is sad how she is being patronized by people that I honestly thought would consider a little more than “a good co-op” before they sent their money to a monster. But whatever. She will never see a penny of my money because I will not use my money to tell her that her hatefilled nasty words were in any way appropriate. She has horrible karma and I would hate to be in a business deal with her anyhow.

  835. not me at all says:

    what game was this?

    847- That is truly the most vile thing I have heard yet.

  836. thewayhome says:

    See, I asked a question not that long ago about using “free” patterns to sell or looking at something that is for sale and then making your own. The general thought was if it is for yourself fine, maybe even for gifts but making it to sell is just wrong. No of course there is only so many ways to make something but even with that being said hasn’t JDT all but said I make sure in sure just like so and so’s?

  837. not me at all says:

    why does cdn even allow her to have a co-op?

  838. thewayhome says:

    oops that ought to say using free patterns or sort of coping some else not to sell but for your own use

  839. try me, i'm new! says:

    I can’t believe JDT has a coop going on. how gross.

  840. sciencefair says:

    Messy – Maybe they don’t know her history. I looked at the snack sack thread and admit I was a little intrigued, especially for the price. Then I looked at the pics and thought I would sit on it. (I like my bags to stay shut when full of goldfish TYVM). Now I read this. Yikes.

  841. Messy says:

    I dunno. I don’t post in her threads. I was told a while back to back off of her…

  842. naturalmamadot says:

    Yea lets tell everyone to back off of the most vile person on CDN. I wont name names but there are a few ppl who really almost tie with her, she however takes the cake every time.

  843. Taterbug says:

    I’ve always thought JDT just liked to rile people up for her own entertainment. Like she thought of other board members as her toys, and not real people with feelings. She’s been pretty inactive since the raffle fiasco, so it’s likely that a lot of members are unaware or have forgotten.

  844. Myself says:

    659 – told to back off by who?

  845. melmelly says:

    What do you call the little one-liner under your UN on CDN? JDT’s makes me sick!

    ” JDT
    I want my $1.50″

    gag me!

  846. Sharpie says:

    JDT was one of the biggest reasons why I left CDN. I’ll pass on participating in places that allow parasites to feed of their members.

  847. BFF says:

    863…it’s a title that the ‘title fairy’ gives to members based on something they have said in a thread(s). Usually it’s something funny. In this case, not so much.

  848. BFF says:

    Dang, my bad. Not the ‘title fairy’ the Title Fairy, proper name (and props) given.

  849. JustPeachy says:

    853 its called Stadium Events. It was re released later on as world class track meet (yes the game with the goofy power pad).

  850. melmelly says:

    Oh, honey. Get over your 1.50!

    That’s all I can say. If I go any further, I may damage my new computer. Can’t do that after losing the other to the e-herpes.

    But I will say I am loving all the drama here lately, and the facebook drama I am reading right now! I really wish you all knew this one woman IRL. She really thinks she is a speshul snoflake. Makes me want to rip my hair out. All she does is bitch about how horrible our schools are here, etc., her kids will never go to school at them. Yet after the elementary school won the US Cellular thing today, she is all over FB saying her kids school just won… Her oldest is barely 3. UGH!!!!

  851. melmelly says:

    Hit enter too soon.

    Everything is ducks and bunnies, butterflies and magical unicorns in the life of this woman. She would be great as a mod at DS. Hell, she is probably H2BAM’s bf4EV3R!

  852. dirtyj says:

    I can not stand JDT! I saw the coop a wile ago and was so confused. *sigh* people forget easily.

  853. melmelly says:

    I was confused on the co-op as well. I think it was the grammar on Sunnie’s side that had me confused. I remember JDT stuff from here, but just joined CDN last week – so I was clueless. I was looking for a link or something in the co-op post, but didn’t see anything.

    It really makes me wonder how many people who are clueless to JDT’s crap and are going in on the co-op. I do like how people are questioning which side of the PUL is exposed to the food. Maybe JDT just screwed herself.

  854. naturalmamadot says:

    862 – I cant speak for Messy, but most likely mods/admin. Ive seen now in a few cases “back off we have to protect ALL our members from being ganged up on” yea, okay I agree when its two ppl just having a personal issue.
    I dont call being scum of the fucking earth needing a clam kick a personal issue, I dont call every single person who viewed the sickening issue wanting to punch the person a personal issue.

    Its not like oh you sounded like you had snark in your post to me so Im going to be a bitch to you. There are a few ppl on CDN that make me rarely go, and if they want to protect those few thats fine, there are other places on the net.

    At least at these other places, I could totally bitch JDT out any time I want because its OBVIOUS to admin that she deserves it. Not saying CDN is ducks and bunnies or anything but they have banned some that leave me scratching my head while they let others roam free and protect them from being ganged up on.

  855. naturalmamadot says:

    871 – I think she said its sandwiched inbetween two layers so nothing touches the food? The other wahm that was linked to in the thread asking for ppl who make snack sacks just has the PUL touching the thread. Also Im sure JDT woudl be willing to change the design either way to make ppl happy. Please, she wouldnt give up a chance at money.

  856. JustPeachy says:

    But Dot we all know how JDT has it made. She makes so much money on wall street and doesn’t have to take care of her kids. She has “people” for that.

  857. naturalmamadot says:

    Oh come on, only lowlifes take care of their own kids, its 2010 who the hell would stoop to that level? /sarcasm

  858. thewayhome says:

    and know I remember one of the main reasons I do not care for her

  859. Erin says:

    JDT is running a co-op at CDN? Did I read that right? 😮

    Why is Mom allowing that? JDT has scammerific tendencies. I’m really surprised she’s been allowed to host.

    I used to think CDN was safe from that kind of person- I guess no where is. 😦

  860. zosiasmama says:

    Di I miss something? When has JDT scammed anyone?
    I am no fan of hers…can’t stand her actually. I am fully aware of her twatarific remarks, but I don’t remember her scamming. If so please fill me in.

  861. Erin says:

    I don’t think she has actually scammed anyone, I just said she had “scammerific tendencies”. I always get the feeling that she COULD and WOULD scam, if she could get away with it.

    And I see that she is NOT the host, but the supplier of the bags. My bad. Still won’t be dealing with her.

  862. zosiasmama says:

    Did I miss something? When has JDT scammed anyone?
    I am no fan of hers…can’t stand her actually. I am fully aware of her twatarific remarks, but I don’t remember her scamming. If so please fill me in.

  863. zosiasmama says:

    Damned wordpress and the double comments.

    Ok got it Erin. And I agree I wouldn’t deal with her either.

  864. Erin says:

    What’s up with wordpress lately?

  865. MotherMoonPads says:

    Stupid DS. Guess quite a few of us are waiting on strikes because we referenced CDN (not directly) in our WAHM chat thread. http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?p=9611345#post9611345

  866. turkey lurkey says:

    I won’t buy from JDT for a lot of reasons. But mainly this one here, where she basically calls out every other WAHM for being “overpriced”:
    Oh, and then it turns out that she just makes snack bags “as a hobby” because, you know, she’s got so much money, she doesn’t NEED the money, and sewing is fun for her.


    Then WHY does she go around stealing other people’s designs? Why wouldn’t you just say, “nah, thanks, I don’t need the money, go buy it from the original maker”. Why advertise that you make that item, and make it cheaper than the original WAHM? Why try to undercut her business, unless you’re just a bitch and doing it to be fucktastic?

    I saw the co-op thread. And closed it when I saw who was making the snack bags. I will never, ever buy anything from her. She pisses me RIGHT off.

    AS for nasty imanasshole, we don’t give SAHMs a bad name. YOU give WAHMs a bad name.

  867. Kelolsen says:

    JDT is alot of things, but she’s not a scammer. B/c she’s not a scammer, how can CDN refuse the coop, KWIM? JDT may not be the poster child for “pouplar gal of the year” but she’s never not provided product w hen its paid for, KWIM? I also, would rather pay more for snack sacks from other people, and I agree that I wish people wouldn’t excuse things she’s said and done for an inexpensive product, but really- what can CDN do? Do they not allow a coop b/ cthey think the seller isn’t nice? You really can’t do that.

  868. kelolsen says:

    argh my comment never showed up.

    JDT is alot of things, but she’s not a scammer, so how can CDN not allow a coop? If the person does the job they are paid to do, how can CDN not allow the coop if they just don’t like someone?

  869. kelolsen says:

    are my comments showing up? this ism y third time trying.

    JDT is alot of things, but she’s never scammed anyone nor do I think she would. If she does the job she’s paid to do, how can CDN not allow the coop?

  870. DSDM2 says:

    Kelolsen, they are. WP is having issues. We are in touch with them over it.

  871. monkey says:

    #880 and #886

    I agree with that. I think she’s the biggest twunt in the universe and I’ll never buy from her again, but that is people’s personal choice to make if she’s not a scammer.

    Although she does still owe me $2 from my transaction with her. I never reminded her of it because I was so disgusted with her behavior it was worth the two bucks to never have to talk to her again.

  872. kelolsen says:

    ahh I see. Now I”m repetative LOL.


    I won’t buy either but I will admit I do like the snack sacks we have – but I can easily get them from ETSY or other CDN WAHM’s so that’s all good.

  873. Messy says:

    Is it bad that I want desperately to rep those who are not buying from her and those who are backing out and tell them how much they totally rock??? I dunno how tacky that would be of me, but damn, I am soooo proud of mamas who might not have been the focus of JDT’s hateful spewing but who are and have realized that her words cut some people so deeply and it is unacceptable (the puke smilie over the pic of the passed on baby, the comments about NILMDTS, and so forth).
    (((***CND mamas are awesome***)))

  874. monkey says:


    I really wish someone would start a snack bag co-op with a different WAHM. I really would like to get some snack bags, but not from her.

  875. Kelolsen says:

    are people really backing out?

  876. Myself says:

    too bad Jae wouldn’t do a snack bag co-op

  877. kelolsen says:

    Oh I see now.

    I also would buy more snack sacks from a different coop! for sure! I use my non PUL ones for a bunch of stufff- travel games, keeping little things in, etc.

  878. DSDM2 says:

    I’m just catching up, and yikes. I’m glad to see that a lot of people backed out. I don’t blame you girls. I would have too. What JDT has done and said is beyond wrong, and I won’t support someone like that.

  879. žába says:

    I was considering getting some snack sack when I saw the interest thread. I was around for the $1.50 fiasco, but I don’t really keep up with JDT. I figured she had made good if she was doing a co op …guess not so much. I wasn’t aware of her other craptastic comments. I will, definitely, not be participating in that co op. Hopefully another snack bag co op will run soon. What would be awesome is is another WAHM did one and JDT could see just by the sales alone how much her shitty attitude is affecting her customer base.

  880. not me at all says:

    I’d like some snack bags and I’d buy from someone else….like Jackie !

  881. Incognizable says:

    The few fans that JDT has on CDN justify it cause she “owns her bitch” but just because you “own it” does not give you the right to be a heartless rabid bitch. Period.

    Oh and kudos to Sarah for pointing out the raffle mess in her co-op interest thread last month. The mamas that chose to participate in the co-op AFTER Sarah posted it clearly saw it and aren’t affected by her behavior/ethics.

    I hope everytime JDT logs on to CDN and sees her title (I want my 1.50) she is reminded that she is a grand twat.

  882. Nicole says:

    JDT might be a lot of things, but she is NOT a scammer. The person sending out reps has no business doing so. If you don’t wish to buy from JDT that’s fine, don’t.

  883. Incognizable says:

    You’re right maybe not a scammer but she does owe “monkey” $2.00 and according to JDT that is most definetely worth filing a paypal dispute over. Anything near $1.50 is actually . Just saying.

  884. nicole says:

    I have talked about the $2.00 issue in the past. If I remember correctly it ened with the person she owed $2 to not making a scene about it? So what’s one to do about that? If it were that big of a deal then something should have been done, further.

    I’m not advocating for JDT, but, I really think this is messed up. Sunny did this coop and now she’s getting sick over all this mess.

    It’s each persons personal choice who they wish to buy from. Not yours, or anyone elses. JDt has never scammed anyone and therefore she is safe to B/S/T with at this point in time.

    This is all so childish.

  885. Sunny says:

    Actually, I am the one “hosting” the co op, JDT is just sewing them. I was not on CDN when the entire “fiasco” went down so honestly I have no idea what really happened. I hear about but really have no idea. I think bashing a WAHM behind her back is tacky to say the least. Im going to drop it here because I really like all of you. I just think the rep’s were beyond childish. I hope all of my grammar is ok in this post and no one is confused.

  886. Messy says:

    Nicole: FTR I DID NOT REP ANYONE GOOD OR BAD IN THE JDT THREAD (or any thread about JDT in general) although I would like to pos rep some of the mamas cuz it is awesome that they are not using their money to support her hate. (I wanted to mention it here since I said something about rep’ing early this morning.)

    Sunny: I am NOT bashing a WAHM behind her back. I DO IT RIGHT THE HELL TO HER NASTY COMPUTER SCREEN! She is beyond lower than pond scum and I am sorry but the things she has said have been soooo horrific, don’t plan on *me* getting over it any time soon (read: never).

    It is everyone’s choice to participate in a money making expedition with a woman who is as evil as JDT. I am glad to see that some mamas, though not directly insulted (as in they don’t have dead babies in one case) are standing up for those who do and who were hit in the chest wiht the evil that spewed over and over from JDT.
    And ya know, she defends it to this day. She can own it but I am glad to see mamas NOT supporting it.

  887. Messy says:

    Also, KUDOS to the person who is rep’ing people letting them know. If I were participating and didn’t know, I would be grateful to someone for letting me know!!!
    And even though you are just hosting, Sunny, it is making JDT money and it is letting her evil get a little boost.

  888. amessymama says:

    Long sentence ahead.

    If I was about to enter into a business dealing with POS and I didn’t know that this person was a POS, then I would be very appreciative of any and all correspondence informing me that I was, in fact, about to give my money to a POS.

    So I think the PMs are a good thing.

    It is not childish. If I had an issue with a large corporation that did vile and disgusting things, I would boycott them too. And let others know. It’s quite common actually.

  889. Nicole says:


    Really, there’s no need to type in caps. I’m not blind and I can read perfectly well. Further more, I did not mention a name, did I?

    I choose not to buy from JDT for the same reason as most of you. It’s my choice. It should be left as that. Not people reping each other like high school drama queens getting everyone to “get in the crowd”.

  890. Sunny says:

    Messy, I am not asking you to get over it. You have every right to be angry and I will never try to take that away from you. However, people also need to be able to make the decision themselves. Again, I was banned while all this was happening. I have no idea which side is right or wrong. Do you see my point? that was an honest question, not a snark? I can not go on heresay of she said this and she said that. I feel like a great big fat failure because of all of this. This has affected me now and I am stuck in the middle.

  891. Messy says:

    #906 Exactly!!!
    I am having trouble seeing it as childish as well. How else are people who have not seen it first hand going to know that they are spending money with such an evil person??? Why is it wrong to tell them what she has said and done?
    Money = support. I will not support such a person and I want people to know why, though again, I am not the one rep’ing.
    I am just really proud of the mamas that are thinking and rethinking letting their money “talk” for them and making JDT even more secure in her need to hurt people.

  892. amessymama says:

    I think it goes a little deeper than being “in the crowd”.

    I don’t do the whole “crowd” thing. Not my style. I do in fact hate to support mean vicious people and I wish others did too. Maybe the reppers feel the same way. They just want others to be informed.

    Although, I do not know the words being said in the reps, maybe they were said in a childish fashion. Oh well, whatever works!

  893. Nicole says:


    I really do understand your POV. I want you to know that.

  894. Messy says:

    Nicole: I wanted everyone to see it wasn’t me.
    Sunny: CDN is not DS. Her words don’t “poof” and honestly, people have linked the thread in your interest thread. It is all still there. So, I don’t think claiming to have “no idea since you weren’t there to see it” flies on CDN. You can still see it. Just take some Tums with you.
    And letting people know, who like you claim to have no idea, is a GOOD thing 🙂 I would be soooo upset if I found out after I had spent money with her. I am sure other mamas feel the same way.

  895. amessymama says:

    Sunny, people are able to make the decision themselves. No one is forcing them not to participate. Some still are, in fact.

    People now have the option of making an informed decision.

    Plus, I don’t think anyone is blaming you now. If you didn’t know about it, you didn’t know.

  896. sunny says:

    Its childish because its backstabbing. It should have been done in public but it wasnt. it was done behind closed doors to speak. it was sneaky, thats whats wrong with it. I am now stuck in the middle of all this.

  897. amessymama says:

    Oh it was linked in the interest thread? I must have missed that. I kept looking for it in the actual co-op thread.

  898. mmspirit7 says:

    First thing I thought with the coop was that sunny was banned and while she may have been linked but doesn’t mean she read it or has to read it. She offered to host a coop she’s not making any money on this. She is doing her part and really shouldn’t be dogged about knowing or not knowing because it could be someone else what if mom was ruining said coop? People pick and choose who to shop with all the time. I shop with walmart because it’s close and I can afford it many people including my father this it’s horrible. but it’s my choice.

    I get the vibe that reps to sunnie haven’t been nice and have picked on her grammer because you know we all need to be prefect, I don’t know about you ladies but rarely am I sitting her and not doing something else unless it’s late at night.

    I think that sharing your views are fine, I won’t buy from the coop for a couple reasons, the buck fifty thing (yes I was one that was mistaken but I dealt with my mistake) but also I don’t like the way the close or the fabric choices.

    Sunnie I am sorry your are getting hurt with this your job as host it offer the deal and mail things out, not to force anyone to buy from her. sigh hugs.

  899. naturalmamadot says:

    How was it behind closed doors? This is a public and definitely known about blog. As Ive said before, in other places I frequent online it would of been totally okay for me to go into the coop thread and put allll the cards out. Not on CDN, sooo how exactly are we supposed to do this publicly? Do a call out and gt banned from CDN over her bitch ass? No thanks Ill pass.

    *I* am not personally blaming you, although Id look through someones posts before I hosted a coop for them and Id be asking personal opinions of their morals ethics etc from ppl who have been around at CDN for a long time.
    You didnt feel this is necessary, thats fine because everyone thinks about these things differently this isnt a coop rule or soething lol, I still dont blame you in the LEAST for HER bitchtastic behavior. You shouldnt feel bad about this IMO.

  900. Messy says:

    #914 You get Mom to say it is ok for me to post in that thread and BOOM~ right out in the open it will be!!! This is not “behind her back”. Give me a break!!! She knows what she did. How is that backstabbing???

  901. naturalmamadot says:

    She knows what shes done and she, from what I can gather, thinks everyones reactions (to all her horrible shit, not just the recent ones) are amusing. Her entire attitude about her actions is like haha you guys care about humans and their feelings so much, Im so glad I have money so I dont have to! Shes a keeper alright.

  902. not me at all says:

    “I have talked about the $2.00 issue in the past. If I remember correctly it ened with the person she owed $2 to not making a scene about it? So what’s one to do about that? If it were that big of a deal then something should have been done, further.”

    So even though she knew she owed it since the person owed did not throw a fit it is ok?

    and sunny, read the thread in question and stop claiming that you know nothing about it. AND this is not “behind closed doors” this is a public internet forum and I am POSITIVE that every person here would be GLAD to say all of this on CDN but I believe we were asked to leave her alone there.

  903. Incognizable says:

    Uhm backstabbing?? Sneaky? Really? This is the blog. Anything goes as long as they are NOT false accusations. They are true testaments of her past behaviors. One could potentially find all the past threads she has poisoned since they don’t go *poof* on CDN.

    Plus how could this have been handled publically? It would not fly on CDN, since there is a “no call out” rule. And why would we be calling her out publically for being an EPIC, insenitive, vile, twat? Cause it’s been established she is not a scammer.

  904. Sunny says:

    Messy, Im not blaming you. You did not send the PM’s. I see your POV and I understand it. I also read what was posted in those threads but I could not find the origionals where she went off about $1.50. I did look. I also talked to JDT about it as well. I was hesitant to even start this co op just for this reason. I did not expect it to go ape shit batty the way it did. Im not blaming anyone. I understand everyone’s POV, really I do.

  905. I’ll out myself. It was me. I have taken a step back from CDN for personal protection (Yes, Admin knows), but I am currently in two co-ops, a swap and a congo on CDN, so I log on daily to check those specific threads/boards. When I saw the snack sack thread today, it piqued my interest, so I opened it. Low and behold, it was a co-op for JDT. I never saw her ‘interest’ thread, because I’ve had her iggied for months- maybe even close to a year, because of her nastiness all over CDN, and even DS long before them. Just not some one I even care to read sane and civil posts from. She makes me want to throw up in my mouth a little bit with her hateful, ignorant, vile tongue. I went through and sent a simple rep to each person placing an order, stating that while JDT was NOT a scammer, they might be interested in checking out her previous posts, and her history of morals and business ethics (or lack there of) before they spent their money there.
    Most people I repped were very new to the board, so I wasn’t sure if they knew of JDT’s history or not. Personally, no matter how good the deal with, I wouldn’t buy from some one with such disgusting morals and vile heart, and if I didn’t know of the behavior, I’d be glad to be enlightened. I did not insult JDT whatsoever, and I made sure to include that she was not a scammer so people would not fear that, nor would CDN look bad for allowing her a co-op.
    Am I beyond childish? Perhaps in your opinion. Am I bashing a fellow WAHM? Not at all. We are all responsible for our words, just as I am responsible for my reps. If that reflects poorly on my business, then so be it. I own my words, and they AREN’T bitchy, untrue, or hateful. They were merely pointing out that people should do their research a bit deeper before they order. I didn’t do it publicly on the board to draw attention, I did it quietly in Reps to inform people before they bought. To me, I see it much the same as the Nestle boycott. Many people don’t like the message they send regarding breastfeeding and formula, so they boycott, and spread the word as much as they can. I (and I know many, many, MANY people agree) cannot stand JDT’s blatant copying, vile, hateful words, and abhorrently bitchy actions, and people have a right to know what a business stands for before they give their money to them.
    Hate me. That’s fine. But who’s going to stand up for the TRUTH? The RIGHT thing? 😦

  906. naturalmamadot says:

    I just love how other ppl have gotten banned for *IMO* was much much less than JDT has done. Some great ppl, meanwhile there are at least 3 ppl on CDN I think are 100000x worse than the ones who have been banned (not everyone thats been banned just a couple) but its all pick and choose there.
    I still dont know why toaster was banned OTHER than she talked shit about mom behind her back. So were not allowed to have opinions about mom, admin, mods, cdn, in PRIVATE.
    I believe yahoo messenger and private facebook was mentioned? Last time I checked CDN didnt have a rule that we werent allowed to have negative thoughts or comments without PMing the admin/mod directly and telling them about it.

  907. 914- Backstabbing? Absolutely not. I have never, ever, EVER been friends with JDT, nor have I pretended. Mods and Admin can read Reps, and clearly some people who received rep were more than willing to share with you that they received it. I have nothing to hide. I sent reps to avoid public drama. That’s all. I figured the only people that needed to know were the people who were ordering.

  908. theinvisible says:

    I don’t know if anyone noticed but there wasn’t a big rush of customers to her co-op even before any of this was mentioned. She hadn’t even been posting for a while (trying to let her latest shit die down) and a lot of people don’t know who she is. Add to that the fact that those who do generally wouldn’t patronize her and the also that some others don’t want a snap-close snack bag in popcorn print. Everyone is free to make their own decisions and this blog conversation IMO is nothing more than people talking amongst themselves like they usually do. No one is doing anything to her that she didn’t perpetuate herself. As far as the reps, unless they are lies, what’s the problem? She owns her nastiness, she shouldn’t mind word getting around. It sucks that Sunny feels she is in the middle of a shit storm but jdt’s attitude didn’t just materialize during the time she was banned either.

  909. Messy says:

    #923 THAT IS AWESOME! I cannot see IN ANY WAY how someone can say rep’ing pertinant info to potential “monetary supporters” was childish! You are my hero of the day! Some people would not go hunt for her evil since they were new and had no reason. I do not normally seek out old posts of someone’s to check before I enter into a deal with them, although maybe I should!

  910. amessymama says:

    Well, Deviate, you certainly won’t lose business from me. I’m even more inclined to patron your business. 🙂

  911. Sunny says:

    923 Im not disagreeing with you. And I like you just like i said in my PM to you. Your right, nothing you said was nasty but it was sneeky. I felt it an attack on me as well. I have nothing against any of you. Hell we are all friends on FB. Everyone is entitled their opinions of her. I hope I am not sounding snarky.

    Clarifying all my posts above….when i say sneeky and backstabbing, I mean the rep not anything said here. This is public and out in the open. I was referring to the rep in all statements above.

  912. naturalmamadot says:

    926 – “It sucks that Sunny feels she is in the middle of a shit storm but jdt’s attitude didn’t just materialize during the time she was banned either.”

    Thats what I was thinking, unless being banned comes along with a memory cleansing I was wondering if she just didnt read the other places JDT posted, like in hot buttons?

  913. Incognizable says:

    Nope not childish at all “Deviate”. Plus you owned up to it publically.

    But what I do find childish and annoyng is for a fellow CDN’er and mod to come on here and try to bunnyhop people for repping their opinions. Reps are not anonymous or secret. But I seriously doubt that the mod even actually read the reps to be calling them “childish”. Really lame.

  914. 929- You know I like you, too, and I am deeply sorry if my reps reflected anything negative on you. Truly. You are in no way associated with JDT’s nastiness and underhanded ways. I’m sorry you’ve been caught in this “crap storm,” or that I in any way made you look bad. THAT makes me feel terrible.

  915. Sunny says:

    I have hotbuttons on ignore. Have had it on ignore for almost 8 months now. I have no idea what goes on in there.

  916. Messy says:

    Sunny and Nicole, I am glad there are no hard feelings and you understand. I do hate that Sunny is caught in the middle of something that is NO WAY AT ALL her fault. It seems unfair that JDT’s evil should be a burden to anyone but JDT; however, JDT thinks she was right in saying the horrible things she did and she defends them to this day because we are the peons beneath her @@

    I think the reason for the reps was no more sneaky than any other rep’ing reason. Mom does not want the drama on the board and it is still there to be read by those who want to know… But people still have the right to know. It is a fine line and that is how rep’s were meant to work IMO 🙂

  917. Sunny says:

    Im so confused by all this…really I am.

  918. Incognizable says:

    Dot I agree with you! As previously mentioned, JDT has been an asshat for months. This did not start with the raffle.

    I’m really sorry you’re hurting because of this Sunny, you are still one of my favs.

  919. naturalmamadot says:

    If she has HB on iggy, I could see how she missed the worst of it. I forget exactly what has been said outside of HB and everyone likes to maintain the whole “what stays in there shouldnt be used against you elsewhere” that only goes so far IMO

  920. dirtyj says:

    I that is what PMs and reps were for. She could have posted to the thread…

    This is so not that big of a deal. Hope fully no ones feelings are hurt over this. JDT is jerk. If you dont like her, dont buy from her.

  921. Taterbug says:

    937-that has been discussed at length, starting around post #666. The WAHM showed her crazy, promised to delete her thread, and yet there it still is. It’s an interesting read.

  922. Messy says:

    #937 What??? It was me trying to be out in the open and honest (after she came here trolling) and it was Mom saying to keep it here. I can’t win LOL!!!

  923. A Friend If you need one says:

    thanks! going back up to read!

  924. just_sayin says:

    I agree with you, Messy. You can’t talk about it on CDN, but anything else is sneaky and backstabbing?

    Just to satisfy my curiosity, what’s the difference between JDT and It’s a Snap? IAS didn’t scam anyone, to my recollection, but she was banned. Didn’t they ban her for copying other WAHM’S and general twatwaffery?

  925. Incognizable says:

    Yep, speaking of dollars and cents…IAS also filed a paypal dispute against Mom(CDN) for like a $1.00 donation! Hmmm I had forgotten about that loser!

  926. Taterbug says:

    943-“Just to satisfy my curiosity, what’s the difference between JDT and It’s a Snap? IAS didn’t scam anyone, to my recollection, but she was banned. Didn’t they ban her for copying other WAHM’S and general twatwaffery?”

    I think the main difference is, JDT has enough intellect and self-control to know just how far she can push without actually crossing the line. I think she’s pretty good at figuring out the rules and staying just inside them. DS would be a notable exception.

  927. Toaster says:

    #924 – I love you. 🙂 I was never given a reason for my banning other than a generic response and none of the admin would answer me when I asked. I bitched in IM on fb about how DS-esque CDN was becoming, the IM got passed along and apparently that is ban-worthy. There will always be some there (JDT, Meg and select others) that can do whatever the hell they want and won’t have any repercussions.

  928. Myself says:

    945 – If CDN is gonna be like DS, I’ll just stay on DS at least I know the nature of the beast.

  929. Sharpie says:

    Awww Toaster I loved you on CDN and have been wondering how you’ve been doing.

    I totally see what you mean about the double standard; calling out Melody and being a downright bitch to her and several mods on the board is ok but a private convo comparing CDN to DS equals a banning. Christ even Lee doesn’t ban the members coming over here and bitching about his slimy ass but you get the boot for saying something much less in an IM. Lame bananas.

  930. idontgetit (AKA It's A Snap, teacup, MilkMaid, etc.) says:

    It\’s good that others are starting to see CDN for what it is Toaster. They say they call a spade a spade but they are protecting asshats there too the same as DS. What a sad state of affairs. And how Lee-esque to not allow criticism of the admins! It doesn\’t get any more DSish than that.

  931. cdnation says:

    I’m owning the mistake of letting the snack wrap co op go on. I was approached about doing one by a member, there was no word as to who the WAHM would be, and honestly JDT was not posting then so she never even crossed my mind.

    I approved it when there was interest. And yes, I too groaned when it was her, but I didn’t feel I could stop it.

    With everything that I have read today here, the co op will be canceled and a new WAHM will be found to do the snack bags.

  932. kelolsen says:

    the coop is now cancelled.

    I did ask Yellowitch girl to consider a coop – she said she will message Shaine to see if she can. She does pUL lined zippered snack sacks.

  933. Violet says:

    I am one of them who backed out of the JDT coop.. b/c I seriously forgot about her twat ways.

  934. cdnation says:

    #949, funny I know who you are on CDN, and I’m pretty sure the other name you used there has been banned. Funny how that works, so if you want I can ban that other name for you. Just say the word.

  935. DSDM2 says:

    949, funny, I’m pretty sure I know who you are… have for a while.

  936. Violet says:

    ohhh. whos 949?

  937. cheesewhiz says:

    *cues dramatic music* Dun Dun Dun DUUUUUUN

  938. DSDM2 says:

    On here, she is:
    Idontgetit ; TEA CUP, Newherebutwow, and MilkMaid

  939. DSDM2 says:

    She also has a CDN name.

  940. DSDM2 says:

    or two…

  941. cdnation says:

    this person Idontgetit ; TEA CUP, Newherebutwow, and MilkMaid is marshm on CDN


    Y’all can check out the 6 posts she has.

  942. kelolsen says:

    So many of you are super sleuths. Is there a special course I can take? I’m always clueless!!

  943. naturalmamadot says:

    So why the fuckdoes everyone know who teacup is and no one will out them? If she did something oh so ebil by telling whatsherass to go off herself why is she being protected?

  944. cdnation says:

    naturalmamadot— she’s been outed.

  945. naturalmamadot says:

    um ignore my last post, I typed it up, started IMing with ppl and forgot to send it…should of refreshed first haha

  946. DSDM2 says:

    She isn’t being protected. We just outted her.

    I wasn’t sure until now. I like to be sure before jumping.

  947. A Mom says:

    FTR: The coop has been canceled by Admin.

  948. Toaster says:

    Sharpie, I’m trying to figure out who you are, are you on FB? Find me if you are!

  949. naturalmamadot says:

    ah I remember her and nancy going back and fortha bit, but shes not really anyone we all know so I guess it didnt matter who she was haha

  950. idontgetit (AKA It's A Snap , TEA CUP, Newherebutwow, MilkMaid) says:

    I am not tea cup, milk maid etc…I DO use a free proxy server and I bet they do to…to access this blog.

  951. DSDM2 says:

    idontgetit, I don’t care what you say, the posts, the grammar, the ellipse use… it all holds together. Not to mention how you have jumped on CDN and its members.

  952. DSDM2 says:

    the use of /’ constantly as teacup, and idontgetit, the lack of spacing between…and the next word, like that, and the going back and forth from .. to … is consistent with one person posting… as well as an old poster… Snap.

  953. idontgetit (AKA It's A Snap , TEA CUP, Newherebutwow, MilkMaid) says:

    That\’s ok DSDM2. Think what you will.

  954. cheesewhiz says:


  955. jakesmom says:

    I really dont understand why people think they can hide behind diffrent names, usually they get busted due to some stupid mistake.

  956. newhere says:

    every time I see the name Marsh-something, I think of Its a Snap…

    I’ll never buy anything from JDT. Ever. Looks like I’m not alone!

    Did anyone see that loverbugsmommy was banned on DS for 6 months? By the comments under her username and the “about me” section, it looks like admin felt forced to do it and didn’t think they should have had to ban her

  957. amessymama says:

    idontgetit, teacup, snap, whoever the freak you are. I don’t really care what you do, but for the love of all that is holy, please stop doing this \’. It is incredibly irritating.

  958. idontgetit AKA It’s A Snap says:

    You really think you know everything don’t you 971? Trust me you don’t.

  959. Myself says:

    977 – Now you are sounding like fluffybutt. :puke:

  960. shiftyeyed says:

    lawdy lawdy, do i have a lot to read.

  961. monkey says:

    Sunny, I wanted to say that I for one don’t blame you a bit. You didn’t know and you were trying to do a nice thing and help mamas get something for a good price.

    And now the co-op is your responsibility and you can’t back out. I know that you personally are a sweetheart. But I also don’t blame people for backing out. I don’t have issue with JDT being allowed to run a co-op (or not being banned from CDN) because she’s not a scammer. I do however make the choice to not purchase from her.

    I’m sure she knows this discussion is here and she can come and justify it for herself.

  962. theinvisible says:

    well ho-leee crap!

  963. Kelolsen says:

    #980Monkey – I agree!

  964. Aj says:

    THIS is why birth control was invented:

    I mean, I feel bad for her; really I do, but come on. When your past pregnancies and births are that bad, why wouldn’t you try and prevent another?

  965. Myself says:

    984 – Is that in sensitive subjects?

  966. Myself says:

    Ah – I had to go opt in to see it.

    Okay, if you don’t have a job, and your husband doesn’t have a job, WHY would you have unprotected sex even if you thought you were in the clear.

    I know I don’t want another child right now, and even though we use protection, I barely let my husband near me cause I don’t want to get pregnant.

  967. mamamia says:

    Just a month ago she thought she was pregnant and was so worried, posted about it and everything. I am not one bit surprised she ended up pregnant this month. I feel like she secretly wanted it, why else did she end up pregnant a month later. She even said in her previous posts how she wouldn’t do permanent BC because she wanted another one day, despite the danger to her or her babies.

    If I had just had a huge scare a month prior you better believe I wouldn’t be taking my chances at ANY point in the month, not just around ovulation time. This seems a little too coincidental to truly be an accident. I don’t know, this is just what I think.

  968. Coffeehoar says:

    Freakin’ awesome read for my afternoon tea.

  969. .bin. says:

    idiot. the whole “we used all the precautions” except of course using protection every time because I’m dumb and just assumed I wasn’t ovulating.
    Parents disowning them? I am assuming that means they are living with her parents or family? Yeah I’d be pissed if I were them too. Grow up.

  970. Incognizable says:

    @ Toaster! I agree with your 946 post. You are not alone in seeing that pattern 😦

  971. Messy says:

    IF SOMEONE ELSE DOES THE SNACK SACK CO-OP PLEASE LET ME KNOW!!! I sometimes forget to check down in the co-ops and I always miss the good stuff 😦 But I will 100% scratch together pennies to buy from any other mama!!! I want to support someone who deserves it…

    For those complaining about CDN… The thing is, no matter how you slice it, when you put a ton of people together to post and hang out, you are going to get differences of opinion. CDN tries to run on the fewest rules known, and they try to let members work their own shit out. *I* like that.
    But there has to be *some* rules. There just have to be, especially in a forum with a FSOT.
    They IN NO WAY support the crap JDT spews. But like someone above said, JDT stays just this side of banning.
    I do get to be like a freaking dog with a bone about some stuff :err: And I am not offended when I am told to stop. A little pissy, yes, but not offended LOL! I know that there has to be a ceasing point and sometimes I get too close to that edge.

    CDN is in no way shape or form like DS. C’mon people, think about it. We can’t all be in charge. We can’t all call the shots. And you know what? We don’t all have to put up with the shit that the admins at CDN do! They could set up stupid rules and zap threads and everything and I bet there would still be people there; but they do not do that!!! They deal with more shit by doing things out in the open and with the posters than DS ever thought about. Nothing poofs at CDN, including the drama that admin has to deal with. For that I thank them. I love CDN and everyone there! I have had issues with several people, and I know many don’t like me, but there is no better place to B/S/T or just chat and hang out with real people…

  972. coffeehoar says:

    987~ I didn’t let dh touch me until my tubes were tied. I agree, she let herself get pregnant.

  973. Booyah says:



    I have missed you!

    Is anyone here who knows who I am friends with Toaster on Facebook? I want to add her but don’t want to put my real name on the blog.

  974. BFF says:

    Mad love and respect to CDN for canceling the co-op.

  975. Myself says:

    993 – (I want another just not right now :blush:, though an accident, i.e. protection failure, wouldn’t bug me :blush: :hide:)

    But then again, my husband has an awesome job, benefits, vacation time, and I haven’t had any preterm babies or complications like her.

    :mind is boggling:

  976. sheepthrills says:

    Mmmkay time for a new drama post so I don’t have to wait for 1000 comments to load to read all the juicy updates!

    Good job CDN on canceling the co-op. Can’t wait for another (better) one to open! I definitely like the sound of those zip top sacks.

  977. sheepthrills says:

    LOL I’m pretty close to wanting another too, where an ‘oopsie’ wouldn’t be the end of the world. DH, on the other hand, is still pretty sure that after this first one he’s ready to be d-o-n-e. Makes me sad but maybe once DS gets a little older and less, well, toddler-like, he’ll come around. 😦

  978. coffeehoar says:

    996, 998~ Two of mine are “oopses”… failure on our part to fully cooperate with our birth control. But we were in a position to actually take care of our kiddos. If I was in that lady’s position I’d be wearing a steel-trapped poison tipped chastity belt.

    Sometimes letting nature make the choice for you is a little fun, IMO, as long as you know it won’t be devistating to the whole family.

  979. coffeehoar says:

    Just wanted post 1000

  980. melmelly says:

    I would love to have a third, but my husband is giving me a bug, fat N-O right now. I have a friend who has expelled her Mirena IUD twice now, and I would think that would be the perfect excuse to use on him – but only mine removed. 😉 But then he would probably figure it all out before I had a chance to even try to get pregnant.

    I WANT A GIRL! I have so many girl baby clothes from Gymboree from when I worked there. With tags, too! :cries:

  981. melmelly says:

    Oh man. I was almost 1000!

  982. ~*~Momma~*~ says:

    crap, DSDM, i dont know why it keeps switching me back to a name i used to use, i forgot to check on my last post, just re-read it and notced it switched me again, im sorry

  983. coffeehoar says:

    1001~LOL, I thought you got it, too, and was ready to rage at the heavens. And scare my kids.

    NWT, it would be fun to use them on a baby girl (and just have a sweet baby girl) but you’d make a mint off of them if you never use them.

    I love my daughter to pieces, but she’s the one that makes me work my butt off as a mom. She’ll be the one that steals the car in 10 years, I just know it.

  984. Myself says:

    1004 – both my girls make me work my butt off, the boys too just not as much.

  985. Grogwench says:

    I’m hurt! (lol) I thought it was my post on CDN about the co-op that made everyone look research Miss $1.50. I felt I was being bold and daring and was so thrilled I had affected change. Boy, was I wrong!

  986. melmelly says:

    I have two of the medium size bags FULL of NWT baby girl stuff! It is OLD too. I worked there in 2003 and this was stuff I was saving from then until March 2004. My son was born in April 2004, but we didn’t find out until March 30/31 that he was a boy. So I had a bunch of stuff that I couldn’t even return because too much time had passed, and stuff that I loved too much to return. A lot of it is 12-18mo stuff that is perfect for late Spring-Early Fall when the weather is nice.

    Cherry Blossom
    Home on the Range
    Little Hula Girl
    and almost the whole One of a Kind line


    Maybe if I wave each piece in front of DH’s face and tell him just how much money I have wasted on all the clothes, he will change his mind!

  987. Incognizable says:

    Hats off to CDN admin for canceling the co-op.

  988. coffeehoar says:

    1007~ I think I need to do a brain switch between your husband and mine. My dh wanted more and more and more kids. He ultimately understood why I needed to stop, but I know he could have just gone on forever. I feel guilty as hell, though.

  989. melmelly says:

    My oldest boy has been a breeze! But the youngest? Ooohwee! He has made me want to pull my hair out at times. He BF for almost three years, and teased me with the possibility of weaning three times from 18 mo-2.5 yrs. In my head I was screaming for him to make up his mind.

    My MIL is convinced that he is double the work as my 5yr old because of the vanishing twin thing. I honestly don’t know how I would handle it with two of him at this age. He has recently started to ask what twins are, and we have never discussed it with him because he’s only 3. He will walk around with his nerf gun under one arm, and his little baby doll with its bottle under the other. He’s a little confuzzled. 🙂

  990. melmelly says:

    1009- Yeah, mine says he just likes to “practice” having more. He wants everything before conception. Maybe if I turn into the Ice Queen I can have my way!

  991. Myself says:

    1007 – sigh I need to go work at Gymboree so I can get some good sales

  992. coffehoar says:

    Practicing is fun! 😀 I sometimes pretend I’m fertile to keep the ovaries happy.

    And I’m “LALALALALALALALA” with my fingers in my ears about your youngest boy. Sounds like my youngest. He’s been “weaning” for months now. I think he’s humoring me, and will draw it out another year or so. He’s… a Toddler. With a capitol T.

  993. coffeehoar says:

    Practice is fun 😀 I sometimes lie to my ovaries about being tied so they feel useful. It makes them happy.

    And I’m LALALALALALALAL with my fingers in my ears about your youngest son. Sounds just like my youngest…he’s been pretending to wean for months now. I think he’ll drag it out another year or so. He’s very….Toddler-ish. With a capitol T.

  994. melmelly says:

    I miss working there, but my manager was a bitch! I was one of the assistant managers and got pregnant. I could sue the company for what she did to me. But, I will take her getting fired as enough compensation. Just knowing that she can’t do what she did to another pregnant woman is fine with me!

  995. Toaster says:

    994 – Booyah! Email me at wahoo7881@aol.com and I’ll give you my fb link. Theres so many people I miss but I didn’t know their name outside of their screen name and I was kicked off with no warning.

    992 – Messy! I frequent boards that are outside just parenting boards and CDN by no means runs with few rules. I am on a few sportbike forums that have less rules, and we hash our shit out on the OPEN board with NO censorship (omg we swear too!) and get to say what we want. There is no hand slapping either. I wish those boards were as active now as they are in the summer because that’s the kind of board that treats it’s members like adults. Things do go poof and get moved to the admin only section or wherever. CDN may not protect scammers but they sure protect some real assholes.

  996. melmelly says:

    He only weaned because I got really sick and had horrible stomach pains. I thought my appendix had ruptured! I told him he couldn’t have it that night and he was fine with it. Then he never asked again. That was in September – 1mo 2days before he turned 3.

  997. Messy says:

    #1016 I disagree. There is a difference between protecting the rights of people to say what they want to say and protecting people who are a danger to the board. I do not think they do anything more than try to not censor the posters (within reason).
    It is not bannable to be an asshole. If that were the case, then we would all be banned at one time or another LOL! They do not protect assholes (and as you can obviously see by the cancelation of the JDT co-op, they do not support evil people). They can’t just go around banning everyone who spouts off at the mouth… Or who makes someone mad… Or who mixes condiments and talks about it on the board :::puke:::

  998. naturalmamadot says:

    Toaster, that is pretty much what I was saying in an earlier post. I hang out some places that would just let us go at it and deal with it ourselves. No hand slapping. No “play nice children”. And zomg we swear with no censors.
    The bigger CDN gets the more ppl who have issues with titles and swearing. I was pretty much done around the time they split bcd up and made no more titles from TLS/BCD. I understand they want to get bigger and welcome everyone, Im not knocking them for that, I just dont get along with ppl who are that sensitive about shit.

  999. naturalmamadot says:

    Oh I dont want her BANNED, but she is allowed to be vile, if I respond back to her its oh ignore her, dont ocntinue it, dont make it worse, dont gang up on her. Fuck that noise, if she has the “freedom” to start shit I should have the freedom to finish it or continue it. Not my board though, I choose to visit 🙂

  1000. coffeehoar says:

    I don’t always understand all the in’s-and-out’s of what got someone banned at CDN, but I figure it’s someone else’s sandbox and I’m just there to play. So I play by the rules, which is pretty easy for me because I never get involved in the actual drama. I’m allergic. There isn’t enough dramadryl in the world to stop the drama hives.

  1001. Messy says:

    If CDN did not censor at least a little bit (titles, “fuck”, etc.) it would alienate a lot of people. Some people absolutely cannot stand to hear/read “fuck” or “cunt” etc. It is offensive. So, at the least, they allow the words but have them pop up coded, which I thought was great. As I have a bad mouth and don’t always wish to piss off a whole group of people when I throw a “fuck” about something LOL! So, really it is not that big of a deal. They are looking at the basic premise of society’s offensive targets and doing what they can, minimally, to make everyone feel welcome. What is so bad about that? You don’t get in trouble for saying “fuck” so who cares? The point is there and those offended stay feeling welcomed 🙂

    I think that sometimes they might want to give someone enough rope to hang themselves. So, they ask others to back off and then see what the twatriffic loser (AKA JDT) will say or do. Will she stop and calm down realizing she was crude? If she keeps going, she will be banned. But as pointed out before, JDT knows when to stop before the ban hammer falls on her.

  1002. melmelly says:

    “But as pointed out before, JDT knows when to stop before the ban hammer falls on her.”

    You know, if I owned a forum like CDN, I would more than likely get tired of the shit that JDT pulls and stops just in time. I would probably give her a firm warning to stop or she would be banned, and then follow through with it. She can’t just keep doing this crap and then stop before the hammer drops you know. There has to be some way to get her to stop. It’s like she’s the playground bully. :2cents:

  1003. Messy says:

    #1023 She is only the playground bully if you let her be. She needs people to bully in order to put herself into that position. She likes to think she is better than the rest of us, but ya know, she isn’t. I can’t be offended by someone that I think is a miserable piece of shit who makes others feel hurt and inferior because she knows her own life is not the great escapade she pretends it to be, KWIM?
    She expresses her opinion. It is really hard to ban someone for expressing an opinion on something, no matter how evil and vile they are about it.
    Trust me, I wish she was banned, tarred, feathered, and hit with a brick for some of the horrific things she has said. So, I am not defending her… But I can see why she is not banned *yet.

  1004. naturalmamadot says:

    Messy, I know that they have to appeal to the masses, which is why in the end I dont fault them for how they operate. Im just saying I prefer to be in a place where anyone that sensitive is told to stfu or gtfo. Not nice, a lot of ppl are like “okay! bye! not the place for me!” thats fine.
    I just notice a lotttt of ass patting at cdn which honestly is to be expected when ppl get to be friends its HARD to say um no you fucked up, you SHOULD be hard on yourself right now and you should be ashamed. For example I like you Messy, one of my top faves on CDN actually, so if you posted something I would even find it hard to be totally brutally honest with you and say yes you are a fuck up LMAO. I dont expect that sort of thing to happen though because you are so sensible and responsible.
    Even on here, while I would like to think I would be blunt with everyone, some ppl I really like and id try and be nicer but still honest. Its easier some places when you dont get close to anyone really and can be totally honest all the time, hash it out, move on etc.