This got interesting, and of course as soon as the ass patting stopped, the OP wanted the thread deleted…

I GOT BANNED FROM ANOTHER BOARD! was i really out of line?

http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showpost.php?p=8210487&postcount=1

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I GOT BANNED FROM ANOTHER BOARD! was i really out of line?

I can’t believe it! anyone want to read this thread and tell me if i’m out of line for defending myself here?

http://www.woofboard.com/forum/showthread.php?t=111013

seems like i can let people walk allover me and tell me what a horrible person i am…including a mod! and not post something in my defense? its kinda funny actually– I HAD NO PLANS ON GOING BACK THERE ANYWAY after the type of people that responded–well there were some decent responses–all i asked for is advice on my dog? am i wrong thinking i really didn’t do anything that bad? i wAS mms72 there!

i think i’ll just stick to DS!

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This was followed by the standard ass patting/nice comments… then a few people were honest:

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Re: I GOT BANNED FROM ANOTHER BOARD! was i really out of line?

They were right for being upset with you for supporting puppy mills, despite your being apart of a dog forum for so long and knowing of what you were supporting. However, kudos to the members that only commented on that briefly and moved on to give you advice.

You should have known it was a bad decision to get a puppy from a pet store. You should have known others wouldn’t agree with your irresponsible actions once you spoke freely about it. You should have expected at least one comment regarding your decision, and you should have ignored it and not gotten nasty with a moderator. You were overly defensive, but while I don’t see anything that warrants a ban in that specific thread, some forums are just more strict about how they allow members to treat the moderators.

There weren’t personal attacks in your direction – just people questioning your ethics. It’d be different if you were ignorant about puppy mills, but you fully knowingly supported them. When you get involved with a community of dog lovers, probably many that have experience with rescuing and pouring their heart and soul into saving lives that suffer an industry that you suppported…well, I’m just surprised sooo many were so helpful. That’s what they should be, but when a member who supports puppy mills comes back cocky at a moderator.. well..I just can’t feel sorry for you gettting banned.

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Re: I GOT BANNED FROM ANOTHER BOARD! was i really out of line?

Eh, if we’re being totally honest here – I don’t think anything anyone there said was overly harsh, and you were maybe a bit overly defensive. While your intentions were very good, your actions were not, and you can’t expect a bunch of responsible dog owners to completely ignore that, no matter how you try to rationalize it in your OP.

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They were right for being upset with you for supporting puppy mills, despite your being apart of a dog forum for so long and knowing of what you were supporting. However, kudos to the members that only commented on that briefly and moved on to give you advice.

You should have known it was a bad decision to get a puppy from a pet store. You should have known others wouldn’t agree with your irresponsible actions once you spoke freely about it. You should have expected at least one comment regarding your decision, and you should have ignored it and not gotten nasty with a moderator. You were overly defensive, but while I don’t see anything that warrants a ban in that specific thread, some forums are just more strict about how they allow members to treat the moderators.

There weren’t personal attacks in your direction – just people questioning your ethics. It’d be different if you were ignorant about puppy mills, but you fully knowingly supported them. When you get involved with a community of dog lovers, probably many that have experience with rescuing and pouring their heart and soul into saving lives that suffer an industry that you suppported…well, I’m just surprised sooo many were so helpful. That’s what they should be, but when a member who supports puppy mills comes back cocky at a moderator.. well..I just can’t feel sorry for you gettting banned.

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Eh, if we’re being totally honest here – I don’t think anything anyone there said was overly harsh, and you were maybe a bit overly defensive. While your intentions were very good, your actions were not, and you can’t expect a bunch of responsible dog owners to completely ignore that, no matter how you try to rationalize it in your OP.

ITA with you both…

I’m not attacking you, but you knew the feelings/reasons for not supporting a puppy mill, you were a member of the site for an extended amount of time and knew the issues, yet still did it… They you complained about problems related to it… I am sure it was hard for the group to swallow.

While you might have felt bad for that particular dog, you now have encouraged the mill to produce more pups… it is a vicious circle.

I think most of the comments were perfectly appropriate and on topic. You got WAY too defensive and jumped on people too quick. They were being honest and fair, and offering help to your OP.

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I agree with this. I mean if they are so passionate about that topic on that board you should have expected to get some flames. I also think you overreacted and you should have just let it go when the mod told everyone to stop making comments about you getting the dog from petland. I don’t think you should have been banned but I think you should have just accepted the advice that the posters were giving you and let the criticism roll of your back.

I did expect some flames- BUT i guess what really put me over the top is the MOD of the board making comments- THEN telling others and me to stop– basically he had to get his little jab in then make sure i couldn’t defend myself at all– otherwise really i would have just backed off and prob never even have went back to that thread.

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Re: I GOT BANNED FROM ANOTHER BOARD! was i really out of line?

Ok, I m seeing you do the same thing here that you did over there…

You are becoming overly defensive over the situation and getting a little rude.

Not everyone who told you they were disappointed in the puppy mill situation was out of line. I’m disappointed in you for doing it as well.

When the mod told you to drop it, you should have, end of story. I hate to say it but you egged it on, and came here to do more complaining about it.

You are bashing another board, and that is against the rules here

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Ok, I m seeing you do the same thing here that you did over there…

You are becoming overly defensive over the situation and getting a little rude.

Not everyone who told you they were disappointed in the puppy mill situation was out of line. I’m disappointed in you for doing it as well.

When the mod told you to drop it, you should have, end of story. I hate to say it but you egged it on, and came here to do more complaining about it.

You are bashing another board, and that is against the rules here :twocents:

I don’t see where i am being defensive at all? I’m just explaining my position on the matter i really don’t see rudeness in my post? because i used caps? i’m just trying to emphasize the words? all i’ve done is respond to your post? and i have no way bashed that other board. all i was asking for opinions on what i did to get banned.

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I don’t see where i am being defensive at all? I’m just explaining my position on the matter i really don’t see rudeness in my post? because i used caps? i’m just trying to emphasize the words? all i’ve done is respond to your post? and i have no way bashed that other board. all i was asking for opinions on what i did to get banned.

Any time someone has said they understand where the Mod and other members were coming from you are getting very defensive. You aren’t just explaining yourself. You asked for opinions, we are objective observers and gave those opinions, and you return to “defend” yourself when there is nothing to defend.

Yes, you were out of line. It is the board owner’s/ Mod’s place to decide your fate on any given board.

My suggestion is to drop it. Let it go. Move on. Stating your POV once is enough, you are dwelling on it and making more drama.

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OK i think this thread has already/has the potential-to get way off topic– i think this thread should just go bye-bye- thanks for your opinions everyone!

How have we gone off topic? B/C some people don’t think you were 100% in the right? You asked if you were out of line and for opinions.

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Any time someone has said they understand where the Mod and other members were coming from you are getting very defensive. You aren’t just explaining yourself. You asked for opinions, we are objective observers and gave those opinions, and you return to “defend” yourself when there is nothing to defend.

Yes, you were out of line. It is the board owner’s/ Mod’s place to decide your fate on any given board.

My suggestion is to drop it. Let it go. Move on. Stating your POV once is enough, you are dwelling on it and making more drama.

see in my point of view i consider this thread a running conversation—and my replies are not to defend anything– just to share my thoughts on the matter. again–thanks for your opinions! i think this thread just needs to be deleted.

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Re: MODS- just delete—

Can you tell me why you ask the mods to delete this thread just because some people disagree with you?

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Re: MODS- just delete—

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OK i think this thread has already/has the potential-to get way off topic– i think this thread should just go bye-bye- thanks for your opinions everyone!

How have we gone off topic? B/C some people don’t think you were 100% in the right? You asked if you were out of line and for opinions.

I’m sorry mama– but really i think your trying to stir up more drama– the thread HAS went way off topic in it has turned into a thread about buying from petstores in several threads– the original intent of this thread was to get opinions on WHY i was banned from that board–NOT to continue to debate on purchasing a pet from a petstore.

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Re: MODS- just delete—

Why because people don’t agree with you?

You say they are “welcoming to pets from any source” I am sure they are, but you asked what to do and what caused your pet to be like this, an they told you: buying it from a backyard breeder. Supporting said backyard breeder with your money, making it possible for them to continue harming animals by funding them.

MODS on all forums aren’t the same, in some forums they are just rule enforcers, but don’t chat, in other forums they stay in ‘nice’ topics, in others they are regular posters who say/do what they want, but also have to enforce their own standards.

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Can you tell me why you ask the mods to delete this thread just because some people disagree with you?

that is in no way why i think the thread should be deleted—i welcome differnt opinions! BUT like i said i’m not asking about petstores and puppy mills in my original thread.

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Re: MODS- just delete—

You know that by changing the title of this thread, its just going to attract more attention?

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that is in no way why i think the thread should be deleted—i welcome differnt opinions! BUT like i said i’m not asking about petstores and puppy mills in my original thread.

You asked if the mods on the other site were in the wrong, which is going to include peoples opinions. I don’t get why you created this thread in the first place if you didn’t want to hear what we all had to say.

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I’m sorry mama– but really i think your trying to stir up more drama– the thread HAS went way off topic in it has turned into a thread about buying from petstores in several threads– the original intent of this thread was to get opinions on WHY i was banned from that board–NOT to continue to debate on purchasing a pet from a petstore.

It would be “you’re” not “your”.

The only “pet store” discussions have stemmed from us explaining that the petstore purchase is what upset the members of that board.

However, no, I wasn’t/am not stirring drama. This thread was drama stirring. I gave my opinion, you don’t want to hear it, and that is fine.

Good luck with your new dog.

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You know that by changing the title of this thread, its just going to attract more attention?

well it was my understanding how you got the mods to review/delete something.

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well it was my understanding how you got the mods to review/delete something.

They don’t usually delete threads unless there is a real reason to do so.

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Re: MODS- just delete—

OP, I feel you I do, but you HAD to know everybody wasnt going to agree with you, right?

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They don’t usually delete threads unless there is a real reason to do so.

well i forwarded it to one so they can make the call–

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Re: MODS- just delete—


The passive aggression going on in here is hilarious.

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OP, I feel you I do, but you HAD to know everybody wasnt going to agree with you, right?

YES i did but again—- this thread is not about puppymills/petstores–and it is quickly turning into one……i asked for opinions on why i was banned–and i’ve very thankful for all the responses– even the ones who don’t agree—- it just seems like we are really beating a dead horse here……. thanks again everyone for the opinions/advice!

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  1. Madre says:

    first

  2. naturalmamadot says:

    Ugh OP annoys the hell out of me

  3. amessymama says:

    She already posted a thread w/ same scenario @ DS a week or so ago. I think she’s lookin’ for drama.

    She didn’t get it w/ her first post @ DS. So she goes to a dog site and posts her puppy mill supporting issues and gets her drama. But she doesn’t feel that she got quite enough drama, so she brings it back to DS to get some more.

    Drama whore.

  4. amessymama says:

    Here’s her original post, if anyone cares.

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=812621

  5. JustPeachy says:

    IDK about the whole idea of puppy mills. Its not like people are going to be smart and stop buying from pet stores but on the other hand do I really want the puppies to suffer in the mean time?

  6. eeek says:

    Funny. Why in the world do people think THEY own the internet? They should get to change other’s forums & sites, because it’s all about them y’know.

    That’s like going onto some hard-core environmentalist home forum you’ve been reading for years & saying, “I just tore down a big stand of old-growth redwoods to build my mcmansion, can I have some advice about decorating? no flames, PLEASE.”

  7. Trojane says:

    Peach, I get a little hung up on that, too. In no way do I want to (nor have I.. we get our pets from shelters or other homes), but I feel that those puppies need homes too.

    Fortunately, pet stores are becoming a rare breed and less tempting to take home a cute fluffy. Forgive the pun. Or not.

  8. GMLovah! #1 Fan says:

    Drama whore of epic proportions.

    You can’t even find pet stores around here that sell puppies. Which is awesome.

  9. JustPeachy says:

    Theres one by me but I’ve seen protesters outside the store recently which leads me to believe that they will not be selling puppies anymore.

  10. naturalmamadot says:

    man thats awesome jen, I only know of a couple around here, but it still pisses me off hopefully next generation will be smarter, probably not but I can hope lmao

  11. diudiaole says:

    Wow. What did she expect?

  12. insomniac says:

    that was just funny to read….

    OP: pat my head and tell me I am good
    Masses: Hell no
    OP: Waaaahhh ….Mod delete

    LMAO!!

  13. The Other Megan says:

    Yeah, definitely a case of I-didn’t-get-the-answers-I-wanted-please-delete-I’m-being-harassed. Seriously, I see this Every. Single. Time. I venture to Herpeville. .:rolls eyes:.

  14. thewhiteninja says:

    did it get deleted? It seems like nowadays they do delete when people change the title to DELETE even though that isn’t their policy.

  15. me says:

    She got banned for THAT?

  16. me says:

    I try not to pick at people but the Natty chick is going on about how ethical her mother was with her dogs. Ooookkkaaay then.

  17. amessymama says:

    16-All Battynat ever does is go on and on and on and on….. She posts to her own threads over and over. It’s like she always comes back to expound on her previous statement but she repeats the same nonsense. Drivel.

    She drives me batty, that’s for sure!

  18. Blah says:

    This thread is just odd to me. I don’t get why people with such train wreck lives want to spill all of this publicly on the internet.

    Also, why the hell did she feel the need to post pics of both her and the other women?

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=820686

  19. eeek says:

    Yuck, #18. That thread made my head hurt. & she posted pics because she wanted to emphasize her cuteness and the other woman’s thirty-five-ness.

    Her life would have been so much better if that loser had ditched her like he did his first wife & kid ( & ISN’T THAT A CLUE, when dick hasn’t bothered to see his 16 year old kid in it’s LIFE).

    But then, whose basement could he live in for free? Ahh, maybe bridesmaid girl is desperate enough. You know it’s on the horizon, though, he’s not a sticking around type. If she’s lucky.

  20. screenname says:

    18 – That is some crazy stuff. The picture of her friend was removed, but if you follow the link to her picture then you can see it as the second picture in the group of 6.

    How sad for her that she wants to believe that her husband shouldn’t have cheated on her with her friend because she believes she’s prettier. And she openly admits that she was happy to “settle” for her husband because then she got to be a SAHM.

  21. diudiaole says:

    I’m just wondering why she doesn’t post a post-partum pic instead of the wedding where she is early in her pregnancy and all dolled up.

    Not that it should matter at all — but for someone claiming such high self confidence it just seems weird.

  22. JustPeachy says:

    I have to wonder if she is married to Kaylen’s dad LOL. Seriously sounds alot like him. Hes around that age, likes younger women, knocks em up, then moves on.

  23. amessymama says:

    22-Mmmm. Hot. Sounds like every woman’s dream man.

    :Barf:

  24. JustPeachy says:

    Oh hes a dream if you are 19 and stupid. Hes the type of man to tell ya what ya wanna hear.
    Its not though LOL but its weird that they are both in GA both named Ronnie and pull the same shit.

  25. mommy2nickandlukas says:

    Hey all im a old ds mama and i hate the drama there too…tired of some of them too…whats new

  26. eeek says:

    Being a drama ho, I had to go back & look at this one. Gotta love the biblical scholars (ordained in their own minds) telling her god wants her to stay. THAT’S awesome. ‘Cause making a relationship mistake when you’re still a teenager, falling for an idiot, that should stay with you forever.

    I refuse to think god is that much of a jerk.

  27. monkey says:

    I really hate stories like that. DH is 10 years older than I am and we’ve been taking shit about it for years because everyone knows a horror story where it ends badly.

    It’s not the age difference that matters, it’s the maturity levels, decency and commitment of those involved.

  28. Erin says:

    Wow, how incredibly immature. “I’m so much prettier”. I do NOT understand why women stay. Cheating is a deal breaker for me and this man is a serial cheater. He will not change!

  29. žába says:

    “it’s the maturity levels, decency and commitment of those involved.”
    Unfortunately, is seems like those 2 are lacking in all these departments.

  30. monkey says:

    #29

    You make an excellent point.

  31. Funneh says:

    29 – then doesn’t it stand to reason that they’re actually rather well-suited for one another? 😉

  32. žába says:

    31- you would think so…too bad there is a kid stuck in the middle of all their stupid.

  33. StinkersMama says:

    OP is nuts, but clothdiapermeplease really bothers me. She’s always posting like her opinion is the ONLY right one and then gets so pushy when people don’t agree with her.

  34. Me. Myself, and I says:

    33 – where have I done that? Yes, I am “matter of fact”, blunt, and maybe even a bit bitchy, but I really don’t care when others disagree or have other opinions. I don’t judge anyone for their choices. We all do what is best for ourselves.

    My opinion is just that, my opinion. It isn’t the only right one.

  35. žába says:

    humm, I don’t know what you said that annoyed her, but I always find your comments to be pretty much right on.

  36. bored says:

    i always enjoy clothdiapermeplease’s comment too.

  37. moxy says:

    Same here.

  38. Kimbella says:

    Who is this mama?
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=822136

    should I file the claim now?

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    I posted something last week (maybe wed?) about not receiving some diapers that I ordered over a month ago. I decided not to file a claim yet with paypal because the person I ordered from put something in her siggy about her computer being down until after the weekend. Well the weekend has past and then some and I still haven’t heard anything back from her after emailing her. I saw in other threads to check their last login and it won’t show up for this user. I can see everyone elses last login, but not hers. Is there any other way to check her last login? Would you just file with paypal? We’re at day 37 since I ordered and I don’t want to wait too long, not be able to file, and get screwed out of the money, but I also feel bad filing if she just can’t get on her computer to respond. Thanks!

    jenthe10
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    I posted something last week (maybe wed?) about not receiving some diapers that I ordered over a month ago. I decided not to file a claim yet with paypal because the person I ordered from put something in her siggy about her computer being down until after the weekend. Well the weekend has past and then some and I still haven’t heard anything back from her after emailing her. I saw in other threads to check their last login and it won’t show up for this user. I can see everyone elses last login, but not hers. Is there any other way to check her last login? Would you just file with paypal? We’re at day 37 since I ordered and I don’t want to wait too long, not be able to file, and get screwed out of the money, but I also feel bad filing if she just can’t get on her computer to respond. Thanks!

    I’m in the same boat; but another mama made an excellent point; you can file and then always cancel if it arrives
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    Today, 11:23 AM #3

    ClothDiaperMePlease
    Look at her Trader score (the feedback score) and under her “contact info” it will show her last activity even if she is on “stealth” mode.
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    Today, 12:30 PM #4

    Tiffer23

    Yes, I’d file. You have to protect yourself.
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    Today, 12:45 PM #5

    HeatherM0529
    Registered Users
    I know who you’re talking about, because I’m dealing with the same thing with this mama! I can’t see her last activity!
    And under her contact info it does not say when she was last active!!
    It’s been 24 days since I’ve sent payment, But in her siggy it also Says that ALL DIAPERS went out on Last Friday OR before!!!!
    I’m hoping mine comes soon or I will also file a claim! Good Luck mama!
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    Today, 01:35 PM #6

    roon

    I’m having the same problem as you ladies, with the same person. I filed a couple of days ago and escalated 3 days later (I think I escalated yesterday). If it’s this many people, I would file and escalate right away and we can all just hope we get our money back… Argh.

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    Today, 01:51 PM #7

    ClothDiaperMePlease
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by HeatherM0529
    I know who you’re talking about, because I’m dealing with the same thing with this mama! I can’t see her last activity!
    And under her contact info it does not say when she was last active!!
    It’s been 24 days since I’ve sent payment, But in her siggy it also Says that ALL DIAPERS went out on Last Friday OR before!!!!
    I’m hoping mine comes soon or I will also file a claim! Good Luck mama!

    Go to her profile, THEN to her iTrader feedback.

    On the feedback page it will tell you under contact info (This is how you can see when “invisible people” are online)
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    Today, 02:23 PM #8

    roon
    Registered Users

    Join Date: Mar 2009
    Location: Philadelphia, PA
    Posts: 189
    Ratings: 14
    Feedback: 100%
    My Mood: Re: should I file the claim now?

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    She hasn’t been on since 8/14 in the evening. However, (and maybe this is mean of me) I don’t think having computer problems is an excuse at this point. If you have taken money from people you better find a way to get online, like go to the library or something. No communication is not okay!
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  39. Me. Myself, and I says:

    Thank you ladies 🙂 I was surprised to read that, I very seldom am pushy about something. The peanut thread, insurance being the responsibility of the seller… and that is about it, 😉 everything else is just an observation/opinion. You would be surprised at the number of PMs I get asking about things…

    StinkersMama, sorry that I bug you so much, please feel free to put me on ignore if it is that bad :hugs:

  40. eeek says:

    OK, does anyone have any dirt about the “no IP blockers etc.” thread on HC? IAS obviously came back with a new name….

  41. Kimbella says:

    I think you’re pretty cool too, clothdiapermeplease. 🙂

  42. Laura says:

    Yeah, I wonder what SNAPS friend that was just here defending her thinks of the IP thing. Not so much entegrity after all…..

  43. riffrafflittleman says:

    I thought snaps “friend” here was snaps under a new name. She just seemed to be defending her a little too vehemently to just be a friend.

  44. werd says:

    man… you think she’s stooped to an all-new low and then she goes even lower!! KLASSY!

  45. eeek says:

    I totally missed the IAS friend thing.

    I want to know the UN on HC that was found to be IAS.

    I had thought IAS was trolling over there, there’s a person I really disliked with her same style of extra bitchines, who joined immediately after IAS was banned. But the person I thought was her isn’t banned now so obviously I was wrong.

  46. Aj says:

    Does sahminaz bug the crap out of anyone else? http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=822439
    I want to respond to post #17 of hers, and say that yes, I hope my children would believe them since the big J is not real, but I don’t have the energy to get into that discussion tonight.

  47. amessymama says:

    Someone was here defending snaps? When and where?

    Oh and I heart ClothDiaperMePlease too!!! Probably because I agree w/ almost everything she says. 🙂

  48. Erin says:

    It’s in the other thread, the FSOT Drama one.

  49. eeek says:

    Hehe. read it now.

    Since IAS has multiple IPs, my guess is the defenders were just her. She’s not nice enough to even get those sympathy votes of confidence.

  50. Kimbella says:

    http://hyenacart.com/prod_details.php?id=81259&vid=200001

    If I had to guess, I’d say these ARE made out of S’bish “bad” wool. Why doesn’t she just admit it? I thought some mamas prefered it?

  51. diudiaole says:

    #51 — cute action shots though lol

  52. Kimbella says:

    I agree – Adorable! I love seeing longie action shots, especially boys in longies. 🙂

  53. werd says:

    51 I would never buy from her, just from the attitude she has in her novel of a description – wth?!

  54. Kimbella says:

    I want to email her and ask when she bought them (it’s obvious just by looking that they’re the “bad” wool – the “good” stuff has a fuzzy look to it, imo). Anyway, I want to ask when she got them, and then when she says Spring 2009 or whenever it was that the bad wool came out, reply “Oh, so it IS the bad wool.” hehehe

  55. insomniac says:

    #46 from what I was told the SN that is the new its a snap is Marnas mayhem.

    when she first starting posting I thought it was her but we had no proof. They have proof now and are working on it.
    she is at DS pimping its a snap too…convenient huh?

    someone needs to alert DS mods that snap is using an ip blocker and creating new id’s.

  56. ~*~Momma~*~ says:

    Mods- i think this is the name i posted under, but it’s been a bit and I have mommy brain

  57. ~*~Momma~*~ says:

    Do you think the PTB at DS would even care that she’s there again?

  58. eeek says:

    #56- THAT is exactly who I thought it was. Thank you! When that thread went up yesterday I was so sure it was confirmed, but then I checked over on one of the posts & Marna wasn’t banned yet. Which was disappointing because it seemed like a chance to accomplish 2 things- getting rid of a constantly ridiculously bitchy poster, and exposing IAS’s actual level of twistedness.

    I feel bed for the people on her little forum who don’t know about her. Though I guess google works the same for all of us, they could find stuff out too. I got an email inviting me to join that forum the other day, which I thought was funny.

  59. DSDM2 says:

    I didn’t see her on DS? Someone want to throw a link up please?

  60. insomniac says:

    here you go DSDM http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=822258&highlight=Tickety+Bu

    she is the last poster on this page. her SN is pickingitup.

  61. eeek says:

    found it by searching for IAS spam (I didn’t have to look far!)

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/member.php?u=69843

    pickingitup is the UN

  62. moxy says:

    I’m starting to feel the tiniest bit sorry for IAS. She probably needs professional help.

  63. žába says:

    Yep that is definitely her

    “Interest in OBV Towels/Wash Cloth Sets? Embroidered Perhaps?
    I was just kinda feeling out the market for a future venture. I have been sewing these for my family and friends and they are a huge hit but I wondered if there was a market here for them?”

    I like how she was almost completely ignored in the Testing the WAHM form.

  64. The Other Megan says:

    Oh goody, Snatch is back. I needed some excitement in my life. .:rolls eyes:.
    Bethsflutterby hates me- she’s the only one who’s every dished out warnings to me. I guess we shall see if she gives me a real, live strike on this one, since she’s involved in this thread anyway. 😛

  65. naturalmamadot says:

    lmfao megan, you shouldnt get a strike for that, but considering you can get one for breathing too hard you probably will

  66. Kimbella says:

    Here’s the photobucket pickingitup posted in one of her fsot threads (http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showpost.php?p=8149954&postcount=3): http://s646.photobucket.com/albums/uu187/BambooVelourHeaven/

    Now look at the pics here: http://hyenacart.com/ItsaSnap/

    Does she think people are that stupid?!

  67. Me. Myself, and I says:

    I just reported it and posted it in the thread.

    It’s a Snap bugs the day lights out of me.

  68. DSDM2 says:

    Even the photo info is the same on the sheets and on the diapers, which means it is her taking both photos, no way she “borrowed” them b/c she liked them. (IE: What Camera and her information behind the type of settings on the camera) http://s646.photobucket.com/albums/uu187/BambooVelourHeaven/?action=view&current=DSC06010.jpg&newest=1

    File Name: DSC06010.jpg

    File Size: 29 kb – 320 x 240

    Camera Make: SONY

    Camera Model: DCR-TRV840

    Date/Time: : : : :

    Resolution: 320 x 240

    Flash Used: No

    Focal Length: 3.3mm

    Exposure Time: 0.017 s (1/60)

    Aperture: f/1.6

    Exposure: program (auto)

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    http://s646.photobucket.com/albums/uu187/BambooVelourHeaven/Diapers%20for%20Sale/?action=view&current=DSC06189.jpg&newest=1

    File Name: DSC06189.jpg

    File Size: 81 kb – 1024 x 768

    Camera Make: SONY

    Camera Model: DCR-TRV840

    Date/Time: : : : :

    Resolution: 1024 x 768

    Flash Used: No

    Focal Length: 3.3mm

    Exposure Time: 0.0020 s (1/500)

    Aperture: f/14.0

    Exposure: program (auto)

  69. DSDM2 says:

    Now the thread is deleted. You ladies might want to send admin the info I just posted too.

  70. DSDM2 says:

    She has her own thread now 🙂

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