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Buyer said my diapers are unusable (spots transaction)

I’m afraid she’s going to leave neg feedback! She bought 2 fuzzibunz from me and she just has all kinds of issues with them. One she said the elastic is completely shot, you can even see in the picture how tight it is . The other she said is dingy and the fleece looks really used and the diaper is unusable.Now I listed these diapers in very good condition with no issues. That is really all I wrote I didn’t go into detail, I had pictures. But they are certainly very usuable. The frog diaper I got brand new and only used a couple of times.She wants her money back or she is going through pp or spots she says.

ETA: She paid $6.00 ppd for each so she got a wonderful deal on diapers that were in very good used condition.

Here’s her HC feedback, seller name is Mccurrygaill
She has annasmommy2 as her photobucket account. Here’s the HC feedback for Annasmommy2/Us4&AngelCorey
So she has 2 HC accounts with negative feedback issues.
Then there’s the annasmommy2 ebay account with even more issues. Again, same seller.
Looks like someone is trying to hide from some bad feedback history. Isn’t it ironic that someone with so many issues of her own is now possibly being scammed by someone else?

  1. Gail says:

    Ok I have 2 hc accounts, I got the names mixed up like I said. I said I have 2 accounts and I do, not 3.

    My annasmommy2 account on ebay is very old, I haven’t used that for years. I now have an e-bay account that has over 500 positive fb’s, think I’m sharing that with you hell no I need that account and if I share I’m sure someone would love to buy something and leave me a neg for no reason.

    I explained all my hc negative transactions and as I explained before I agree that it is wrong of me to leave people waiting so long and not getting back, and I have sent everyone’s items out or refunded as of to date. I looked through my fb and I don’t see any that say they didn’t get an item or a refund but if you see one feel free to lmk so I can get in touch with that person because I am not out to take anyone’s money.

  2. Gail says:

    Ok but now that the blog is back to the correct issue I will step out so you all can talk about it because there is nothing I can say or do that will make you change your mind about me and that is fine with me.

  3. Just Peachy says:

    Well its not like its a one time thing Gail. Its consistent. If you can’t get your items out in a timely manner don’t sell. Its not that hard to get an item out within a few days even for me and I have 3 girls plus I WOH part time.

  4. naturalmamadot says:

    Yea, it would be different if it was “oh I always ship like 6 days later” some ppl consider that slow, but if you consistently have a problem with shipping very slowly, either dont sell online, or state that you only ship once a week and MAKE yourself do it that day, etc etc etc. There are ways to work around busy schedules and ppl are forgiving of not being able to ship for a while IF you let them know. Communication is key 😀

  5. naturalmamadot says:


  6. diudiaole says:

    I don’t really get why this is blog worthy… yes she has some negatives but she has probably 98% positive feedback if the gymbo and other ebay stuff is accurate.

    What about Weslie83 being such a bitch and then selling the diapers on FSOT like that? I thought this was going to be about her.

  7. Just Peachy says:

    Ya weslie is a bitch too. How do shitty dipes go to EUC that quickly hmmmm?

  8. Trojane says:

    It’s blog-worthy. She has a lot of negatives. Worse has happened to people with fewer.

    I get that the eBay negs were a loooong ass time ago, but why didn’t you send out so many packages? When did you create your new eBay user name?

  9. seriously... says:

    Gail…just wanted you to know that I saw your website, and showed it to my dh, and we are in the process of bolting everything in our house to the walls. Your ds is helping to save lives because of your raising awarness of childproofing. Thank you so much. Scammer, or not a scammer, I don’t really care. In my mind even if you were stealing money, your website is saving lives, which is much more important. I know, weird thinking, lol! So, try to ship your stuff…or whatev., but thanks for potentially saving my children’s lives. 😉

  10. nu says:

    I have to agree with Seriously—-each of us has different levels of importance….my children are pretty high on that list compared to $$$$ (no matter the dollar amount).

  11. subpariq says:

    I agree seriously. Also, I feel like there is a difference between those that set out to deceive and those that just suck at shipping. Neither is acceptable but intention is important to me. Can also understand when people have other things on their minds and don’t have their shit together.

  12. werd says:

    Seriously people… you all asked that the thread be closed and no one talk about her child… and here you are in the NEW thread, talking about her child?!

    Point is – she has a bunch of negs, changed to a new s/n when she got the negs and continues to sell. That is deceitful… and her tragic background should have no bearing on her selling practice. If that were the case, then in my situation with thenanny, you all should have been on her side and told me I was being an uncaring meanie for not letting it go because of her life story she posted on DS for the entire world to see.

    I find this just a bit hypocritical TBH. And now because things were getting to the core of the matter (the scammy behavior), Gail has peaced out real quick like – and I understand that she was hurt by all the talk of her son 😦 . But I can’t be the only one bothered by this.

  13. Me, Myself, and I says:

    Werd, I totally agree!

    How long can she use the “I lost a child” card before it expires? She has had negative FB for 4 YEARS! It is nothing new. She not only came up with a new SN on Spots, but on Ebay too. That is scammish.

    DSDM2 has said before that most of the scammers are unintentional scammers… I agree with her totally. Most are people that get in over their head and can’t handle BST online.

    She has chronic shipping and item not as described issues. (She has ANOTHER not as described issue on her new ebay account according to her posts on gymbofriends.)

    It is nothing new; it is the same old story. Mama starts out with just a little bad feed back, it snowballs and she steals hundreds.

    You are all being hypocritical, you know that had her child not come into the thread you would be all over her scamming ass.

  14. BffMama says:

    Wow. There is a definite double standard all up in hizere.

    1. New ebay ID was created after ebay shut down the other one (annasmommy2) due to negative FB issues.
    2. New ebay ID was created to skirt around the rules and run away from accountability.
    3. 1st HC account has negative FB issues.
    4. New HC account created to skirt around the rules and run away from accountability.

    How is that not scamming and/or questionable character? Someone let me know.

  15. BffMama says:

    There has been a not as described dispute on the ‘new’ ebay account of hers, too.

    Pretty sure she’s violated TOS for ebay and HC both.

  16. Melissa says:

    So what is your definition of a scammer? I see others on here slammed for being scammer-ish but have no idea why. Alot of times it looks like more of a personal vendetta than a true scammer situation.

  17. Melissa says:

    #15…HC does not enforce its TOS at all.

  18. diudiaole says:

    Yeah, most of us have a bad taste in our mouths now w/anything having to do with this. I definitely do.

  19. BffMama says:

    Sorry, based on the previous thread’s comments, there are actually 3 HC accounts.

  20. erin says:

    I think there are only 2 HC accounts, she just changed usernames on the first one. After she got her negative feedback she changed her HC username from annasmommy2 to Us4&AngelCorey. If you google annasmommy2, her HC account still comes up but when you click it says Us4&AngelCorey. I know she says she “never” had an HC account under annasmomy2 but she just changed the name on it less than a month ago.

    A lot of people don’t mind slow shipping but the point of feedback is so that you can read that and make a decision about whether not you mind that before you buy something.

  21. Trojane says:

    The eBay negs happened before the tragedy, so I really don’t see how she can truthfully play that ‘card.’ I wish she’d come back and talk about the real reason she’s blogged about here.

    Oh well.. it’s out there for people to decide, at least.

  22. bored says:

    we need some new drama….

  23. DSDM2 says:

    I’m intrigued. If this woman hadn’t had the loss that she did, you would all be acting differently.

    I did receive some emails and some mamas have reported her to ebay and hc for violating TOS and for her bad feedback.

  24. diudiaole says:

    Yes, we’re bleeding heart pushovers. next please.

  25. eeek says:

    #17- HC will enforce the TOS if violations are pointed out to them, but you’re right in that it sucks that they don’t have it automatically linked to trigger some flag. I honestly think they need to hire someone to work on HC, the site is generating a lot of money and it really seems like it should be moving forward faster. Or advertise more.

    & I think that both sides of this drama have issues. Kind of karma they ended up together.

  26. me says:

    Woohoo! I got me some retalitatory neg action on DS.

  27. amessymama says:

    26-Apparently she wasn’t sorry. Geez.

    When so many people stuck up for her and said this was out of character, I started to believe them. Not so much anymore. She’s not really helping her cause much.

    Mods will remove that right?

  28. Munklettes says:

    #26 – WHAT?!? Is that the same transaction from the call out thread on CDN?

  29. me says:

    Yep. Same transaction.

    I PM’d a mod. They will change it to a neutral, but they won’t remove it.

  30. bugabear says:

    I don’t think it’s so bad to have a neutral in your feedback, if it says “deemed retaliatory.” Because if that happens, then there is a trail back to the person who is leaving retaliatory fb and will keep people from buying from them in the future.

  31. diudiaole says:

    Yeah… so much for Busy Bottoms having a ‘one time’ breakdown. Apparently she is a trifling bitch. I guess she’s only nice when people are paypaling her and raving her shit.

  32. me says:

    It doesn’t say “deemed retaliatory”. My other neutral is retaliatory as well.

  33. Kimbella says:

    I was given a retalitory negative once, and it was completely removed. It looks like I was never given feedback from that person. My negative feedback for her is still on her itrader though.

    Maybe because I involved a mod almost from the beginning?

  34. Erin says:

    Gail, there’s a really easy fix to this scamming thing- describe your items accurately, truthfully and SEND THEM ASAP. Or, if sending them out quickly is difficult, then SAY SO in your listing. It’s pretty easy to say something like “I only get to the PO 1 day a week, so please be patient”. Then, pick a day to go and STICK TO IT.

    At least then your shipping problems will be solved.

  35. Erin says:

    #26, well Gee, looks like BusyBottoms really IS a bitch after all. Surprise, surprise.

  36. thewhiteninja says:

    Busy Bottoms is a douche.

  37. Just Peachy says:

    Did anyone else notice in her “apology” thread on CDN how she was like I know I measured it right blah blah blah? How in the hell did it go from weighing 2lbs to 1.8 with some cuts out of it?

  38. werd says:

    wow, that is so fucked up. I really wanted to give BB the benefit of the doubt but any sympathy I had is just gone.

    I’d contact a mod and explain the situation. That’s messed up! I hope you left her appropriate FB too!

  39. Just Peachy says:

    I didn’t I knew she wasnt sorry. I hope she never comes back to CDN and I so wanted to call her out on that part of her post but I refrained.

  40. amessymama says:

    You refrained, Peachy? How unlike you. lol

  41. Just Peachy says:

    I know but see there were so many ppl kissing her ass plus I didn’t want to come off like the cold heartless bitch of the thread ROFL.

  42. diudiaole says:

    #40 lol

  43. diudiaole says:

    At any rate a yard of obv weighs 15oz or more if it is prepped already which I am assuming may have been the case since it was all hacked up. So it should have been nearly 3lbs of fabric… instead it was barely over 2.

    What a POS … and she proved it herself.

    Me — can you ask CDN to add this warm fuzzy little update to her call out thread?

  44. werd says:

    seriously Me I would let the CDN mods know – they can add it to the call-out. That is serious shit dude!

  45. werd says:

    nevermind, its on the thread!

  46. diudiaole says:

    oops I need to sub to that one …

  47. Messy says:

    I am behind… I need a link Diu, please 😉

  48. dirtyj says:

    Ridiculous. I am not surprised. Her apology bogus and clearly to placate the CDN members. I have seen her go off before but usually she was so pleasant.
    I could see her losing her cool if the buyer pulling some BS but Jess is clearly in the wrong here. so what is her deal?

    even in her apology she never took responsibility or admitted that she could be wrong.

  49. adensmama says:

    Can someone link to the callout thread?

  50. Messy says:

    #48 Scammers need to learn that there are no “bandaides” and no “placating” on CDN. That shit does not fly. It is called out for what it is and that is the reality it is required to live in!

  51. dirtyj says:

    She has to know that by leaving -feedback and continuing with the nasty PMs will only dredge it up again

  52. Messy says:

    N/M Found it right there on the front page LOL!

  53. diudiaole says:

    As the issue becomes more roiled here and on CDN, BB gets all the nastier it seems. It’s like keepyourbabyclose is her lightning rod of hate. I would be a bit freaked out wondering what this nutjob is capable of… especially since she has your address.

  54. magpiedpiper says:

    Peachy, I felt the same way about that thread. I thought her original “apology” was petulant and not very sincere, and focused entirely too much on how much people’s comment hurt HER and how this was the one place she had to talk about her life boohoo etc rather than on just straight up apologizing for being a douche and not throwing a pity party for herself.

  55. diudiaole says:

    I like your avatar #54

  56. magpiedpiper says:

    Thanks, diu. I took it for a BG pic contest, and even if they didn’t like it I did. lol

  57. kgibbler says:

    This is pretty shitty if its true

    Mama gifted 5 NRSS and sells them 3 months later. I was all touhed when this happened. New it was too good to be true.

  58. volbaby07 says:

    BB just pisses me off. I tried to hold my tongue…errr, fingers….and not say anything, but I posted a vent awhile back about a tester issue that was happening at another board. She went apeshit on me, saying it was about her and just verbally attacking me for posting a vent. I couldn’t believe a WAHM with an actual thriving business would jump someone’s ass in a thread that they ASSumed was about themselves.
    I think she is/was a bitch long before the “personal problems” started and this issue with KYBC just shone a spotlight on it. I finally said as much on her call out thread, but no one acknowledges that she could possibly just be a mean bitch instead of just so overwhelmed and stressed with personal stuff.

  59. monkey says:

    Every time I check this thread I hear this song in my head:

  60. insomniac says:

    welllllll, so glad I got jumped on in that thread for saying freaking out on customers is shitty and bad for business.
    Although after her apology I did give her the benefit of the doubt.
    Guess my first instinct had been right.

  61. me says:

    Diu, she’s rather close to me too (one state away-about 4ish hours).

    This pretty much sealed it for me that the apology was all for show on CDN (and was why I filed the JAR).

    “you are a horrible person. and karma catches up to people like you.” From her last PM, right before she left my neg.

    Seriously. WTH did I do? Not accept her gross fabric that wasn’t the length that it was supposed to be? Please.

  62. mmspirit7 says:

    57 i have to say while it was sweet the gift in and of itself. once they left the hands of the wahm she has NO say over what happens to them. why do people think that they can tell others what to do with their gifts? because this is what it was a gift….we don’t know if she sold them all because they didn’t work for her fit or anything in her op she talks about how she hadn’t used them before.

    we don’t know if a bill came up and really it doesn’t matter they were hers to do as she pleased. she could have trashed them ran over them with a car.

    the gift was great…but it pisses me off that she is getting raked over coals because she didn’t gift something to someone else. i mean how dear she do something with her own shit.

    this pisses me people are not suppose to be pissed when someone sells an item for more than they bought it off of someone else. we tell them to suck and deal but if it’s was a gift we jump them and tell them they can’t do that.

    sigh double standers are stupid

  63. trolltastic says:

    Jesus Christ, now Gail is on the diaper boards too?
    Why can’t you just go AWAY?!
    ***section edited out by DSDM2***

    You are the classic diaper/clothing addict. Just buy so you can sell, sell so you can buy. You truly need help and I will pray for you.
    These issues started before you lost your precious son.

    Did any one mention that ***edited*** she was doing IVF? How does a ‘poor’ family afford IVF?
    Hmmm. Must have been those donations she kept begging for, ***edited***….

  64. magpiedpiper says:

    The “rave” thread for BB on CDN is annoying. No, she’s not a sweetheart, and just because she used to be nice to some people doesn’t mean that they should ignore what an awful person she’s being right NOW.

  65. mmspirit7 says:

    bb sigh i have to say i liked her. i got diapers and had to send them right back though there weren’t closed and then i ordered other (mainly because they were our over night diapers and worked great for my three meaning they fit) and well the second batch just didn’t fit the same the snaps were off and turns out the inside fabric doesn’t hold up very well and dh is pissed. i left feed back after i got them and didn’t wait.

    i won’t ask why her one size diaper that she made for my dd that is still in a size 2 sposie doesn’t fit around the waist and is hard to put on. (at fit i thought it was the fabric but you but it bearly fits)

    and well saddly i like her diapers at first and now i am just not happy with them i don’t know what to do about it. i don’t think anyone would buy them.

    anyways she was fine when i worked with her and even with getting the diapers finished that were sent unfinished and she sent a cute dress to for the mistake.

  66. Messy says:

    Guys, it looks like this is taking a turn for the worse (#63 for instance), so I am bailing on this thread as well. I just cannot sit and read about this over and over 😦 It is heartbreaking because no matter what anyone eles does or says or thinks, there is still a mama that lost her baby and a baby gone from this earth. That is the end of the story no matter what is written in the middle.
    I cannot take discussing it and really wish that Trolltastic would have posted it on the other thread already, unfortunately, talking about this. See everyone in another thread 🙂
    Oh, and BB is a BITCH! LOL!

  67. dirtyj says:

    If Oh snap is no longer with her husband why doesn’t she change her sig ?

  68. naturalmamadot says:

    I was wondering that 68

    oh and messy…its because the other one is closed, I think it should of been left open and the other post made so ppl who want to could still “have their say” or whatever, but now whenever someone has their 2C to add they are going to do it in the most active thread. *shrugs*

  69. Grogwench says:

    Can trolltastic’s post be removed or at least moved to the other thread? It has no place here.

  70. Laura says:

    #63….you’re such a bitch! The other thread was closed for a reason. MY GOD! Talk about her crappy shipping or her horrible feedback but leave the child out of it!

  71. DSDM2 says:

    I am going to edit Trolltastic’s post a little. However, I don’t think she stepped far over a line.

  72. DSDM2 says:

    Let messy know it was edited.

  73. DSDM2 says:

    #69 we closed it so that it didn’t get out of hand; none of us want to talk about or read about the child’s passing, we wanted to get back to the issue at hand :).

  74. naturalmamadot says:

    I get that, I just dont want to keep seeing messy have to leave threads and you guys have to do more work editing, deleting and moderating because ppl still want their say

  75. eeek says:

    Yeah, I didn’t read that other thread until last night, it’s a bad thread & it’s good it’s dead.

    Back to BB, I have no idea what excuse she thinks she has for being so nasty, but she is & no one’s going to forget it. Everyone has personal problems sometimes, if that pushes you into being a raving beyotch maybe you need to take time off from hanging out with people.

  76. werd says:

    I’m not surprised that people are still buying from thenanny – her sob story worked!! Good for her… I’m still waiting for a “pending” refund. Maybe this way I will actually get one now!

  77. magpiedpiper says:

    Maybe they wouldn’t be if DS had left her thread up for others to see what a trainwreck her business is right now.

  78. werd says:

    Yeah I got a PM on DS saying my thread had been deleted for WAHM outing because I posted in the other thread. Which is kinda funny because SHE outed herself in her thread, and all people had to do was look at my T&F thread to compare stories.

    But its alright, I shouldn’t have posted in her thread anyways, it was emotionally-motivated. Oh well.

  79. Incognizable says:

    Werd, I agree hopefully her pity sales will get you your refund.

  80. diudiaole says:

    I don’t even think those are pity sales now — not everyone has time to read everything posted in off topic or T&F… those posts weren’t there for very long. It is just business as usual w/Oh Snap to all the unsuspecting mamas trying to get in on those super duper ‘DS mama specials” ::blech::

  81. thewhiteninja says:

    Did the NRSS thread just go poof? It wasn’t even bad! I have the whole page 5 on one of my tabs still.

  82. Lolanae says:

    Yup – NRSS thread is gone.

  83. werd says:

    well its their own damn fault for not checking FB!

  84. thewhiteninja says:

    Wow, DS is seriously getting worse and worse. I mean I know they were horrible before but it is reaching a whole new level.

  85. diudiaole says:

    You’d think werd — but she has 98% good feedback even with our two negs… one might look at 98% and not bat an eye, kwim?

  86. Laura says:

    84. FB??

  87. eeek says:

    Yes, it is, werd. & any pity sales get what they deserve, which may be snaps or it may be nothing, they’re gambling with someone who’s admitted serious problems but at least that’s their choice now. I hope one of them pays so your refund goes through!

  88. naturalmamadot says:

    87- FB = feedback

  89. eeek says:

    Diu, when I order stuff from anyone who has ANY negs I check it first & I think everyone should. It might not change my mind, frequently neg feedback is left by people who are obviously insane or have grudges. But when it’s recent, real issues, and it’s right there on the FB screen, buyers who don’t bother aren’t really trying to protect themselves & they should if they care about their money. IMO….

  90. Laura says:

    yeah but checking FB for what? where? link?

  91. kitty1163 says:

    Why on earth was NRSS poof? I posted on that … wonder if I’ll get a slap on the wrist?

  92. cdc3030 says:

    So, I need to buy me some snaps. Hmm. Wonder where i should get them. Her coupon code is tempting…… 😉

  93. werd says:

    I’m not going to bash her or tell anyone NOT to buy from her… we are all adults and can make decisions for ourselves.

    I can say that was WONDERFUL to deal with and really came through for me. Shipping was super fast! I will be buying from them (or possibly from the co-op mentioned if I’m not in a pinch) from now on!

  94. Aj says:

    So…I think I got the e-herp from ds Saturday–I am so pissed!!! I’m pretty sure we got rid of it, but I’m so afraid to use our desktop now-argh!!!!!!!!

    Can anyone spam me though if you can make a black tank top for my 6yo with a girly skull & crossbones on it for her pirate halloween costume??? Thanks girls, I don’t want to go back. 😦

  95. Just Peachy says:

    I posted this on POC in response to the NRSS bullshit
    August 8th, 2009 at 21:32 · Reply

    So wait she ordered one diaper got 5 instead and sold the other 4? That has got to be about the shittiest thing I have ever heard. You can bet your ass when and IF I ever get rid of the two NRSS I was gifted with they are going FFS to someone I know and trust.

    And dont pull that oh you don’t know what the deal was. I’ve been there at that point where I could’ve easily sold the two I have to pay a bill or two but its fucking karma and I hope it bites her hard in the ass. This is the second time I have heard of someone being asshole with their orders. I hope Claudia blacklists her ass.

  96. pippen says:

    Wow, Miles sure is thankful for all the advice. <–extreme sarcasm.

  97. Just Peachy says:

    Im sick of people taking advantage of other peoples kindness. This is why its more and more difficult to get anything but stuff that is falling apart on FFS IMO. Sorry if I offend anyone but its absolute crap and I don’t give a flying rats ass wtf ever the deal was.

  98. diudiaole says:

    peachy — I am FFSing a OS girly set on my HC tomorrow… and for the record, whoever wins can sell them whenever for whatever reason and it won’t bother me lol.

  99. diudiaole says:

    Why does someone like Miles even have animals in the house? Shit. Even if you’re a horrible housekeeper, you’ve got to at least make an effort to keep things sanitary and safe for your kids!! Animals period much less vermin ridden ones should not be in the picture!

  100. mmspirit7 says:

    peach i disagree….what good is a gift if it has strings attached to it

  101. Laura says:

    someone link us to the facebook drama.

  102. diudiaole says:

    tbsnb uuuuuuuuuuhnn nv n bm

  103. dirtyj says:

    Good God now she has fleas??

  104. diudiaole says:

    Tristan says hi

  105. pippen says:

    haha, i thought it was secret ninja code

  106. Just Peachy says:

    Im not saying anyone should be like oh don’t sell it. But it would be nice if people did not immediately go to sell things they were given out of the goodness out of someone else’s heart.

  107. Just Peachy says:

    On top of that as a wahm it has to be disheartening to see that shit happen. I would be less inclined to do ffs stuff if I knew people were in it just for profit.

  108. altaem says:

    Diu – link to your HC?

  109. diudiaole says:

    In this case I think she shot herself in the foot by bragging about it and swearing she would never ever sell them. but anyway…

    I will be putting up lotto and the few other items I may or may not have finished by then tomorrow:

  110. Incognizable says:

    I’m torn with the gifting thing but my .02

    If I had great transaction with a wahm and she gave me extras as a “thank you” then yes I would do whatever with them.

    If I had a crappy transaction and the wahm gave me extras as an “I’m sorry” I’d do whatever with them as well.

    However, if a wahm is paying it forward and giving me something from the goodness of her heart, although no strings are attached, ethically I would follow the example and pay it forward without interest in profitting. Just me though.

  111. Just Peachy says:

    incognizable thats what Im talking about.

  112. diudiaole says:

    #112 —

    I just think there is no way anyone can accurately judge what is going on unless they intimately understand the situation.

    Like, if the items were sold to pay a bill or buy food or buy a larger size or even go out to eat as a family… that is good… but if knew they were sold to buy crack or booze etc. I’m sure I’d be upset for enabling an addict.

  113. Just Peachy says:

    Eh Im indifferent to situations. I may come off as a bitch but I just can;t see how someone can feel good about selling something someone gave out of the kindness of their own heart.

  114. Incognizable says:

    @114. Oh I completely agree that the circumstances here are key.

    But I don’t “think” too many states will let a family foster kids if they are not self sufficient. KWIM? I hope that if she is a state licensed foster care provider that she can provide food, shelter, and other basic needs for the kids and not rely on diaper re-sell to keep a roof over them or pay bills…

    And if they didnt work for me I’d trade em. They have a high trade value anyway.

  115. eeek says:

    I think if you really give a gift, it has nothing to do with you once it’s in their hands. Otherwise, it’s a trade, and you’re asking them to owe you some undefined quantity forever, apparently.

    She did post a rave, she should have after getting 4 free diapers, that’s pretty huge. I’m sure she was very touched and probably thought she would keep them. Maybe they didn’t work for her, maybe she has no one diapers now & doesn’t plan on having more.

    Right now though, they’re still hers to sell, pass on, or have small people poop in. She owns them. And maybe she needs the money- and I don’t care if she needs it to take her big pack of foster kids on vacation or whether she has a bill to pay.

    I’m actually a huge fan of PIF and of passing stuff along. I think karma helps those who help others. However, you can’t put strings on stuff when you help them, or you’re adding to their burden instead of lightening it, just in a different way. If you can’t just give it and let it go in your mind, don’t give it.

    & as a WAHM, I know I get a massive amount of hits & forum posts linking to me when I have free drawings. I’d keep on doing it even if every single winner immediately turned around and FSOT’d them. That wasn’t what Claudia did here, of course, but I’m just saying don’t worry that WAHMs won’t keep offering free stuff.

  116. kitty1163 says:

    I just totally disagree. I think if you gift someone something, you can sell or do whatever you want with them. I have complained when others have sold something I sold for more. LIke longies I sold for $20PPD and I see them listed for $35PPD four weeks later. But there is NOTHING I can do about it.

    If you are a WAHM gifting is one of those things you have to weigh. If you don’t ever want someone to resell your things then you have NOT gift. If you feel like doing it, do it out of the goodness of your heart. Without strings attached. Period.

  117. Meghan says:

    I agree. If you can’t handle someone selling whatever you give them, don’t give it. (I think I would have sold it somewhere else though, just so that I didn’t rub people the wrong way, and I’d only sell it if I really needed to.)

  118. me says:

    Diu, do you happen to sell your pattern? I’d LOVE to make some of those for my newbie 🙂

  119. cdc3030 says:

    (I have always bought mine from the snap store. always super fast. Just had to dig through my email to remember)

  120. diudiaole says:

    me — I wouldn’t even know where to begin as I have done and redone it dozens of times… mediums and larges are ready.. OS almost ready. The newborn and small sizes have not yet been tested publicly so as soon as I have a bunch made, I am going to list those sizes as testers for 1/2 off the normal price.

    I have an ISO list on DS and would be up for trading for either store credit or possibly customs in a couple of weeks as I finish up what I have on my list now.

  121. Aj says:

    Okay, I know I said I wasn’t going back…but I did, and came across this beauty:
    Who wants to bet it’s connersmama???

  122. naturalmamadot says:

    lmao i dunno but i want to see that shirt and what she means by that!

  123. diudiaole says:

    Did you all see the busy bottom rave? Yeah a real sweetheart. :\

  124. melmelly says:

    87. Laura Says:
    August 10, 2009 at 6:52 pm

    84. FB??


    89. naturalmamadot Says:
    August 10, 2009 at 6:58 pm

    87- FB = feedback


    103. Laura Says:
    August 10, 2009 at 8:22 pm

    someone link us to the facebook drama.


    Your FB question was answered. There is no Facebook drama. FB means feed back.

  125. amessymama says:

    123- I asked of she had a pic. lol Hopefully she’ll share, so we can see if it is connersmamamonstrosities.

    125-Yes I saw that. She also said, in the other thread, that there is more to the story? :rollseyes:

  126. BffMama says:

    DSDM2- Ding Ding Ding…we have a winner!

  127. cdc3030 says:

    125 GAG

  128. magpiedpiper says:

    Yeah #125, that’s the thread I mentioned in #64. I can’t believe people are actually sticking up for her. And to use the excuse “well, you all don’t know the WHOLE story” is so lame. Yes, we do. All her personal crap has no bearing on this situation.

  129. me says:

    #125, meh. Whatever floats their boat 🙂

    I don’t fault them for having positive transactions in the past, and choosing to still continue to do business with her based on those transactions. That is their choice, of course.

    On a side note, is DS down right now?

  130. mmspirit7 says:

    ok i have 5 bb diapers i want to unload do you think i could?

  131. cdc3030 says:

    DS is indeed down, or slooooooowww

  132. diudiaole says:

    #132 — you should post in that rave thread that you have 5, count ’em, 5 of those treasures and they are up for grabs for a limited time only, folks…. first come, first serve. etc


  133. mmspirit7 says:

    yeah i am finding ds very very very slow

  134. naturalmamadot says:

    on ds yea lol

  135. mmspirit7 says:

    LOL maybe i will in the morning. i have a custom tinker bell that dd wore like three times it just doesn’t work. and i have ella and thing 1 and 2 i really wonder if they would sell and what would a fair price be. i would like to fund some new diapers we will use.

  136. me says:

    How’s this for irony…

    I’d love to see pics of the Thing 1 and 2 diapers 🙂 Are they OS diapers? I’ve never actually seen hers.

  137. mmspirit7 says:

    i just posted i would be selling some.

  138. mmspirit7 says:

    yes they are os the worked great for over night on my pling 3 year old who don’t need them anymore but dd they are anything but trim i will see if i can find a pic

  139. diudiaole says:

    Check out the WAHM Nation Congo — there are some pics of her stuff under ‘busy bottoms’. frontsnapping OS dipes

  140. mmspirit7 says:

    i found on with each kid in one of her diapers. it’s loading.

  141. werd says:

    I am disappointed in the way some people are acting about the whole BB issue. Really disappointed 😦

  142. me says:

    Those actually look really nice 🙂

    Much better than my pathetic attempt at a diaper tonight! lol

  143. naturalmamadot says:

    um that was directed towards 132, I bet you could unload them on DS

  144. diudiaole says:

    #145 — do you use a pattern? There are some good free ones.. before I started working on my own I was really considering purchasing the hippy hippy snap pattern

  145. mmspirit7 says:

    werd i am not getting rid of them because of what went done but because after talking to dh we just don’t like them and they just don’t get used. i am planing on priceing them at 10ppd or 15ppd i have to go through and check for staining and such. they were great when i needed something for both kids at the same time but has dd grows they just don’t work anymore.

  146. mmspirit7 says:

    i should add this is why i am feeling the water out because i am worried people would think i was getting rid of them because of what went down.

  147. me says:

    I was trying out a new pattern tonight, the Little Comet Tails one size.

    I apparently don’t follow directions very well, because I really messed up the snaps on the first one 🙂

    The second one wasn’t terrible, but it still didn’t wow me.

    I usually use the DDU pattern.

  148. mmspirit7 says:

    ok here are the pics on the kids babe was about 6 months and ds 3 it’s the bb os

    though the tinker bell one doesn’t have much give it’s a woven but cute as can be.

  149. mmspirit7 says:

    i love that fabric! and for a second try i don’t think it’s to bad.

  150. naturalmamadot says:

    149 I wouldnt give a shit wht ppl thought, your diapers, you paid for them, you can sell them for whatever reason you choose. If anyone says anything to you about it tell them you didnt like them and thats that matter of opinion/leakage/sizing/snaps vs velcro/material who cares they are YOURS ignore anyone who tries to make you feel like its not okay to sell your items because BB decided to dig herself a nice BIG hole

  151. mmspirit7 says:

    153 thanks i know that but i just didn’t want people telling me it was wrong they don’t work for us. they did for a short time and now dh can’t get them on and gets pissed when he has to use them. right now our dream dipe is the sbish magic fitteds. they just fit prefect my no butt little girl.

  152. diudiaole says:

    Ok I have heard good things about little comet tails — I didn’t know they had a OS though.

  153. werd says:

    oh gosh no charise I wasn’t talking about you at all!!!

  154. mmspirit7 says:

    ok cool werd.

  155. werd says:

    ME – looks DAMN good for your second try!

    I have been rocking the Darling Diapers NB pattern but am looking for a good OS pattern that I can turn and topstitch with!

    And Charise, I don’t think anyone will give you a hard time. If they do, you know how to handle yourself! LOL

  156. me says:

    Oh, I’ve made quite a few diapers, it’s just my second try with that pattern. New patterns always throw me for a loop.

    I love the DD NB pattern, too. I don’t think the LCT will work for itty bitty babies though, so I figured I’d do DD NB, DD smalls, and then the rest OS.

  157. werd says:

    Yeah that is what I am planning on doing too!

    I think I may end up buying the LCT pattern… I made some not-so-flat wraps with some leftover flannel I had, too.

  158. mmspirit7 says:

    lol yeah i could werd. i just didn’t want to deal with it. LOL.

  159. mmspirit7 says:

    me i posted a link to the thing 1 2 dipe i think it was you that asked

  160. diudiaole says:

    LCT has a preemie size I’m pretty sure… a freaking cute pattern. I wish I had made a bunch for my baby that came out 5.5lbs and 20 inches long

  161. werd says:

    I will be SHOCKED if this boy comes out under 8lbs. Carly was 8lbs 3 oz at 38 weeks. And this boy is measuring pretty big!

  162. diudiaole says:

    #164 — I have tiny babies… of course my first were twins and very premature, but this one was a singleton and born at 38 weeks.

    I was 9lbs at birth.

  163. Just Peachy says:

    I really like the LCT pattern. I obviously do not make diapers nor do I have any interest in doing so lol but I have one snappiable fitted made by Sirius Fluff that is pretty damn sweet.

  164. werd says:

    DS will not load AT ALL for me!

    Peachy I’m waiting until the am to take pics of your pads, in natural light!

  165. mmspirit7 says:

    wow and on the first post as well

  166. Just Peachy says:

    Thats cool! I cant wait 😀

  167. werd says:

    DUDE they are fab if I do say so myself!!

  168. dirtyj says:

    It is not me!! lol hmm indeed

  169. Just Peachy says:

    Omg birds pregnant!

  170. me says:

    Oh #151, I really love the Thing Diaper. hopefully I’ll sell a few things today, and I’ll snag that from you! 🙂

  171. mmspirit7 says:

    lol ok cool

  172. Foo-man-choo says:

    142 – I bet it is Bebe Douceur. She is ripping off Preston’s Pants. Even uses the same wording and font for her policies,

  173. me says:


    Does anyone know who the copier in 142 is?
    Someone just said that they mentioned it here but searching isn’t helping any.

  174. me says:

    I didn’t write #177.

  175. Foo-man-choo says:

    Oh, and BTW Diu, DH put Liam in bed the other night and grabbed your diaper (the one size you changed out the soaker in for me) because he said it was the softest one in the stash and therefore probably also the most comfortable.

    Needless to say it has now been night tested and deemed worthy when used with the doubler underneath and wool shorties. Yay!

  176. Foo-man-choo says:

    177 – see my post in 176

  177. eeek says:

    OMG she didn’t even change the font when she C&P’d the stuff she stole. What a useless thief. Amazing detective work, how’d you find that match 176?

    & can I say, HC cart design is simple enough that *I* figured it out, and if you can’t you can buy one for like $30. Those damn gingham templates really don’t inspire confidence that you want to have a business.

  178. Foo-man-choo says:

    I found it a few months back, just browsing HC. There was not really any detective work involved, I was just shopping and came across that little gem. It was shocking, to say the least. Colleen is like, on of the original WAHM’s. To be ripped off so blatantly must be infuriating and frustrating.

  179. me says:

    What is a drawing to purchase?

    Does this mean you get them for $5?

  180. Foo-man-choo says:

    Yes. $5 plus $2 shipping

  181. me says:

    178- Yeah, I’ve been posting as me for quite a while.
    I saw you do it a few weeks ago (I think. Sometimes in the last month or so) and said the same thing!

  182. Foo-man-choo says:

    She couldn’t even make the argument that her pattern was only inspired by Colleen’s IMO. They are just alike (except one is clearly higher quality)

  183. me says:

    180- I remember someone saying that now. It went somewhere here for a little while but nothing came of it obviously)
    It has just gotten brought up again?
    I wonder why now?

    I didn’t refresh before posting!

  184. Foo-man-choo says:

    ok, one of the me’s needs to change their userID, lol

  185. Foo-man-choo says:

    187: IDK. I am not even positive that the thread at CDN is about these WAHM’s. It just seemed likely to me, that’s all.

  186. diudiaole says:

    There was also a post sometime back on DS I think in the wahm chit chat of a craigslist copycat ripping off block letter wall hangings… and they were using the original seller’s photos, changing around the description just slightly and then sitting absolute crap to the customer.

    Foo — woot!! That is awesome! 🙂 TY for the feedback on that. I just need to make a wool soaker that fits well over it now, I love our kiwi peel but I do have to do some tucking.

  187. Foo-man-choo says:

    you’re welcome diu. Do you have a WAHM thread up? Link me if you do I’ll post that info in it, too.

  188. diudiaole says:

    ok not sitting crap!! LOL “sending”… hehehe I’m distracted

  189. Foo-man-choo says:

    Actually, “sitting” might work the way it was used in that particular sentence, LOL!

  190. diudiaole says:

    #191 — I haven’t made one yet, probably should… I have an HC store though, I wonder if it would be ok for you to post the feedback there?

  191. Foo-man-choo says:

    If you put in a listing where previous purchasers can “buy” feedback for custom made items, then yes. I have done it several times for other WAHM’s

  192. diudiaole says:

    I have some info pages listed for 0.00 right now — I wonder if you could ‘buy’ one of those?

  193. DSDM2 says:

    If one of the “me”s wants to change names, I don’t have an issue with it.

  194. Foo-man-choo says:

    196 – I was able to add your info listing to my cart, so I would say yes.

  195. dirtyj says:

    Those are PP knockoffs but I dont think that is who she is talking about

  196. MotherMoonPads says:

    Whoops! There goes my brilliant idea for not being able to come up with a name.

    I’ll change mine-so sorry!

  197. diudiaole says:

    Foo — yay! You’ll be my first feedback on there. 😀

  198. MotherMoonPads says:

    Hmm #184. Too bad there’s some questionable ethics there (aside from the fact that I’m broke, lol), because I wouldn’t mind those shorties for my newbie.

  199. Foo-man-choo says:

    Ok 200 – spill…. LOL!

  200. diudiaole says:

    Ok the FFS lottos are up! If you don’t mind fuscia chicks on your boys, there is a girly and imo GN. good luck! 😀

  201. Madre says:

    Bebe Douceur’s stuff is really good FWIW. That’s not who the person is talking about on CDN though. They said they weren’t on hyencacart.

  202. MotherMoonPads says:

    Oh, and my feedback was deemed retaliatory this morning. Funny though, they never changed my other neutral to say it was deemed retaliatory.

  203. A Different Sarah says:

    WTH, seriously? Who makes off-the-shoulder baby tops?

    Oooooh, Connorsmama, that’s who. Blech.

  204. eeek says:

    If bebe douceur’s stuff is really good, she should have bothered to make her own pattern & to write her own copy. SHE DIDN”T EVEN CHANGE THE FONT when she C&P the stuff she stole. I don’t know why that bit of extra laziness sticks with me, but this is a glowing piece of WAHM nastiness. & are you suggesting she didn’t copy her diapers, exactly, from the WAHM she stole the copy word-for-word from? Did you look at the links?

  205. amessymama says:

    208-I know!! That has always bugged me, even more than the uneven legs. Shirts that are too big in the neck have always been a *huge* pet peeve of mine. But dang, she may as well be making tube tops. The kid will slide right out of that.

  206. amessymama says:

    Here’s a pretty little connersmamamonstrosity for ya.

    Who buys this stuff?!

  207. amessymama says:

    I find it very sad to see that pretty fabric being violated like that. 😦

    Just think of how it feels when it sees her coming after it with scissors.

  208. Foo-man-choo says:

    Madre it’s odd to me that you defended Bebe Douceur last time and you jumped in automatically this time as well. Are you friends? Are you her?

    Her stuff is not awesome. She is nothing more than a plagarizing copycat riding on another WAHM’s coattails.

  209. Madre says:

    I, actually, admitted last time I was her friend. I had bought from her & really loved it. The Preston Pants stuff was a shocker to me.

  210. magpiedpiper says:

    211, notice how the sleeve on the right is larger than the one on the left. Isn’t that the same issue she has with the legs of her pants? Maybe her right eye perceives sizes differently than her left?

  211. naturalmamadot says:

    I am about to go peachy on connorsmama lmao I cannot BELIEVE ppl STILL buy from her and I cannot believe she someone would ATTEMPT to sell that. How would SHE like if she went to her store where she buys her clothes and came out with one pant leg tight and short and the other long and loose? One 3/4 skin tight sleeve and one short puff sleeve? She would probably have a stroke, but its okay for other ppl to spend THEIR hard earned money on total and complete shit right? okay just making sure I have this clear. *eyyyyyyerolllll*

  212. naturalmamadot says:

    not to mention most of her crap is fugly anyways STOP TRYING for petes sake, if you need the money sell freaking avon, walk dogs (do not make clothes for said dogs), work aat a fast food restaurant, have a garage sale, but please spare any more innocent children from having to wear those ‘creations’

  213. eeek says:

    There are so many really nice examples of WAHM sewing out there. WHY do people keep buying connorsmama stuff? It doesn’t ever look good, and if someone can’t even make it look right in a picture where they can arrange it, how’s it going to look on your kid?

    At least she’s only one more honest feedback from being kicked off HC.

  214. me says:

    Wasn’t there an issue with the GM shirts with the lap style holes with people having to fix them too?

  215. Lolanae says:

    See she has up a custom auction right now for some of her knitting, I think?

    I bought one soaker from her over a year ago and the sewing was horrible. You think things would have changed over a year.

  216. magpiedpiper says:

    220 did you leave her neg feedback?

  217. amessymama says:

    218-Really? I couldn’t find her feedback anywhere. I feel doing a service to all the little children out there and ordering her crap, just to leave a deserved negative.

    219-Yeah those GM shirts were nasty too.

    I notice a lot of those raglan shirts have big necks.

    UGH. I hat big necked shirts. They give me the willies.

    I’m weird.

  218. Trojane says:

    I LOVE Connorsmama Creations creations. She’s like the Ripley’s of the WAHMing/CDing world.

  219. naturalmamadot says:

    Seriously I want to order something for my niece or something and then leave TRUTHFUL feedback (which for her WOULD be negative lmao)

  220. werd says:

    It’s be 4 DAYS and still my refund says PENDING. UGH!!!

  221. werd says:

    *been* – my ghetto is coming out in my anger

  222. naturalmamadot says:

    oh werd I was just comin to show you in case you hadnt seen OTHER ppl are getting prompt refunds

  223. werd says:

    I read that, but she means that she is waiting on a refund from, so she can buy from oh snap.

  224. werd says:

    I read that – the poster is saying that she is waiting on a refund from fabric . com so she can use the money to order from oh snap

  225. werd says:

    I read that but the person is saying she is waiting for a refund from ANOTHER site so she can buy from oh snap

  226. werd says:

    If it wouldn’t just get deleted to cover up the whole deal, I’d post on her WAHM thread that I’m still waiting on that refund…

  227. naturalmamadot says:

    I received my order today! Even though the coupon code didn’t work for me when I placed the order, she refunded the amount I would have saved right back to my PP account. Great CS!! Thank you very much!!

    thats what I was talkin about lol she used the discount code for oh snap but it didnt work so she refunded her that money

  228. Lolanae says:

    221 – I was new to CD’ing and HC when I ordered the soaker. I left feedback before I tried it on DD. Live and learn. It was under ten dollars with shipping. I will never buy from her again or recommend her.

  229. A Different Sarah says:

    I’m bored, the baby is napping, and I’m a total n00b at CDN… help a sister get more posts:

  230. Sharpie says:

    Korin makes me sick, she’s just a scammer of another color who relies on the fact that she’s selling stuff for cheap to avoid having people blow up on her. I don’t see how spending 10 bucks on something you can never use is any different then spending 10 bucks and not getting your product at all.

  231. Just Peachy says:

    Did you guys miss the gem I posted? Normally I try to avoid criticizing peoples personal decisions unless they absolutely need it. Birdof1985 who can’t afford the 100$ to get custody of her son back but can buy dildos is pregnant with ANOTHER one.

  232. naturalmamadot says:

    173 omg bird as in the one that bought sex toys instead of paying the small amount of money to get her child back? and she having another? WOW

  233. mmspirit7 says:

    mama’s at cdn rock. i made a huge bobo and they helped me out.

  234. Trojane says:

    Did the son’s father have custody? What was that story? Aside from the dildos.

  235. Just Peachy says:

    Im not sure of the details on that. I do know she posted in a CPS thread saying that there was a case against her for her youngest because she was malnourished for no apparent reason. Turned out Bird was too fucking dumb to realize being 11 lbs at 10 months is fucking ridiculous.

  236. naturalmamadot says:

    ugh I do believe the grandparents are taking care of her child

  237. mdmr says:

    243- I didn’t. But now I notice that Shabby Chic is banned… I wonder how long this time?

  238. magpiedpiper says:

    I you have money to have another child, then you have the money to get back your other children!!! That just makes me sick.

  239. mdmr says:

    So I take it there was a fall out? Because Sarah and Shabby and Kelly were BFF’s, I thought.

  240. eeek says:

    what was the wool drama, & what’s up with the secret wool society forum thing? Anyone know? The networks of gossip amaze me.

    & I didn’t get the bird reference, that’s awful.

  241. eeek says:

    And by networks of gossip I mean all the secret forums. It gets old. & really, who wants to join all that and follow even more crap? I get enough emails etc as it is, who has time?

  242. amessymama says:

    248-Are you on CDN? Because there is a thread about that too.

  243. Anamnesis says:

    I bought snaps from Oh Snap back in February. She didn’t include my entire order. Then said she’d send replacements.. .. but “lost” the DC#. I had to request a refund.. which she ended up giving me.

    I get my snaps form They are AWESOME and SUPER Quick!

  244. werd says:

    All the wool whatever drama is RIDICULOUS. I mean seriously. I’m so sick of reading about it… they are all acting like a bunch of middle school girls and I feel badly that Mom and Melody even have to moderate that shit. Everyone seriously needs to get a life.

  245. mmspirit7 says:

    ok i don’t get the wool drama or why there was a cool out thread i am try to figure it out but i must be stupid today.

  246. werd says:

    Here’s a recap:

    Meg was upset because some little twat made a blinky that said something about being a Shabby Hater (aka Shabby Chic, aka Meg) and posted about it on CDN.

    Apparently there is some super secret, super-lame board of wool weirdos that moved from DS to their own private board and they are a bunch of catty bitches who have been talking crap about Meg and decided to make the blinky. Also, one person who had a high enough post count to get into The Good, The Bad and The Ugly on CDN, linked the thread where Meg was all WTF. The “You all spend too much time hating me” or whatever it was called.

    SO all of a sudden there was an influx of the wool wackos coming to CDN to look at the link… but because its in a protected forum, they didn’t have enough of a post count.

    Mom and Mel were alerted and are mad that someone linked from a protected forum, so all the wool catty bitches on the private forum could laugh and make fun at Meg’s expense. And they are trying to figure out exactly WHO had a high enough post count to link the thread, and if they c/p what was said so all the catty bitches could have a laugh.

    Now there is a call out thread.

    It’s lame. And there are a few well-known WAHM’s on that board who are named in the call out thread and some have their panties in a wad because “boohoo it might hurt my business” – WELL you should have thought about that before you started acting like a 13 year old catty bitch!!!

  247. Sharpie says:

    Good lord! Can people just not get the fuck over Meg already, all this Shabby drama is annoying. If you don’t like her put her on ignore and be done with it already, there is no need for all this Jr. High crap.

    Get. Over. It.

  248. mmspirit7 says:

    i honestly think it;s silly and think the call out thread wasn’t thought through because well i am sorry i just don’t agree with it

  249. Sharpie says:

    What don’t you agree with? I’m not on CDN anymore so I don’t really know what the call out thread is all about.

    Oh and both Miles and Birdbrain being preggo at the same time is just scary. WTF are these women and their spouses thinking?

  250. mmspirit7 says:

    i just think the call out thread was dumb and they could have pm’d all the memebers that they have listed and started a thread in hash it out to get to the bottom of it. but instead didn’t.

  251. Sharpie says:

    I see, I wasn’t sure what the deal was with the call out thanks for filling me in 🙂

  252. MotherMoonPads says:

    There’s no way I’m going to be able to pull off getting that diaper 😦 Just don’t want you to hold it for me, MMspirit. Sorry.

  253. werd says:

    Here’s the thing… if they HADN’T posted the call out thread, then people would have been all “wah wah WTF you guys are hiding stuff from us” because Meg’s thread got moved.

    Really they are damned if they do, damned if they don’t at this point!

  254. BffMama says:

    155. I’ve had many Little Comet Tails OS and they are extremely trim. They looked like they would never fit my chunker, but somehow-someway they did stretch out to fit him, but it was always *really* close to being plumber’s crack.

  255. mmspirit7 says:

    260 well i am on the market for pads…and it’s not ready to go yet either. i need to sun it and dig it out. maybe a trade i couldn’t ship till thrus anyways. let me know pm on cdn charise820

  256. mdmr says:

    Not to be a bitch, but, hasn’t Shabby Chic stirred the pot with the wool mama’s her fair share of times? Maybe one too many times and the wool mama’s had enough? And what does saslewis11 have to do with it? Oh, I am so lost lol.

    I agree with you mmspirit, about the call out thread.

  257. mmspirit7 says:

    werd there is a way they could have made everyone happy they could have removed the thread and stated that it was removed because of weird activity from one other board. and that they were looking into it.

    i love that the board is open but we really don’t need to know everything. yes if there is a stalker we should know but the call was thought out poorly now if it called out the person doing the stalking then maybe i could see it.

  258. Just Peachy says:

    Thats absolute bullshit with the wool hoarders thing. To call out people because they happen to be members is fucking ridiculous. I don’t know any of the names on the list that would stoop that low to stalk Meg.

  259. naturalmamadot says:

    I think the call out thread was not needed, and normally I am ALL about public call outs to inform other members, but more could of been accomplished by pming ppl

    FTR meg is still a stupid bitch in my book and this has just reinforced it all for me, I dont buy ANYTHING she says and all this oh poor me I have feelings bullshit is just that. When you make the choice to be a bitch, and own it, you make the choice to accept ppl being a bitch RIGHT back including laughing at your dumbass. Its funny how ppl only have a problem with laughing at other ppl when its their BFF *eyeroll*

  260. naturalmamadot says:

    261, true I didnt realize they moved a thread. They could of just posted an explanation thread ONCE they got all their facts straight instead of calling out ALL the members of that board that happen to of EVER came to CDN through one of those links. ppl click on links, wah wah

  261. moxy says:

    267, 268


  262. mdmr says:

    Well said and right on 267. Sort of my point but you said it way better.

  263. thewhiteninja says:

    Madre- are the same person that stalks CDMP?

  264. thewhiteninja says:


  265. Funneh says:

    It’s like everyone involved went down in a blaze of impromptu melodramatics. MEG IS BETRAYED! STALKZ0RZ, ON MY INTERNETS?? O NOES, MUH BUSINESS IS GOING UP IN FLAAAAMES!

    Only not so much on any front.

    Somebody should retitle that thread “Enter Here if You Have the Sudden Masochistic Urge to Forget that High School Ended and Want to Pretend for Just One Night that Suzie Ditching Jenny to Hang Out with the Cool Girls at Prom is Worth Dropping Out of School Over”.

  266. Incognizable says:

    @267 I completely agree.

    I see people are asspatting Meg, saying that they don’t see her being rude or snarky on CDN.

    Well yeah after that royal smackdown in her intro on CDN she got a reality check that she couldn’t go around acting all holier than thou, snarky, rude and bitchy on CDN.

    People don’t realize that since there was no reality check on DS she had free reign over there to be all of the above and offend more than a few mamas. This is simply a result of her past actions, IMO.

  267. naturalmamadot says:

    yep. when someone acts nice because they dont want to get their ass handed to them its a LOT different than when someone acts nice because *gasp* they are a NICE PERSON

    meg is not a nice person, meg is a bitch. she SAYS she owns it but oh noes my actions have consequences *cries to CDN BFFs*

  268. Aj says:

    Meg, I think you seem like a cool chick…but I honestly wonder, do people in real life have this inflammatory response to you, or is it just on the interwebz? I don’t know if I could handle it, it seems like it’s non-stop!

  269. eeek says:

    I don’t think names should have been listed in the thread. If it had just been titled “everyone from WH come in here” and then they asked for an explanation, everyone would have clicked on that thread, I’m sure, who can resist something like that?

    If later they had real evidence of creepy stalking then sure put those names up. This was just a list of people who clicked on a link & while I thought there was a bit too much “this will ruin my business” there WERE people in the thread who said they were surprised at some of the names on the list.

    & I kinda like Meg, she doesn’t bother me. I think her particular kind of crazy is generally amusing & harmless. She does explode when poked (obviously!) but eh, whatever. People seem to have a strange fascination with her I don’t quite get, somehow she’s both more offensive and yet extra cool, more than anyone else who says the same things or does the same things. That’d be weird.

  270. DSDM2 says:


  271. thewhiteninja says:

    In this link she mention attending the “stalkers” birth:

    Coincidentally she attended MadreJoyce/*Willow*’s birth as well and a few other things match up as well.

  272. Just Peachy says:

    I thought Madre was MadreDeDos or something?

  273. Aj says:

    I’m confused

  274. thewhiteninja says:

    280- it could be, that’s why I was asking lol

  275. BffMama says:

    279. That first link is creeeeepy. I always thought Madre here was Madre Joyce, too.

  276. thewhiteninja says:

    where does CDN post call out threads? In a private section?

  277. Just Peachy says:

    No its on the bulletin board in the first section of the forum.

  278. Erin says:

    I think Meg and the idiot WH’s really need to put on their BGP’s and get over it. How lame.

  279. monkey says:

    Damn. I just saw the call out thread. I know who most of those people are… I know it’s old news… but it surprised me when I finally saw it.

    I gotta say though, it won’t keep me from buying from them (although there was only one WAHM on that list I’d ever bought from).

  280. monkey says:

    The more I think about a “Secret WOOl Society” the more I laugh.

    Do they sacrifice Crankies or something?

  281. mdmr says:

    OK. So I finally read the call out thread. WTF? Shabby Chic is claiming to be stalked by the wool mamas and is all sad and in a tizzy because people are talking mean about her??? Well, being stalked, harrassed, laughed at? isn’t that just the pot calling the kettle black? Maybe this should be in the “karma” thread? And it seemed to me that the thing that she is most concerned about, is that her BFF saslewis11 is a member of the “club” and didn’t tell her. Gasp! How dare her!
    And I believe, if I remember correctly, the wool mama’s started a forum outside of DS because Shabby was stalking their thread on DS for the sole purpose of stirring drama. It happened after the whole Aimee ordeal which was preceeded with some other drama stirred by Shabby.

  282. Rika says:

    I read the call out thread and it’s something I could’ve done without. I understand the intent because mods/admins feel it’s “stalking” and feel the need to protect members, but it’s kinda funny.

    It’s like CDN members can make fun of or gang up on anyone they want as long as it’s not always the same person, but other boards aren’t allowed to do it at CDN members. It’s certainly not uncommon for CDN members to post links so they can gang up on sellers, make fun of people and/or potentially “harass” people in PMs. Perhaps CDN isn’t exclusive in who it makes fun of, but members gleefully do it.

    Lesson for other boards: wanna giggle at CDN members? Just make sure you diversify your links so you can’t be called out for “stalking”!

  283. BffMama says:

    Hey Rika…what’s your UN on CDN?

  284. yadayada says:

    Hey Rika, if you don’t like it, you could just leave CDN, and spare us your shit 😉

  285. screenname says:

    Just a quick question, but isn’t the GBU’s purpose for existing about posting links to other message boards?

  286. screenname says:

    Either way, it’s sad that it’s come to this. CDN was created so that we could come together as grown ass women and talk without being babysat. But of course, some people just can’t handle talking without the hand holding/slapping.

  287. diudiaole says:

    Yeah how weird that KYBC was accused of being ‘childish’ when BB had her over a barrel in their transaction… and then came… ‘the secret wool society’ call out thread lol

  288. Sharpie says:

    What does it matter what Rika’s CDN name is? One of the points of DoDS is to be able to post anonymously.

    This is one of the major reasons why I left CDN, they may not have mods telling you to “stop bashing the board” but the women on there will jump all over your ass if you don’t toe the line. I’d almost rather have a mod tell me to respectfully cut it out than have an angry group of women hunt me down and give me a lashing for not shooting rainbows out my ass about the CDN.

  289. moxy says:

    Exactly. Unfortunately, they don’t see it.
    Stalking? Give me a break. A few weeks ago the only time I’d been to CDN was to follow links about Miles and her posts. Was I stalking Miles? Uh, no. It was entertainment while cuddling a babe to sleep.

  290. Sharpie says:

    *about CDN. Not the CDN (head-smack)

  291. yadayada says:

    Sharpie, you’d rather have a spanking from a mod, then a good ol fashion “get the fuck over it” from members?

  292. Sharpie says:

    If it was just a good ole “get the fuck over it” from the other members I wouldn’t give a shit but after seeing the way some of those women hunt down other members like they were on the trail of Osama Bin Laden yeah I’d rather be told by a mod to just cut the shit.

  293. Sharpie says:

    Either way though the point is irrelevant, I don’t post there or anywhere else (but here of course).

  294. Madre says:

    Nope, I’m not Joyce

  295. Madre says:

    Why are my posts in moderation? I’m Not The Mama on DS & CDN. My nose is clean.

  296. DSDM2 says:

    Not sure why they dropped into the moderation box 🙂 A LOT of them have been lately… LOTS of spam too.

  297. Madre says:

    I just read Lisa’s thread & that’s scary as hell

  298. DSDM2 says:

    yeah it is. She does resemble CDMP.

  299. moxy says:

    Are they really that stupid at CDN? Do they really think that there’d be the same uproar over “just anyone”? Why wasn’t there a big call out about stalking Miles, then?

  300. Just Peachy says:

    Diu and Werd if you need to contact me please do so via my email .

  301. moxy says:

    Sorry that you’re getting trampled by the herd over there, Peachy.

  302. mmspirit7 says:

    i agree i about the miles thing and tried bring it up.

  303. mdmr says:

    I don’t have an issue w/ CDN, though I do think the “call out” thread is bogus. I have an issue with Shabby’s whole whoa is me act, and all of the ass patting she is getting, due to the fact that she is exactly in the spot where she has ruthlessly put others time after time after time! She has been a very mean and hateful bully to many and now she is getting a taste of her own medicine and somehow she should get hugs and kisses for the karma biting her ass? Maybe she will think twice before she stalks, rips apart,runs off, or laughs at HER next victim! Doubtful.

  304. moxy says:

    I saw that, 310, but it was totally ignored because it doesn’t fit their little “We’d do this for anyone” mission statement.

  305. DSDM2 says:

    I don’t have an issue w/ CDN, though I do think the “call out” thread is bogus. I have an issue with Shabby’s whole whoa is me act, and all of the ass patting she is getting, due to the fact that she is exactly in the spot where she has ruthlessly put others time after time after time! She has been a very mean and hateful bully to many and now she is getting a taste of her own medicine and somehow she should get hugs and kisses for the karma biting her ass? Maybe she will think twice before she stalks, rips apart,runs off, or laughs at HER next victim! Doubtful.

    I don’t think she is playing a “woe is me” card. I think that having a blinkie that is against someone is totally fucked up. Shabby is kind of bitchy. She is blunt. Personally, I don’t give a fuck, you don’t do that to someone (the blinkie thing).

    They were stalking her. They came here after her too. I have the threads they followed in our stats.

  306. mdmr says:

    And Peach, I totally heart you.

  307. Taterbug says:

    #307, this is what blows my mind. As Charise pointed out (does everyone have you on ignore or something?), there are CDN members stalking/harassing a DS member right now because they don’t like her prices/think she’s off her nut. Others are following the link, reading, and quietly moving on. The only differences between the Miles and Shabby crap seem to be the IQ of the person being stalked/gawked at, and the place that the gawkers were coming from. And FTR, I really like being on CDN, but this has not been one of our finer moments.

  308. Just Peachy says:

    Fuck the herd. The damn mods can’t admit they fucked up oh well. Same shit different board as far as I am concerned.

  309. diudiaole says:

    Hmmm I have feeling if I were being cyber stalked and went crying about it over on CDN … that I’d be told to get the fuck over it. lol

  310. DSDM2 says:

    317, I doubt it if people had “anti” you blinkies on DS. I think that was the trigger.

  311. moxy says:

    DSDM2, you’re totally right about the blinkie. I think the offender probably realizes that now. Regardless, following links to see what Meg is saying is not stalking.
    Many of us have done the same about Miles and others. It’s simply the coffee drinking or NAK or taking-a-break activity of the day. Not stalking.

  312. Just Peachy says:

    DSDM you can think they are stalking her but seriously I don’t for one second believe that they all actually give a flying fuck about her. Perhaps one person finds it amusing and the rest just watch to see the drama that ensues but as Charise said before how is it any different then what goes on here? We “stalk” Miles posts like crazy. Is it the infamous double standard I am seeing here? FWIW I didn’t dislike Meg until she tried to make me feel like shit about some dumb facebook shit. It took something simple and stupid to make me realize just how much of a bitch she is.

  313. Just Peachy says:

    Oh but the stupid blinky is what makes it horrible right? Pshhhhhhhhh

  314. Just Peachy says:

    You can dish it but ya can’t take it huh?

  315. DSDM2 says:

    I’m not saying all of them are. Not at all, what I am saying is that there are a few people on that group that are trying to hurt Meg.

    That is my opinion, and it’s cool if no one agrees 😉 But being a blunt bitchy person, I can see it from Meg’s POV. Peach, I’m surprised you don’t.

  316. mmspirit7 says:

    315 i don’t know if i am on ignore just know many post get missed.

  317. diudiaole says:

    mmspirit either they’re too busy looking at your avatar or you’re too polite. You should throw an eff bomb or a penis smiley etc in there if you want attention.

  318. mmspirit7 says:

    lol i try not too. i am a bitch in real life though well i can been when pissed off. meldoy answered the miles thing though and i don’t by it but i am done. another admin tried to spank me but she wasn’t good about it i didn’t enjoy it. i was told lay off. after all i just answered something i was asked eye roll

  319. mmspirit7 says:

    her reply to the miles thing

    The difference is that Miles can come here and read what is posted about her. We don’t deny people membership in our board because we don’t like them. Even in the restricted forums anybody that is posted could be read by the people who it is posted about, and in pretty short order too. The post requirements are not difficult at all to reach.

  320. werd says:

    god what the FUCK happened over night/during the day while I was gone?!?! I really wish that thread would die. I hated it from the beginning… like I feel bad for Melody and Mom because like I said, they are damned if they do and damned if they don’t, but this shit is just RIDICULOUS

    Peach, don’t make me break out the NKOTB!!


  321. Incognizable says:

    Double standard is right Peach.

    Same grown women that cried “foul” for meg in the blinky drama made a retaliatory blinky and bragged that they put it in their siggies on DS.

    So why wasn’t that deemed childish, lame or malicious? So if it’s retaliation then it’s fair game to instigate?

  322. Just Peachy says:

    I can see it but for me its like who cares? I can defend myself just fine as can Meg. If someone were stalking my posts on CDN I wouldn’t feel a need to be like ZOMG someone’s stalking me. In fact when Jackie pulled her shit all I said was its nice someone cares so much about what I do online. Most of what I said to her was said via here.

  323. Just Peachy says:

    I wish I could stay but I can’t handle being on another board that kisses her ass and thinks its ok to call out 25 members simply because they clicked links but when our members do the same thing its cool.

  324. mmspirit7 says:

    shit i just clicked them i must have esp and know what they now i am stalking thanks. lol

  325. Just Peachy says:

    Oh NOEZ we stalking cowmommy now!

  326. mmspirit7 says:

    ugh now i am hurting feelings because i don’t agree.

  327. Just Peachy says:

    Better get in line Charise lest the herd trample your ass ROFL. Seriously its quite hilarious to me how they tried to defend their actions with their so called “research”. What you call checking IPs then posting names research? I call it a witch hunt.

  328. yadayada says:

    Oh shit peach, you just couldn’t help but drag your drama ass somewhere else, could you? For the love of larry,would you drop the 13 year drama bullshit???

  329. mmspirit7 says:

    ugh i am done.

  330. eeek says:

    Peachy, I think the FB comment was ridiculous too. She was pissed at you for being on “their” side & was extra bitchy. I thought she did try to say she was wrong later? I don’t know, I gave up on that thread as it was just too lame.

  331. Just Peachy says:

    I didn’t drag it elsewhere it was already here if you would read above. When you’re forum starts behaving like grown ups instead of an elite clique of HS girls then maybe I will consider dropping it.

  332. Just Peachy says:

    She was wrong about me being banned from WH. I guess she just assumed that since I was no longer a member I’d be on her side and that I didn’t like any of them anymore? Who knows?

  333. Nicole says:

    You know what, this is all so freaking absurd. No one said anyone has to like how things were handled. No one even asked for an opinion on it. You all just post your diarrhea of the mouth anyway. You are not the ones behind the scenes figuring everything out, taking time out of your day to make sure that it’s done appropriately. It doesn’t matter if you like it or not.

    You post all this big talk about someone who starts drama, well take a good long look in the freaking mirror already, you just might see that you’re not any better. Look at you all, over here posting all this bullshit about cdn and this and that, what the hell do you think that is? DRAMA. It’s called a DRAMA blog. so tell me what the hell does that make all of you then?

    If your name was not on that list, then you really had no business even posting your opinions.

    Seriously now.

  334. yadayada says:

    Well, we’ll have a drama drop-off with you gone, so that will help the high school drama shit.

  335. CDNation says:

    FTR Peach.

    Its not about clicking links. I think we’ve said that plenty of times.

  336. werd says:


    Thank you to the unsuspecting schmuck that gave her money, THANK YOUUUUU!!!

  337. Just Peachy says:

    Oh Nicole you are mod for one whole day and all of a sudden you are like oh poor me being behind the scenes taking care of shit.
    And maybe if CDN didn’t double standards it wouldn’t be drama worthy. I mean think about since Meg came on it has been nothing but shit after shit that has tagged along with her. And all of the asspatting and stuff makes me want to vomit. If I wanted to see that I’d return to herpesville.

  338. mmspirit7 says:

    i admited to being in to drama and clicking links and everything. i am not saying i am better but i think….never mind. nikki i like you i do and i like cdn i just don’t agree this time.

  339. Just Peachy says:

    But it was about clicking links CDN! Thats the whole fucking point! And if you claim its not about them clicking links then what is it? The post in GBU that got copied? Ummmmmmmm I see maybe 2-3 ppl on that list have the post count, one of which came on and defended herself. So why post all of the names? Other than to sit there and alienate 25 freaking members over 1 person who has done nothing but cause shit since she got there. I guess Meg’s more important because shes higher profile eh?

  340. Nicole says:

    For the the record, miss peach, I wasn’t behind the scenes with this. This was an admin job. I know how long it took them to gather it all up. So once again, I tell you, before you spout off with your vile mouth you should really get your facts straight.

  341. werd says:

    Does this really need to be hashed out HERE too??? Don’t make me go to DS or *gasp* JM to avoid it. Puhlllleeeeeeeezzeeee!

  342. yadayada says:

    See peach? can’t you feel the drama spewing from your skin?

  343. riffrafflittleman says:

    WOW I didn’t realize that since my name was not directly on that list I couldn’t have an opinion. Does that go for all call out threads on the board now??? I will try to remember that unless my name is directly associated with a post that I am not allowed my own opinion. That should drastically cut down on my posting.

  344. Just Peachy says:

    You still don’t seem to get it and its obvious you never will so I’m done with it. And yada you don’t wanna see it? See the little red x at the top right hand corner? Click it or hit alt f4. 🙂

  345. Nicole says:


    I like you as well. And no one EVER said that you all had to agree with any thing that was said. But it’s a matter of respect. This is not your board, you dont get to make the calls. The admin do. You’re all more then welcome on the board, just don’t expect them to like it when their hard work and efforts are being tossed up like it’s nothing.

  346. Nicole says:

    352, if that will drastically cut down your posting then what does that say about you?

  347. Just Peachy says:

    It says she has an opinion?

  348. Nicole says:

    I’m not going to sit here and fight tooth and nail with you ladies. Most of you are respectful and I really like a lot of you. So, I’ve said what I needed to say, take it or leave it, I don’t really care anymore.

    This whole thing was just disgusting and I can’t believe that people are so aggressive over something they really had no control over in the 1st place.


  349. eeek says:

    “If your name was not on that list, then you really had no business even posting your opinions.”

    If that was what they wanted it needed to be a closed post. A sticky, locked. Posting something on a forum is, umm, kind of asking for the whole world passing by to comment on it. Right?

    Don’t get so defensive of your home that you lose all logic about what’s happening. It doesn’t help your case.

    & yay werd!

  350. yadayada says:

    Peach, are you talking about ignoring the drama? Can’t be, as it seems as though that thought completly escapes your mind.

  351. Nicole says:


    I get what you’re saying. But the truth of the matter is that CDN posts these things in public for a reason. That reason is to keep their members aware. It’s been that way since the start.

    If they had not posted it in public view they would have still had people bitching like little whiny cry babies.

    So whatever.

  352. riffrafflittleman says:

    355 it says my name is not mentioned on the board very often…and since it’s not in many threads apparently I have no business commenting on anything. At least that’s what I got from your post in 342. Trust me, I am not one to stir up drama and I generally respect the admin of the board. I know their job sucks…but to be told my opinion doesn’t matter if I’m not involved…or that their is a huge double standard going on…well then that sucks ass.

  353. CDNation says:

    Ok. I’ll agree that maybe we could have done it differently. And maybe there’s a way that would have been better. But the fact is it’s done. So that really at this point in time doesn’t matter.

    WE would do it for ANY member. And for me, it’s now about who possibly, took everyones trust in an opt in forum and broke it. I’m not ok with someone may have c&p’ed what was in there.

    And yes before you all start, I know it’s not all private, and I know that we’re not the internet police. But I also know that it’s my job to make the members feel safe. If any of
    the WH’s will come to Mel or me and tell me who was posting the link to the opt in forum, the list of name will go down. The member who did it will have their opt in forum’s access removed. End of story.

    And yes, drama does seem to follow Meg and she’s been duly warned.

    And no, contraty to the post in that thread that says we have the name, we do not.

  354. mmspirit7 says:

    so we are not aloud to say we disagree with a move? i don’t get that from an open board they should be more than willing to hear what others think. but i guess in that point they want to be like ds. don’t disagree. i mean that’s what i am getting from your post nikki is that what they want no one to to voice the anything they disagree with.

    i know there are many that rep’d me that they agreed and didn’t post why because they would be jumped on for not agree and that’s sad that on an open board they don’t feel that they can say hey this wasn’t handled right.

  355. riffrafflittleman says:

    ugh should be there not their.

  356. Nicole says:


    I’m sorry for my misunderstanding! My post was NOT to make anyone feel as though their opinion was not valued at all. Or that they have no right to post on the board. My point was that you all are bashing people to took their time away from their families to do what they thought was right to protect their board and a member of that board, as well as the rest of us.

  357. naturalmamadot says:

    I do have to agree with both sides here lol. On one hand its absurd for meg to give a shit if ppl are bitchy to her because her bitch switch is superglued to the on position.
    The ones on the list deserved a PM and then a post only about the person linking from GBU and it should be ABOUT linking to GBU. This huge call out just because some ppl are “cyber stalking” (um 4 threads? really? that would be about the amount of miles threads i see linked in a couple of days *eyeroll*) is ridiculous and caused about 230948320958230 times more drama than what was originally there.
    They cant go back on it, but they could apologize and say they should of waited to only call out those who had done something wrong.
    Clicking a link, according to the admin and mods is NOT what this is about, then WHY are the ones who were clicking the links the ones on the list? So what if they ONLY have come to CDN for links on meg I know a TON of pp who ONLY go to DS for miles. They are horrible cyber stalkers for clicking on links other ppl posted. Okay thanks for clearing that up.

    I really like CDN but sometimes, I think that the members take things too far, trying to be funny or cool. I can definitely be a bitch, when I think someone deserves it but I see ppl getting totally jumped on and told to leave because of a dissenting opinion…..does that sound familiar to anyone?
    So what if they said their opinion in a bitchtastic way MEG Is the fucking definition of bitchtastic but we are defending her because wahhhh someone is being a meany and I have FEELINGS um no meg I dont buy that. You never cared how many ppl you hurt, but were supposed to give a fuck about your feelings? I dont think so cupcake you are a fuckin bitch and I think you deserve to know that being that way gets you enemies. Ppl are going to talk about you, be a bitch to you LAUGH AT YOU because you are horrible to ppl for amusement or whatever the fuck else your excuse is.

  358. Nicole says:


    Ok. My problem is not about people posting their opinions. That’s not it at all. My problem is the direct bashing and absolute disrespect that came along with it from Peach. She was rude and down right bitchy from the moment she posted on that thread, and it’s not the 1st time either. There’s a proper way to voice yourself, and she lacks that ability.

  359. CDNation says:

    “so we are not aloud to say we disagree with a move? i don’t get that from an open board they should be more than willing to hear what others think. but i guess in that point they want to be like ds. don’t disagree. i mean that’s what i am getting from your post nikki is that what they want no one to to voice the anything they disagree with.

    i know there are many that rep’d me that they agreed and didn’t post why because they would be jumped on for not agree and that’s sad that on an open board they don’t feel that they can say hey this wasn’t handled right.

    Ok wait, it’s ok for you to have a different opinion and voice it, but if people don’t agree with your opinion they should not say anything?

    If people are upset by the move we made they have every right to say so. Just as others have every right to say they don’t agree with you.

    I’m not jumping on anyone.

  360. diudiaole says:

    ‘bitch switch” hehehe

  361. mmspirit7 says:

    oh and i agree that people have and i am not saying that they have to agree. sigh i don’t know how to word what i want to say so i just wont say it.

  362. naturalmamadot says:

    Also, I dont like seeing ppl leave over this. I think they should if their disagreement with the forum will force them to become inappropriate when posting but I prefer to settle into a forum instead of hopping around trying to find one I agree with 100%.

    At THIS time I cant seem to find another forum that supports free speaking like CDN does, plus BCD and all that I like it there. I have many other communities I prefer as far as the PEOPLE go, which HAS been making me consider leaving but eh I cant speak my mind there and I cant write as I please while there so I prefer to juts keep in touch on IM with those ppl.

    I cant find anything about CDN that is so bad that it would make me want to go back to being heavily moderated and censored even if seeing ppl defend meg makes me wanna puke lmao

  363. Shabbychic says:

    Ok, 366 you pulled me out for a second. I speak the truth. ALL THE TIME. You dont like it, someone else doesnt like it, then turn around and take a good hard look in the mirror, because the only thing you cant handle, is the truth. If the truth equals bitchiness, then so be it. If I make enemies because I put out there all the bullshit that everyone else is too afraid to, then so be it. If I get lied to and figure out a way to prove it and then do, oh well, jokes on them. If people’s feelings get hurt because they fuck up and dont like to be told so, then oh freaking well. If you think I am horrible because I dont let people get away with things and call them out, sorry you are too sensitive. Every single thing I have ever said has been said by others and agreed with by others in places you cant see. All the e-mails, PMs, IMs with the thank you for saying that. I say it, every single time. And everything I have said in this fiasco is true. Truth hurts, I know. Learn how to take it. The world is a cold place and people come and people go and people lie and people die. But, rest assured, the truth will most definitely set you free. It hurt this time, for me and others, but everyone is better for it. I for one am certainly happy I found out the truth. Although, I knew it all along. Bad me.

  364. naturalmamadot says:

    I am all for the truth, I am a blunt person. However you always have a snarky tone and always seem to enjoy to hurt anyone you can. Sorry if thats not the way you mean it but its how you come off.

    Everyone who has spoken to me about this fiasco has stated the exact same vibe from you, that even at cdn the only reason you are nice is because you know you will get your ass handed to you if you act like a total bitch. We also all seem to get the vibe that you are never sincere in anything you say, everything seems to be a joke on the CDN members that they are buying it all from you and believing you have a fraction of a heart. I just cant buy it *shrugs*

    I hope you do, I hope you are able to be sincerely kind because I would hate for everyone on CDN to be part of some sick little game because you are bored.

  365. werd says:

    oh for fucks sake – DROP IT PEOPLE.

    God I have my toes on the threshold of the door on both here AND CDN, I’ll tell you that right now … I am so sick of the stupid, childish drama, its at the top of the new threads list every single day and has been for a week now in the form of one thread or another. WTF people?!

    WHY does this need to be dragged here too?!?!

    This is Megs drama and she said on the thread that its done and she is over it, WHY CAN’T ANYBODY JUST LET IT GO?!

    If you want to continue to argue semantics with each other, TAKE IT BACK OVER TO THE THREAD ON CDN! It’s already crossed from the WH board to CDN, don’t drag it here too!!!

  366. pissedoff24 says:

    Werd, werd.

  367. naturalmamadot says:

    fine ill drop it, but why would anyone take it to the thread on CDN when I think its been well demonstrated what happens if you do. Whatever, next drama issue here please? lol

  368. Shabbychic says:

    I think I can handle getting my ass handed to me. What you see is what you get. I am sincere always. I am sincere in snark and in sweet. I told you. I speak the truth. Always have and always will.

  369. myra says:

    Self-righteous much?

    Didn’t someone predict that some drama like this would go down after the “what if you found out a WAHM wasn’t who she seemed” thread?

  370. magpiedpiper says:

    Werd, I agree with you except on the point that it may be Meg’s drama, but it isn’t her thread to say when people should stop posting. You do tend to do that a lot Meg – try to tell people to stop posting as soon as YOU are done with them doing so.

  371. mdmr says:

    366- Awesome. Once again.

  372. Just Peachy says:

    I will say this since I am being called rude and disrespectful. Did anyone bother to read when I was being nice and trying to be respectful of the situation? Seems like the only way to get your posts noticed in those type of threads is to be a royal bitch so ya I pulled the bitch card. Its how I roll 🙂

  373. Shabbychic says:

    379-Well yeah. I’m trying to get what I want, lol. Everyone should try to advocate for what they want and need. It is a very good way to get through life.

  374. DramaBore says:

    werd…you say that this drama came from the WH board. But hasn’t it been said that board is private and closed to members? They haven’t let in a single member that has tried to join from CDN.

    All anyone knows is that they posted a couple of links and followed them to CDN. No one knows what they are saying, its all based on ASSumptions, right?

  375. eeek says:

    I think that everyone who’s saying Meg is just nice because she’d get her ass handed to her on CDN- well, that’s where she’s choosing to hang out, right? So she must be OK with the structure? Wants to be friends? ’cause I really don’t think she cares about drama enough to just play up to a board just to drag drama in. That’s a lot of work for a small drama buzz.

    & someone earlier was talking about how she’s nice now but on DS she was a monster. Well, really, DS is a bizarre artificial world with strange laws & culture. Brings out the freak, we’ve seen it all over. Good lord, if it wasn’t a circus this blog wouldn’t exist. & I haven’t seen much of the uber-bitch y’all talk of, only a kinda-bitch with occasional cutting comments I think could be censored a little, but whatever. I’ve seen bitchier on CDN.

    & I DO like CDN. A lot. I’ve been pretty disgusted lately with some of the nasty spirited crap I’m seeing in some of these threads recently, though, people acting like they’re a bunch of tweens on a mean girl rampage. If everyone really is an adult with BGPs as they keep saying, quit being petulant whiny bullying twats.

  376. moxy says:

    I love naturalmamadot and magpied.

  377. werd says:

    Oh jesus I am not going to continue to argue here. I’m out. Have fun.

  378. Sharpie says:

    Werd. I’m sorry this is bothering you so much 😦 If you want something fun to do instead of worrying about all this dramarifficness check out this site :

    It’s one of my faves and it will make even Korin’s work seem like masterpieces.

  379. eeek says:

    OMG Sharpie that’s better (more insane) than cakewrecks!

  380. riffrafflittleman says:

    holy crap Sharpie, that is just painful on the eyes. I think this page alone is going to haunt me in my sleep for weeks –

    and I totally agree with EEK on this!!

    “& I DO like CDN. A lot. I’ve been pretty disgusted lately with some of the nasty spirited crap I’m seeing in some of these threads recently, though, people acting like they’re a bunch of tweens on a mean girl rampage. If everyone really is an adult with BGPs as they keep saying, quit being petulant whiny bullying twats.”

  381. Sharpie says:

    OMG LOL Peachy that’s awesome!! I love the chrochet bikini, I once found one in a Goodwill store and was so tempted to buy it and frame it as a joke for my sister but was skivved out by the idea of having to actually touching it.

  382. Sharpie says:

    I know the baby head one is scary. This one made my sister literally stop breathing. Totally NWS or Kid safe!!!:

  383. Sharpie says:

    It will totally change how you feel when ppl talk about rainbows and unicorns.

  384. riffrafflittleman says:

    392 – Oh My WORD!!!! I think I hurt myself between laughing my butt off and being horrified all at the same time.

  385. Just Peachy says:

    I stalk the WNTC blog regularly. Its like crack to me LOL.

  386. Grogwench says:

    Somebody….quick. Werd needs some new drama….STAT!

    Don’t leave, Werd, something else will come along……

  387. Just Peachy says:

    Don’t leave Jackie!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  388. bugabear says:

    I posted some cowmommy drama at #332, but it was in the middle of all this crap. And probably not that exciting.

  389. Melissa says:

    #290 I have thought this about CDN always…it just depends on who you are and who they dont’ like at the moment on who they will stalk.

    #309…I am glad she is getting trampled by the herd. It was her turn dont’ ya think?

  390. žába says:

    “If any of the WH’s will come to Mel or me and tell me who was posting the link to the opt in forum, the list of name will go down. The member who did it will have their opt in forum’s access removed. End of story.” -CDNation

    This is so High School, every one gets detention until the person who did it comes forward. Come on, we all left HS a long time ago, that’s just lame. “The Person” obviously isn’t coming forward, lets move on.

    The call out thread and now this on the Drama thread is only making the whole situation more dramarific than it ever need to be.

    Meg is a bitch, she owns that. She’s been outspoken and rather harsh to many people, this time it came back around to her. Some one made a stupid blinky, someone is maybe/maybe not cyberstalking her, there is a secret wool form….None of these things are what she’s even angry about. She’s mad that her so called friend LIED to her! How is this even any ones drama but her own. This whole thing got everyone all stirred up over a falling out between 2 friends.

  391. žába says:

    Uniporn – that is priceless. I don’t know if I am going to be able to sleep tonight with that disturbing image in my mind!

  392. Just Peachy says:

    LMAO #399. Whatever you say 🙂

  393. moxy says:

    Oh, but Meg never lies! She can be ruthless, nasty–downright cruel to others, and then waah waah when she gets some back–but she doesn’t lie! Somebody give her a fucking halo.

  394. Sharpie says:

    Meh, I don’t think a halo is in order for that maybe this though….

    Alright seriously I need to get the hell off that site and clean mah darn houze.

  395. moxy says:

    Haha, perfect. Better than a halo.

  396. Laura says:

    332. What was the first link? It went poof.

  397. Just Peachy says:

    Link about a transaction between Jackyl08 and possibly cowmommy. It alludes to a person who is in a position of power on DS and is also having issues.

  398. CDNation says:

    Yes and running around the web, talking about someone somewhere where they can’t defend themselves isn’t at all high school. Or jr high for that matter.

    What’s done is done, I’m sorry if it hurt anyone it shouldn’t have. I can’t change it now.

  399. Erin says:

    332, I never could stand cowmommy as a mod/admin. Blech.

    Werd- so happy you got your refund!!!

    Peach- hang tough. Know what I like about you? When you’re wrong, you admit it. When you are bitchy, you apologize. You strive to be an honest, forthright person and that’s refreshing and sometimes difficult to pull off online. Lot more than I can say for some people.

  400. Just Peachy says:

    I appreciate that #409. 🙂

  401. mdmr says:

    400- what was the saslewis/shabby falling out over anyway? That DID seem to be Shabby’s biggest beef.

  402. Erin says:

    I guess Sarah “lied” to Meg and Meg doesn’t ever lie *gasp* and doesn’t like lies and the lying liers who tell them.

  403. Shabbychic says:

    I do not feel it is necessary to go into tremendous detail as to why Sarah and I had a falling out. I am sure I have my side and she has her side. I will say however, that I thought Sarah was my friend, based on the fact that she treated me like a friend. She, one day decided to just disappear. I thought I did something. I attempted to contact her. I sent 100 e-mails. I apologized for doing something IF I did anything. I never got a response. I took it upon myself to try and figure it out and I found out that Sarah got tipped off that I was about to find out she lied to me. So, instead of facing me, she disappeared without barely a word. A year of speaking everyday. Gone poof. There is more, I am sure, but I will leave it.

    I did not handle my anger or my emotions properly. I flipped my lid and became very nasty. Probably as nasty as I have ever been in my life. On the heels of what is a lousy reputation perceived by some, it was really a performance I am less than proud of. I let my anger and my hurt get the best of me when I should have stepped back from the computer to re group. But, I didnt. I lashed out and said mean and hateful things.

    I cannot take back the words I said. And I am still very very angry. You can say anything you want about me and a lot of it is true. I have never disputed it. I am just saying that what I did was out of extreme hurt and pain caused by someone who I cared about and thought cared about me. Again, I am not condoning my actions, just stating why I acted in the manner which I did. No one likes to think someone is their friend only to be proven otherwise. It would have been much easier in the end to have just discussed it with Sarah in private.

    I understand that I say it like it is, and I am not going to change who I am. I am not going to agree just to be popular. I dont care if people hate me because I say what I think and feel. I will perhaps in the future take a deep breath and look in the mirror before running my mouth off and beating someone to the ground. I felt wrong had been done to me, so I did wrong back.

    I know most importantly that what I have said here is the truth. My side of the story is true and my feelings are true. I am sure that every single person here has made a decision that was not the right one. For me, I couldnt hold the feelings inside me and I had to put them somewhere and I chose a public forum to do so, which I am sure resulted in hurt all around.

    I appreciate the support I have been given through all this.

  404. piratebaby says:

    I had to show dh that connorsmama montrosity…..he is very concerned about that sleeve….he just kept staring at it saying “what is up with that sleeve?!”

  405. Incognizable says:

    LOL 415!

  406. Just Peachy says:

    I will say I am sorry that she did not turn out to be the friend you thought she was. I have been there and it really is quite painful to go through that.

  407. naturalmamadot says:

    and actually meg, if sarah really did that, I think everything you said was mean but not over the top horrible bitch mean, just something she deserved to hear for being a lying bitch. I dont believe in rainbows and sunshine especially for those that have done something nasty like lie about friendship. honestly though I would peg YOU as someone to pretend to be friends just to get some info to make fun of that person with, like I said before you may not really be like that, its just the vibe I get *shrug*

    I did have one question though what did she say about lisa rachelle? that name REALLLLY surprised me that she was talking about her, she seems to stay away from the drama and seems nice!

  408. mdmr says:

    To that, Meg, I can 100% empathize. I have had the exact same experience and it really is crushing. That sucks way worse than the “stalking” and I am guessing it is the real issue at hand here.

  409. erin says:

    Meg, I hope you really do start looking in the mirror. You were nasty to me, a complete stranger, for no reason. And it wasn’t because you were “telling it like it is”, lol. Maybe this experience will end up being good for you!

  410. screenname says:

    Meg, I have stayed far away from this train wreck but I wanted to say that it took a lot to say what you just said here.

  411. žába says:

    Well, I hope with that statement the whole thing can be finished. Meg – I have always thought that you bring a honest point of view to the boards, did it get a little over the top on CDN, yes. Was it all your falt, no, the way the whole affair was handled made a small fire an inferno. I hope that everyone has been able to gain some insight on how to deal with things in the future.

    Now, can we pleeeease get some new drama ’round here?

  412. insomniac says:

    jesus H christ.
    for someone who wants it to die meg you sure keep posting lengthy soap opera details about it.

    I could give a SHIT less that you and someone you liked had a falling out. It happens.

    CDN has been so insanely dramariffic because of Meg drama. Not all your fault by any means but I am not sure I have ever seen anyone draw it in like you do and then you perpetuate it by not just being quiet if you really want it to stop.

    SO just stop. and it will stop because no one will have any more details to pick apart or question.

    This whole thing is just sent peoples mind out the damned window.

    I agree #422 new drama or
    in the words of the wise Mad Hatter…”clean cup, clean cup, move on!”

    (edited in on for down cause it just made more sense, lmao )

  413. insomniac says:

    just read your last post. good, I hope that settles it and it is done.

  414. diudiaole says:

    #413 — I kinda liked that one… not that I have any use for a pipe… but I think it was meant to look freaky.

  415. piratebaby says:

    #*J@*()!! diaperswappers!!! my laptop is now officially dead….it went off and when I tried to restart it it started flipping through a bunch of numbers….erased the entire thing. Dh is super pissed as this is the 2nd time this has happened. the first time it just erased some things, this time it has completely killed it. the only place I could have picked it up is diaperswappers, my other computers are all fine

  416. Grogwench says:

    That’s why I don’t go there anymore. It drives me crazy when people link and don’t c&p, but it’s not worth another virus to kill my computer. One new computer is enough…I’m not willing to sacrifice another to drama…no matter how juicy!!

    Sorry about your laptop.

  417. Just Peachy says:

    I’ve been lucky so far in that it hasn’t done shit but forced me to reformat a few times. Its my router that keeps letting the stuff in from what I can tell.

  418. žába says:

    In all the time I have frequented DS I have never had any trouble. Maybe I have just been lucky, or maybe i have the super router and I never knew. Hope that the good luck sticks. Sorry to hear about your computer pirate, I would be super pissed off too.

  419. mmspirit7 says:

    i need drama before i get pissy with someone on cdn? is there any

  420. Melissa says:

    No drama here but wanted to say that I ordered from First Gear and her CS was rockin’ good and super fast shipping. I know some of you trashed her awhile back but she is in good shape now!

  421. Melissa says:

    Peach and Erin..get a freakin’ room!

  422. Just Peachy says:

    A little late to the game eh Melissa?

  423. Messy says:

    :::Peeking back in::: Seeing Charise threaten to get pissy with someone on CDN… Oh baby! Will you be doing it with or without a shirt? Are there panties involved? :drool:

  424. mmspirit7 says:

    i just thought it was funny a woman with naked babies as an avatar had a problem with a pic of a guys butt. it pissed me off i am better now.

  425. BOOO (AKA Maeghan *Edited by DSDM2) says:

    Catching up on the drama 🙂

  426. Melissa says:

    433: You guys already got a room? Sorry I missed THAT.

  427. Just Peachy says:

    Oh did it really bug you that much? You give me too much power, sweet cheeks 🙂

  428. monkey says:

    Guy’s butt? Where?

  429. diudiaole says:

    #431 — Telling what happened is not “trashing” someone. That bitch didn’t have the courtesy to respond to even one e-mail… I sent several to 3 different addresses. I had to file through paypal and escalate it before I was finally refunded. She sat on my money that I needed for fabric for nearly 3 weeks!

  430. mmspirit7 says:

    439 in behind closed doors on cdn

  431. mmspirit7 says:

    or you could just click this link

  432. mmspirit7 says:


  433. mmspirit7 says:

    try adding but got stuck in mod. well i am off to bed night

  434. werd says:

    Peachy your package is going in the mail tomorrow – can you make small longies instead of nb with a hat???

  435. Erin says:

    Jealous much, Melissa?

  436. Kimbella says:

    I’m still undecided on First Gear.

    I placed an order with the new owner because I had a discount code. 2 of the 5 pieces of fabric from that order had writing on the back, and another piece was covered in animal hair.

    The owner resent those 3 pieces and included two more pieces of fabric that I had been waiting to restock. The two extra pieces were sent for free, BUT one was not cut wide enough. I know I shouldn’t complain since it was free (and I didn’t complain to First Gear), but seriously, how difficult is it to cut fabric?!

  437. DSDM2 says:

    You got stuck in spam, sorry about that. We have had a huge increase in spam as we have grown, and unfortunately we get more posts in the spam filter as well.

  438. mmspirit7 says:

    if that was to me it’s ok

  439. DSDM2 says:

    it was, just letting everyone know what is going on.

  440. mmspirit7 says:

    thanks. it was a link so i figured it might happen…thanks.

  441. diudiaole says:

    #447 — how are you undecided, really? Look at their negatives, I am not the only one they have screwed… plus they send badly cut, dirty fabric!! Is it any wonder the prices are cheap?? I’d rather pay twice as much and actually receive something useable!!

    In fact I never left feedback, I probably should already.

  442. DSDM2 says:

    I think it is time to leave FB.

  443. riffrafflittleman says:

    So, now that she has 3 negatives will they close her account?

  444. žába says:

    I doubt it since some of the negs where from the previous ownership. Doesn’t sound like much has changed customer service. Maybe that was part of the package…buy my HyenaCart store and poor CS is included-Freeee!

  445. riffrafflittleman says:

    ahh, I didn’t realize it was feedback for two separate owners. I guess I am really shocked that the new owners did not start with fresh feedback. HC makes my head hurt the way they run it

  446. mamapixie says:

    Hey 371..sybermoms. And no peachy(too stupid to figure out how to find the confirmation email) or tyandcheymommy(she went on immediate ignore) there either. Of course, there also isn’t a huge cloth diaper section either though, just one little ‘posted in once a week or so” section.

  447. Kimbella says:

    I guess I’m undecided b/c even though I originally got dirty/hairy/miscut fabric, I DID get to keep all of the incorrect faric and did eventually get the correct stuff, plus two free cuts of fabric (even though one wasn’t cut as large as I requested) and free shipping.

    If hyenacart allowed it, I would leave neutrals. I don’t feel that my situation warrants a negative, as I DID eventually receive all the fabric I paid for, plus extras, and the owner was nice in all of our convos. (The first owner completely ignored me.)

  448. Messy says:

    #458 what are your user names? If you need to block people like Peachy and TyandCheymommy, then I want to make sure to let you have all my s/ns everywhere so you can ignore me. Otherwise, I would shit on your good day. Now piss off troll. 😀

  449. adensmama says:

    I ordered a whole roll of bamboo fleece from first gear and the (new) owner was awesome! She is really sweet, she even gave me her cell # so I could text her. Then she sent my fabric the next day after I sent her paypal (it was late at night) and it was at my house 2 days later!

    She did tell me that they had all these plans about how she was going to take over and had everything organized…and then the old owner just kind of didn’t go along with the plan. She didn’t get all the fabric that she was supposed to get, she didn’t get the passwords to email addys that she was supposed to get, etc.

    I feel really bad for her, she seems like she has her head on straight and she’s a really nice person but she just got off to a rough start. I really don’t think the old owner helped the situation AT ALL.

    In any case, I will definitely order from her again. Like I said, I spent a LOT of money (almost $400) and my transaction was perfect.

  450. mamapixie says:

    Pretty sure I’m not a troll in the slightest. And I know you aren’t because I don’t think you are stupid enough to beg freebies off of everyone and then turn around and sell them, and really, peachy has been a dumbass for quite awhile, and she knows quite well that I think so, as I’ve had it out with her before.

  451. žába says:

    I love me some drama as much as the next person, but 462 you seem like you are blowing smoke. if you have beef then bring it, don’t come on here acting all cryptic.

  452. Just Peachy says:

    That hurts mamapixie. And btw when did I beg freebies off ppl and sell them??? This is news to me LOL.
    And I could careless about your stupid lil forum. I’m done with cd centric forums. I’ll stick to HC and FB for my internet dramaz fix TYVM.

  453. Just Peachy says:

    Thats all she has done for the past year is be cryptic an anonymous. I guess some people only have balls when no one knows who they are 😉

  454. žába says:

    seems more like cryptic and ball-less. She still has nothing of weight to say…step up or move on mamapixie

  455. Just Peachy says:

    And werd sure I can. You can email me at or pm via cdn I guess. I get my pms thru there and I can log in to at least return them.

  456. Messy says:

    #462 ROFLMAO! At least you are good for a laugh (at you, not with you). If you can’t take holding your own in a disagreement, then of course the easiest exit is ignore.

  457. Just Peachy says:

    LMMFAO very true Messy.
    And yes sweetie you are my very own troll. You constantly pop up with “biting” comments directed at me for the sole purpose of getting me riled up. Have you not learned? I am no fish so quit baiting me, HUN.

  458. me says:

    Shouldn’t that HC have gotten new fb for a new owner?
    She has four negs. How many are for her?

  459. mamapixie says:

    You didn’t, tyandcheymommy did, take freebies and turn around and sell them that is. don’t know what she did to turn all innocent and be accepted at CDN now, but whatever. Iggy works just great.

    And you’re still a bitch. Sorry. Some people don’t forget. And I only call you out when I feel like it.

    BTW messy, nice to see you did join Sybermoms. Don’t know where to find your confirmation email either?

  460. Messy says:

    Nice to see that *I* joined Sybermoms? Nope. Not me. No cinfirmation email as I am perfectly happy at CDN.
    And before you choke to death on your own snot with your nose so high in the air, many of us have been in similar circumstances as TyandCheymommy and had to do what we could to make our families work… She didn’t “turn anything all innocent”, she kept it real and that is what it takes to hang out on CDN. I know I won’t be seeing you there.

  461. Just Peachy says:

    You say it like its a bad thing? So what if I am a bitch? What does it really matter to you?

  462. StacEy says:

    mamapixie, why so angry? What did Peachy do?

  463. naturalmamadot says:

    I know right, she comes out of no where to inform me that I will love a particular message board because MY friend isnt on there pssshhh okay then not sure where you came from sweetie but you are free to go back there. I MIGHT of checked out that board if I didnt find out about it from a snarky bitch 😀

  464. Funneh says:

    Damn Diu, I’d be pissed. I don’t know what I’d do because I’m a pushover though :/

    Why is her old UN on DS (like, the little “formerly…”) so familiar to me though? Has she been featured here before?

  465. diudiaole says:

    I will see if she responds in a day or so. I have used hemp before and I don’t really like it for anything other than soaker layers… it gets hard after awhile.

    I might just fed ex the whole package right back to her. Still thinking….

  466. žába says:

    Send her shit back and tell her no deal. Just because she doesn’t know the difference between hemp and bamboo doesn’t mean you have to get stuck with something that was not what you intended to trade for. As for the poorly negotiated deal that is kind of on you (sorry), but maybe you have and out.

  467. StacEy says:

    I’d fed ex the whole thing back.

  468. diudiaole says:

    Yeah, like I said in my OP, I bent over the barrel… but seeing her freecycle brag after the fact was like a slap in the face. Just my personal feelings on it.

  469. Just Peachy says:

    Thats not juliankenziesmom is it? I dont think it is because she hasnt changed her name recently that I know of?
    I wouldn’t do the trade. I’d explain to her you were under the impression this was bamboo fabric but is in fact hemp/cotton fleece and you have no use for it really.

  470. Just Peachy says:

    Ah heck it is her! Why don’t they show her former name as juliankenziesmom?

  471. Funneh says:

    One thing I’m a little unclear on: have you actually made her or sent her anything yet?

  472. diudiaole says:

    484 — no

  473. Funneh says:

    Oh man, I would definitely just tell her toobadsosad in that case and see if she’ll pay shipping back to her, considering she did not send you what you thought you were getting, kwim? Before you’re out anything but your time 😦

  474. diudiaole says:

    I don’t think I want to have another conversation with her. I just want this to be over now.

  475. Just Peachy says:

    Did she respond?

  476. magpiedpiper says:

    Diu, she reads here. Goes by Juliankenziesmama or dramammama8180.

    She sent you the wrong fabric. She did not fulfill her end of the trade. As I said in your CDN thread, send it back now and just be done with it all before you have to deal with her further.

  477. diudiaole says:

    She responded. She really didn’t know what she had. She is asking it bamboo is worth more than hemp etc. She hasn’t been unpleasant, but I don’t think I can do this with not even getting the correct fabric.

    I will come up with a response for her…

  478. diudiaole says:

    Ok, I told her I was unhappy w/the hemp and am shipping it all back to her.

  479. Aj says:

    Has anyone else been wondering where tummymommy’s been? That girl posted non-stop, and I haven’t see here for a few weeks…weird.

  480. Just Peachy says:

    Maybe she is knocked up too?

  481. rainbow says:

    492 – tummy mommy is now Liddle1 on DS. She’s still posting just as much as ever, don’t worry! 😉

  482. Juliankenziesmama says:

    So quick to jump on people ladies. Goodness. Yeah so I got the fabric on freecycle with the giver asking me to sell. She was the maker of eco-diapers.
    I sent what I was told was bamboo fleece…that was a mistake, I owned up to that and apologized. There really is no drama around this. Really. Amanda….ya don’t want it just throw it out. I have no use for it and don’t want to pay shipping again.
    Don’t want the other stuff package of fabrics pul, snaps etc….just send them back. Put return to sender on it and Voila…..its done…..I don’t understand what the big deal is.

  483. screenname says:

    So the fabric is so worthless that she should just throw it out but you felt that it was a fair trade for $150 worth of her merchandise?

  484. Juliankenziesmama says:

    There are two different packages we are talking about. The first one she got is the one that I really have no clue as to what I would do with it. I said throw it out or whatever because really I don’t care. Less drama.
    The other huge package I sent out to her has a TON of PUL, snaps, sherpa, OBV etc…..yeah I want that stuff back….no that stuff is not worthless.
    And yes if the stuff was the right stuff in the first place then yes it would have been worth the trade…..since its not there is no issue….she just sends me the stuff back and we’re done with it.

  485. Aj says:

    494, ahhh…I will have to check her out. Why do people change their usernames? Silly.

  486. magpiedpiper says:

    But why are you selling things if you have no clue what they are or what the term yardage actually means?

  487. magpiedpiper says:

    Ok, just re-read Diu’s post so scratch the yardage part because I think that is someone else, sorry. But the first part applies still.

    Also, if you were trading for $150 worth of dipes, and the first part is worth nothing to you, is the second package valued at $150?

  488. Juliankenziesmama says:

    Well if someone in the field of fabric tells you its something do you have any reason to doubt them….no. This really isn’t even an issue….I have admitted that the wrong stuff was sent because I was told it was one thing and its happens to not be what Amanda needed. Not an issue. The first package is just not useful to me….I don’t make dipes and don’t have a use for 4×16 cuts. So she can keep them or do whatever.
    No….the second package is not worth $150 in its entiretty becuse the $150 included the 2nd package I sent her. All of what I was sending her has a trade value of $150 (actually more since I was working with her on prices). And yes I can use sherpa, and pul and snaps etc………

  489. Juliankenziesmama says:

    the person that she be pissed here is me….Amanda isn’t losing out on anything. She hasn’t even started the diapers that were going to be part of the trade. I on the other hand am out almost $30 for shipping all this stuff.

  490. diudiaole says:

    #502 — I just sent you a PM. I don’t know why you are stating that you are out shipping when I had already agreed to either paypal you an agreed upon amount or ship back your items.

  491. me says:

    I think if you’re going to sell or trade then either you need to know for damn sure what it is or list that you aren’t positive but it is ** OR **.
    The other stuff is just strange!

  492. Juliankenziesmama says:

    Pm’d ya back Amanda. Didn’t realize you posted that BEFORE we had talked earlier. My bad…sorry about that.

  493. BffMama says:

    So everything is all good now?

  494. diudiaole says:

    Yes, we’ve reached an amicable resolution.

  495. Juliankenziesmama says:

    yep…thanks Amanda…’re a sweetheart!!! Glad we figured something out!

  496. Messy says:

    WooHoo for happy endings. Now, find me some *real drama dammit!!!

  497. thewhiteninja says:

    why the name change?

  498. werd says:

    Peachy, I miss you 😦 Your package went out today!!

  499. Just Peachy says:

    I miss you too! Im on fb if you want to add me. I talk to a whole bunch of cdn ladies on there.

  500. juliankenziesmama says:

    510. Because I wanted to change it. Didn’t want my girls names in the SN anymore.

  501. Just Peachy says:

    OOOOhhhhhhhhhhh yummy!

  502. riffrafflittleman says:

    514, that owl pattern makes my heart happy!! Beautiful diapers!!

  503. diudiaole says:

    Yeah… love those owls. 😀

  504. moxy says:

    ugh, what’s with the spam?

  505. diudiaole says:

    #518 — don’t like it don’t click 😉

  506. naturalmamadot says:

    Um no shit, sorry but she is a frequent poster here and I think the majority of us would LOVE to see her latest diapers! If you dont like it feel FREE to scroll right past it *eyeroll*

  507. grogwench says:

    I seen no spam, just some rightful bragging of cutie diapers!

    Great job!

  508. me says:

    Normally spam is “Hey, buy this from me!”
    Those are already sold.

  509. mmspirit7 says:

    love the diapers might be having to pm you when i return from my trip

  510. diudiaole says:

    523 — aww I miss your old avatar! lol

  511. mmspirit7 says:

    lol yeah i may put it back i am think of putting up dory from nemo for a bit

  512. Messy says:

    #518 ugh, what’s with the bitch? Go complain somewhere else because we all love seeing what other mamas make!!! Diu has some awesome diapers!!!

  513. mmspirit7 says:

    526 yeah i don’t know what it is about the woman first it was peachy that bothered her and now diu….who pissed in her coffee…on a side note messy i bet the drama all starts up when i leave town

  514. Just Peachy says:

    Im always bothering someone though LOL.

  515. moxy says:

    Uh, actually no, no complaints with Peachy–you must be thinking of someone else.

  516. Messy says:

    #529 After a while all the bitches seem to run together…

  517. moxy says:

    I’m merely, and mildly, pointing out that spam on the DoDS is somewhat annoying, especially when it’s not marked as so. I think you need some new drama–you don’t seem to usually be this testy. 😀

  518. Messy says:

    #531 No, I am pissy that you think our looking at ALREADY SOLD diapers is spam. Had it ever occurred to you that people on here become very good friends, both on and off the blog, you would not say such assinine things.

  519. moxy says:

    Hmm…wonder what world you live in to think that just because something is sold, it’s no longer spam.
    I’m glad y’all are friends. I’m glad y’all have warm and fuzzy sharing moments together. 😀 But that’s usually what DS and CDN and the like are for.
    Now, go take a pill and realize there was no actual animosity behind my post, just pointing something out.

  520. Munklettes says:

    nuh-uh, no way, Diu, I will not click on any more of your links! I have NO paypal, lady! 🙂

  521. me says:

    Hey, guys the owner of the blog doesn’t want people to show off their creations so maybe people need to list-Hey…wait a minute, who are you again?

  522. diudiaole says:

    I think you just need more fluff, moxy… I heard these people were stocking Tuesday: 😀

  523. Messy says:

    #533 I took a pill. But my pain (AKA YOU) are still here 😥

    And I will be warm and fucking fuzzy anywhere I feel the urge!

  524. diudiaole says:

    I love it when you get feisty, Messy 😉

  525. moxy says:

    Hey, Me, I forgot that part of the “about this blog”! You know, the part where we can’t have an opinion: ie (Ugh, what’s up with the spam) comment.
    You (general) don’t have to agree with me, and I’m sure some DO and some don’t, but I can certainly have an opinion. Better yet, I can say it without frothing at the mouth and calling someone a bitch. 😀
    Btw, Diudiaole, I think your dipes are very pretty and I have been tempted to try one. I still think it’s tacky to spam yourself on here all the time. And guess what–that’s OK–I can have that opinion! And you can disagree with me! What a warm and fuzzy moment!

  526. me says:

    Okay but telling everyone about what this blog is or is not about when it doesn’t happen to be yours serves what purpose?
    That would be like me saying “”Hey, stay on topic people!”
    If the owner doesn’t bitch about it then who are you to bitch about it?

  527. Messy says:

    😦 Diu spams herself “here all the time” and I have never seen it before today??? Or you people are hiding the pretty fluff links from me?
    You might be able to say your opinion without frothing at the mouth, but you are still a bitch. HTH.

  528. diudiaole says:

    Actually… those 6 dipes are being mailed out to Us4&AngelCorey on Monday, the subject of this very thread… so it really isn’t too far off topic.

    Yes I enjoy showing my stuff off… artists like appreciation. I don’t even have anything for sale right now, so I don’t know why you’ve got your panties in a wad.

  529. Messy says:

    #542 It would help her attitude if she took her wadded up panties out of her mouth and wore them… JMO.

  530. moxy says:

    A bitch because I have an opinion that differs from yours, Messy? Interesting take on the name bitch. I think bitch is more, you know, the type of person who CALLS someone a bitch for having a differing opinion.

    Read back again, Me. I posted*my* opinion on spam. Right or wrong, it was my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I was jumped on because y’all like Diudiaole, which is great, but it doesn’t make my opinion any more or less valid than anyone else’s. I didn’t tell anyone what the blog is or isn’t about anymore than you did to me. I’m just saying it’s annoying to me to see spam on the DoDS, instead of on CDN, DS, HC, etc.
    There were a few normal human responses–ie. “Don’t like it don’t click” (I wouldn’t have if I’d known it was spam), or “Feel free to scroll on” etc. And then there was the resident schoolyard bully. 😀 Who needs more drama to pick apart instead of people making mild comments.

  531. moxy says:

    Um, 542, “Ugh, what’s with the spam” isn’t exactly “panties in a wad”. My panties starting bunching up when Messy was bored and needed something to unloose her bitchery on.

  532. monkey says:

    Hmm… If I thought Diu were actually spamming it might annoy me. But I really don’t think that’s her intent. I think she’s proud of her work (rightfully so) and let’s be honest, outside of a couple of sites no one in real life is going to appreciate your fluff!

  533. Messy says:

    If you think me calling it as it happens is “bitchery” then you will seriously want to stay away from my bad side.
    Posting in the middle of a thread that her link was spam was tacky of you. It reeks of jealousy and self-conscious loathing, perhaps stemming from the covetousness you seem to have for others artistic capabilities… Or it could just be you being a bitch.

  534. diudiaole says:

    #545 — the ‘panties in a wad’ refer to hearing it over and over from you, not your original comment. I don’t consider it spam if it isn’t in my store or something for sale… obviously you do, ok, you don’t need to repeat it for a 5th time please.

    I wrote: ‘phew! these took me forever’ — so if you had clicked on it to see some other sewing project that I don’t happen to sell, would you have still been annoyed?

    I don’t think you’re a bitch… you had your say and that is fine.

  535. me says:

    I’m not buddies with her. I don’t even agree with a lot of what she says when I read her responses on certain things. However, some random person getting pissy and bossy bugs me.
    Oh, and I think she makes gorgeous diapers and has a great reason to show them off!

  536. diudiaole says:

    So what is everyone making for dinner tonight? I need ideas lol

  537. moxy says:

    PIssy and bossy? 😆 Get real.
    Yeah, you’re tough Messy. Thanks for the armchair psych evaluation. Way off mark, but keep trying! I hear self-evaluation is great practice! :thumbsup:
    Diu–Yup, I was really repetitive, sorry. Just responding to the flak. Yeah, other pretty fluff would have been annoying too. Just my take on what I like to read here, as you already know.

  538. diudiaole says:

    Jeebus. I think I need some chocolate.

  539. naturalmamadot says:

    Leftover stew today, tomorrow Im making crockpot chili and cornbread, next day hm probably this crock pot chicken recipe that I ❤ lol

  540. naturalmamadot says:

    and anyone who has chocolate has to share withme lol its the most humid its been yet this year and I am in slow motion today lol couldnt even get the energy up to go to the spray park or waterpark today :/

  541. Messy says:

    Tonight is McDinner. Tomorrow is BBQ ribs with lima beans. The next night is BBQ chicken shred sandwiches via crock pot.

  542. diudiaole says:

    ooh I need to rediscover my crockpot… I made a chicken casserole for lunch… no leftovers though and I really need to go grocery shopping so options are limited tonight.

    Cornbread sounds heavenly right now!

  543. diudiaole says:

    #555 — I have been behaving myself lately… but those $1 hot n spicy McChicken sandwiches are sooo good and cheap.

  544. mmspirit7 says:

    we had dq tonight…to hot to cook

  545. magpiedpiper says:

    Oh, I want cornbread so badly now. I love it. But dh doesn’t like it so whenever I do make it I end up eating the entire pan myself. Ugh. Anyone want to split them with me? lol

  546. diudiaole says:

    Me please! I like mine slightly sweet and dripping with real butter!

  547. Messy says:

    #559 Sometimes late at night dd will make a box just to snack on… Quick and easy Jiffy Mix. We are total cornbread lovers here!!!

  548. Just Peachy says:

    Love the jiffy mix! I sometimes add shredded cheese and real corn to it just to kick it up a notch

  549. diudiaole says:

    I recall an old recipe where you put the jiffy mix in a muffin tin with the cups filled 1/3 full.. then you put sloppy joe meat or any kind of saucy seasoned meat in each cup and top with more mix.

    I don’t have jiffy mix or ground beef right now so I guess that is out of the question.

    I just ate a bowl of cereal. lol

  550. Just Peachy says:

    Ooooooooh that sounds yummy!

  551. melmelly says:

    I made thai chicken for dinner, and I have no clue what I will make tomorrow. Probably chicken something or something with hamburger. Maybe stuffed pasta shells or manicotti.

  552. me says:

    We had burgers. Made with cracked wheat super yummy rolls from a local place. :drool:

  553. Bloggitybloggity says:

    My DH gets home around 1am… and so I have to make the kids dinner and then him dinner. I’m thinking he’ll like lasagna hamburger-helper… Cuz I’m tired. *Ugh* with the double dinners. My ass is going to get so fat 😛

  554. amessymama says:

    I have goulash simmering right now.

    Hey bloggity, can’t you just heat up leftovers for him? Seems like it would be a lot easier.

  555. melmelly says:

    567 – My DH gets home around 10:30pm, and we did the dinner when he got home from work thing before. Anymore, he will either have a snack, or warm up a plate of leftovers. I have gotten into a habit of making him dinner before he goes to work, so he can eat it there, and I just have to warm mine and the kids up…or fix the kids something completely different.

    I can’t wait for him to get on a better shift.

  556. Juliankenziesmama says:

    I have chocolate Diu but you are gonna have to fight my DD for it. Oh and those things with the beef/jiffy mix are called BBQ cups…they are on this weeks menu at our house 🙂

  557. amessymama says:

    That Jiffy/sloppy joe thing sounds very wrong, but oh so right!! 🙂

  558. Bloggitybloggity says:

    messymama- I could, but I hate having to reheat stuff on the stove. Our microwave died about a month ago so everything has to be reheated by hand and its such a pain and some things just taste nasty reheated that way. Plus, I feel bad because I want him to be able to eat something “fresh” for a change, lol.

    Besides, if I don’t have something semi-appealing ready then he won’t eat or he’ll cook up something big and fabulous himself (and that makes me feel like poo to let him do that at 2:00am.)

    I guess I can’t really complain anyway… the kids had left-overs tonight so I’m really only “cooking” one dinner. But still… all the food. I’m not the type to cook anything and not eat it, lol.

  559. amessymama says:

    Oh I see. Our micro died too and I decided not to replace it. Your right, it is hard to reheat things now. I feel like I’m living in the dark ages of 1976. 🙂

  560. Bloggitybloggity says:

    I totally feel ya! LMAO

    DH keeps offering to go and get another one, but it’s really not in our budget… and I’m seeing how not having it available for convenience could potentially cut down on a lot of junk-food consumption (*cough* *cough* HotPockets) But it is such a hard adjustment to make. Everyone’s all “…just pop this or that into the microwave…” and if you say you don’t have one, then they’re like “Oh. IDK what to tell you then, lol.)

  561. mmspirit7 says:

    i donn’t know what i am going to have tomorrow..i will be on a retreat with all food paid for.

  562. diudiaole says:

    I get weird looks, but I don’t own a microwave. I read some studies that show that it could be unhealthy… so I just use the oven or the stove. Sorta the same reason why I don’t use antiperspirants with aluminum.

  563. StacEy says:

    we went a couple years without a microwave. It was weird at first but then I just got used to it, and all those microwave foods usually taste better oven-baked anyway. These days I make at least one meal a day entirely in the microwave. I am no Betty Crocker.

  564. amessymama says:

    I heat some things up in my steam pot. I just put it on a plate and set it in the top part. It’s pretty quick too. Although, I’m thinking a wet, soggy Hot Pocket won’t taste good.

  565. monkey says:

    I love Jiffy Mix so much I have my dad ship it to South Korea for me on a three month basis.

  566. monkey says:

    Okay. These are some pretty yucky longies.

  567. Messy says:

    Wow. I do not know any people IRL who do not have a microwave~ except us! Ours died and we got rid of it a few months ago. I only miss it when it is time for left overs but I am getting better at reheating on the stove or in the oven.

  568. Messy says:

    #580 OMg. Those are nasty! How can you sell something like that???

  569. Juliankenziesmama says:

    Ok dumb ? but for ya’ll that don’t have a microwave….does it affect your electric/gas bill at all. I am wondering how cost effective microwaves actually are.

  570. Madre says:

    Ewww those longies are super gross!

  571. Messy says:

    #583 I dunno. I think it is worse because we use the stove more… We have an electric stove, so it has to heat up and all that jazz in addition to taking longer to cook the food.

  572. diudiaole says:

    That is funny that so many of us on here don’t have a microwave… all the rest of you saying that yours died, I call bs… you’re all hippies like me, just own it. 😛 lol

  573. Kimbella says:

    So, if you bought an interlock soaker off DS, and it was listed as “new, never washed or worn”, and it arrived with A LOT of POOP crusted on the inside of it (so much that it stained through the the outside), what kind of feedback would you leave?

    I just contacted the seller, telling her I wanted to return it and be reimbursed for return shipping. Even if she does that, I don’t want to leave a positive!

    There is NO WAY she could not have noticed as she was packing the soaker up. She even wrapped it in tissue paper, so it’s not like she just tossed it in an envelope.

    *Shudder* I am so grossed out.

  574. diudiaole says:

    yuck.. did she respond yet?

  575. Kimbella says:

    She did. She said “umm, okay”, like I was making it up or something. Then she said that she got it as a gift, and the person she got it from told her it was new and that she had never looked inside of it. She didn’t have to – the poop stained through to the outside! She said I could send it back – no mention of return shipping.

  576. žába says:

    Oh yuck! new /never worn, means that they are new and never worn to me…not well we wore them but you can’t really tell. To send something out with poop on it is so wrong, and to have listed it as new WTF !?!?!

    I think I would probably leave neutral IF she returns all funds plus return shipping. But you better believe that I would say that she send out poop covered “new” items. I don’t know it’s a hard call-maybe negative. I guess it depends on what she says about it and how co operative she is about returning them.

  577. diudiaole says:

    Who is it? That is bs…. you know it might have happened to her and so then she felt she could go ahead and move it on to surprise someone else.

    A couple weeks ago I bought a large good used condition diaper and the photos looked good, but there were 2 holes in it! The seller said she didn’t notice and that it was sold to her like that. She refunded… but whatever.

    She needs to pay return shipping… did you take photos? I might contact a mod in that situation… because that is filthy.

  578. amessymama says:

    580-Yeah those longing should’ve been put in the giveaway pile.

    I have a few hippie ways. DH did not want me to get rid of the micro, so I didn’t. Until it died. And he certainly isn’t going to run to Target and pick up a new one, so we are now microwaveless. I’ve been looking into getting a toaster oven to reheat things. Hey that would work for your Hot Pockets, Bloggity.

    587-I would wait for a response. It may have been a mistake. I don’t know how, but it maybe. If she is super apologetic and makes it right quickly, you may want to leave neutral. But obviously it’s your decision. Make sure you take pics to show her. But yeah that is absolutely disgusting!!

    Is she newish? Not that it excuses sending new, never washed or worn, yet covered in crap objects to people. That’s just sick and weird.

  579. Kimbella says:


  580. Kimbella says:

    I just posted pics, but they’re stuck in moderation. Off to pm them to the seller and ask (again) about return shipping.

    I think she’s newer, but not a total newbie.

  581. Kimbella says:

    There’s my pb acct with pics.

    I guess she’s newer than I thought. Just a member since April and only 5 fb – all positive.

  582. naturalmamadot says:

    New or not, you should use logic and LOOK at the product you are selling, she wouldnt have to search with a magnifying glass, but you dont sell things without looking something over, even quickly, especially not as new never worn.

  583. amessymama says:

    OMG!!! If you could see me right now, I look just like that jaw dropping smiley. That is horrendous!!

    It’s weird, seeing the pics totally changes my opinion. I totally think she should get a negative now.

    Ew. Ew. Ew. Gross!!!!!

  584. amessymama says:

    595-Heck you don’t even have to look at those. Smelling would do the trick, I’m sure.

  585. Kimbella says:

    Well, she said I’ll get a refund and shipping, but she hasn’t sent the shipping yet, so…

    They don’t smell, but dried poop was flaking off of them. You can see the little flecks in the pics if you look close enough. Thank goodness she did wrap them in tissue paper, or the poop would have flaked off onto ME and my desk/floor. Ew!

  586. Messy says:

    #596 That is the exact same look I have >:oO
    WTF??? That is GROSS!!!

  587. diudiaole says:

    I would PM a mod on there with links to those pics… that is just awful to have to receive in the mail!!

  588. magpiedpiper says:

    UGH I would wear gloves while touching that too. No way she could, or most importantly SHOULD have missed that.

  589. Just Peachy says:

    That is beyond disgusting. How can you not notice that huge stain on the crotch????????????

  590. Madre says:

    WHo misses shit (no pun intended) like that!? Oh man.

  591. Incognizable says:

    Holy shit! That is gross!!!!!!!!!!

  592. Juliankenziesmama says:

    I can’t see the pics since I am at work and photobucket is blocked 😦 Its its uber obvious though I would leave neg.

  593. KAL says:

    hey Diu, do you only make fitteds?

  594. Kimbella says:

    She did sent me the amount I paid, plus $5 for shipping. She just sent it all as a personal payment though. Should I have her refund it? It’s her that’s not protected, right? I think?

  595. Madre says:

    No you’re not protected. You need to have her send it as a refund.

  596. Just Peachy says:

    Actually if you ship via paypal i dont see why you wouldnt be.

  597. Munklettes says:

    594 – that is so freakin’ disgusting!

  598. amessymama says:

    OK, I’m not one to bag on MIles like some of you do. 😉

    But WTH is she talking about here? It’s like she’s assuming everybody know the backstory. Like she posted a new post instead of replying to an original post. Maybe she did. Who knows?


    Question about small claims court
    Sadly if she doesnt send my clothes to me within a month I will be taking her. Now Dh has spoken to a lawyer who told me what I have to do and how I dont even need a lawyer if I dont want one. Thing is that she doesnt live in the same state as me. DH didnt tell the lawyer this, so Im not sure how it work if she doesnt live around me. I have her moms address which was an address that she was living but not anymore. The lawyer said I could use that address as long as someone does sign for the paperwork. But if anyone has had to do it how does it work with her not in my state?


    This is her OP. Weird.

  599. riffrafflittleman says:

    If I recall correctly, Miles lent some clothes to a “friend”. I think they may have been maternity clothes. Then this person was to send/give them back to Miles when she was done. She said she would or something and never did. Miles has been going on about it for probably 6-9 months now at least?

  600. Munklettes says:

    610 – lmfao! A lawyer, for used maternity clothes? They have money for that? I think not.

  601. eeek says:

    I don’t have a microwave, they just kind of creep me out.

    That poop soaker is disgusting, absolutely amazing someone passed that on. In every time it’s been passed on.

    & Diu- did you see

    apparently first gear’s still keeping up the crappy work-

  602. screenname says:

    If it’s personal, then I don’t think she’s protected. I’m pretty sure that’s where Paypal was going with the new fee schedule.

  603. StacEy says:

    did anyone notice that Kmwell came back to DS after Meg was banned? I cant decide which is more pathetic, that she left because she was afraid of meg, or that she came back when meg was gone. Anyway, does that mean she did or didnt steal from Sarah?

  604. Just Peachy says:

    Miles has money for a lawyer but then she can’t pay back her family the money they loaned her???

  605. žába says:

    Gross, that is pretty freakin’ nasty 594 – I kind of think neg now, it’s not like she wouldn’t have notice that. If you are taking the time to wrap it up in tissue paper one would think that you would take the time to actually look at the item and see if it was clean or covered in crap.

    Mile’s must have a “friend” who is a lawyer, this isn’t the first time she has spouted off about getting legal advise. I remember her saying back during the whole landlord fiasco. If I recall she caught some flak for spending $$ on legal advice instead of paying her back rent. Whatever, she is a kook and is probably just looking up shit on the interwebz and calling it actual legal advise. Maybe if she spent more time cleaning up the dump she calls a home, and less time being a effing drama queen she would find a box of maternity clothes under one of those mountains of crap.

  606. riffrafflittleman says:

    Ok, so I went to find the posts about this on CDN – it was supposedly $200 worth of used clothes and a heart monitor. Now my head hurts from trying to weed through her ramblings

  607. Just Peachy says:

    Oh you poor dear LOL.
    Seriously why do people feel the need be drama whores and post every little thing that comes up in their lives? Do they think the entire interwebz actually gives a rats ass?

  608. naturalmamadot says:

    lmfao @ 617 Id laugh so hard if it turned out her friend DID give them back and she just cant find them in the landfill she calls her home

  609. riffrafflittleman says:

    LOL Peachy, it was kind of funny though because she was venting about people pissing away money which just cracked my shit up. And how horrible her hubby was and how great her mom was (until she wanted her money back) and all that. I swear it was like a mini soap opera

  610. naturalmamadot says:

    Miles is just one of those ppl that will always think the world is out to get her and “keepin her down” when in reality SHE is the problem. Her problems really arent ALL that hard to fix in the long run either but she has to be willing to accept that SHE is in control of her happiness and her life, money problems do not fall out of the sky, neither does a shitty hubby or the huge mess, she needs to work on decision making skills.

  611. diudiaole says:

    #613 — I can’t see the post, I got this message

    ‘Sorry, but only users granted special access can read topics in this forum.
    If you would like to have access, please PM one of the mods of this forum
    (listed on the main index page). Thanks!’

  612. Erin says:

    Kim- that soaker is the nastiest thing I’ve ever seen! Send back that personal payment and tell her to refund the original transaction.

  613. magpiedpiper says:

    Miles cracks me up. I loved her recent vent about how she hates it when people think because she’s a SAHM that she just sits on her butt all day, when in actuality she spends her days cleaning her house and making sure her kids play outside. LMBO

  614. screenname says:

    “Maybe if she spent more time cleaning up the dump she calls a home, and less time being a effing drama queen she would find a box of maternity clothes under one of those mountains of crap.”


  615. eeek says:

    Ah, it was just someone asking if anyone had heard from first gear as they’d ordered fabric & tried for a week to get in touch with them any way they could but had no answer.

    It’s in the HC sellers forum, which is open to everyone but you have to ask to join. That was their compromise after a bunch of WAHMs essentially made themselves look so ridiculous they shut down the WAH forum completely for a while, they don’t want their sellers looking so moronic no one will buy their stuff. Now you have to ask to see people ask why no one’s buying their stuff.

    Not like I didn’t join it right away when they set it back up, I did. just sayin’.

  616. amessymama says:

    Well, it looks like her whining and crying worked.

    “I figured it wasnt worth it and really not going to waste my time. I have a sweet mama on here who is helping me out with clothes. Makes me remember there are some sweet ppl out there!”

  617. insomniac says:

    that poop soaker is so disgusting I have no words.
    Neg all the way IMO.


    I can’t believe someone is going to give miles free stuff. Is she new to ds or soemthing?

  618. mdmr says:

    I know I am late to the game. Diu, your diapers are very pretty!

  619. amessymama says:

    633-That is the definition of hideous, right there.

  620. Laura says:

    595. OH MY GOD!! I would have died!!

  621. diudiaole says:

    #633 c’mon now quit spamming your wares! 😛

  622. naturalmamadot says:

    haha thatd be funny if it WAS her stuff and she was trying to show it off and we were all “zomg thats fugly”

  623. moxy says:

    636 I wanted my moment of glory 😉

  624. Kimbella says:

    The poo soaker is on its way back. I’m glad to have that thing out of my house.

    I also left neg feedback. I felt bad doing it, but I just do not she how anyone could have missed that dried poop, not to mention the spots on the outside of the soaker.

    I pretty much said that in the pm that was sent along with the feedback.

    The seller just never really seemed all that shocked. She apologized, but didn’t act surprised.

  625. diudiaole says:

    You know, she could have made a half-way cute pair of newborn longies with that sweater.

  626. moxy says:

    Well, no, I don’t think she could have. Somebody else could have, though. 😆

  627. amessymama says:

    640-Actually, I don’t think SHE could have. Someone else? Sure. Her? No.

  628. moxy says:

    642 😆

  629. amessymama says:

    Hee Hee. Great Minds….

  630. amessymama says:

    Kimbella, I don’t know your DS name. Care to share? 🙂 I’ve got to see who sold that shit to you. I understand if you don’t want to though.

  631. Just Peachy says:

    Kimbella is Kimbellishments if Im not mistaken 🙂

  632. Kimbella says:

    NO! That’s not me! 🙂

  633. amessymama says:

    It is? Didn’t this exact same thing happen to her before? Weird.

  634. amessymama says:

    Oh Ok. 🙂

    Maybe it’s just a Kim thing then. I’m assuming your name is Kim. ; )

  635. Kimbella says:

    Yeah, my name is Kimberly. I’d rather not give out my DS name (just because “they” might be watching) 😉 but I’m sure if you searched a little, you could figure it out.

  636. magpiedpiper says:

    FYI, that was one of the easiest DS searches I’ve ever done. LOL
    I know the situation isn’t funny but the way you capitalized POOP in your feedback made me laugh when I read it.

  637. thewitch says:

    I was one of the unfortunates that left negative feedback for First Gear. I found her response amusing, but I’m not going to comment back. I don’t believe the shop changed hands at all, hence the snarky “this order is from two months ago”… and even more amusing.. “the previous owner has indicated that she did not receive any communication from the buyer about any dissatisfaction with her purchase.” Yeah, because my prior attempts to contact her were so fruitful, I surely would have tried to contact her again, yep yep, for sure….so smart. Would she have responded if I had? I highly doubt it! That’s why I cut my losses and left negative fb instead of attempting to contact her again.

    WTG first gear, glad to know you’re still all about the c/s! Thanks for the non-existent apology for the crappy order. Good to know you’re trying to do right by the customers! 😉

  638. Kimbella says:

    I wanted it to catch people’s eyes. POOP stands out a lot more than just poop.

    She responded to the feedback and apologized again and said there was nothing more she could do and that maybe she had put it on her kid and just not remembered.

    I hope that she remembers when she puts on her kiddo’s other diapers or else that could create quite a stinky mess!

  639. naturalmamadot says:

    *has tantrum* I cant find it haha I am normally great at searching for stuff :/ lol

  640. amessymama says:

    Me neither! And I tried a couple of times. I need a search tutorial.

  641. mdmr says:

    No luck here either lol. But then again, I suck at private detectory.

  642. A Different Sarah says:

    Ooooh, I know, I know! Go to Sold/Traded/Gone and search Royal Buns 😉

  643. Laura says:

    The seller of the poopy soaker is Kbirdsong on DS.

  644. Just Peachy says:

    I had one part of the username right. I knew it was something bella.

  645. Laura says:

    is goodmama calling it quits???

  646. VampGabrielsLover says:

    #580 – (YES, I know that was like 3 topics ago, sorry) those longies aren’t that bad for $10. Particuarly as play clothes, which is what it looks like they are being sold as.

    I have a pair of pink ones from that same pattern, same exact drawstring pattern, too, that have faint spaghetti stains on them (note to self, do not let the little one eat spaghetti or other food that stains while wearing light colors)

  647. Kimbella says:

    Told you guys it wouldn’t take too much sleuthing. 🙂

    I don’t think those longies are bad either. I’ve bought interlock longies on the cheap that looked much worse than that. I’d rather use already stained longies for going outside than have one of our nice pairs get all stained up.

    I think that GM is trying to go back to the days of people stalking its diapers. It’s all about supply and demand. Maybe GM realized that it can make more profit to have less sew-ers, higher prices and diapers that sell out; instead of lots of sew-ers, lower prices, and diapers that just sit there. Maybe the company will put some QC in place too.

  648. monkey says:


    If it were like ONE or TWO stains (or a little spot of spaghetti staining) I would agree with you. But the stains are EVERYWHERE. It looks flat out grungy. And those are not very expensive longies to begin with so $10 seems high for a pair that are that shitted up.

    I have a pair of jeans that DS totally destroyed (they’re one big stain). I keep them for him to wear in the sandbox as play clothes, but I would never try to sell them. I guess for me the thing is if MY child had stained something that badly I would keep it for play clothes but I would never BUY anything that badly stained. Just a difference of opinion I guess.

  649. Kimbella says:

    664 – you are right about those longies not being expensive to start with. The cheapo interlock longies I got were Woollybottoms, jjbb, and dnf – all pricier to begin with. The dnf I got for $6ppd, and almost all of the stains came out! Def. a good deal!

  650. Erin says:

    #663- that’s what I think GM is doing. Trying to go back to the grand ol’ stalking days. Maybe CS will improve?

  651. riffrafflittleman says:

    if GM goes out of business, whatever will the followers do?!!?

    sorry had to get off that post number

  652. mmspirit7 says:

    not drama but i posted boobies on cdn

  653. monkey says:

    So I’m looking for a rainbow stacker for my son and I come across these two:

    Did you notice that they have the exact same wording here: *Please note our toys are intended for dry use- please don’t use in the bath tub, in the rain, or in your mouth. If a toy gets wet possible bleeding could occur.

    Who stole from whom? Am I missing something? I’ve purchased from the Imagination Kids lady before and she was delightful and her stuff is high quality… I was just curious.

  654. monkey says:

    Ah! Sorry about super long link! I didn’t mean to do it!

  655. me says:

    IK is on DS, right?

    That seems a generic enough statement. IDK.
    Exact word for word is kind of strange though!

  656. Just Peachy says:

    It looks to me like babyunit stole from the IK lady. She’s got tons of feedback for those rainbow stackers where as the other person has none.

  657. monkey says:

    That’s kind of what I was thinking Peach.

    And it kind of annoyed me because I really like IK. I had a problem with something I ordered from her and not only did she fix it super fast, she sent a bonus toy helicopter with the replacement. I just appreciated the great customer service.

  658. A Different Sarah says:

    What annoys me about the babyunit stacker is that the colors are not in the correct rainbow order, LOL.

  659. trollin4friends says:

    those IK stackers have been around for at least a year, I feel like I saw those ages ago.

  660. naturalmamadot says:

    omg 674 thats the first thing I thought what the hell is she making a rainbow out of order for *twitch* lol I like IKs style, colors, everything 😀

  661. try me, i'm new! says:

    um, why the hell would a baby toy (or young child toy) be something that shouldn’t go in mouths. my 14mo still puts every freaking thing in her mouth – toys, books, cats, chairs, fishtanks, etc. cute as it is, that toy is a no-go here.

  662. Laura says:

    I got my first DS spanking for the telling the freak possum lady that her diapers were ugly. I think DS deleted my post. Oh well…

  663. diudiaole says:

    #678 — that thread is 11 pages long — who is the possum lady?

  664. diudiaole says:

    ok I found her lol $10 per skein of hand painted yarn?? sure…

  665. Laura says:

    Some new girl. She has like 15 post count. She was talking about how insane it was to spend that much money on custom wool. Some of the WAHM’s tried to explain that it was a 3 part collab and if they charged what she proposed that they would be making pennies for their work. She went off on the WAHM’s after that but DS deleted it.

    She’s now on CDN. Great.

  666. diudiaole says:

    That thread makes me wanna barf. It is annoying when those people stalk the WAHM testing section trying to low ball the shit out of everything just to get something as cheap as possible … but in EF? just gross.

  667. Messy says:

    #681 What is possum’s name on CDN?

  668. Messy says:

    Duh. N/M I found her…

  669. eeek says:

    That thread is disgusting. & either the possum chic is lying her ass off or she’s buying crap from people who are giving it away with no profit. I have dyed yarn & bought it wholesale, after paying for dye $10 wouldn’t even cover cost of materials on 4 oz. Having your own yarn spun was even a bit more expensive when I tried that. So no one in her world has ever heard of the internet, where they could get twice as much for their yarn? They prefer to work for free? Lucky her that she lives in a magical world of fairies & communist yarn.

    & that pat899 chic. What is wrong with her? Why do people feel the need to pontificate on crap when they don’t have anything useful to contribute except their desire to piss everyone off?

    People in the US are so far from the production of their clothing they have no idea of the work that goes into it, or the fact that it wouldn’t be possible if manufacturers didn’t use foreign (underpaid) labor.

  670. eeek says:

    & umm, OK, I now checked out possum’s messes she calls diapers. If she thinks all handmade stuff is of her quality, no wonder she thinks it ought to be cheaper.

  671. diudiaole says:

    #685 — thank-you! Also this is the reason why prefolds or mass produced diapers are so cheap! If prefolds were made here they would be expensive! Hell anything… towels, washrags etc. Manufactured clothing would be a LUXURY again.

    We really have lost the concept of the true cost of fabric, clothing, etc everything!

  672. CandyBeans says:

    Hi all, long time lurker, first time poster. (waves)

    Did you go and check out that Possum girl’s Hyenacart? It is just outrageous that she’s ragging on established, talented WAHMs when this is the crap she’s listing.

    Could you please clean up the loose threads before you take a picture? Have your model pose on a carpet that’s not crusted with crumbs and lint (not holier than thou here, my carpet could also use a vaccuum — kids just finished lunch after all — but I’m not snapping my work photos on it!)

    Seriously, walk your behind over to Walmart and buy a sheet of white poster paper for 50c. It’s that cheap to have a more professional appearance.

    And what’s with the “aprons”? Two custom slots listed, but the “example” picture is copied from the PATTERN she’s using. Um, isn’t that typically against the rules, using a purchased pattern for items for sale? And even if it isn’t…. can’t anyone wander into – say, Walmart – and pick up their own pattern to sew it?

    I think it’s admirable to want to offer ‘affordable’ items, to get other mamas into cloth, but jeez, have a little class and style!

  673. amessymama says:

    I think possum and pat are the same person. They misspelled some of the same words. I can’t remember which ones now and I don’t want to go back and read that crap to find it.

  674. žába says:

    Ok, my son had some tiny twig legs when he was born but these…

    I get that “all babies are different”, but really, what baby would that fit?

  675. žába says:

    ahaha, I scrolled down a little further and it the same person who made the “I sat on a pantyliner” soaker. Always good for a laugh.

  676. Messy says:

    #688 I JUST NOW POSTED THAT IN THAT THREAD! ROFLMAO! It is the same person. Why doesn’t DS have an IP comparison computer program to stop the trolling? Blech.

  677. Messy says:

    #689 It is for Barbie’s babies!

  678. amessymama says:

    Thanks for finding that messy. I went back and looked and I couldn’t find it again. Can more than one person spell meant like ment?

    Now if we could find a post of possum lady spelling altUrnative, cuz thats how pat spelled it, that’s plenty of proof for me.

  679. Messy says:

    There were other similarities in other posts that I saw early on but those post (and apparently all the quotes too) are gone. Weird. ALso, her syntax and grammar usage are dead give aways.

  680. eeek says:

    They do have very similar poor grammar & odd spelling. Doesn’t everyone get those little red lines on the words they type wrong? Spellcheck works for all of us. And says I just spelled spell check wrong.

    On CDN possum says she’s only 25, which could definitely be propaganda, just kind of funny/odd.

  681. Messy says:

    #695 The only way that you get spell check is if you are using a firefox browser. IE does not provide spell check. I wish it did though 😦
    If DS bans her for trolling, I am going to ask her about it on CDN. Last thing CDN needs is someone who likes to stir shit and sit and sniff it like she does.

  682. newhere says:

    doing a search, I had no idea “knitt” was such a common misspelling for knit! Oye!

  683. eeek says:

    Ah, I had no idea. I love my firefox, for a lot of reasons!!

  684. Just Peachy says:

    Well I have to point this out it is possible to get nice yarn for under 30$. I know Lornas Laces is about 26$ for an 8oz skein and they have some pretty colorways. So do Claudia Handpaints so Im guessing she buys hand dyed from websites and not HC wahms which would explain the reaction.

  685. eeek says:

    She said she gets high end handpainted yarn (her words) for $10/4 oz.

    & the thing wasn’t that she said that, it was the snotty attitude. & persistence in the snotty attitude.

  686. eeek says:

    Also where do you get LL for $26?

  687. Messy says:

    Yea know if she wasn’t such an obvious troll, I would ask her to buy it and sell me some! I can’t get yarn that cheap and we have a great store a town over with tons of different wools and such. I think she is a liar. Today and I fed up with being lied to 😦

  688. Messy says:

    Lovely grammar and typos I have going up there. Sorry.

  689. rainbow says:

    So do any of you think it’s an interesting coincidence that GM had their huge sale just a few days ago, and now there’s info flying around everywhere about bamboo fabrics really being nothing more than rayon? Lucky timing on GMs part? Or did they know that this was coming?

    Makes me wonder what all they are going to be carrying in the future, and whether this news will affect their mass-production.

  690. diudiaole says:

    but isn’t the rayon/bamboo argument pretty much just semantics? Bamboo is still a natural fiber with anti microbial properties etc and easy to be grown organically. So what if it falls under ‘rayon’ — or is there something major I’m missing?

  691. cdc3030 says:

    Rayon is just the processing, it is still bamboo.

  692. volbaby07 says:

    But, read this about how they make bamboo rayon. It’s pretty toxic and apparently the fabric doesn’t retain the antimicrobial properties of the original plant.

  693. rainbow says:

    I understand that it’s still bamboo, and that bamboo has great absorbancy. But the semantics of it all is going to require a change in how WAHMs market their wares, as far as I can see. I just wondered how diaper makers (GM in particular, since they just had this timely sale) were dealing with it all.

  694. naturalmamadot says:

    As I understand it though, the organic bamboo material IS NOT processed chemically, it is processed as described here

    I could be wrong, its just my understanding that the non organic bamboo material is not chemically processed

  695. Just Peachy says:

    My LYS sells Lornas laces for about 26 although it may be 30. I know it was way less then I’d typically pay for 8oz of handpainted yarn from HC for sure.

  696. diudiaole says:

    #708 — I think you bring up an interesting point for sure… I’ll be watching to see how it plays out.

  697. monkey says:

    Okay, so I’ve read the first 10 pages of the Possum thread. No one is going to agree with me, but I have to say it… I don’t think she said/did anything wrong other than the insane comment (and I really think that was just shock).

    The OP asked, “Why hasn’t this sold?” Lots of people said, “Because I can’t afford.” Possum comes on and asks about where they’re getting such expensive wool, smiley and all… she expresses her opinion, people get pissy at her. I just honestly can’t see where she was rude. And I don’t think she was trolling.

    I think it was the wrong thread for her to make her comments on (maybe), but I don’t think she did it just to start shit. I think it was honestly her being shocked at the yarn prices and asking about it, it seems like she doesn’t know HC.

    I think that WAHM’s do undervalue their work and I’m willing to pay more for handcrafted art. The poster I thought was rude was the one who called people not willing to pay that amount “cheap”. I’m not cheap by a long shot, but honestly, I wouldn’t pay that price. That’s just me though. There are other mamas who will and that’s awesome.

    I think people just disliked her opinion (and I think some of them felt a little guilty about the amounts they’ve paid for stuff, I know I do) and blew it out of proportion. I think the Pat chick was way more obnoxious.

    The only rude thing (and I don’t think it was intended to be) was the insane comment. I really don’t think she was trying to start shit… I think she was honestly shocked and was less tactful than she should have been.

    I’ll never forget when I was a newbie saying that I thought the price of GM’s was ridiculous and having 40 people flip out on me.

  698. Just Peachy says:

    Ok it was probably 32 then but still thats way cheaper the most hc yarns and despite it being fishermans wool, its extremely soft.

  699. cdc3030 says:

    Oh yeah, hmm, wonder about that….

  700. diudiaole says:

    monkey — I am pretty sure they deleted a bunch of her comments

  701. Messy says:

    #710 Peachy, that is how it is here. I can get some gorgeous wools for about $25ish. It is definitely cheaper than HC, but it is not $10 by any stretch of the imagination.

  702. monkey says:


    Well if that’s the case then maybe it was worse than what I saw. But if the comments I read were the only ones I stand by what I said. If there were other nasty comments I retract my defense.

    Out of all that I read I thought Addiesmommy was the rudest person on there. Anyone who can’t or isn’t willing to pay that for an outfit is cheap? What a bitch.

    Outfit is freaking adorable though.

  703. me says:

    Yeah, it is still bamboo! I mean by having rayon on there manufacturers can get away with using other wood fibers because technically then it would be the same thing.
    Why not put bamboo rayon?
    I’ve seen clothing that says that. Then it is still saying rayon but being specific as well.

  704. Messy says:

    #713 The only comments of Possum’s that are left are pretty general. They would probably not bother me either. But there are others that were removed.
    I still think she and Pat are one in the same. She was Pat probably to start with, then decided to be a WHAM and since George Michaels is probably a registered trademark, she opened a new name with her own store name in it. They share many similarities… Spelling, grammar, and syntax errors all in the same way.

  705. Just Peachy says:

    I dont get the big fuss about bamboo. Why the hell did the FTC get involved? I prefer bamboo to just about everything as it has a better feel to it and I feel it has more quality. So what if it technically should be called rayon. Its a better quality rayon then if it were made from any other type of wood.

  706. me says:

    As far as the outfit-
    I think it is adorable and if I had that kind of money, I would gladly pay that much for it since I do make things and do know the time that goes into it.
    It doesn’t make me cheap that no matter how good the work is, I couldn’t afford that.
    It isn’t that I don’t think it is worth that (or more really) but when you it is either your kids have food or one kid has one outfit..yeah, well, I’m going to pick all of them having food, kwim?

  707. Messy says:

    And now the possum discussion is closed @@

  708. Just Peachy says:

    #722 I agree. I think that somehow words got twisted (with the exception of miss snotface possum) and what they truly meant to say was that it while it was expensive it was not overpriced. I dont think Laura meant to call anyone a cheap bitch for not buying it though.

  709. Just Peachy says:

    Of course they troll over here. You ever notice how quickly some of the threads are closed? I mean its posted over here and not even in 5 minutes later its locked or deleted.

  710. Messy says:

    BTW, for the naysayers… Go to pat’s first posts, she also makes diapers and has the exact same sentiments as her latter personality Patossum.

  711. Laura says:

    Yes, possums rude comments were deleted. My (addiesmommy) comment was response to hers and might come off “bitchy” if taken out of context…which it was.

    If I’m a bitch for defending the rights of WAHM’s not getting ripped a new one then so be it.

  712. monkey says:


    Well I apologize then. Out of context it looked bad, but if there are posts I missed because they were deleted then obviously I’m mistaken. Sorry 🙂

  713. BffMama says:

    Please appeal to whatever higher power/energy you appeal to on ole BFFs behalf; I gotz a lot going on and I need some positive energy girls (you don’t have to post any kind of response here–I’m not trolling for hugs–just need some positive thoughts).

  714. kukukachoo says:

    I just had to post the ridiculous spelling in this post. (Just filling in dead air here) :o)

    Ware do you keep your stash?? Mine is ever growing and I need some ideas
    I am just now out growing two small rubber maid containers i have a DD thats 2 and a 3mth old DS in CD so i keep them seperated but we are approaching 100+ in are stash and i think this keeps them nicer and will give a better resale vaule (and oh man Im addicited to buying them there i said it lol) but ware am I sapose to store them??

    Ware do you keep yours ?


  715. melmelly says:


    *Ware was used THREE TIMES!!!!

  716. riffrafflittleman says:

    Spell check should be mandatory!! That’s just bad.

  717. A Different Sarah says:

    Don’t forget *seperated (but this one is a more common misspelling.)

  718. Kaymadmom says:

    730: Between the bad spelling and the run on (and on) sentence, my head hurts.

  719. diudiaole says:

    these are fugly and a direct rip-off of a blanket from Target. I talked to Caroline from FF and she did not know her name was being dropped all over the place in association w/this though they had discussed it.

    I just had to find out myself, it was hard for me to believe. lol

  720. Messy says:

    #735 Who is Caroline from FF, and what is FF. This is something I know zip about… The print she drew is already in use by Target for blankets?

  721. diudiaole says:

    #736 — FF = Fabric Fairy… OP contacted FF looking for hedgehog knits, she said sorry we don’t have them, but Target carries a blanket with them.

    Then OP created these… there are some comments on another thread at how similar her design looks to that blanket

  722. diudiaole says:

    Here is the thread where someone called her out on the design:

  723. naturalmamadot says:

    anyone have a link to the target fabric?

  724. Thud says:

    OK, I am late to the game.
    Looks like the secocond stacker ripped of Imagination Kids.
    Many toy makers say not for mouths to cover their butts. Of course kids will chew but at least you have raised the issue that it is not a good idea LOL

    As for spam. I am going with moxy. Nothing against Diudole personally but there are lots of WAHMs on here and none of the others give their stocking dates, pictures, availability for customs and past items (which can be spam as they engender custom orders). I have *almost* commented several times.

    Again, nothing personal, it is just imagining how icky it would be if every regular poster did the same thing, right?

  725. diudiaole says:

    giving the stocking date was a joke Thud after the moxy thing exploded lol.

    Anyway, yes that is the blanket.

  726. Messy says:

    I don’t think that the Target blanket looks very much like her design at all… I mean there is only so much you can do with little pointy animals LOL

  727. diudiaole says:

    #743 — hmm I think it looks a lot like it and seeing how she specifically used it as her muse though is now denying it publicly, it just seems shady to me. oh well, moving on…

  728. diudiaole says:

    Just because I am tired and in a crappy mood today:

    I posted when I was giving two diaper sets away for freeover a week ago… which while technically might be considered spam only since it brings traffic to my hc, I think most of us on here cloth diaper and appreciate being told about free lottos. I know I certainly do and I usually miss them — so I would be GLAD to hear about any giveaways of your stuff, Thud. Glad.

    I ran another diaper giveaway this week and did not post it here because of being accused of spamming so sorry if anyone missed out on that(though I did post on CDN).

    There has been a lot of near spam and actual spam on here.. I bought a pair of interlock newborn longies this past April when a mama posted that she had them on here. Another diaper maker that posts on here sold out in seconds her first two stockings a couple of months ago and there were EF style discussions. The website CDN is now booming in large part to their spam on this site.

    And as far as not linking to any sewing, for sale or not — the ugly stuff is ok, but there is a rule now that no one can show off their stuff? The blog had no current drama… and I am proud of the hours and hours and hours that went into making that stuff and I thought some mamas here might appreciate it. Most did… I really think you need to check your definition of ‘spam’.

  729. naturalmamadot says:

    I already made my stance clear, I think the majority of us on here would LOVE to see your finished products as well as hear about great deals, auctions, freebies etc. If I am wrong, and tons of ppl just arent speaking up well then too bad so sad.

    There is plenty of bs on this blog that I scroll right past, surprise surprise I dont pitch a bitch fit every single time either.

    I for one do not ever check CDN for that type of stuff and probably never will, so I enjoy seeing it and I have been done with dipes since feb (although def open to buying cute girly sets for my friends twins)

  730. naturalmamadot says:

    adding: Dont let anyone make you feel bad or like you cant show us things. If they dislike looking at ppls products so much they do NOT have to click it, and if they accidentally click not knowing what it is, it is not going to kill them @@

  731. magpiedpiper says:

    OMG will Nattybatty ever stop posting her insane murder story?

  732. Aj says:

    Who knew a thread about mowing your lawn could get so heated?
    Take care of your shit! And that (((hugs))) sandi lady makes me want to barf.

  733. Incognizable says:

    Diu, I love to see your work…keep it coming 🙂

  734. .bin. says:

    NO ONES life is more tragic than hers. Don’t you understand?? Her BIL was murdered by her parents! What? you hadn’t heard? I’d love to do a post history and do a ‘reg posts .vs. my parents murdered my sisters husband posts’ just to see which side wins.

  735. magpiedpiper says:

    I’m probably going to get slapped for it, but someone needs to tell her to stop posting that story on every thread she can possibly work it into the conversation.

    Please, if you have a few hours of time to waste, I would love to see that comparison! lol

  736. JustPeachy says:

    Im thinking stickypeas maybe? I know Claudia doesn’t prewash the fabrics but rather cuts them larger. I mean really what can you do in that situation? Its not like the wahm dyed the fabric herself or anything.

  737. Aj says:


  738. Aj says:

    And really, who doesn’t know to wash darks on cold for the first wash?

  739. Laura says:

    I don’t usually prep my diapers either…I don’t buy very many dark prints though.

  740. JustPeachy says:

    Yup its stickypeas for sure.

  741. adensmama says:

    #749 that is me, and I posted a pic in the OP so you can see for yourself that it’s NOT that bad. If it really was disgusting I would be ticked off by the note, and probably embarrassed to. But it’s not! It looks fine to me, maybe I’m just crazy idk.

  742. žába says:

    Diu – please keep showing off your work, it as absolutely beautiful. Since I only get on CDN now and then I would miss out on what you are working on. Don’t let a couple of bahumbugs keep you from posting your work here. I personally don’t have a problem with minor spam as long as it isn’t the only thing you ever post, and that is certainly not the case.

  743. JustPeachy says:

    #760 huh?

  744. pippen says:

    the “clean your yard” thread on DS.

  745. mmspirit7 says:

    diu i can’t wait to try on of your diapers.

  746. naturalmamadot says:

    sooo Im wondering if anyone has ever gotten any candy/baked goods off of etsy that they want to rave to me about?

    I am re-ordering the caramels I got last time because they were GOOD. I dont like marshmallows and the only cookie I probably would get would be choc chip or macadamia nut/white choc. I like brownies, I like white and milk chocolate. I am not looking to get cupcakes unless they are really awesome.

    TIA : )

  747. JustPeachy says:

    Oh ok. I was confuzzled for a sec.

  748. Who Me? says:

    Gosh I miss you Jen! Yep some SP drama….

    That chick just wants a free diapers- I want to see some pics from her…

  749. diudiaole says:

    whoa on the Sticky Peas diaper — she got it off FSOT! I can’t believe she is trying to blame it on the maker. I would be upset too, but I’d be kicking my own self.

  750. JustPeachy says:

    I knew it once she said popular wahm because i was looking at buying those same dipes on HC lol. I like her but to expect a freebie for something that is not at all the WAHMs fault is a little much.

  751. JustPeachy says:

    LOL awww I feel special now 🙂

  752. Laura says:

    #769. I completely agree.

  753. diudiaole says:

    I always prewash and dry on hot at least once… with the first diapers I made for Tristan, I didn’t, and they all looked a bit wonky within a few washes.

  754. diudiaole says:

    anyone else find this post weird?? LOL

    “OOPS! Yes, of course I CAN make diapers! I actually make the same diapers as the ones from this WAHM, and that was one thing that kinda made me weary of buying from her because I didn’t want anyone thinking I copied her design, which I didn’t. I’ve been sewing diapers for a while now, I just do mainly trades, customs and for my own baby. I am opening a HC store soon though finally!”

  755. amessymama says:

    Nattybatshitcrazylady posted the story again the other day on that poor woman’s thread about her DH committing suicide. It was almost like she was comparing their traumatic experiences.

  756. žába says:

    That whole thread was weird. Like blaming the WAHM for a diapers that bled, but she got it of spots. Then getting mad that some one at the WAHM CS told her to use a dye remover. All for a diapers that is just like she already makes.I’m glad that I’m not the only one who thinks some thing is a little fishy.

    First off why buy a diaper that you already make. How is it the WAHM’s fault what a second hand diaper does, she put jammies and shirts in there too, maybe it was one of those that bled. Why get mad at the CS, they gave you valid advice.

    I think she was buying a diaper to compare to what she wants to sell. And all the rest sounds a bit “It’s A Snap” to me.

  757. diudiaole says:

    Yep…It’s A Snap has become a legend thanks to this blog… The TAO of IAS = 1)buy a product so you can figure out how to rip it off 2)Trash the maker 3)offer it for sale

  758. amessymama says:

    Nattybatshitcrazy edited it out. Good job magpie. Now someone needs to tell her to edit her 6,789,342 other posts that refer to her family murder.

  759. monkey says:


    I left a LONG comment on that thread. I just found it annoying and thought she was being totally unreasonable.

  760. diudiaole says:

    I stumbled across this in FSOT and found it hilarious:

  761. žába says:

    Hippy Pants, what is she talking about, longies? All that giant bold typeface hurt my eyes.

  762. amessymama says:

    She had it posted in Off Topic earlier. Weirdo.

  763. Messy says:

    1. Mama2b2Caden posts that a well known WAHM’s diaper ruined TWO loads of her clothes. (Depends on which post of hers you are reading as to whether it was one load or two.)
    2. Discusses wanting the WAHM to replace the diaper with a lighter print. Because we all know that will fix all the other ruined diapers, right?
    3. Then states that SHE MAKES ALMOST IDENTICAL DIAPERS and did not buy from said WAHM because she didn’t want people to think she was copying her…
    4. But her diapers are better than said WAHM because she prewashes and bla bla bla.
    5. She is shocked that the thread turned into dramaz!

    So, we now know she makes diapers just like the WAHM (SP) and hers are better because she prewashes and bla bla bla…
    She has “Snatch Syndrome”!!! At least she slammed the WAHM who makes the diapers she is probably copying and got a plug in there for her upcoming store :::puke:::

  764. amessymama says:

    OMG that weirdo posted about needing hippie yarn pants (or whatever she called them) *again* in Extra Fluffy.

  765. diudiaole says:

    #782 — yep, sounds about right. lol

  766. JustPeachy says:

    Did Nattybatsmom post that in one of Amandas (mommyof8) threads or some shit???????? I have half a mind to open a can on her now.

  767. me says:

    I didn’t know SP has customer service people. I tyought she meants Mutts but I don’t know if she has cs people now either.
    Either way, that sucks.
    Wanting a lighter print instead is a bit odd too.

  768. me says:

    Need to stop typing with the wrong hand!

  769. JustPeachy says:

    I think I remember someone saying either Tracy or Roberta was helping out with CS for now because Claudia is swamped.

  770. Messy says:

    #785 Peachy… PLEASE TELL HER! OMg. Someone send her over here and lets chat about her need to talk about the “family murder”. Seriously. Get some therapy. Stop comparing every.single.thing.anyone.says to the murder. And please STOP TRYING TO TRUMP PEOPLE’S DISCUSSIONS WITH YOUR FUCKING MURDER STORY!!! We know! Your parents killed your BIL. We got it! 987,788,234,765,346,999,567,224,678,498 posts ago!!!
    Change your screen name. Get your kid’s name and pic off there. You make me cringe and I hate to cringe at such a pretty little girl getting drug around by her mother’s hang ups!!! GAH!!!

  771. naturalmamadot says:

    I have to admit, if I was the OP I would be making sure my family stayed the hell away from us too BUT good freaking lawd NBMom explains that story in great detail every chance she gets a chance. Someone could post that they just got their new custom longies and shed say something about how she looked at longies the day before her BIL got murdered, then tell the entire story with every minor detail again. Probably also warn the op that she might want to return the longies in case her bil gets killed because of them :/

    I might have something against her though since when I first joined this group she was in on Cafemom, I had a joking siggy saying I swear (in a group that allowed mild swearing) and it went through the swears SO fast. The only way she could of seen them would be to sit there and stare, letting it go through the cycle like 20 times.

    She takes that opportunity to pm me and let me know that her bil was killed over the c word and I do believe she also went through the story in great detail *eyeroll* She was practically frantic and panicking over this siggy begging me to please take it down and please think of ppl who had relatives killed over swear words when I swear. I exited that group promptly and tried to stay far away from her after that.

  772. Messy says:

    Yeah. I feel better now 😀

  773. adensmama says:

    #785 I believe they were talking about the new person whose husband committed suicide, not mommyof8. She posted about needing help in O/T the other day.

  774. Messy says:

    #790 OMg! ROFLMAO!!! “Please think of the people who are killed over swear words!” Seriously??? Ok.
    GnatBatCrazyMom, please think of the dodos that die everytime you bring up your BIL’s murder!!! Oh… Maybe you are the reason they are extinct!!!

  775. diudiaole says:

    Killed over a word? Ummm riiiight. So I am assuming her parents are either in jail or an asylum? There are genetic links to mental illness — she definitely needs more therapy. 😐

  776. me says:

    785-Someone else’s husband did it recently?
    I hadn’t seen that. 😦

    &88-Oh, I remember seeing that she was swamped and that someone said she should have cs but I didn’t know that she had gone ahead to do it yet.

  777. naturalmamadot says:

    lol if an ant died every time she told the story, ants would be extinct

  778. diudiaole says:

    hehe if we each got a nickle every time….

  779. naturalmamadot says:

    794 .. yea I dunno if you have actually read through her entire story (or if you just zone out as soon as you see her screen name lol) but I guess the last straw was when her bil called her mom the c word and she stewed about it, came over with her dad who had a rifle and he shot her bil over it all.

    and yes they are both in jail

  780. diudiaole says:

    #798 — I don’t usually read more than the first sentence. Yeah, that sounds either insane or just really back woods or low IQ or some of each.

  781. JustPeachy says:

    I really think she needs therapy because who in their right mind manages to post a very private gruesome story like that at every chance possible?

  782. monkey says:

    I’m annoyed. Mommy2Caden posted kind of pissy comment that was obviously in response to my comment… BUT SHE DIDN’T EVEN ADDRESS MY POINT! My point is if it’s a popular WAHM who sells a lot of diapers then obviously the not prewashing is not an issue for most people.

    I’m sorry she’s too stupid to wash dark, new things on cold… but CTFO. Plus, according to a mama on here she bought them on spots. IF they were bought on spots it’s not the WAHM’s problem anymore.

  783. naturalmamadot says:

    I havent seen any of the comments on that thread yet but everyone just expects that the wahms will want good raves and good word out there that they will be all “oh you poor thing, I stand behind my diapers and so I will give you 20 new to make up for it ruining your other diapers and all that jazzz now go rave your ass off woman”

    then theyd be all “omg im crying right now “blah blah” from thisclothdiaperstore gifted me all these because of one USED (she didnt HAVE to do ANYTHING) diaper ruining my other diapers!!!!!!!!1111!!!one!!!!”

    but if the wahm does not give out a new stash to everyone with a sob story she is suddently greedy with no idea of customer service *eyyyyyeroll*

  784. Messy says:

    #802 Is it just me, or is there more “entitlement” on DS these days? People think everyone owes them something :::sigh:::

  785. tntdynomite says:

    #802 I so want to try the caramels you are talking about offof Etsy but, after all my attempts they still have not send the confirmation e-mail. They do manage to send me the newsletter everyday though @@ I really want some of those sea salt caramels!!

  786. naturalmamadot says:

    lol I got mine from umm haveitconfections ?? I could be wrong but Im sure if you search that you will get them haha. About your confirmation email, have you tried contacting them at a customer service email or something? I assume they have some sort of contact method, hopefully at least hehe.

    You DO want to try some sea salt caramels lmao *drools* the same person also makes vanilla ones that I like, havent tried her chocolate ones but I did NOT like the spice ones. I am picky though lol

    803 … its NOT just you, everyone is owed something from someone for nothing lol

  787. monkey says:


    I know. Granted I appreciate it if a WAHM sends a little bonus if I have a problem, but all I expect is for them to fix the problem. Not give my presents. They’re trying to make a living like the rest of us.

    This whole thing just really bugs me. It’s not SP’s fault Mom2beCaden doesn’t know how to do laundry.

  788. mmspirit7 says:

    about etsy i have ordered cookies and cupcakes off of there from tow different wahms and they were good. i don’t like chocolate chip cookies and they were good. i also got free brownies with my order it was like four dozen cookies wrapped in sets of four (great for lunches) for about 20 bucks. it was 2 dozen chocolate chip and 2 dozen peanut butter.

    the cupcakes i ordered were great and fast i ordered late sunday night and had them by thrusday…to me that’s fast with baking cool and then shipping.

    if it was me i would order something you want to try but small and see if you like it.the free dark chocolate brownie i got was ok but not a fav of mine…but i am picky. also my kids love the marshmellows they got.

    now as for the crazy my diaper ruined the others that i bought second hand and i want the wahm to replace it. she’s nuts. i bought a second hand dark green dyed good mama. the mama i bought from said that she had it a while and that it didn’t bleed but to watch out for it. well it still don’t bleed but wouldn’t you know it it did the first time i washed it. thank god i washed it by hand in the sink more of a test to see if it would.

    i don’t get it i really don’t she is asking to much from the wahm.

    now nattybottom….i will admit i think i read her posts once or twice in the new section but she just bugs me and does do a lot of one uping. well your problem might be bad but my bil was murdered by my parents beat that. i never ready her story all the way through. because well i don’t by it.

    everytime i start my gutt tells me that it’s fake. don’t know why but it does. maybe she just had the story cp’d some where so she can have exactly right every time she needs it. and i just don’t know. maybe i should sit and read it but i just can’t

  789. mmspirit7 says:

    i don’t get it i really don’t she is asking to much from the wahm

    ugh that should say i really don’t get it i really think she is asking to much from the wahm….sorry about the typos

  790. me says:

    The Natty chick has posted links to the news stories before.

  791. mmspirit7 says:

    ok so she has links to news stories that back up her story hmm…not sure she still bugs me

  792. naturalmamadot says:

    ugh I wouldnt be surprised if she doesnt have like a reenactment on video to show ppl, she probably includes the DVD in with her christmas cards to ppl

  793. Messy says:

    #811 OMg. How freaking heartless can you be??? Her parents killed her BIL! Did you know that? There were swear words and shot guns and people snapping! She has to tell people about it so she can save others! WTF is wrong with you?

    Ok, I can’t keep going, I am laughing my ass off. ROFL! I was kidding of course, but couldn’t resist!!!
    Yeah, she probably sends the DVDs and everyone in the damn phone book. She also probably hands them out to people she passes at the grocery store.

  794. JustPeachy says:

    I truly believe she needs some form of therapy and she needs to knock it off. No one needs to hear that shit just after their dhs/so committed suicide 😦

  795. tntdynomite says:

    #813 I agree that is so tacky.”Yeah your dh committed suicide and your 5 yo found him but,my parents killed my BIL because he called my mom a C U Next Tuesday”

  796. naturalmamadot says:

    I really think she needs therapy too, possibly lifelong. There is nothing wrong with that. From what Ive heard actually, she sounds like shes had emotional/mental probs her entire life, probably from being raised by those nutcases.

    At this point, if she cannot see it and her DH.friends/other family cannot see that she needs help she might just need tough love. I wish shed come over to CDN it would only take about 5 posts from her (you know shed intro with the story) for them to ask her what the fuck.

  797. monkey says:


    I don’t think her husband is a very supportive guy.

  798. Laura says:

    Erica’s post on the faded diaper thread is GREAT! I could kiss her right on the lips. 🙂

  799. Messy says:

    #817 and now the DS Gods have sanitized the thread. Bless the pricks that protect us from original thought and make it so new WAHMs can bash established ones to thrust their own product into the market! DiaperScammers keeps trumping its own lows.

  800. monkey says:

    Messy, those dirty assholes took out 2 of my posts! And they weren’t even particularly nasty!

    Fucking DS… why is it okay for some people to WAHM bash (and let’s face it… it’s not that hard for anyone to figure out who she’s talking about) and not ok for others to respond? Why is it she can blather on about how she wants restitution for a diaper she didn’t even buy from the maker but anyone who calls her on being unreasonable gets deleted.

    I HATE DS!

  801. Messy says:

    #819 They have to sanitize it. If all the scammers and bitches left, they would not be able to make the numbers that get their advertisers to put up the cash. It is about numbers, not what is right and wrong. Lee is a money hungry sack of roach shit.

  802. Munklettes says:

    I want to see these longies!

    amberbamberfluff posted, then deleted, and I don’t know what she said!.

  803. Munklettes says:

    D’oh, nvm – lol She has a new post

  804. Molly says:

    I know this is an old post but I was curious about Nattybatsmom’s story. I did some searching and found the memorial website for the BIL and the archived news stories.

    Here is an exact transcript of her Mother’s appeal. It is very interesting because it gives a play by play of exactly what went down. You can really get a sense of their family dynamic.

    Here is a link to the memorial page:

    And here is a link to the archived newspaper stories on the murder:!3738~!3100001~!3100002&aspect=subtab14&menu=search&ri=4&source=~!comres&term=Murders-Johnson%2C+Irvin&index=

    I was bored after the kids were in bed. 🙂

  805. Me, Myself, and I says:

    I just got an email from Karen on HC, and both user names for Gail have been deleted/banned.

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