Rhonda Drage Says: June 17, 2009 at 4:14 pm eI am shocked. I have been banned from DS.
I am apalled! That grown women would LIE about their reasoning for doing this! “You have been banned for the following reason:
multiple usernames – phoenix_fire, godess_heather”. I am not, nor have I ever been any of these usernames. In fact, I have a pay pal receipt to one of them, for a purchase I made from them!
I am angry! That this ‘woman’~ and I use this term loosely~ can’t even put on her big girl panties long enough to allow me to ask why! Date the ban will be lifted: Never.
I am hurt! That I have no way of contacting anyone I am currently in transaction with, to let them know that I cannot contact them!!!! That I did not ~FARK~ them over, but have been put in the position not be able to fulfill anything with anyone on ds! So! DS is ~FARK~ing them over by banning me!
I am in disbelief! Did anyone on here, know that the pm’s they sent to other ds members, while on ds, are read by ds “admin”?????? Is that right up there with molestation and rape? You encourage women to establish trusting, open, sometimes too honest relationships so you can go beyond what they would expect, by pilfering the pm’s they send to other momma’s, distort what they are, and denounce the member as being something they aren’t? Then BAN them so they have no way of defending themselves? What the hell? Why call it private message if it going to be reviewed by “ADMIN”? And then, when it is addressed, instead of saying “I read that message you sent so-n-so, and … They say “It has been brought to our attention”!!!!!
And! for current DS members especially did you know that you are not allowed to ever mention a banned member, even in pm’s, even for the sake of letting a current member know that a banned member has no way of contacting them, to complete a transaction that was in process, but would like them to make contact at said members non-ds e-mail address? That this is considered something like ‘fraterinizing with the enemy”???????

I am in tears over this crap!!! I am not a mean and hateful person!!! I would not go a half step out of my way to hurt anyone, intentionally. I am so un-accustomed to this sort of behavior, and totally blown away that I have had it thrown at me!! I go out of my way to help others. I give until it hurts and then give a little more, because sometimes I hold back on giving all I have to give, and it eats at me. If I have wronged someone, I will step up and make it right. I don’t hesitate to speak my mind, but I don’t do it at the expense of someone else. I call it for what it is, MY thoughts, feelings, beliefs, opinions~ and you don’t have to agree with them, they are still MINE. So when this happened~ I am lost…
It started a few weeks ago I guess, when I went to to drop a line to a ds member about a transaction problem we were having, where she accidently put someone else’s addy on a pkg which was supposed to be sent to me. Imagine my surprise when up pops the message that this member has been banned for bad rep and multiple user accounts! So I go to her profile to get her email, no access allowed. So I go to pp retrieve her addy and email her. I didn’t ask the details of the ban, spoke only of our trans, and told her I would let anyone else she was in the midst of unfinished business with know how to reach her, if she would like. She wrote back and said she would so appreciate this, there were a couple rcvd-ty, a couple did send, and I think 3 non-descript, but please contact me. I went on ds, and proceeded to leave brief but discript messages to the 7, via pm, giving the private e-mail. Within 24 hours I received a pm telling me it had been brought to the attention… this person is banned for a reason, and not to forward this address via ds anymore or I could be banned. I apologized, stated I didn’t know it was against the rules, and that I wouldn’t repeat this action. Yesterday I received a response from one of the people I had forwarded the address to, telling how glad she was to know some wool she sent had arrived. Thank you for letting her know, she is always glad to learn when something she ships reaches it’s destination. She then wrote “Explain?” and beneath that was a copy of the original note I had sent w/ said addy on, with request to contact r/t woolies. So, I felt sorta stuck. I did a little time out with my higher power and decided to respond to the pm, with the reason I sent the message, that maybe she didn’t understand that it was the ‘new’ means of communicating with the other person, and the la-ti-ta of being warned not to repeat the ‘infraction’. I also said that I was somewhat anxious about being banned, just for having the contact with her regarding this, that I would hope not, as I enjoyed the interaction and would prefer to stay. I told her, since she already had the addy, there shouldn’t be any problem with her having contact on her own email, w/ the person.
Within the day I was banned. So, since I did not know the any of the persons I originally pm’d, what is the likely hood they would have a problem w/ me and want me banned? About the same likelyhood that the momma I responded to yesterday would want me banned? And this brings us to the fact that the pm’s would have had to have been read by person or persons which they were not sent, in order for them to jump on them and ban me for fictitious reasons, and offer no response or recourse! I was able to recoup some addys from my pp, but the ones I had not yet shipped to were scrwd!

This mama was banned. If you’re in a transaction with her and are ready to freak out because she is now banned, chill for a second. Rhonda, post your info here if you’d like for people to have a way to contact you. It’s not like you don’t have a chance of going back. DS likes to ban and unban people. Makes them feel powerful.

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Comments
  1. CJ says:

    WOW! Do they not want members anymore? This is getting ridiculous.
    Hopefully all will get sorted out so this mama can complete her transactions.

  2. 2dogs says:

    What is her DS name?

  3. Incognizable says:

    Wow! Poor mama! I hope she gets it worked out and finds the CDN (cloth diaper nation) love!!!

  4. CJ says:

    She found the CDN love. She posted on the bulletin board there and I think that it was Sam that actually linked her over here! I love that CDN is not afraid of having the truth posted and out in the open so that issues can be resolved.

  5. CDNation says:

    Yep she’s redrage over at CDN you can find her there too.

  6. CJ says:

    I posted on her thread at CDN asking what her DS username is….then the DS mamas on here can keep an eye open for her name coming up over there.

  7. Aj says:

    The Natascha cleaning thread is getting good…

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=769233

  8. Flippin out says:

    #8 oy. She deserves a thread of her own.

  9. Aj says:

    She is such a nut. I know she reads this blog, but I cannot stand her.

  10. myra says:

    #10 – Me either. Apparently, we’re not the only ones, judging from the responses.

  11. Rhonda Drage says:

    Thanks for the post and the support! I feel a whole lot stronger this evening, than I earlier. An odd thing happened; all of our power for something like 18 square blocks went out.
    When it came back on I had the following e-mail:
    Dear n-training,

    You have received a new private message at Cloth Diapers & Parenting Community – DiaperSwappers.com from WearingTaci, entitled “I am so sorry”.

    To read the original version, respond to, or delete this message, you must log in here:
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/private.php

    This is the message that was sent:
    ***************
    Mama
    Please accept my deepest apologies. I know I had asked you to stop contacting people for Phoenix_Fire/Goddest_Heather.
    There was an honest mix up,and I have reinstated your account. The admin that did it is sorry and asked me to contact you since I had contact with you before

    Again I’m sorry
    Sarah
    ***************
    So that pretty well fixes everything huh?

    J/K I can’t set myself up for that kind of honest mistake again. I know where I belong, and have been so comforted at CDN, wouldn’t make sense to keep house at 2 addresses when I am LOVED at one!
    Thank you so much for providing me the space and opportunity to release some of the drama and feelings I have been through in the last 24 hours. I guess if you wanna, you can check my rep at DS now. “n-training” graduated (lol) from DS and can now be lurked after as redrage at CDN.

  12. meagan says:

    please make a thread just for her!! i can’t stand that woman. oh—and can we call her NataschaN-utso

    pretty please!!!

    does anyone have the ability to do the research to see if she is the same as the “jonasmommy” lady–that would be nice to know

  13. meagan says:

    rhonda–i figured they’d get it fixed eventually. shame the douche bag that made the mistake couldn’t at least appologize to you personally!! but i guess then you might add her to your “ignore” button or something else evil like that!!

  14. CJ says:

    I wish that they would look into these issues a little further before taking banning action. Instead of act first, investigate later as they seem to do now. This is one of the big reasons that they are losing members. All it takes is a few minutes to discuss the situation and this whole thing could have been avoided.

  15. alison says:

    #13 I very much doubt it’s jonasmommy. Since English wasn’t her first language she had some syntactical quirks that NatashaN doesn’t.

  16. theinvisible says:

    Roxy, you ROCK!

  17. meagan says:

    nataschaN says english is not her first language either. in fact i have read quite a few of her posts that the language is off and i asked her one time to try and write nicer and she blew me off saying english wasn’t her first/second/third language so she was allowed to speak like that

  18. Rhonda Drage says:

    Humble Pie… maybe she don’t have no big girl panties and her ballies still roll around her backside… I didn’t expect the jump up and apologize, I sure don’t expect the responsible party to take responsibility, and after all “Sarah” already “spoke with” me, why should any other admin have to “speak with” me? I mean, really. I am just a member, no body important…

    BAD, bad, bad, bad! No more cookies before bed or any other time!

  19. just_sayin says:

    I don’t think it is jonasmommy. For one thing, Jonasmommy is blonde and she has dark hair (her avi is a pic of her). Also, Jonasmommy’s dh worked in the M.E. as a contractor, and Natascha’s (or however it’s spelled) dh is home to annoy her.

    I don’t understand why people like her are on DS. She obviously is not looking for companionship.

  20. myra says:

    #20 – Exactly. She seems to go out of her way to be nasty and alienate people. I get that some people feel strongly about some things, but she’s out of control.

  21. Kelolsen says:

    Rhonda, I think a great response would be simply “bite me”

  22. meagan says:

    22 hehehehe!!! i know sarah reads this blog so that’s probably why she contacted you!

  23. Renee says:

    It sure seems like it is JonasMommy…someone pm’d me links to pics of her son (both when she posted as Jonas mommy and now) and it sure looks like the same kid
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=381317
    and
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=713439

  24. me says:

    Well how long until she is gone now? LOL

  25. mmspirit7 says:

    umm so this nice mama gets told why she was unbanned but meg?? didn’t

  26. Aj says:

    OMG! It’s totally the same kid! I think she even cut up that gm and put it on her female dog in heat…off to find pic.

  27. Aj says:

    Yeah, it’s totally her, this is the filename on the pic:

    So, obviously her kids name is Jonas

  28. StacEy says:

    folks, did you see the name of Natachsa’s picture?

    JONAS FIRST BOY HAIRCUT

  29. theinvisible says:

    She had to come back to have a place to unload all of those GMs. Remember when she was banned she had just gotten a box to resell? Not to mention, who the fuck acts like that. Just a total bitch with no regard at all for anyone. It’s her. Busted again, bitch.

  30. StacEy says:

    I called her on the name thing, now we shall see what happens! 😉

  31. GMLovah! #1 Fan says:

    OMG it has to be jonasmommy, look what the pic is titled in the photobucket:

    The kid’s name is JONAS.

  32. GMLovah! #1 Fan says:

    Sorry, I’m a little slow, LOL.

  33. StacEy says:

    anybody recognize the table in the background of this picture?

  34. incognizable says:

    awe poor jonas..his mom sucks 😦

  35. GMLovah! #1 Fan says:

    Oh look, selling a SHIT TON of El Bees and Goodmamas: http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=761601

  36. StacEy says:

    this is entertaining!

  37. Aj says:

    How long before she starts deleting posts? And, why is she not here defending herself? We know you’re lurking….

  38. theinvisible says:

    Don’t you love how DS bans people for no reason in an instant but scammers, liars and drama whores get the benefit of the doubt or they just don’t seem to warrant a second look by the ban-team. It happens so much I almost think that they are the valued members and everyone else is just…I don’t know.

  39. Aj says:

    So why did she get banned in the first place, I believe it was before my time. 😉

  40. Roxanna says:

    Did you notice that ‘clean freak’ Nutso Natasha has shit splattered all over her floor it takes her hours to clean in the pic of her dog wearing a goodmama she is a dumb ass and if you notice she isn’t saying ANYTHING about being Jonasmommy from the pics I think it is her the kids look a like…

  41. Roxanna says:

    I wonder if I would get banned if I invite her over to CDN via PM?

  42. Roxanna says:

    Oh and I just saw another pic of her dog and her grout is dirty I usually wouldn’t even say anything BUT for someone that DEMANDS a clean house and spends hours doing it I would figure it would be Danny Tanner spotless

  43. theinvisible says:

    She lives a very rich fantasy life on the net. Cleaning ladies and a wealthy husband, a clean house and boxes of GMs she just used on her dog when she couldn’t sell them. Oh, that last part was real.

  44. Roxanna says:

    Well she needs to fire the cleaning lady b/c she isn’t scrubbing the tile

  45. Hexe says:

    I read somewhere that Natascha is german.

  46. Hexe says:

    Or maybe the whole german thing was made up as well and she is Jonasmommy and has been stationed in Germany. I wonder how she does all that cleaning, daycare, organic cooking and being online the whole day.

  47. theinvisible says:

    Yeah, that looks pretty nasty…like dried dog blood.

  48. Roxanna says:

    I just think I threw up in my mouth a little bit. How long before this goes POOF

  49. theinvisible says:

    I’m sure they’d rather delete it than ban her.

  50. Hexe says:

    Let’s enjoy the drama a bit longer…..
    No ban please.

  51. Flippin out says:

    C’mon mods BAN her already! I cannot stand that rude, arrogant beyotch.

  52. Roxanna says:

    I’m tired of them deleting threads it keeps dropping my post count

  53. Roxanna says:

    I wonder if she looks at the drama blog?

  54. Hexe says:

    She sure does, probably at this moment…

  55. Flippin out says:

    oh I have seen her post here Roxy so I know she reads it. 😉

  56. Messy says:

    😥 You guys are so much faster than I am… I need to give up my real life to dedicate more time to the drama!!!

  57. TL says:

    hmm that would be fun if she came over to defend herself, I’ll pm her the link lol! I just finished reading the whole nutso thread and it was really fun read lol.

  58. theinvisible says:

    Is she on DS right now?

  59. Messy says:

    What is up with #124 in that thread???
    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showpost.php?p=7599714&postcount=124
    Re: I just got $300 from…

    ——————————————————————————–

    From another source:
    “NataschaN Says:
    June 15, 2009 at 4:16 am
    Now juliankenziesmama started this “I am leaving and not coming back because everybody has been soooooooo mean to me”

    Yuck.

    Bye bye, don’t let the door hit you in your butt on the way out…

    Then again, miss “I hate drama” is just too dramarific to actualy leave the rest of us alone. Roll eyes.”

    All I have to say is :

    and you say I am dramarific?!?! Don’t let the door it you in YOUR butt on the way out.

  60. TL says:

    57 yup, she just read my pm

  61. Messy says:

    That was by juliankenziesmommy BTW

  62. silver says:

    yay!! that bitch is finally called out. woot woot.

  63. Hexe says:

    What’s her name on here Flippin out?

  64. Hexe says:

    63, I am tired lol, but now I want to see if she has something to say

  65. theinvisible says:

    I know, me too. I always miss the good stuff when I go to bed before midnight lol.

  66. screenname says:

    She’s been banned! That is some craziness right there.

  67. screenname says:

    She’s banned but her green light is on like she’s online? Maybe she’ll pay us a visit?

  68. Hexe says:

    That wasn’t necessary imo. Now that the drama is off I have nothing to do anymore, good night.

  69. silver says:

    and she’s banned!!

  70. Flippin out says:

    I have seen her post her post here as NataschaN recently.

  71. Flippin out says:

    and can we get a WOOT!

  72. theinvisible says:

    What was it she said to that poor mama?Oh well,…karma is a bitch, bitch!

  73. Incognizable says:

    Wow. Had she not started a thread to brag about her $300.00 buckaroos she could have been kickin it in herpeville a bit longer…shame

    *NataschaN please feel free to put yourself on ignore

  74. saslewis11 says:

    Can someone summarize the jonasmommy stuff for me?
    I’m lazy and don’t want to read all of the stuff on the other thread

  75. Roxanna says:

    BU BYE NUTSO!!!! Please come out and play/defend yourself I am dying to know ‘your side’

  76. Roxanna says:

    Here twitter is private did I just read on that other site her b-day is 07/08/1990 ???

  77. Incognizable says:

    NaTWATschaN has most definetely earned her own post!!

  78. JustPeachy says:

    I believe Tanya is German soooooo…

  79. allgirls says:

    http://www.myspace.com/393382516
    Says she’s 18 & in the Netherlands here.

  80. me says:

    She said she had her boobs done 8 years ago.

  81. myra says:

    This is fan-freaking-tastic! I love it!

  82. meagan says:

    wow!! you ladies now how to do your research. glad i could start a little drama. shame i didn’t stick around last night to read it. but hey—–at least i don’t have to read any more of her crazy ass posts on ds. i shall sleep bettter now!

  83. meagan says:

    so, is that even her kid then?? if she is 18 –he looks maybe 3/4 years old. she would have had him at 14 or so. what do you think??

  84. Aj says:

    I definitely think it’s her kid, I think she stole Natascha the 18 yo’s online identity; and in reality she’s 31 yo Tanja.

  85. meagan says:

    ahhh interesting! i was wondering how she can come up with all this stuff. some people must truely live in the alteruniverse they create

  86. magpiedpiper says:

    #62, Obviously juliankenzie’s mama reads here and was being snarky about something said about her. Frankly, they are both dramariffic nut jobs.

  87. Incognizable says:

    @91 I agree!!

  88. thewitch says:

    LOL. You know, I thought that kid looked familiar I just couldn’t place it! I saw that thread about the $300 and thought that was a really odd thread. You guys are awesome. ROTFLOL.

  89. diudiaole says:

    hmmm… all the drama I have missed in just a couple days! 😛

  90. Rhonda Drage says:

    And to think no one will ever find the drama thread on NatashaN, hidden away so carefully under the code name redrage! You guys crack me up!

  91. Rhonda Drage says:

    ty 4 the support

  92. justjacqueline says:

    I got banned from DS because they said I was “excessively spamming” but really if people asked about Avon or how to sell Avon and I replied I would get a strike for spamming. It’s ridiculous – yes, I sell Avon which makes me knowledgeable to those who are interested in learning more. No, I don’t “recruit” people. I wouldn’t earn money off of them unless they were on my team which is pretty hard when you live in a different state than I do! I think it’s unfair and ridiculous. Glad to see I’m not the only one being treated like crap. I was an active member and got three strikes for even mentioning the word “Avon”. I never caused trouble for anyone and was there for legit reasons. Mostly I frequented Thrifty families to get tips on how to save money.

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