Archive for June, 2009


We think so! Looks like she’s back with a new name, same crazy.

Connors_Mama 06-17-2009 12:14 PM

Re: I just got $300 from…
OP, is your name Tanya by any chance? Your posts remind me of a user who got banned a while ago (JonasMommy)
NataschaN 06-17-2009 12:20 PM

Re: I just got $300 from…

Sorry mama, my name is Natascha.

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Originally Posted by Connors_Mama (Post 7595753)
OP, is your name Tanya by any chance? Your posts remind me of a user who got banned a while ago (JonasMommy)

I Smile Because Of Them 06-17-2009 12:50 PM

Re: I just got $300 from…
Quote:

Originally Posted by Connors_Mama (Post 7595753)
OP, is your name Tanya by any chance? Your posts remind me of a user who got banned a while ago (JonasMommy)

Hmmm, you might have something going on here. I remember Tanja saying she runs a home day care. Yup, right here. They also share the same love of Goodmamas and Elbees. Interesting.

She also complains in that post about laundry and dish washing. I think you may be onto something Renee.

Connors_Mama 06-17-2009 12:57 PM

Re: I just got $300 from…
Quote:

Originally Posted by I Smile Because Of Them (Post 7596202)
Hmmm, you might have something going on here. I remember Tanja saying she runs a home day care. Yup, right here. They also share the same love of Goodmamas and Elbees. Interesting.

She also complains in that post about laundry and dish washing. I think you may be onto something Renee.


Yep and their son’s are the same age too
swan771 06-17-2009 07:01 PM

Re: I just got $300 from…
and I am pretty sure I have seen this diaper:
http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/…d.php?t=381317
on your dog:
http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/…d.php?t=694774

:headscratch:

And now she’s banned!

Rhonda Drage Says: June 17, 2009 at 4:14 pm eI am shocked. I have been banned from DS.
I am apalled! That grown women would LIE about their reasoning for doing this! “You have been banned for the following reason:
multiple usernames – phoenix_fire, godess_heather”. I am not, nor have I ever been any of these usernames. In fact, I have a pay pal receipt to one of them, for a purchase I made from them!
I am angry! That this ‘woman’~ and I use this term loosely~ can’t even put on her big girl panties long enough to allow me to ask why! Date the ban will be lifted: Never.
I am hurt! That I have no way of contacting anyone I am currently in transaction with, to let them know that I cannot contact them!!!! That I did not ~FARK~ them over, but have been put in the position not be able to fulfill anything with anyone on ds! So! DS is ~FARK~ing them over by banning me!
I am in disbelief! Did anyone on here, know that the pm’s they sent to other ds members, while on ds, are read by ds “admin”?????? Is that right up there with molestation and rape? You encourage women to establish trusting, open, sometimes too honest relationships so you can go beyond what they would expect, by pilfering the pm’s they send to other momma’s, distort what they are, and denounce the member as being something they aren’t? Then BAN them so they have no way of defending themselves? What the hell? Why call it private message if it going to be reviewed by “ADMIN”? And then, when it is addressed, instead of saying “I read that message you sent so-n-so, and … They say “It has been brought to our attention”!!!!!
And! for current DS members especially did you know that you are not allowed to ever mention a banned member, even in pm’s, even for the sake of letting a current member know that a banned member has no way of contacting them, to complete a transaction that was in process, but would like them to make contact at said members non-ds e-mail address? That this is considered something like ‘fraterinizing with the enemy”???????

I am in tears over this crap!!! I am not a mean and hateful person!!! I would not go a half step out of my way to hurt anyone, intentionally. I am so un-accustomed to this sort of behavior, and totally blown away that I have had it thrown at me!! I go out of my way to help others. I give until it hurts and then give a little more, because sometimes I hold back on giving all I have to give, and it eats at me. If I have wronged someone, I will step up and make it right. I don’t hesitate to speak my mind, but I don’t do it at the expense of someone else. I call it for what it is, MY thoughts, feelings, beliefs, opinions~ and you don’t have to agree with them, they are still MINE. So when this happened~ I am lost…
It started a few weeks ago I guess, when I went to to drop a line to a ds member about a transaction problem we were having, where she accidently put someone else’s addy on a pkg which was supposed to be sent to me. Imagine my surprise when up pops the message that this member has been banned for bad rep and multiple user accounts! So I go to her profile to get her email, no access allowed. So I go to pp retrieve her addy and email her. I didn’t ask the details of the ban, spoke only of our trans, and told her I would let anyone else she was in the midst of unfinished business with know how to reach her, if she would like. She wrote back and said she would so appreciate this, there were a couple rcvd-ty, a couple did send, and I think 3 non-descript, but please contact me. I went on ds, and proceeded to leave brief but discript messages to the 7, via pm, giving the private e-mail. Within 24 hours I received a pm telling me it had been brought to the attention… this person is banned for a reason, and not to forward this address via ds anymore or I could be banned. I apologized, stated I didn’t know it was against the rules, and that I wouldn’t repeat this action. Yesterday I received a response from one of the people I had forwarded the address to, telling how glad she was to know some wool she sent had arrived. Thank you for letting her know, she is always glad to learn when something she ships reaches it’s destination. She then wrote “Explain?” and beneath that was a copy of the original note I had sent w/ said addy on, with request to contact r/t woolies. So, I felt sorta stuck. I did a little time out with my higher power and decided to respond to the pm, with the reason I sent the message, that maybe she didn’t understand that it was the ‘new’ means of communicating with the other person, and the la-ti-ta of being warned not to repeat the ‘infraction’. I also said that I was somewhat anxious about being banned, just for having the contact with her regarding this, that I would hope not, as I enjoyed the interaction and would prefer to stay. I told her, since she already had the addy, there shouldn’t be any problem with her having contact on her own email, w/ the person.
Within the day I was banned. So, since I did not know the any of the persons I originally pm’d, what is the likely hood they would have a problem w/ me and want me banned? About the same likelyhood that the momma I responded to yesterday would want me banned? And this brings us to the fact that the pm’s would have had to have been read by person or persons which they were not sent, in order for them to jump on them and ban me for fictitious reasons, and offer no response or recourse! I was able to recoup some addys from my pp, but the ones I had not yet shipped to were scrwd!

This mama was banned. If you’re in a transaction with her and are ready to freak out because she is now banned, chill for a second. Rhonda, post your info here if you’d like for people to have a way to contact you. It’s not like you don’t have a chance of going back. DS likes to ban and unban people. Makes them feel powerful.


Rules of BST? Vent and questions http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=767994

Man, I know that things on the blog can get crazy, but I like to think we have reason. This just seems stupid and bitchy. And while we’re on the subject, YOU could use some lessons on comma usage.

Today, 08:10 AM #1
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Rules of BST? Vent and questions

UPDATE! I would like to make a HUGE apology to say im sorry that my post is not able to be followed that my grammar/english is horrible but this is the internet im not concerned as to if i capitalized this or that or not….i was here to vent and ask a question…i guess some people are ok with people giving them the run around but do you all not understand letting people get away with this is why it keeps happening? Like i said if you implemented new rules that would change! And what i mean is: someone messages you i would like this item etc…you send them a message stating ok great heres my pp address…2-3 days go by and nothing..you pm asking if they are still interested and nothing…but yet you see they have been online and they have read your messages!!! To me that is down right wrong and should not be tolerated. so from now on i will make a note on ever post when payment is due if not paid for i will move on!

thank you all really for your postings…i will just continue to update my listings~

i have a vent …I know not everyone will agree with me and im sure there will be a lot that wont and that is totally fine.

Is there any rules with posting wanting to stuff to peoples bst and then not taking it? I know on other forums im a part of if you post something it is yours and if you do not take it the seller is able to leave you appropriate feedback for not following through and if it happens so many times you get a strike.

I was selling some items on here and wanted to keep them as a lot inless there was people wanting them i would split. Well i put the entire lot on ebay and then i seen there was interest in them. Several mamas posted saying they would take so i edited my post stating i decided to split the lot and i would pm each mama there total.

Well i sent that out on like thursday or friday i cant really remember or could have been saturday…ill have to check well i today i hear back from one of them finally stating she was sorry that she had didnt want the item b/c another site has it new cheaper. I’m sorry but that really angered me being she posted it saying she would take it. When i’m going to buy something i first research prices and if its a good deal i post and pm and for it.. if its not i ask them mama if she will take less.
its not like its a great deal of money its just my TIME and now i have to relist them on feebay.

So not only that angers but not hearing from the others ones anger me as well….

Sorry if this is a stuid vent But i know simple things are NOT tolerated on other forum sites im a part of. I know all rules are different but i think that one should be a requirement as well as Delivery confirmation being required on all packages….

Well if you if you made it this far

eta: i just checked and all the mamas read my pm with the total on the 13th all but one has not read there pm.

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Re: Rules of BST? Vent and questions

I’m sorry but I would like to add some constructive criticism. I just can’t help myself . It is kindly and sincerely meant. I had a very difficult time reading the original post. The English grammar could use some (extensive) work. I didn’t even make it all the way through the post. Perhaps an English class would help you find greater success in FSOT as well as life. Good luck

PSA – Something we should all know about

Today, 10:17 PM #1
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PSA – Something we should all know about

Am I allowed to share the link to the blog the openly mocks, makes fun of, lies about and degrades fellow WAHM’s and forum posters?

I just feel like everyone has a right to know what those ladies are doing and that those ladies are among us here on HC, on DS and on DSD too.

Its appaulling and I feel that those ladies need to be stopped somehow.

I would like a MOD to confirm if its ok to post the link first though, I don’t want to be banned for trying to inform people.

Ahem… say what?


I mean, come on, if people tell you what you are doing is STEALING, and you are still doing it, of course people are not going to buy much from you! (BTW, there is another thread in WAHM where she is bashing us here for being too mean). (Insert eye roll) It couldn’t be that she is a liar and THIEF. It has to be the mean old ladies who talk about her being one.

UGH.

Closing up shop, contact info (http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=766302)

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Hi everyone, just wanted to say thank you to any and all of my customers for your wonderful support during my time on HyenaCart.

Unfortunately I will be closing my HC shop on July 2nd due to stressfull situations that have arrose.

I still have a few auctions and items on my HC that will remain available until July 2nd (auctions ending sooner).

After that point, you can ether find me through PM’s here, my blog or a WAHM Wares thread on DS.
I will continue to take custom orders for longies/shorties through those methods, but will not have a storefront anymore.

See you all around in the general chat forums

Crystal

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How NOT to mail a package….esp if you r a WAHM (http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=762962)

juliankenziesmama 06-08-2009 01:50 PM

How NOT to mail a package….esp if you r a WAHM
this was supposed to be soap bits…..notice whats not included??? PLEASE package things correctly. This was sent by a WAHM. She replied very promptly and has offered to replace the bits and add another one in for free. This transaction has now cost her $15 dollars….a simple $1 mailer could have prevented this.

ETA: actually over $15 because I forgot to include postage and envelope.



Lyttlewon 06-08-2009 03:15 PM

Re: How NOT to mail a package….esp if you r a WAHM
What exactly is wrong with the envelope? I mean I see it is torn but is it a paper envelope?
juliankenziesmama 06-08-2009 03:37 PM

Re: How NOT to mail a package….esp if you r a WAHM
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Originally Posted by Lyttlewon (Post 7510923)
What exactly is wrong with the envelope? I mean I see it is torn but is it a paper envelope?

Seriously?

Umm well besides the fact that 1/2 the envelope is gone…………its a letter sized paper envelope that was used to mail soap bits…..not taped up and most importantly MY SOAP BITS WERE NOT IN IT.

ShadesofRae 06-08-2009 03:39 PM

Re: How NOT to mail a package….esp if you r a WAHM
Wow, jump down her throat will you? The pictures are not clear. I cannot tell that it is a paper envelope, nor can I tell that it isn’t taped or, NOR can I tell what was or was not inside of the envelope.

Bummer, though.

romanlili 06-08-2009 04:38 PM

Re: How NOT to mail a package….esp if you r a WAHM
Quote:

Originally Posted by ShadesofRae (Post 7511154)
Wow, jump down her throat will you? The pictures are not clear. I cannot tell that it is a paper envelope, nor can I tell that it isn’t taped or, NOR can I tell what was or was not inside of the envelope.

Bummer, though.


You’re right, the pictures are so not clear that it is a regular letter envelope, ripped in half, with nothing in it. And it is so not clear that there were suppose to be soap bits in it because the OP totally didn’t mention that in the very first sentence. (Please note the very, very heavy sarcasm here).

I’m surprised you didn’t jump right in on this. I thought you were all about calling WAHMs lazy because of some of their *choices*.

FTR: I’m not calling the WAHM lazy who sent this, just bad planning on her part.

We love sarcasm, romanlili!
Whoever called her Shades of cRaezy was right.

SIDS, has anyone ever had it happen? (http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=762780)

venicemom 06-08-2009 10:23 AM

SIDS, has anyone ever had it happen?
I’m working in a daycare. We have 2 parents who have previously lost children to “SIDS” and I’ve met several others. Some of my co-workers have started referring to it as stupid parent death syndrome, because every single case we’ve heard of, it’s been a situation where the parents did something really dumb and it should have been considered accidental death, or even homicide and yet was called SIDS. For instance, one parent taped a pacifier into their 2 month old’s mouth and then the house went to sleep. Woke up, the baby wasn’t breathing. Another parent left the baby in a backseat of a car during a snowstorm. The baby froze. Another, the mom was co-sleeping and drank too much one night and ended up sleeping on the baby.

I’m starting to wonder if SIDs is real, or is it just a blanket statement that covers all infant death. It never seems like anyone actually has a child die suddenly, or unexplained. :headscratch:
Please don’t be insulted if it HAS actually happened to you, or someone you know. I’m not asking to hurt anyone’s feelings, or trying to imply that everyone who has a SIDS related death is stupid or a bad parent. It’s just that as a newborn’s parent, everyone seems to freak about SIDS. Even I wake up over and over all night long to check to see if my dd is breathing. It sort of makes me wonder why they terrify new parents if it really is something you have no control over because otherwise, it’s something you can avoid. If it is avoidable, then it isn’t sudden or unexplained death.

Please let me know. I haven’t slept well in three weeks. I thought the paranoia would be easier with the second child but it’s not, and it’d be really nice to feel like it’s at least something I have control over.

Stupid parent syndrome? WOW.But it’s just the co-workers saying it.