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02-05-2009, 07:54 PM #1
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Re: Teen has a sex change…..

Originally Posted by Amber5677 View Post
It’s plain and simple to me: If you’re born with a penis, you’re a male. Born with a vagina, you’re female.

I don’t have anything against these people. I love them all the same. But I don’t condone many of the things this world deems “perfectly acceptable”- “transgender” included. IMO, it’s just another way in which we as human beings have perverted God’s perfect design.

But you seem to find your “friendship” with my husband “perfectly acceptable.”
Aren’t you the poster child for Double Standard.

Today, 03:48 PM #78
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Re: Teen has a sex change…..

Originally Posted by ~Peach~ View Post
WTH! The “friendship” thing is messed up. We need more details if you are willing to share. to you mama.

I’m sorry to hyjack a thread, but I’ve had enough. I don’t even care if I get repremanded for not playing nice.

Amber5677 claims to be a Christian. November 07, she came to visit me… we had been online friends since our daughters were babies (4 years). My marriage was on the rocks and my husband took to her. They talked online, on the phone, and behind my back for 8 months. All the while claiming they were doing nothing wrong…. but my husband was going to her and not me. I did counselling with my husband and they both continued to lie. In May 08, my husband left to “bring back his mother to help with the baby due in June.” But what really happenend was he met up with her. I found out when he was acting all secretive again and she texted him “I miss your arms like crazy, I have yet to spot a guy since you left that measures up to how gorgeous you are.” I left 2 weeks before Baby#3 was due.

To shorten it up, my husband still continues to converse with her. In emails, they both admitted to me that they were wrong, it was not okay and they were sorry. However, nothing has changed. They met up again just a few weeks ago, claiming they are just friends. Bull****.

I will be divorced in June. There are alot of other details, but the story and lies are so long and twisted, this is the short version. Bascially, she’s a walking hypocrite.

And Amber is pregnant too??

  1. Lolanae says:

    Does this get the award for most Soap Opera like drama on DS?

  2. naturalmamadot says:

    haha I thought you meant Amber posted on the DS thread at first. This definitely deserves its own post though!

  3. theinvisible says:

    I totally don’t blame her though. I would have called her out as publicly as possible. Especially since she is so darned conservative and god-fearing.

  4. givepeasachance says:

    Oh shit. This is golden. How awesome is this gonna be? I love drama.

  5. Biggirlpanties says:

    i wonder what amber’s husband thinks of this…

  6. The Original Ashley says:

    Whoa. o_O

  7. notyourmama says:

    #6 I wonder if he even knows. yet.

  8. Lolanae says:

    This will turn out to be an interesting baby daddy debate, I bet.

  9. ArmiMommi says:

    I have been waiting to hear more since I saw the post in the GM thread earlier! Wow, it’s def. getting like Springer up in here…

  10. DSDM2 says:

    Someone want to clue-in the people involved?

  11. Messy says:

    Yup. Get the mamas here. Put ’em each in a corner and when we are all ready with our snacks and popcorn, turn ’em loose at one another! I would drive across the country and kick Amber’s skanky ass for cheating with my man for that matter…

  12. sassy1 says:


    Its not jerry springer, it’s diaperswappers!!!!!!! *LMAO* thats some messed up shit right there.

  13. ArmiMommi says:

    It’s stupid women like Amber that give Christians a bad dang name… I think she totally deserves everything that comes her way, including a karmic a$$-whoopin…

  14. ora says:

    Amber doesn’t have to defend herself here. She never had sex with the guy, after all! *eyeroll*

    I wonder, was she one of those it-doesn’t-count-if-it-doesn’t-go-THERE promise ring chicks? Sounds kind of like it. ‘Cause you know, God’s all about technicalities.

  15. ora says:

    No, she just gives self-righteous, bossy Christians a bad name.

  16. DSDM2 says:

    I think that emotional relationships (assuming it wasn’t physical) can actually harm a marriage worse than just a physical one.

  17. thewhiteninja says:

    #16: are there any that aren’t? I’m sure there are but none of the ones on DS all are. The Chrischuns on DS are also the most judgmental cows, ungiving b*tches that whine about people on welfare when elsewhere on the board post asking for tips on getting on WIC.

  18. thewhiteninja says:

    hhmmmm. Feel free to piece my post together as you see fit.

  19. naturalmamadot says:

    Amber is on her IM, she denied my friend request but sent me a message lol She is probably avoiding signing onto DS on purpose, Im sure she was notified a long time ago

  20. BffMama says:

    At least someone’s getting ass. Just sayin’

  21. BffMama says:

    Something sounds fishy to me.

  22. Laura says:

    #18 whoa! You’re wrong. We’re not all like that.

  23. ora says:

    The non-self-righteous, non-bossy Christians on DS are probably the ones who don’t feel it’s necessary to write about how much they love God in their siggies.

  24. DSDM2 says:

    BffMama Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 1:09 am e

    Something sounds fishy to me.

    Someone smells fishy to me…

  25. thewhiteninja says:

    24: That is very true. The ones that are overly vocal about are the ones that also overly vocal about judging others.

  26. thewhiteninja says:

    I’m having issues with leaving out words tonight lol

  27. BffMama says:

    25: We iz peepz. I didn’t want to say it, but you read my mind and said it for me! :love:

  28. ora says:


    I **hate** DS siggies.

    But wouldn’t it be cool if she changed hers to “Amber: Married to the love of my life, Brad , but currently mind-f*cking Joe , mother to three little angels Mary, Sue, and Jane and little bastard Zeke on the way “?

  29. ora says:

    Whoa, my punctuation messed that whole post up. Lemme try again:

    “Amber: Married to the love of my life, Brad (silly emoticon), but currently mind-f*cking Joe (obscene emoticon), mother to three little angels Mary, Sue, and Jane (silly emoticons), and little b*stard Zeke on the way (silly emoticon sitting on a timeline)“?

    Let’s try that.

  30. AshleyB says:

    That is NUTS!! I’m PSYCHED to see it here!

  31. naturalmamadot says:

    AshleyB Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 1:22 am

    “That is NUTS!! I’m PSYCHED to see it here!”

    Yea me too, things have a way of getting fixed/cleared up after they are brought here

  32. elephant says:

    14 – I don’t think this is about religion, it’s about being a woman. She gives ALL women a bad name, not just Christian women!

  33. thewhiteninja says:

    33- I hear ya. I was bringing it up because the poster said she was a Christian woman, like that really made a difference in the situation.

  34. Messy says:

    It is funny because this all came out on the “teen has a sex change” thread. If my dh cheated on me, he would get a sex change probono with a dull spoon…

  35. JustPeachy says:

    I think that is one of the tackiest low down things one woman can do to another. It just makes it worse that this woman was supposedly her friend.
    I’m alot of things but I’m downright adamant about if you are married you don’t fuck around. If you are unhappy get a divorce or seek counselling. It just disgusts me how unimportant marriage seems to have become these days.

  36. ora says:

    Her being a Christian makes all the difference. It’s what makes the situation hilarious, and why the exchange happened in the first place (“Oh really, you’re so high-minded…?”).

  37. thewhiteninja says:

    Oh yeah, I forgot the hypocrisy of the fact she posted on that thread. Duh.

  38. naturalmamadot says:

    Messy Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 1:40 am

    ” If my dh cheated on me, he would get a sex change probono with a dull spoon…”
    LMAO no shit

  39. Rain Cloud says:

    aw darn my life is never this fun! I want to hear more! Can’t wait to see what pans out later.

  40. naturalmamadot says:

    its dsdm2@hotmail.com right?

  41. naturalmamadot says:

    oh okay thanks

  42. DSDM2 says:

    http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showpost.php?p=6518789&postcount=97 hot damn!

    Yes, there is always 2 SIDES but untill she comes on here and explains why it is acceptable to screw your friends husband(wait let me reword that have a “friendship” with your friends husband) then I am calling it the way I see it!

    Hmmm isnt she expecting?

  43. ora says:

    Simmer down Roxy or they’ll sic the mods on you…

  44. notyourmama says:

    #45 I’m betting that’s a done deal.

  45. Angie says:

    I’m sure Amber will report it if she already hasn’t.

  46. naturalmamadot says:

    Anyone else IM amber yet? lol

  47. DSDM2 says:


  48. Roxyrocks says:

    I bet she did report me….

    I will say a pray for her

  49. screenname says:

    Who needs soaps? All I need is an internet connection and an unending supply of popcorn!

    Roxyrocks – You crack me up!

  50. naturalmamadot says:

    lol Im assuming shes gotten through the first 50 posts now and is just lurking…hey there Amber, wed LOVE to hear your side, really, if there is a good excuse for this behavior enlighten us

  51. screenname says:

    That’s true! Many times something has come to this blog appearing one sided and then when the other side comes on the tide changes.

  52. Sam says:

    Geez a whole soap opera on ds…I feel really sad for the woman and the whole situation. I don’t blame her for calling Amber out on ds.

  53. yaloveme says:

    lol nice thread roxy :p certainly entertaining but so sad for the baby shes pg with & mranger.

    totally agreeing with ya Ora 🙂

  54. 2dogs says:

    #53, that would be one hell of a tide.

  55. eeek says:

    The only thing that would make this more fascinating is if they were both more frequent posters. I want to know more! This one’s so damn crazy… drama at it’s whore-iest.

  56. Roxyrocks says:

    Amber feel free to IM me with the details of your friendship….I will even apoligize if I was out of line

  57. Booyah says:

    Hot damn. Let the catfight begin. This is better than diaper drama anyday!

  58. theinvisible says:

    LOL sweetpotatoesmom! That was like a secret handshake or something. I hope they can read between the lines. ROTFL

  59. Finch says:

    Oh is there a blog somewhere I didn’t know.

  60. Finch says:

    sorry wasn’t trying to switch names, I didn’t realize I was logged in to WP

  61. DSDM2 says:


  62. naturalmamadot says:

    hahah @ sweetpotatoesmom since all the mods and admins (or most ive heard) know about this ill be surprised if they dont delete the post and give you a strike or some bullshit lol. however i AM surprised they havent deleted posts or the thread yet

  63. Finch says:

    Oh I like my other monster, can I keep him?

    Do they tell you if you get a strike?

  64. .bin. says:

    I am shocked. SHOCKED. that this has stayed up on DS since I left for work 6 hours ago.

  65. cheesewhiz says:

    WOW – is this for REAL??? I can’t believe its still up either!!! I totally want the other mom to come on and tell us why she is a despicable skank!!!

  66. Angie says:

    I’m not sure the moms will come here? I can’t imagine they know about this blog. They aren’t very regular posters.

    I’m surprised it’s still up too.

  67. dirtyj says:

    I do not find this funny at all. How sad.

  68. Sam says:

    whoa I can’t believe the thread is still going!!! crazy. wonder if the mods missed this one…

  69. cheesewhiz says:

    Sweetpotatoesmom is awesome.

  70. naturalmamadot says:

    i linked both of them

  71. naturalmamadot says:

    a while ago. like i said i know ambers reading this or at least checking up on it and not sure about the poor mama who has to deal with amber

  72. DSDM2 says:

    Again I am going to say that IF there was no sex, it is almost WORSE. An emotional relationship is more devastating to a couple than a purely skanky physical one. (That is my response to her “friends” response on the thread)

  73. Kate says:

    I don’t get why she is trying to guilt Amber back into her life saying that she screwed her husband? Doesn’t make sense to me.

  74. DSDM2 says:

    Yeah, and how would it guilt her if it weren’t true?

  75. Kate says:

    That was in reference to this post

    Today, 03:59 AM #114

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    I wasn’t going to step in, but I really have to.

    The Amber called out in this thread is a very, very close friend of mine. The accuser has been posting this crap story far and wide in an attempt to guilt trip Amber back into her life somehow. She is absolutely insane, and all of her accusatory posts have been reported.

    I know you girls don’t know her the way that I do, but it makes me sick to my stomach to see so many people say such hurtful things about such a kind, gentle woman.

    ETA: I know with absolute certainty that Amber has never had sex with anyone but her own husband.

    Ugh…public trashing and stalking…tsk tsk

  76. Kate says:

    mrangers friend responds to Ambers friend

    Today, 07:53 AM #115

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    Originally Posted by alyrie
    I wasn’t going to step in, but I really have to.

    The Amber called out in this thread is a very, very close friend of mine. The accuser has been posting this crap story far and wide in an attempt to guilt trip Amber back into her life somehow. She is absolutely insane, and all of her accusatory posts have been reported.

    I know you girls don’t know her the way that I do, but it makes me sick to my stomach to see so many people say such hurtful things about such a kind, gentle woman.

    ETA: I know with absolute certainty that Amber has never had sex with anyone but her own husband.

    Ugh…public trashing and stalking…tsk tsk (Quote)


    The “accuser” is a very close friend of mine, and I have been there while she cried and despaired over her pain related to the situation. She is NOT insane, and this is NOT a “crap story” .. unless you refer to the ugliness of the situation. Your words imply that it is not true, but I have seen some of the written conversations from Amber to my dear friend Marissa, where Amber ADMITS her wrongdoing and is apologetic.

    I do respect that you just want to defend your friend, and that is fine. But I want to defend mine too.

  77. theinvisible says:

    And the thread is still up at 8:42 EST. Amazing. I noticed that she edited her thread in her due date board. Too bad I have a screen shot. If you are going to go around messing with another woman’s husband you should probably be careful about what you post online. So anyways, Amber, come tell us what a liar she is. We’d love to hear it.

  78. JustPeachy says:

    Seriously this is ridiculous. I knew that mranger would get accused of the crazies sooner or later.
    My thing is regardless of whether Amber has an emotional/physical relationship with this woman’s soon to be ex, its a moot point. Im sorry but if my husband had a friend ship with a woman where they were hanging out without me I’d be quick to assume there was something else going on. Its only logical. I am not saying men and women cannot be platonic friends but when you are doing it behind your spouse’s back obviously there is something up and its no longer just platonic.

  79. theinvisible says:

    Agree 100%. An emotional relationship, a physical relationship, doesn’t matter. It’s a relationship with a member of the opposite sex OUSIDE YOUR MARRIAGE. It is wrong and she is getting called on it. The only thing I really wish I knew was whether Amber’s husband knows about the accusations. I know if I was accused of said actions and was pregnant (or not) my husband would have a lot of questions for me. And he would probably not be asking them nicely….

  80. DSDM2 says:

    can someone link the pregnancy post again?

  81. eeek says:

    The “friend” thing is funny. I keep thinking HOW would you know with absolute certainty your friend’s sex experiences? You are not her vagina, and people LIE. If they didn’t this blog would be WAY more boring.

  82. theinvisible says:

    She changed it….I do have a screen shot of the original but don’t know how to post it.

  83. JustPeachy says:

    upload it to photo bucket and post the link to it

  84. theinvisible says:

    Ok, duh, I’m still sleeping….

    If you make it full size you can see it perfectly.

  85. 2dogs says:

    So should it say ‘Baby’s Daddy’ in place of ‘Baby’s Gender’?

  86. 2dogs says:

    (from screen shot)

    Baby’s Gender: Don’t know, but I WILL find out!

  87. JustPeachy says:


  88. DSDM2 says:

    why was Mindy’s post deleted??

  89. notmeatall says:

    DSDM2 I was just wondering the same THING! i CALL NOT FAIR!

  90. naturalmamadot says:

    2dogs Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 2:42 pm

    So should it say ‘Baby’s Daddy’ in place of ‘Baby’s Gender’?

    2dogs Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 2:43 pm

    (from screen shot)

    Baby’s Gender: Don’t know, but I WILL find out
    LMFAO nice.

  91. Missouri Gal says:

    I can’t believe the mods haven’t deleted the thread yet!

  92. naturalmamadot says:

    Random but if Amber wasnt a skanky ho I could totally be BFF with her we are passionate about all the same things…well except for mrangers husband.

  93. naturalmamadot says:

    well and the fact that im not religious but I didnt see that part haha
    What did the post say that they deleted?

  94. Lolanae says:

    If she isn’t guilty, then why did she edit the pregnancy post?

  95. theinvisible says:

    What did Mindy’s deleted post say?

  96. naturalmamadot says:

    exactly, I mean if she isnt guilty then why wouldnt she just come out laughing her ass off and being like “okay crazy bitch…whatever you say”

    Well, probablly because she is guilty lol.

  97. DSDM2 says:

    Mindy’s post was nothing actually, gibberish and smiles.

  98. theinvisible says:

    101 But that was the one they deleted? As opposed to the others?

  99. newhere says:

    Mindy the former moderator?

  100. DSDM2 says:


    I assume it is b/c of Nick. They don’t want any mention of him, shhhhhh… it isn’t ok for DS to have someone like “that” there. Ugh.

    Mindy and Nick, we like you.

  101. naturalmamadot says:

    I love that THAT is the post they delete.

  102. theinvisible says:

    Ohhhhhhhhh. I get it. But still……

  103. DSDM2 says:

    That is DS for ya.

  104. 2dogs says:

    Can we get a Nick&Mindy cliffs notes, for those of us who are playing along at home?

  105. DSDM2 says:

    Nick is (was?) transgendered and is a male now. DS banned Nick and de-modded Mindy b/c of their relationship or something…

    I’ll look for the link

  106. amegrl520 says:

    No I thought it was the other Mindi that made that post that was deleted. You know the one that you need a translator to understand anything she says?!

  107. naturalmamadot says:

    I remember that whole thing but I never caught the details, did nick have a child he was cloth diapering? I knew he made some ppl mad (def not myself) but what was DS’ official reason for banning him?

  108. DSDM2 says:

    Yes, nick and mindi have children in cloth.

  109. naturalmamadot says:

    Hm, I dont see how they could get away with banning nick then unless he kept poking them, then they are apt to ban anyone for a stupid reason. Thats too bad either way though, people are offended too easily.

  110. 2dogs says:

    LOL after reading the link in 111.
    Anyone else notice that the most judgemental anti-penis comments on that thread come from monsters who look like they have a dick in their mouth?

  111. DSDM2 says:

    Ok, it was the *other * mindi. My bad.

  112. DSDM2 says:

    OK As for Amber’s life being threatened… Oh hell yes if she cheated with my DH, I would threaten her life too.

  113. notmeatall says:

    it’s getting even better!

  114. JustPeachy says:

    Nick purposely poked at them after a while. I think around the time him and Mindi started seeing each other is when shit hit the fan.

  115. JustPeachy says:

    Oh cmon its drama alright but it isnt even garnering that many posts and I dont see anyone being mean to Amber in it really.

  116. Messy says:

    #116 I cannot believe that there are people that BEG to be censored. Seriously. Are we not all adults? Is anyone forced to read something they do not want to read? Then what is the big deal? DS would have far more viewers and hits if they stopped shutting down hot subjects for the “prim few”!

  117. not me at all says:

    DSDM Boy have you got THAT right!

  118. amegrl520 says:

    Well it is gone now.

  119. 2dogs says:


  120. AshleyB says:

    I still have it up if anyone needs a screenshot.

  121. AshleyB says:

    OH…and if someone did my husband, I wouldn’t threaten them. Whatever I said would be a *promise*

  122. not me at all says:

    It is now gone Michelle (I smile because of them) whined until it got deleted…

  123. theinvisible says:

    what other thread were they talking about? Why delete it…..don’t f*ing read it if you don’t like it.

  124. theinvisible says:

    They BANNED her!

  125. not just another mama says:

    This is better then Maury..

    Oh my gosh, I see DNA tests in this mama’s future.. on ALL of her children.. Once a cheater, always a cheater.. She has probably done it before.

  126. AshleyB says:

    Banned who? The accuser, or the accuse-ee?

  127. naturalmamadot says:

    ugh fucking bitch I found a new least fave person on DS, theo ne who BEGS for them to bend her over and flog her with censorship. Fucking idiot sheeple.

  128. theinvisible says:

    AshleyB, please….I missed it.

  129. naturalmamadot says:


  130. AshleyB says:

    I see…mranger. WHY?! That SUCKS!

  131. naturalmamadot says:

    oh my god. seriously new low for DS ban her for Amber being a pos whore. Nice.

  132. theinvisible says:


  133. naturalmamadot says:

    which pages do you have ash i have 12, 13 and 14 we could piece it together for theinvisible lol

  134. notyourmama says:


  135. theinvisible says:

    that will teach me to step away from the computer to actually feed my kids. I won’t make that mistake again lol

  136. JustPeachy says:

    Wow mranger is banned now 😦

  137. AshleyB says:

    SO…anyone notice Lee’s “update” on the virus?

  138. ora says:

    … sheeple …


  139. JustPeachy says:

    Im going to tread very carefully. I neither like Michelle nor dislike her. However she sent me some very nasty pms last year and was harassing me and I do believe her and some other mamas are the reason I was being watched oh so very carefully before my ban.

  140. Ink says:

    Thank goodness they deleted the thread. I’m totally not mature enough to choose whether or not I can read about someone screwing someone else. /sarcasm

    Don’t want to read it, then don’t read it. Simple as that. The holier-than-thou shit is getting old quick.

  141. not me at all says:

    wait it is still there…

  142. cheesewhiz says:

    #143 – UGH.

  143. theinvisible says:

    Fuck Lee. DS absolutely has adware (at the very least) and i have had to reformat my hard drive twice because of it. I sneak to go on DS now with protection because my husband gives me a hard time about knowingly putting my computer at risk. As it is I only go to follow drama links……

  144. naturalmamadot says:

    JustPeachy Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 5:26 pm

    Im going to tread very carefully. I neither like Michelle nor dislike her. However she sent me some very nasty pms last year and was harassing me and I do believe her and some other mamas are the reason I was being watched oh so very carefully before my ban.
    which bitch..i mean chick is michelle?

  145. theinvisible says:

    139 I only missed the “threatened her life” post.

  146. naturalmamadot says:

    theinvisible Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 5:30 pm

    Fuck Lee.
    Im sure amber has

  147. theinvisible says:


  148. naturalmamadot says:

    Amber has defended herself at length and in private. Her life was threatened for the act she did NOT do, and honestly, I wouldn’t be replying either. This topic should not be up for discussion in the first place. It is only posted as a hurtful, malicious attempt to make someone else feel better about themselves and to gain support by any means possible. If it wasn’t intended as such, such a public attack wouldn’t exist, and this story is everywhere. I can’t believe DS is allowing this to go on.

  149. Missouri Gal says:

    Originally Posted by alyrie View Post
    Amber has defended herself at length and in private. Her life was threatened for the act she did NOT do, and honestly, I wouldn’t be replying either. This topic should not be up for discussion in the first place. It is only posted as a hurtful, malicious attempt to make someone else feel better about themselves and to gain support by any means possible. If it wasn’t intended as such, such a public attack wouldn’t exist, and this story is everywhere. I can’t believe DS is allowing this to go on.

    I knew she wouldn’t reply. It would taint her “good” name. It WAS posted to be hurtful and malicious. If her life was threatnened, it wasn’t by me. And if it went to that length, my husband must be pretty special to her for her to continue on.

    As I said before, you know nothing of me except her tainted view of it.

  150. Messy says:

    I have page 4 out of 4 up. It is post 121 thru 134… I can screen shot it if anyone wants it.

  151. Messy says:

    Peachy, who is Michelle?

  152. ora says:

    I smile because of them

  153. Messy says:

    I don’t know how much of it, but the thread is still there.

  154. flatcake says:

    Who made “I Smile Because Of Them” hall monitor? Doesn’t she post here? If anyone had screenshots that would be awesome!

  155. Messy says:

    #161 A lot of the thread is still there…

  156. TL says:

    143 Does it not make you want to just slap Sweet fantasy fox for being such an ass kisser? Lee’s an idiot (granted a some what intelligent idiot, as he’s some how got some of the less than smart mama’s on ds just to hand their money over to him, why the hell would you be a site supporter?), I don’t know why anyone would believe his BS lies. It must just be that all the “DS haters” are making up stories about the virus’ they get from ds, lol, seroiusly the guy’s a joke right?

  157. JustPeachy says:

    I call bullshit on lee and his stupid little attempt to cover it up. How weird is that a bunch of DS members keep coming up with this virus shit.

  158. theinvisible says:

    The sex change thread is still there (I think only one post was deleted but I don’t know which one). There was some conversation about another thread being reported and deleted when they were pointing out that the DS censors were off their game. I was curious if anyone knew of this other offensive thread….
    and once again Michelle, if you don’t like it don’t read it.

  159. 2dogs says:

    I guess Michelle complained about the GM ‘complaint of the day’ thread too. Another poof.

  160. 2dogs says:

    #165, the post is still there but they deleted several pages worth of posts.

  161. The ORIGINAL Just Me says:

    Whoa!! Damn I missed some serious drama! And wtf asks to be censored *rolls eyes*

  162. JustPeachy says:

    166 Thats how she rolls. Its really disgusts me that anyone would be in favor of censorship. Like we as women shouldn’t be able to choose what we want to read. I agree that if it turned into this huge thing then ya delete it but cmon there was like two pages of replies to that little blip. Thats really not much drama IMO.

  163. theinvisible says:

    several pages? ok I did miss something.

  164. ora says:


    Let’s be honest for a second. DS isn’t “censoring” the blog in this case, they’re protecting one of its members from defamation.

    And we’re not being censored, we’re being de-clawed. Sucks though.

  165. theinvisible says:

    I see, they deleted all the threads that dealt with this subject and named the other mom. Oh, well, damage done.

  166. not just another mama says:

    Wow.. This “I smile because of them” chick must really REALLLY want to be a mod… pathetic.

  167. naturalmamadot says:

    i have 15 screen shots but photobucket must hate ds drama, it is being stupid about uploading

  168. newhere says:

    “Many of the mothers here at DS know very little about PC’s, protecting them, and how to avoid the sneaky attacks. To these members I say: please do not automatically assume that DS is the cause of every problem.”

    Anyone else find Lee’s response a bit condescending and sexist?

  169. JustPeachy says:

    I did. I know enough about computer to know that this virus is coming from one of their many ads. I think its there way of trying to force the unsuspecting into buying site supporter status.

  170. ora says:

    Anyone else doubt that most DS mamas enjoy being treated like witless children?

  171. flatcake says:

    176. Totally. That reply is disgusting.

  172. JustPeachy says:

    #172 they are censoring DS. They have been for quite some time. Case in point why the fuck do you think I was banned????????? I spoke out against the censorship in a way I felt was appropriate and not so aggressive. I was asked to remove my avi which I complied but changed my title which got me banned.

  173. theinvisible says:

    I stumbled upon a GM revolt in TandF. “How do I do this-” I’m guessing this will not last long at all.

  174. naturalmamadot says:

    not really sexist but definitely condescending although, mostly true. he obviously has the majority down pat hence him being able to get away with allthis.

    ya know lee is really lucky he has a whole audience of gullible, stupid, ignorant, trusting moms who are too scared to just say fuck you and go to CDN or something.

    if everyone at once just said listen you either stop the censorship and virus problem or we leave he would encounter something he never has before, people with an opinion, a brain, respect for themselves and how they are treated. hm, crazy idea.

    He knows that between the ignorant ones and thes ones who beg for censorship he has the majority under his thumb. Every intellligent independent mom there could leave and he probaly wouldnt much care. In this world there are far more sheeples and he knows they will continue to frequent DS.

  175. ora says:

    It’s not your first amendment right to be a bitch.

  176. Messy says:

    OT: I just posted a copy of the latest JAR from a few minutes ago about GM over on the GM thread. For some reason it says my post (with the copy of the report) is awaiting moderation… ??? Can DSDM or whoever can, go approve it? I am never *first with info like this time ROFL!!!

  177. ora says:

    OK, I don’t know the details of your case. Maybe you got censored.

    But it’s not censorship to keep a bunch of harpies from tearing up another member based on a totally unsubstantiated claim. That’s (potentially) libel.

  178. Messy says:

    #183 WHT are you talking about/to?

  179. Messy says:

    #185: You did not just call Peach a bitch in post #183??? Seriously…

  180. AshleyB says:

    #176, I built my damn PC. Literally, I even soddered part of that MFing beast! I find it INCREDIBLY offensive and sexist!

  181. ora says:

    I didn’t call Peach a bitch, chill out.

    I said that bitchy comments aren’t protected by the first amendment.

  182. JustPeachy says:

    You know what? I am a bitch and proudly so. If you don’t like it DON’T FUCKING READ WHAT I HAVE TO SAY! And harpies really??????? No one said anything derogatory other than the comment about the paternity of Amber’s baby.

  183. naturalmamadot says:

    lol glad i refreshed before I sent that last post…

  184. not me at all says:

    I really would like to know WHY DS is run by a MAN. Is he even a Dad?

  185. JustPeachy says:

    Yes actually they are. Its called the right to free speech dumb ass. It means I can have the freedom to speak my mind regardless of whether or not anyone else likes it.

  186. JustPeachy says:

    I don’t think Lee has any kids.

  187. Messy says:

    #189: That is NOT what you said! This is what you said: “It’s not your first amendment right to be a bitch.” Notice the TO BE A BITCH portion. You did not say “to say bitchy things” you said “to BE a bitch.” Big difference. So yeah, you called Peach a bitch. While she is fine with it, and offers you good advise to skip what you don’t like, I think it was rude and nasty.

  188. AshleyB says:

    OH…side note!! Tired of censorship? Go over to CDN!! No censorship, less ad’s, NO viruses & better smilies!

  189. JustPeachy says:

    And just an FYI I normally don’t like to resort to name calling but I truly cannot tolerate ignorance of any form. I’ve come a long way in a year haven’t I roflmbo.

  190. Messy says:

    #193 Yup! I don’t always like what other people have to say. But I like that they can say it! There are people that have given their lives to protect our right to speak as we please…

  191. theinvisible says:

    Actually bitchy comments are protected….so are racist commments and sexist comments. Stupid comments are too. Aren’t you lucky.

  192. MamaWatchingDrama says:

    Michelle…. I Smile Because Of Them… is a whiner. She always has been. I don’t see why this surprises anyone when it happens now.

  193. ora says:

    No one said you shouldn’t be proud to be a bitch. I’m not saying I’m not a bitch either. Being a bitch is fun sometimes. But it’s not protected by the goddamn constitution.

    I try not and pretend that my love for salacious gossip is anything more than bitchiness. And I have to roll my eyes when people get on their high horse about their right to gossip. Puh-leez.

  194. JustPeachy says:

    I would head to CDN. Unfortunately I have this addiction to the wooly thread right now. Its pretty much the only reason I go on DS anymore is for that thread alone. Note my post history 😉

  195. JustPeachy says:

    Who’s on their high horse now?

  196. ora says:

    Really? There are no limits to free speech?

    I didn’t realize I was posting among so many legal scholars.

    Whatever. You can’t just trash someone’s reputation in a public forum. And you definitely don’t have a right to in a non-public forum.

  197. naturalmamadot says:

    Michelle….is a stupid bitch who needs to shut her dirty mouth and move to china or something she could join the gov’t and help them out with the whole censoring the interwebz thing. Sounds like a job she was fucking born for….

  198. JustPeachy says:

    Who was trashing her reputation?????? If anything it was the mama who originally posted it. And its not considered slander/libel if its actually true which at this I am assuming its at least partly true as far as her having an intimate relationship with another woman’s husband.

  199. JustPeachy says:

    And I never said there were no limits but I highly doubt any of those limits extend to something as trivial as this.

  200. naturalmamadot says:

    well, if you dont want your reputation trashed on a forum you PROBABLY shouldnt fuck another members husband..just a though

  201. naturalmamadot says:


  202. Messy says:

    #208 LOL~!

  203. theinvisible says:

    Actually, the instance we have at hand is a potential case of libelous defamation, which the OP could be sued for, but only if the written facts cannot be proven to be true. As far as being bitchy, yep, once again, protected. Also, if one is worried about their reputation, one shouldn’t commit adultery.

  204. Messy says:

    Ora, if the words are true, then they are defamatory. To be slanderous, the words have have to be proved to both be untrue and to have been said with an intent to cause the other person financial hardship. Asking pointed questions and mentioning things she has posted, such as her post about being pregnant, is not harming her in a legal way. She might not like it; but if that is the case then she might want to keep herself from acting in a way that will bring these questions to light. What legal questions do you have?

  205. ora says:

    Um, yeah, the OP was trashing her reputation. Exactly. That’s my point.

    And libel is prosecutable unless and until the person who makes the charge substantiates the claim. Which she hasn’t.

    So while it sucks that we don’t get to swoop around poor Amber’s carcass anymore (on DS anyway) it’s really not something to get all indignant about.

  206. JustPeachy says:

    #211 very nicely put. I have said many times before but I suck at properly wording my thoughts and that was exactly the point I was trying to get across.

  207. JustPeachy says:

    No one was swooping you idiot. Seriously re read the posts and all posts were addressed to mranger expressing sympathy to her plight. Its not like ppl were posting OMG YOU SKANKY HOR or some bullshit.

  208. Catalina76 says:

    And then the post disappeared….. *LOL* Oh well……

  209. Messy says:

    #212 I forgot the big NOT in the middle of my first sentence @@ “Ora, if the words are true, then they are NOT NOT NOT defamatory” Sorry!

  210. ora says:

    Really? Just a lot of *really* sincere cyber-hugs?

    Not what I saw.

  211. Messy says:

    #213 Nope. The burden of proof is on the person crying that they are being dafamed. They have to prove that the words are untrue and that they caused them harm. Neither of which has Amber done.

  212. JustPeachy says:

    How do you know they were not sincere??????

  213. ora says:

    OK, look, it depends on the state. Generally, yes, the burden of proof is on the plantiff. But when the allegation has to do with adultery, say, the plantiff can win damages *even if the allegation is true* and s/he doesn’t have to prove anything with regard to actual damages. The same goes for certain other forms of libel, but the details vary according to state statute.

    But this whole conversation is pointless since we all agreed to the terms and conditions of using DS which include being nice.

    So, again, for like the fifteenth time, it sucks to be nice when you’re lusting after the details of someone’s sordid private life. But your rights are hardly being violated and using that language is a bit ridiculous — and smacks of the righteous indignation found ALL OVER ds. Get over it.

  214. not just another mama says:

    Gosh.. DS is just full of sluts, narcs & the computer illiterate. I should stop going there.. 😉

  215. JustPeachy says:

    Wasn’t lusting. I left her an open invitation to share if she felt comfortable. I wouldn’t have reposted saying OMG YOU HAVE TO TELL US if she hadn’t shared either.

  216. ora says:

    Wow, I’m so glad to have escaped the cliquishness and oh-my-piety of DS.

  217. Messy says:

    #221 You call someone here a bitch and then tell us to get over it??? Seriously…

  218. JustPeachy says:

    I never said they censored us but yes they did censor the original mama. Note that they banned her for simply stating that she was sick of Amber’s self righteousness.

  219. JustPeachy says:

    And FWIW I was responding in general that DS censors alot not speaking solely of this case.

  220. Messy says:

    Also #221, I am sure that the Supreme Court’s rulings in issues of libel set precedence for statutes. There are a lot of unconstitutional statutes; rarely are they upheld as the losing party seeks a higher form of authority. If a person is suing on the basis of being libeled, they have to prove the accusations/rumors to be untrue and unfounded. Then they have to have some sort of damage from the words that were spoken. As libel is civil not criminal.

  221. Kate says:

    Becasue it takes 4 weeks instead of 3 weeks they won’t fit my child. WTF

  222. ora says:

    Would this have been better?

    “It’s not one’s right to be a bitch.”

    Or maybe:

    “One does not have a right to be a bitch.”

    I’ll let you choose.

  223. JustPeachy says:

    But see then again you are mistaken. There is no law or rule written that says specifically one cannot be bitchy whenever one wants.

  224. Messy says:

    The term “to be a bitch” denotes calling someone a bitch. Period. If you had said “to say bitchy things,” for instance, then the word bitch is an adjectival. Both of your above offered changes still represent the same name calling constitution of your initial statement, where in you called Peach a bitch.

  225. JustPeachy says:

    Or furthermore a bitch. Show me a law that specifically states clearly and concisely and I will shut up about it 🙂

  226. naturalmamadot says:

    thats like saying its illegal to have an attitude or to be grumpy

  227. ora says:

    For real? You want to go check DS rules? Fine, but this is getting silly.

    Messy, you’re wrong on this one. Trust me. You won’t, clearly, so I’m going to let you pretend to win this one. Congratulations.

    And I don’t understand what you’re saying in 233. What does using a noun or adjective have to do with anything?

  228. ora says:

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  229. ora says:


    If it is proven that you are following a member around the board, harassing them in their posts, and just trying to make their time on DS miserable in general, this is taken very seriously and is a bannable offense.

  230. JustPeachy says:

    Eh I can’t find the TOU on DS so I could be mistaken. I really doubt that it says specifically to be nice.

  231. Messy says:

    #236 You would *love to know what I do IRL. I will let your ignorance of the law slide this time. There is no use trying to explain something to someone who already knows everything.

  232. hrm's mom says:

    230 that just makes no sense I mean why would she order diapers that her son would not fit in after he gained 3lbs. Buyers remorse or something like you said 1 more week is not going to kill her not to have her diapers! You certainly don’t spend a lot of money for semi custom diapers if they are only able to fit at the moment you pay for them.

    On another note she cannot spell either!

  233. ora says:

    Damn, you’re a lawyer? OK, you win. I was just making all that up. Really.

  234. Messy says:

    #236 If you cannot understand the difference in the usage of the verb “to be” and the usage of “bitchy” as an adjective, then there is nothing I can do to make it any easier for you. I will try though…
    Determined by the context of the sentence, “bitch” can go both ways: noun or verb. In the situations where you preface “bitch” with the verb “to be,” you are stating that the person is, in fact, a bitch. To say that they are “making a bitchy statement” you are using the term “bitch” in an adejecteval situation where it is complementing the subject of the sentence.
    Bitch = noun or verb
    Bitchy = adjective
    Easier now?

  235. ora says:


    Yes, actually I do understand the difference between a noun and an adjective. But thanks for the refresher.

    Hey Messy, you have a right to be a man in this country.

    Did I just call you a man? (Yup, “man” is a noun.)

  236. not me at all says:

    How is this craptastic response?

    Originally Posted by earthmamatobe View Post
    Okay I am not trying to be rude and I have not had a virus problem (I DO know how to protect MY computer) but that part seems VERY condescending and a little rude. What about DS Dads? Are they all pros?

    No ma’am. That wasn’t the intention at all. I did say many not all and in my history here and working with so many members of DS on a variety of tech issues over the past 3 years, I know the general audience here pretty well. In the end it doesn’t matter how many pros we have here, that is not what is being addressed. Please keep any unrelated comments to PMs. This thread is not the place. Thank you for reading, listening, and complying.

  237. Messy says:

    #244 I have the right to be a MAN in this country? WTH? I don’t get it…

  238. not me at all says:

    and WHAT is up with Lee’s AVI?

  239. hrm's mom says:

    245 how was that unrelated??

  240. ora says:

    It was an example.

  241. cheesewhiz says:

    #244 – OMG – Messy has the right to be a MAN??? How SCANDALOUS! :rollseyes: Sounds like someone is a drama whore.

    Carry on.

  242. Messy says:

    #244 Never mind my initial response to your statement. I have the right to be a man. Ok. You are under the impression that all nouns produce the same sentence. Prescriptive grammar dictates that the sentence make sense. You can’t just slide any noun into another noun’s spot and get the same contextual sentence. Yes, in the USA, I have the right to be”come” a man. It is become because I am not a man. We could make up all kinds of ungrammatical nonsensical sentences all day long to appease you if the need be.

  243. ora says:

    Are you for real?

  244. Messy says:

    Ok, since I can be a man, can I have a huge long yellow dong like Cheesewhiz? Otherwise, I am just not interested! :::nose in air:::

  245. cheesewhiz says:

    LOL Check out this reponse to LEE:


    Right on, mama! 🙂

  246. Messy says:

    #252 No, I am not real. I am a figment of your imagination. Now, be a dear and imagine me with a bigger yellow dong than Cheesewhizes. She is giving me a complex with her well hung monster…

  247. Messy says:


  248. not me at all says:

    248 WHAT?

  249. ora says:

    OK, last try:

    If I say to, oh I don’t know, my postman “Hey Mr. Postman! Did you know that in this country you have the right to be an X (I’ll let you fill in the X with a word of your choosing… let’s use bitch, shall we?)” it doesn’t mean I was calling my postman a bitch.

    And you can even change the sentence to “Hey Mr. Postman! Did you know that in this country you DON’T have the right to be an X (let’s say, bitch)” and I’m STILL not calling my postman a bitch.

    So let’s hear some lame comments about postmen and some really-fancy-but-makes-no-sense language and be done with it.

  250. 2dogs says:

    Good grief Messy, what do you think those sexy horns on your head are for?

  251. ora says:

    Dong accepted.

  252. eeek says:

    theinvisible Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 6:27 pm

    Actually bitchy comments are protected….so are racist commments and sexist comments. Stupid comments are too. Aren’t you lucky.
    ora Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 7:25 pm

    Damn, you’re a lawyer? OK, you win. I was just making all that up. Really.

    Yes, you are just making up new parts of the constitution. Fucking amazing, that, never knew they let trolls on the internet create the framework for law in our country.

    We must stop answering the little twunt, she’s obviously a troll talking out of her ass to piss people off. Call peachy a bitch here. hmmmph. You should be ashamed.

  253. cheesewhiz says:

    #259 – Yes, you has TWO, I only has ONE.

  254. cheesewhiz says:

    I think I am about to get a strike…hehe 😉

  255. Messy says:

    You think my reponses to you are really fancy? :::taking a bow::: But, you will find, they do make sense. They are worded in a way to make them easier to understand in the context of the situation you are wanting to use the verb “to be” with the noun “bitch.” Some of what you are describing is contextually using bitch as a verb. Again, that can be different. I am not sure that I am following your discourse regarding the way you want to use the word.

  256. 2dogs says:

    #254 countdown until that goes poof, too and Lee issues a strike with his ‘I-wanna-be-like-cheesewhiz’ dong. 5…..4…..3…..

  257. Messy says:

    #262 Seriously, look at my monster… Does she look like she gets much ass? The best part of her is those octolips. If I had a big yellow dong like yours, I could keep *myself happy!

  258. Messy says:

    Where is Cheesewhiz misbehaving at? Link me before it implodes!!!

  259. cheesewhiz says:

    #254 – Yeah, shouldn’t be long till it is gone, I think its great though. Lee is SO lame. And I don’t get his avi either…

  260. mf says:

    Woah now. So even if she did call Peach a bitch, does it matter? Peach said she’s a bitch and proud, so who cares? Don’t we all throw the big bad B word around this place all the time? As much as I think Peach and Messy are both pretty entertaining, this blog would get pretty boring if it became as clique-y as DS. More opinions make it more interesting. As much as I think it kind of sucks, I agree with Ora. And even if noones rights were being infringed on, it’s still not like it’s some kind of surprise that they edited the thread, we all new it was coming.

  261. ora says:

    Hmmm. *I’m* the troll?

    And I’m “discoursing” too?

    Guess we know who’s already in the club.

  262. Messy says:

    I am not clique-y with anyone here nor on DS.

  263. cheesewhiz says:

    #267 – THAT was so stupid…I just posted applauding the other mama for speaking the truth and my post was deleted…no doubt by Lee.

  264. Messy says:

    #270 :::sigh::: “Discourse” is not name calling. The word “discourse” means conversation. “Discoursing” would be communicating or conversating. It is not a derogatory term.
    I am not in any club. I do know to use the English language.

  265. JustPeachy says:

    Neither am I. I do respect what most everyone has to say but as much as I love it here I am not here to make friends. I am here to speak my mind and I know that alot of ppl don’t like what I have said in the past but this is an outlet for me.

  266. naturalmamadot says:

    he explained somewhere that his avi is of his duaghter kissing the hamster they just got

  267. naturalmamadot says:

    I love how he didnt delete the main post just the one supporting it haha, maybe he is gonna try and make it look like no one agrees by leaving the post but deleting anything supporting her?

  268. Stacey says:

    I feel like I’ve just watched an episode of Jerry Springer goes to People’s Court.

  269. Messy says:

    #278 ROFLMAO!

  270. Stacey says:


    Messy Says:
    March 5, 2009 at 1:40 am

    ” If my dh cheated on me, he would get a sex change probono with a dull spoon…”

    Hilarious. I’ll hold him down for you 😉

  271. eb says:

    #278 Awesome.

  272. Messy says:

    #280 You will be the first one I call if dh ever steps out on me! That said, I think it took a lot of bravery for mranger to go and throw her issues out there in the open. Nobody wants to admit they are being cheated on. Nobody wants to tell others that they were snookered by a woman they thought was their friend and that their husband likes her so much he is sneaking around to see her. That, in and of itself, it painful. I think she did the right thing in confronting her in possibly the only way she could, which was publically online. It took a lot for that mama to get it out there. On the other hand, Amber then changes her September posting about expecting. That was odd. And ignored the insinuations and accusations. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see who took which road and why.

  273. ora says:

    Yeah, Amber’s definitely guilty. I mean, she didn’t defend herself on DIAPERSWAPPERS!!!!

    If you aren’t willing to throw down on, let me say it again, **DIAPERSWAPPERS** you must be a skanky ho.

  274. theinvisible says:

    It’s nice that Amber has one friend…….

  275. Messy says:

    #283 Amber acknowledged the thread by going to her September due date board and editing her information. She changed it to not show the day of the month she was due on. Why? Doe that date coorespond directly with a date that she spent time with mranger’s husband? She surely makes it appear that way! She did not want the information out there. I never one single time said she was a ho. How do I know if she was paid by mranger’s husband, thus making her a skanky hooker; or if she was not paid thus making her a sneaky slut? I have no idea, so I did not comment either way…

  276. Messy says:

    *correspond (from here on out, pardon my typos, I have some help at the moment!)

  277. KAL says:

    #25! That was my response if I would have been here like yesterday!

  278. naturalmamadot says:

    mm cinnamon rolls

  279. The Annoyed one says:

    What is all this bitch talk???? lay off! we want amber!!!

  280. not just another mama says:

    oh hell no.. cinnamon rolls?! wtf.. I need one NOW.

  281. naturalmamadot says:

    haha, a few left..Ill email one to you

  282. BffMama says:


  283. Laura says:

    292. Please tell me that this is a joke and someone isn’t really paying $250+ for that crap!

  284. not just another mama says:

    What.. Am I reading that right.. The highest bid is $246?! Is that a joke?.. Someone is going to really pay that much?

  285. cheesewhiz says:

    I think the bidders must be in on it. Everytime I click refresh, it jumps about $10.

  286. cheesewhiz says:

    Yeah, going for over $500 now…it HAS to be a joke.

  287. not just another mama says:

    Oh my gosh.. haha.. This is like the best thing ever..

  288. cheesewhiz says:

    #298 – ITA – I can’t tear myself away from hitting refresh…LOL!!!

  289. just another lurker says:

    All I can say is that rocks! I love the description. LMAO

  290. JustPeachy says:

    I was just coming to post that ROFLMBO

  291. just another lurker says:

    It should be up to a grand in a few minutes.

  292. naturalmamadot says:


  293. itsraininghere says:

    the bids can’t be real though, right? i mean, it’s over $1000 now. . .

  294. BffMama says:

    that is so freaking priceless.

  295. not just another mama says:

    hahaha rofl

  296. Kate says:

    Holy Sheep it is 4025.00!

  297. Messy says:

    I have to check our budget to see if I can afford the current nearly $5K bid on said POS GM! I wonder if it comes with her talking down to me, like I am a stupid twatwaffle, and acting like I have never seen a cloth diaper before? Will she make me feel dumb for asking questions? I *need it to be a real GM experience, with some real GM CS to go with it for me to be able to shell out 5K for it… Just sayin’!!!

  298. Messy says:

    Ok, and the second JAR on GM TODAY is in my email box! That is what? Three? In the past 2 days!!!

  299. itsraininghere says:

    lmao messy

  300. Messy says:

    It is at over $100,000!!! That is some diaper! I wonder if they found it by searching the tags for bad snaps? ROFLMAO! Who ever thought up this auction, in the midst of GM’s current JAR crisis is awesome!!! TOO FUNNY!!!

  301. Kris says:

    Current bid: $77802.00

  302. just another lurker says:

    I was going to bid, but when it hit $10,000 I had to say no way. (DH won’t let me sell the car, what a meanie)

  303. Kate says:

    forty thousand dollars ROFLMAO

  304. Messy says:

    It is at over $500,025 now! I wonder if shipping is included?

  305. Kris says:

    For that price you should get a laundress to wash it, too! ROFL

  306. Kate says:

    just hit a million

  307. Messy says:

    The auction is on until March 8th… Wonder if they will leave it up ROFLMAO!

  308. cheesewhiz says:

    #315 – Not included, but it is $2.50, which is a GREAT deal, “since new shipping would cost you 4.11 for a temp to ship it while the GM employees are on the internet all day.” – ROFLMBO!!!!

  309. Messy says:

    #316 For that price, I expect it to come with Kid Rock wearing it…

  310. Erin says:

    #292. LMAO That’s totally awesome. I hope Sooz reads that!

    Ora- the only one *really* being a bitch here is you, but thanks for the drama!

  311. naturalmamadot says:

    this is fun, brightened my night since I was totally crashing from those cinnamon rolls earlier….

  312. naturalmamadot says:

    Someone should email the listing to GM customer service hahaha, only if they couldnt get it taken down that wouldnt be any fun

  313. Kate says:

    I don’t think they can get it taken down. For what reason? LOL
    Telling the truth

  314. Messy says:

    It is at $18,675,600! An 18 million dollar diaper!

  315. Kate says:

    Now it is 2 mil. How high can you bid on HC????

  316. JustPeachy says:

    Screw Kid Rock. Fucking I would want Orlando Bloom or Johnny Depp wearing it for that price.

  317. not just another mama says:

    Its actually 20+ million

  318. Kate says:

    Orlando Bloom drool……or Vin Diesel

  319. Kate says:

    Correction 6+ million

  320. Kate says:

    sorry 66 million forgot a 6

  321. Messy says:

    It is at over 100 million ROFL!

  322. Messy says:

    Oh Gawd! Yes. Johnny Depp can come in that diaper literally, figuratively, and any way he wants to 😉 I still want Kid Rock accompanying the diaper. He can be my snap boy!

  323. JustPeachy says:

    I really hope this is a joke otherwise Im going to feel terrible for bidding on it LOL.

  324. JustPeachy says:

    Or Josh Holloway. Fucking gorgeousssssssssss!
    And that would be moi. I just hit a 5 with a bunch of zeros so who knows what my proxy is.

  325. ArmiMommi says:

    roflmbo, I am so glad to see some mommas finally standing up to GM. I personally never got into fitteds, and I think my DH would cheat on me WITH a diaper I spent that kind of money on! (just a joke, for all the ppl out there w/ no sense of humor, lol)

  326. JustPeachy says:

    You are the current high bidder on this auction and your maximum bid is $50000000000000000000000000.00. You can raise your proxy bid without affecting the current bid by typing in a new proxy.

  327. ArmiMommi says:

    Ohhh, Peach, so now I know who you are on HC!!! hehehe!!

  328. Kate says:

    Hmmm I see it at 1 billion at the moment

  329. JustPeachy says:

    Shhhhhhh dont let it out. I dont need ppl harassing me about buying a 5000000000000000000000 dollar diaper 😛
    I may have to sell the house, the cars, and the kids but at least I will have my gm to keep me company ROFL.
    I wonder if it was meant to be sold and then the gm fangirls took it upon themselves to be assholes? I seriously hope not because then I will feel like an ass for participating in it.

  330. Messy says:

    Ok, if the numbers get big (long) enough, will they take up 2 lines? Isn’t anyone going to outbid Peachy???

  331. JustPeachy says:

    I dont even know how many zeros I entered and Im too lazy to count LOL.

  332. ArmiMommi says:

    lol Peach. maybe I will post a super-bitchy thread on DS saying how you have way too much money to spend on GMs and how you should be donating your billions to charity…. hehehe

  333. eb says:

    This has been too much fun….ROFL
    I saw it earlier and had no idea it was joke. It was $250 then….

  334. 2dogs says:

    #308…OMG….TWATWAFFLE….hahahahahahahha *snort* shit I can barely breathe much less type I’m laughing so hard….

  335. Messy says:

    Somebody bid it a few zeros higher so I can see if it will take up two lines ROFL! 😛

  336. Laura says:

    I missed the last couple of pages of the thread about contacting the BBB about GM’s…I was right in the middle of reading and it’s gone. Anyone catch the last part of that thread?

  337. siriusmama says:

    #340, it was meant to be a statement, don’t feel bad 🙂

  338. siriusmama says:

    Aww look, my monster loves you lol.

  339. Roxyrocks says:

    I was gone most of the day befriending my friends husbands and I finally got on DS too find Lee had deleted my post about the Malware….did my donuts post really irk him that bad?

    Also did they delete the thread? I am no longer able to access it! I can’t believe they banned mranger I hope someone told her about CDN?

    Oh, and DH said we could take out a 2nd mortage to get the GM railroad

  340. StacEy says:

    ack, it looks like the auction went poof! Any screen shots?

  341. Erin says:

    #345- thanks for posting that link. I’m so happy she could a picture like that, side by side so you can really see how bad the snaps are. GM is sooo stupid. That diaper should’ve been sold as a second!

  342. Erin says:

    Oops, “could” should be “took”. I think I left my brain somewhere else today.

  343. Erin says:

    Dangit! LMAO, Peach. I think you killed the auction! How high was it when they pulled it?

  344. Erin says:

    My monster looks like he’s Walking like an Egyptian with a Huge Yellow Dong.

  345. ScorpioGrrl75 says:

    I think you can still see the original listing here:

    (I’m assuming this is the listing on Spots…)

  346. ScorpioGrrl75 says:

    Woohoo! My monster has a yellow dong AND crab claws!

  347. cheesewhiz says:

    I see I started a dong trend…

  348. cheesewhiz says:

    So who here bid on the GM Railroad? *raises hand* tee hee

  349. firefoxrocks says:

    Thanks #357 for the link. That was great!

  350. notyourmama says:

    oh man. I didn’t get to bid. Do I not get the tshirt now?

  351. AshleyB says:

    #351…I love GM Railroad!! Are we playing Monopoly now?

  352. AshleyB says:

    OH…and I bid on it…but was terribly upset as I bid 18675309…and it rounded 😦 I was trying to bid the song 867-5309

  353. JustPeachy says:

    I killed the auction with my massive amount of zeros apparently LOL. Thanks for being a good sport amcantazero 🙂

  354. naturalmamadot says:

    haha auction killer!

  355. AshleyB says:

    BTW…if anyone wants to sell one of the seconds GM’s…I’ll pay up to $13ppd for one (since there are snap & size issues)!

  356. JustPeachy says:

    Damn! I didnt even win it either! I just checked my email and someone outbid me. I didnt think I would get outbid before it got removed LOL.

  357. momofdivas says:

    I wish Lee would pull his head out of his ass. He’s such a condescending prick,always blaming everyone(those DS haters) else for his fuck ups.

  358. Erin says:

    momofdivas, your monster’s tongue scares me!

  359. screenname says:

    That Spots listing made my day! Best listing ever! Even better than that lady that posted her nasty dirty diapers for close to retail.

  360. Booyah says:

    Lee can kiss my white Irish ass and lick the shit stains off my taint while he’s down there. I am not some stupid housewife vegging at the computer all day cluttering it up with crap. I know how the fuck to keep my PC clean. I have several excellent virus/spyware protection programs and I regularly run cleanups to keep the gunk off my drive. I have been using this PC for 2 years now and NEVER had a virus. I can probably count the times I’ve had spyware on one hand. My protection system is THAT GOOD.

    And yet, Lee’s fucking INTERNET HERPES came through and bit me. Don’t even fucking tell me it was somewhere else. The only places I go other than DS are Blogger, CDN, Ebay, and Yahoo Mail. Oh wait, I must have accidentally bid on a virus on Ebay because I’m THAT FUCKING STUPID according to Lee Dodd. FUCK YOU LEE. It was your goddamn hepatitis-infected bullshit site and I fucking know it. Don’t treat me like some dumb little girl.

    I officially wash my hands of that site. I don’t even buy diapers anymore anyway, and if I need to, I can go to CDN. At least I won’t get assraped with cyber-AIDs there!

  361. eb says:

    Does anyone know what to do to get an account activated at cdn? I signed up a few days ago and I still I am not able to do anything…not even send a pm to ask about it…

  362. eb says:

    It looks like my monster just took a poo…

  363. ArmiMommi says:

    I totally agree with booyah, adn I would be done with DS as well if I wasn’t being held hostage there by a coop that I am in that, in my mind (and several others), has taken way to long with minimal communication from the vendor. (Not the momma running the coop, she’s been as responsive as possible)! I found that post from Lee yesterday to be the most condescening, offensive thing I have ready from a “business owner” to his CUSTOMERS! Imagine if you went to Target to complain about buying something there that damaged something else you own even though you used it properly, and then being told “you have no idea what you were doing, now run along little lady, don’t you have dinner to cook and floors to clean?” I have taken his comment in the exact same way, and once I get what I am waiting for, Lee and all his mod-nazis can kiss my butt…

  364. Monkey says:

    God… I really have gotten to the point that I’m about ready to go out in a blaze of glory on DS.

    I don’t use FSOT all that often… but I do use it. I only go there for FSOT, I do everything else at CDN because it ROCKS!

    Lee’s seriously douche message about the viruses just put a giant knot in my panties and it’s creeping it’s way up my ass.

  365. JustPeachy says:

    I think Lee should publicly apologize and explain why the hell he thinks that just because we are mothers we are stupid and have no clue what we are doing.
    Contrary to what he thinks some of us do know what we are doing computer wise.

  366. AshleyB says:

    #376…which co-op? I want to know who NOT to order from!! Yikes! ANYWAY…has anyone noticed what RoxyRock’s avitar is? Or the one for mikoto127? Everyone should change their avi’s to that (the cartoon trojan on a computer…that says “Warning: there is a trojan on your computer”

  367. A Mom says:

    eb: If you’re still having problems getting into CDN, use the Contact page to let us know. I don’t see anything in the queue right now that anyone needs to be approved.

    Or you can post here what your UN there is that you signed up with and I’ll go see what’s up with it.

    CDN Rocks. Our FSOT will rival DS’s if y’all come over and post your stuff!

  368. naturalmamadot says:

    i posted my stuff on CDN then got sick and didnt bump and stuff and they were so nice to email me to ask if I was done with it so I could repost before they put the original post in sold/traded/gone.

    I reposted and the person that emailed me SAID she saw it, but I couldnt find it and it wasnt in my User CP lol so I think I have to post it again but thats my fault lol

  369. A Mom says:

    #382: What’s your UN on CDN and what were you selling. I’ll find it/them and bump it for you or put it back.

  370. Booyah says:

    Yes, everyone needs to come beef up CDN’s FSOT! Then you won’t need DS’s anymore! Then you can get yuor intelligent, fun chat AND your fluff all in one place!

  371. Megan says:

    I know a bit about computers, though admittedly, my hubby is the computer science major, and there’re a couple seemingly simple things I am clueless about: How do I take a screen shot? I just posted to the MALWARE thread, and Lee came back at me, saying, essentially, how dare I accuse his site of giving my computer worms without sending him a screen shot of my virus software notifying me that the comp is being attacked while I’m on DS. (Where’s the eye-rolling emoticon?)
    So yeah… any help? I’m bit ignorant on this one.

  372. ArmiMommi says:

    #380, what’s your email and I will fill you in, I don’t want to “out” myself too much and rish losing my money, since I am already outside of the 45 day filing period

  373. naturalmamadot says:

    #383 ~Natural Mama~

  374. naturalmamadot says:

    oh and it was a post with patooshie pants first I do believe, probably my only fsot post lol

  375. naturalmamadot says:

    oh and screen shot…not sure about Macs but on PCs there is a button above the arrow keys, above the home key att the very top of your keyboard tht says “print screen” you push that and it takes the screen shot. Then you can paste it in paint and save it.

  376. naturalmamadot says:

    A Mom Says:
    March 6, 2009 at 5:16 pm

    #382: What’s your UN on CDN and what were you selling. I’ll find it/them and bump it for you or put it back.
    not sure if you fixed it or if it just took a while to appear but its in my user CP now, thanks either way

  377. tntdynomite says:

    I am in the same coop on DS and I am growing very concerned that we all have been had.

  378. StacEy says:

    On a Mac:

    Open Grab, located in the Utilities folder in the Applications folder.

    Choose Capture > Window.

    When the Window Grab dialog opens, make any changes to the window you want to take a picture of, then click Choose Window.

    Then File > Save as….

    Click the window you want to capture.

  379. StacEy says:

    oops, “Then File > Save as…” should have been the very last step.

  380. DSDM2 says:

    email me the co-op info and all proof please. dsdramamama2@hotmail.com

  381. ArmiMommi says:

    the heck with it, it is the Clear Hills Honey co-op, which was shocking to me, since I had heard nothing but amazing things about Carmela. I understand she has some other issues going on, but I am just concerned that the person running the co-op is going to hit outside the 45 day window and not be able to file w/ PP…

  382. naturalmamadot says:

    mm i got a bunch of samples from clear hills honey with another companies order and I LOVED everything. I really hope everythign gets worked out with this!!!!

  383. itsraininghere says:

    is it too late to drop?

    i’m not heading back to ds to do my own research, lol.

  384. ArmiMommi says:

    i think it’s too late to drop since the order is technically on it’s way to us ( i suppose)

  385. itsraininghere says:

    wow. i hope it actually gets to you.

  386. tntdynomite says:

    I to hope we recieve our orders! I was so excited back in Jan when I put in my order. The thing that bothers me is when ever I raise questions about it to the hostess she keeps saying “oh, no worries we are still in the 45 day window” but that window is quickly closing and now we are hearing medical reasons why things are held up. I have been a long time lurker on this thread and have learned that generally when medical issues start coming up things end up going south fast!

  387. Booga says:

    Yes Carm has been having a hard time with her pregnancy, but I would eat my son’s mud crusted pants if she doesn’t follow through. I had a trade with her recently and she was running late but I got everything + extras. I’m not upset at all b/c I’ve worked with her a lot and never been disappointed. She has a great reputation, and I’m very sure she will follow through, albeit late.

  388. JustPeachy says:

    I definitely would not worry about Carmela not coming through. I have bought from her quite a few times before and her CS is stellar.

  389. Nosy Nelly says:

    Someone had suggested on another thread on ds. Get Carmella to refund the hostess, and then just repay her. Starts the 45 days all over again. HTH!

  390. Megan says:

    I had a transaction with Clear Hills Honey back in November that stretched into December, and it was not good at all. The products were great. I loved them- once I got them! It took just about three weeks, when I paid for Priority to be sure they made it by Christmas (they were mostly gifts)! After two weeks, I emailed, asking if there was a DC#, because I was afraid things had been lost in the holiday mail. Her answer: she’d have to check, but she was pretty sure my order hadn’t been shipped yet. I ALMOST wouldn’t have been mad, except that I had recieved an email the day I ordered, saying it would be shipped in 3-4 business days. Two days later, I recieved an email saying my order had shipped, and she had included “A little something extra,” to make up for the wait. No, the extra lip balm DID NOT make up for getting my order on Christmas Eve when I ordered it on Black Friday, nor did her excuse that she’s pregnant make me feel too much better about the whole ordeal- I had a newborn and a less-than-two-year-old at the time, and was still managing my cart. What made me even more :yuck: about the whole thing, was that she stocked her cart twice before she got around to shipping my in-stock order. IMO, good business sense is to be sure all my orders are shipped and not just sitting for weeks before stocking my store again.
    I never thought the transaction deserved a JAR or anything, I simply left appropriate feedback, and found a new WAHM to buy the same type of items from.

  391. tntdynomite says:

    Yeah, call me Nellie Negative but, I am thinking this is going to get worse before it gets better. I still have hope that we will get our stuff……eventually.

  392. Messy says:

    And a JAR revives the old “stolen pic” discussion! Looks like the mad mama was in it a little more than she wanted to let on:

    I am Casey Cecile, the owner of Bebe Wamu.

    Ms. Rossman is a former employee of mine and since our business ties were cut in September of 2008, she has been defaming my personal character as well as my business reputation.

    Ms. Rossman is also the owner of a fellow wahm business entitled Diaper Sewing Mamas and selling on diaperswappers as Emma and Natalie’s Mommy, so her slanderous acusations have underlying motives. If anyone would like further details please feel free to contact me at Casey@bebewamu.com

    Also, Ms. Rossman, I have yet to this date (3/6/09) recieved anything from an/your attorney. However, please feel free to have him/her send whatever it is that you would like for me to recieve to my address, as my attorney would like to review it.

    — In JuicyAppleReport@yahoogroups.com, “Erika” wrote:
    > Name of business: Bebewamy
    > Name of business owner/buyer/trader(first and last): Casey Cecile
    > E-mail address: casey@…
    > eBay user ID: N/A
    > Date ordered: N/A
    > Products/services purchased: N/A
    > Price paid: N/A
    > Estimated turn around time: N/A
    > Actual turn around time: n/a
    > Was product as expected? n/a
    > If not why? n/a
    > Casey has been, and still is using pictures of my daughter on her
    > webpage without a release form. Not only that but i have contacted
    > her several times, including a letter from my lawyer via registered
    > mail, telling her to remove the pictures from her webpage. She has
    > instead made them bigger, and has added them on different pages of
    > her webpage, and even had the guts to write bebewamu across them. I
    > have had to hire a lawyer and am in the process of taking her to
    > court to get the pictures removed from her webpage.
    > Did you contact the person about the problem(s)? Yes, several times
    > via phone, e-mail and registered mail. all of which goes unanswered.
    > If so, how did they attempt to resolve? she did not, she instead
    > added the pictures on other parts of her webpage.
    > Would you do business with again? NO WAY, she is a childish person,
    > clearly shown by her behavior in this manner.
    > Today’s date: Febuary 9th 2008 (this started back in December, but i
    > have been dealing with a death in the family)

  393. Messy says:

    DSDM!!! I just posted a jar report but was logged in!!! It will have a different name on it! “Messy” was taken when I joined 😦 Anyhow, it is ME… My icon 🙂 Woohoo because I wondered if I could keep it if I used the name I joined with LOL!!! But please put “Messy” as the author or at least with a slash. I always want credit for what I say ROFL!

  394. momofdivas says:

    I did post a screenshot of the Malware on that thread.I’m sure however Lee will again deny it came from there though.

  395. Kitty says:


    looks like someone isnt happy with the JARs filed recently LOL

  396. Messy says:

    Today’s last two JARs are STUPID AS HELL! The two dumbasses are bickering in JAR reports so I guess that does not mean it is direct contact between the two. Oh well, I guess their *in*direct contact will result in us all getting their crabs…
    If they want to come here and talk it out, I am all for it. I don’t want my email box turning into their boxing ring or STD fest or what ever these two are into…

  397. Messy says:

    DSDM2, can you post the two or even the three most recent JARs to open a thread for them… Then lets invite them to come and bicker and do it all *here!

  398. DSDM2 says:

    there already is a thread about it. The “filer” is a bitch.

  399. me me me says:

    163-“as he’s some how got some of the less than smart mama’s on ds just to hand their money over to him, why the hell would you be a site supporter?),”

    Or they got it for free in exchange for putting a DS link on their WAHM website. Shot, bigger avi, no ads and a tittle in exchange for burring a DS link at the very bottom of my website, worth it. rofl

  400. me me me says:

    164-The virus/malware etc are for sure still there. Even with site supporter my antivitus pops up at least once every 15 seconds the whole time I am on DS. I couldn’t possibly count the number of attempted attacks against my computer in the 10 minus I might spend there a day.

  401. me me me says:

    up to post 231 and so far my question is….

    Since when is being a bitch a bad thing????

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