Do not talk about the penis!

Posted: June 3, 2008 by THE Drama Mama in Uncategorized
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Almost everyone on DS has some love for the penis, or at least for the bodily function it provides, but the penis gets no love from DS.

It’s a simple question by Zavyirsdaddy:

Today, 07:55 AM #1 Report Post
zavyirsdaddy vbmenu_register(“postmenu_3753001”, true);

Are you offended by…

this image?
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So, is JuanM offended by the penis? Maybe he’s not such a proud owner? :hide:

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Comments
  1. cassie says:

    OMFG that is hilarious. i love it. zavier’s daddy is pretty awesome anyway.

  2. DSDM2 says:

    LOL! I missed that!

  3. just me says:

    I was about to C&P the whole thread but Juan deleted it too quickly, sorry Momma’s. I’m going to look and see if auto cached though.

  4. Sarah says:

    I voted on that poll before it went poof. Man, people are so quick to get offended on DS! This isn’t the first time that people have gotten all upset by one of his avis. Meanies with nothing better to do! Blah

  5. Sarah says:

    Speaking of Juan, gotta love how he now calls himself the “AD”min in his user title. I always knew that all Lee and his cronies cared about was how much money DS brings them….now they’re not even trying to pretend otherwise.

  6. sara says:

    I think its a great icon.

    haven’t each of us on DS enjoyed the peen at one time or another. IF not how did we get the babes?

  7. Like Whoa says:

    i don’t think Juan has an issue with the penis… maybe he just has an issue with the transgendered among us…

  8. sara says:

    “maybe he just has an issue with the transgendered among us…”

    Thats too bad if thats a the reason. boo 😦

  9. Christine says:

    When I saw the new rule posted about Avis, I new it was Zavyirsdaddy it was referring to.

    Is this the thread that JeDeeLenae asked if it could just be moved to Sensitive Subjects? I missed the thread that her question was referring to in Ask the Pros. I was hoping that the mystery would be solved here. Is this what it was about?

  10. MatildasMum says:

    That thread was seriously deleted? That cracks me UP!!

    I know there are many who have hard-ons for Juan, but my guess is that it was complained about by MANY of the uptight DSers – his balls were probably in a vice grip.

    Just a hunch.

  11. JeDeeLenae says:

    Yeah, I was trying to get it moved rather than just deleted, but I didn’t even get an answer, they just deleted it. It wasn’t that bad. He said he “possesses a few” and then it was shut down. I guess the implication of owning penii like items was too much.

  12. pen15 says:

    i don’t see what’s offensive about it. the thing doesn’t have a boner. is it just the word penis that’s offensive? or is it the fact that zavyirsdaddy is a proud owner of one? juan must be jealous!

  13. just me's gf says:

    “Is this the thread that JeDeeLenae asked if it could just be moved to Sensitive Subjects? I missed the thread that her question was referring to in Ask the Pros. I was hoping that the mystery would be solved here. Is this what it was about?”

    yep, that would be the one

  14. agraced says:

    I thought it was funny..didn’t know they deleted it. hmmmm

  15. mom3divas says:

    DS is like a bad train wreak,you know you shouldn’t look but you can’t help it.

  16. just me says:

    Why is someone using my username?
    I don’t get why people get all up in arms over stuff like that. It’s sort of pointles.

  17. not tellin says:

    oh goodness, obviously they have nothing to do but delete threads, ugh. i think someone needs to remind a lot of ds mamas that just because they dont like the GLBT community doesnt mean they dont exist!

  18. Mommyk8 says:

    Wow the only thing I can think of it that googles ads or whatever could take the word penis and start bringing in some unfamily friendly ads. No reason to delete it though.

  19. That Daddy says:

    “Why is someone using my username?”

    Sorry, didn’t realize it was in use momma!

  20. Nicki says:

    say it with me: penis, penis, penis. Vagina, vagina, vagina. Jeebus, they’re just body parts.

  21. maree9304 says:

    I like penis.

  22. sassy1 says:

    omg I missed that one, darn that they deleted it, but typical.

    I’m always up for some good penis talk.

    beans and franks!

  23. Mindi says:

    There was nothing wrong with his avatar and I spoke up about it but still lost in the long run. There were much MUCH worse ones that he tried to put on but I talked him out of it. Now he has a strike for putting up a different avatar. I dont think they will even be happy with what he uses.

  24. Michelle says:

    So there’s this other mama on DS, her avi says “Proud Owner of a Vagina”. I wonder if they’ll make her remove her avi as well.

  25. Mindi says:

    Her’s was removed last time I looked.

  26. Michelle says:

    I see that, it only makes sense. I think it’s ridiculous that they care sooooo much about Nick. It’s stupid.

  27. Mindi says:

    I totally agree. I think he has become a target on ds and no matter what he does or says someone is going to bitch and complain about it.

  28. maree9304 says:

    And that sucks, Mindi and it really pisses me off that so many people have such a problem with him. They need to grow the fuck up and realize that we can’t all be the same.

  29. Mindi says:

    The problem is, is that the people that do have issues are the ones that won’t say it publicly, they will only do it behind closed doors. I spoke up and got my ass booted. (although it wont be told that way)
    I would not change it for anything but it pisses me off that people are so closed minded and wont accept those that are different.
    There are new rules in place for avatars and siggies and there are still some people that are not following them, yet nothing will be done.

  30. just me says:

    It all goes back to the crazy censorship thing. I don’t get how people can be so easily offended. I mean we talk about things like that in the sensitive subjects forum and it should’ve been moved.
    Personally I like Nick. I like the fact he is pushing the boundaries and testing the waters.
    I just am sad that people feel the need to tattle tale on his little adventures.

  31. just me says:

    Mindi booted? Does this mean you are no longer an admin?

  32. Michelle says:

    Mindi you are no longer Admin or Mod? I just saw your profile!! WTH? And all because you’re with Nick? That’s ridiculous!!

  33. Me says:

    Wait, I am lost, why don’t people like Nick?

  34. Mindi says:

    Nope, no longer admin or mod. I was booted earlier today.

  35. maree9304 says:

    Because Nick was born female and is now male. Uptight bitches don’t like that.

  36. Mindi says:

    I wouldn’t say it was b/c I’m with Nick but moreso b/c I spoke my mind. But I was told I was booted b/c I needed to spend time with my life and my new life.

  37. Me says:

    Wow, I am christian and still wouldn’t be so rude, what’s up w/ people?

    And Mindi, you know what? things happen for a reason so enjoy you new life.

  38. That Daddy says:

    “My little adventures” happens to be my life. I will ALWAYS push boundaries, break rules etc. It’s who I am, it’s HOW I am. I think it’s absolutely ridiculous that Mindi was removed from admin.
    I think that these uptight mommas are just jealous… afterall, I don’t have to worry about mine going limp.

  39. maree9304 says:

    But I was told I was booted b/c I needed to spend time with my life and my new life.

    Ughhh that ticks me off. I think if they told me that, I would be insulted that they would expect me to believe that crap!

  40. lysol says:

    You were removed from admin because of THAT? What the f*ck are those morons drinking? You were just supposed to shut up and take it, right? God forbid someone doesn’t want to be a drone over there.

  41. lilyfish says:

    Wow. They booted you for standing up for something? That is ridiculous.

    I can’t even believe that they deleted the thread. What is wrong about simply asking if something is found offensive?

    I’m so glad that DS is being overtaken by closed-minded money-grubbing jerkfaces. Wow. Just… wow.

  42. sbolen says:

    First of all, there are pictures of people with BFing Avis all over the place on DS. You say the word Penis and its bad? I mean, at least it didn’t say “I have a Big Hairy Dick…Wanna Suck It” That may be a little offensive. But acknowledging the fact that you have a penis? Really.
    Sorry Mindi…that’s a bunch of bull.

  43. That Daddy says:

    “Wow, I am christian and still wouldn’t be so rude, what’s up w/ people?

    And Mindi, you know what? things happen for a reason so enjoy you new life.”

    Mindi asked me to write to you all for her.
    She says thank you, she is enjoying her new life.
    Also, she says “that’s what I think, not what I was told” in re: to the being outspoken part.

  44. That Daddy says:

    another comment from Mindi
    Tell them I am ok with it and I’m not bound with not being able to say what I want now

  45. just me says:

    That Daddy Says: June 5, 2008 at 12:33 am

    “My little adventures” happens to be my life. I will ALWAYS push boundaries, break rules etc. It’s who I am, it’s HOW I am. I think it’s absolutely ridiculous that Mindi was removed from admin.
    I think that these uptight mommas are just jealous… afterall, I don’t have to worry about mine going limp.”

    Sorry Nick that came out a bit offensive. I enjoy reading your posts and I really love the fact at how out spoken you are. Its refreshing especially when we have a bunch of bitches who have sticks up their asses who only care about the latest and greatest stupid thing.
    And Mindi, I don’t agree with them booting you. Apparently they want their mods to shut up and take it now, too?

  46. That Daddy says:

    I didn’t find it offensive at all. I was just using your terms to continue on with what I was writing. It worked out perfectly, thank you 😀

  47. not tellin says:

    dude, after all that mindi has done, they boot her JUST like that? Thats kind of ridiculous… i mean she was just made admin not long ago, and suddenly shes persona non grata now that she has a “new life”? what the hell is that?

  48. Mindi says:

    Just wanted to clarify that according to another admin I was not booted for speaking up but rather not being active in the forum. I wasn’t for a while b/c I started a night shift job and my life got pretty hectic for a bit. It has finally calmed down and i was just on the forum this past week being active and doing more admin work. then the whole avatar thing happened and I said my thoughts and while some of the mods agreed, some did not. Apparently some of the higher up admins did not agree either.
    I was told it was a concidence that I was booted now and that it was in the talkings. I’m not sure I agree with it but I’m not going to lose sleep over it. I’m free to say what I want, when I want and how I want with nothing hanging over my head 😀

  49. Mommyk8 says:

    Aw Mindi I am so sorry you got booted. I’ll look forward to your posts. Nick you rock dude!

  50. lilgamoma says:

    How frickin sad, I’m never surprized at the lockdowns over on ds. Sorry what happen Mindi. I was banned from ds for speaking what was on my mind too months ago (in fact my time is up in almost a week, muuuhhahaha). I miss the fsot but i don’t know if I’ll ever go back to that place. As for the avi, totally nothing wrong with it. It’s not like there was an actually porno-type pic, or an real penis. Admin at DS doesn’t know what a joke is I guess. 😦

  51. spoon says:

    I’ll tell you why it was appropriate for Nick to take HER avi down… because SHE doesn’t actually have a penis, and has made if very clear that SHE would never have the surgery to get one. So really it was just an avi to cause drama. Right? I mean really we all know that’s what the whole thing was about. If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, smells like a duck…. well it must be a duck. Just because Nick wants to be a man doesn’t make her one. Sorry.

  52. Molly says:

    Wow spoon! Bitter much?

  53. liljoeysmom says:

    Looks like spoon isn’t getting any penis either!

  54. blsimpson says:

    I wouldnt say bitter, I would say truthful.. It is true that SHE does in fact not have one, and has made every effort to tell people that SHE will not have one. Take all the medication you want, a she will always be a she..

  55. But why not respect someone enough to call them what they preferred to be called? Why emphasize SHE when you know Nick identifies as a HE? It’s no different than calling a mother, an adoptive mother, rather than just a mother. Or calling the woman that’s raised a child for 15 years the “stepmom” when her and her family identifies her as the mom.

  56. blsimpson says:

    Its entirely different. A step-mom is still a mom. What if I said step-father\father being called mother. Thats whats happening here.

  57. just_my_opinion says:

    “But why not respect someone enough to call them what they preferred to be called? Why emphasize SHE when you know Nick identifies as a HE? It’s no different than calling a mother, an adoptive mother, rather than just a mother. Or calling the woman that’s raised a child for 15 years the “stepmom” when her and her family identifies her as the mom.”

    well spoken!

  58. blsimpson Says: June 6, 2008 at 4:58 pm e

    Its entirely different. A step-mom is still a mom. What if I said step-father\father being called mother. Thats whats happening here.
    —————————-

    Not entirely different at all. It’s the same idea of respecting someone’s wishes. It’s not hurting you or changing who you are.

  59. bystander says:

    I want to be called a millionaire. But you know what, just because someone calls me that doesn’t make it the truth or reality. In most circles of psychology, people that aren’t in touch with reality are not well people. Take my grandmother, she doesn’t even know who her grandchildren are or who her husband is, she is not mentally well. (and no, its not memory loss, its a over-medicated stupor, plus she doesn’t like her reality so she changes it.) To be at a loss with reality is a scary thing. Its like playing pretend with your life. You can’t live that way.

  60. blsimpson says:

    But when calling a she a he, I consider that lying, and I do not like to lie. Your right though, it doesn’t affect me at all. I will continue to call to call her a her. Thats what she is.

  61. just me says:

    I guess some people don’t give a rats ass about respecting other peoples wishes.
    Funny how a mods husband decides to show up here almost as if he is trying to defend her honor. I wonder if she is the one who told Mindi the supposed truth about why she was booted.
    FWIW its obvious that there was conflict of interest with her relationship with Nick and her being a mod. Say what you will but we all know the REAL reason Mindi was booted regardless of what any of the mods say.

  62. Michelle says:

    Wow, just wow!!! I don’t even have words.

  63. bananahammock says:

    I don’t really think DS is the right place to parade your lifestyle. I say that av was for sexual reference because Nick stated before the thread went poof! that he had several of them in different sizes or something like that. Now that’s just gross and I don’t need/want to know that. It is one thing to be proud of who you are and who you have become. But it is another to shove it in the faces of other people that might not care to know that much information(which is all Nick has done since joining ds). I feel the same way about all the women that post nasty stories about their sex lives or share about their husbands being addicted to porn or that they are getting divorced, someone cheated blah blah blah. Some things just shouldn’t be shared on the net or at least not on such a big board like ds.

  64. Mindi says:

    Ben I don’t think you need to be saying a word here at all. What you are doing is totally disrespectful and inappropriate. What Nick is going through is frankly none of your damn business. He requests that his gender be considered a male and that is what I am calling him and everyone with respect should be doing. It is not in your place AT ALL to be bashing him or his lifestyle. If you are not happy or agreeable about it then take your toys and shove off. No one goes bashing you on what you choose as your life and you should not be doing so either. I do believe you are a Christian correct? I am pretty certain that you are not to be judging ANYONE according to the bible. And that is exactly what you are doing here.
    And going back to the ‘having a penis’, oh yeah, he has one. Whether or not he was born with one does not mean he does not have one. I can testify to that 😀
    I think the ones that have the problem here with the word penis are the one not getting any. And you will certainly never hear me bitch or complain at all about it 😉

  65. blsimpson says:

    Lol just me… I have actually been on this blog a lot, and coming here and commenting on this one had nothing to do with my wife. I commented because I agree with something a previous poster said. Respecting wishes or not, I will still continue to call her a she.

    I have also not hidden who I am. My username here is the same as it is on DS. I have nothing to hide. I’m not sticking up for her, or defending her. She wasn’t the one that made the decision. None of the mods made it. If you know anything about chain of command, mods report to the admins.

  66. Mindi says:

    I do know about the chain of command and it seems as if your wife is attempting to climb it. Unfortunetly the closer she gets to the top, the worse off things are going to get.

  67. blsimpson says:

    LOL Mindi! I haven’t bashed, judged, or anything like that. I am stating fact. I’m sorry if you feel I am. I actually haven’t said anything bad about either of you. Your right, I don’t agree with either of your lifestyles, but that’s my opinion, and I’m entitled to it, just as you are.

    I thinks its fine if she requests that. I’ve already said it three times. I will not address her as he. Period.

  68. bananahammock says:

    Mindi, bitter isn’t a good look for you. Why are you attacking his wife?

  69. Mindi says:

    I think it best then if you do not address him at all. If you cannot respect his decision then you don’t belong talking to or about him.

  70. bystander says:

    No one is judging. Just stating facts. As Christian’s you can’t tolerate sin. Period. You want it out of your like and other’s so they can be closer to God. Doesn’t mean you don’t love the sinner, it just means you have to call and apple and apple. We can’t sugar coat things to make someone feel all warm and gooey and hide the truth of the matter. If Nick doesn’t want people commenting on his personal life he shouldn’t post about it on a public forum.

  71. Mindi says:

    ‘Mindi, bitter isn’t a good look for you. Why are you attacking his wife?’

    I do agree that bitter isn’t good for me but when someone attacks those that I love I do defend them and that is what brought everything about to being with.

    Attack isn’t my intentions, stating the facts, as did Ben, is all that I am doing.

  72. blsimpson says:

    Banana – Totally agree about the bitterness…

    Mindi – I haven’t addressed her at all.. and last I knew I live in a free country where I can talk about anything I want.. If she didn’t want to get talked about then she would have kept her personal life just that, personal. She had to have known what would come of this, you both did. People talk, its our nature..

    Bystander – :claphands: Thank you. That’s absolutely true. I don’t “hate” her, but I do believe that she is living in sin, and I do hate that.

  73. blsimpson says:

    Replying to this comment:

    “I do know about the chain of command and it seems as if your wife is attempting to climb it. Unfortunetly the closer she gets to the top, the worse off things are going to get.”

    Its funny you say that, cause I know a lot of people that I wont out here that totally disagree with you. 🙂

  74. Mindi says:

    You are welcome to disagree, I’m just saying what I have heard first hand.

  75. blsimpson says:

    As am I. 🙂

  76. spoon says:

    So then what was the real intention of Nick posting that avi, if not to cause drama?

  77. spoon says:

    Oh and why do you assume that it was a woman who was offended and reported the avi?

  78. kksdaddy says:

    so i just got off work and decided to see what drama is going on. Mindi i know that i wasn’t probably the only one that commented on “Nick” avi but i am the one who contacted both Lee and Juan and complained about “Nick” avi. I also mentioned that i thought that you were giving HER special treatment as an admin so yes i am i glad that you are no longer a admin. In fact i told them that i didn’t think that “NIck” avi was very family friendly so the rest as they say is history. To comment on some of the comments above i am actually the author of spoon and no i am not interested in getting any penis. Mindi i don’t understand why you are so interested in sticking up for “Nick” penis, maybe there is a part of you that really wants to be with a man.

  79. Molly says:

    KKsdaddy,

    I understand that you are a youth pastor. I also can understand your disdain for something that you feel is not “family friendly”.

    That being said I am a deeply religious Christian myself and I find your judgement of Nick to be incredibly distasteful. I believe that our Heavenly Father said “Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone.”

    It is not any mortal man’s place to sit in judgement of another.
    While we focus on the faults of another we don’t have to look at our own imperfections.

  80. Molly says:

    Oh and one more thought KKsdaddy,

    Before you force your wife to prematurely wean one of your children you might want to do your research on the benefits of extended breastfeeding.

  81. thatdaddy says:

    It seems as though is usually those who brag most about being good christians that are the ones who also judge the most. I’ve never judged your lifestyle, not once.
    I chose to bring to the table who I am because if I can help one person be less ignorant, I’m all the better for it. Life is about learning. Tolerance is today’s lesson, but you’ve already proven you don’t have any.
    I hope none of your children ever come to you and tell you that they believe they were born in the wrong body.

    As for the avi, it wasn’t meant to cause drama, it was meant to be funny, which is what most saw it for. Also, there was a momma who had the same avi, but in female version, why wasn’t something said about that, oh, that’s right, because she’s a part of the main stream society.

    I feel like there is a little penis envy going on, afterall, mine doesn’t ever go limp, doesn’t carry disease, won’t catch disease, and well, I’ll never have a partner complain about size.
    Quite frankly, I AM the proud owner of a penis, bought and paid for out of my own pocket TYVM.

  82. bystander says:

    Tolerance is over-rated. Really. Its what causes people to not have morals, to not stand for what the believe in… I mean come on, I don’t think passivity is the way to go.

    Biblically, luke-warm people will be spit out of the mouth of God and that’s not where I want to be.

    Respect is the lesson. And while I don’t respect you choice of life, I respect you as a person. But if you open your life up for criticism you will get the truth and that’s what you don’t like.

  83. thatdaddy says:

    I don’t mind the truth at all. However, it’s when I’m being bashed and disrespected that I am a little irked. However, this is the internet, and I take it as it comes. People hiding behind a screen. Ones I will never meet, and most I would never care to meet. That being said. Have fun with your intolerance. And again, I hope your child never comes to you with the same issue as I’ve faced throughout my life.
    I must be damned for taking control over my happiness, gawd forbid.

  84. blsimpson says:

    “Molly Says: June 7, 2008 at 12:49 am

    Oh and one more thought KKsdaddy,

    Before you force your wife to prematurely wean one of your children you might want to do your research on the benefits of extended breastfeeding.”

    What was the purpose of this comment? It has nothing to do with what we are talking about… So much for being “..a deeply religious Christian..”, as you yourself are being judgmental..

    Nick, I haven’t once judged you or your lifestyle. I don’t agree with it, and I don’t think it should be shoved in others faces. You don’t see me going around stating that I have a penis. I don’t go and shove my religion in peoples faces. When someone asks, I answer. When a discussion is brought up about it, I contribute. Thats the only problem I have. I do think that it was put there to cause drama, regardless of what you say. You knew what it would cause, and yet you put it up anyways. As for the the other one, the female version, I’m pretty sure it was taken down. But I did find it offensive also. 🙂

  85. blsimpson says:

    Just so its clear, if I do ever meet you, I would have no problem telling you all this to your face..

  86. bananahammock says:

    Well Nick, your need to flaunt the fact that you have a fake penis is distasteful. Why do you have to keep bringing that up? How is that teaching anyone anything? I’d be more inclined to try to learn from you if you weren’t being so disgusting. THAT is the kind of behavior that makes people shut their ears and close their minds.
    And as for the vagina av, I think Mindi said above that person was asked to change theirs too.
    Respect needs to be your lesson Nick. Respect those around you enough to not shove your chosen lifestyle in their face. Live your life and seek your own happiness, but don’t try to force anyone else to agree with you in the name of tolerance.

  87. That Daddy says:

    In case you hadn’t noticed…. this whole thing has been about my penis, so how am I being distasteful? I’m not even the one who brought this subject here.

  88. bananahammock says:

    How are you being distasteful? Oh, I don’t know…. “Mine won’t go limp” or “Mine doesn’t have/carry diseases” or “I’ll never have a partner complain about the size” or “You’re all just jealous/envious of my penis”. No. I’m not envious of your fake, plastic penis.
    Grow up.

  89. spoon says:

    wow, okay so hi. this is KKsdaddy’s wife. Before I state my opinion I think I need to reply to a couple of things here.

    First of all Molly – no one will be “forcing” me to wean my beautiful lo early, not even my dh who I love very much. I appreciate his opinion, but he and I both know that our lo will wean when she is good and ready. So thanks very much for your concern on that matter.

    Also to Molly – I don’t really feel that anything my dh said is being judgmental. You are right we are not meant to judge other people, but the Bible is really referring to us deciding/judging who is or isn’t acceptable to enter Heaven, and thank God that I don’t have that responsibility. But we are also supposed to call sin… sin. Not just sit by, be all politically correct and afraid of what people will think of us you know what I mean?

    Now my opinion, because I’m sure you all are dying to hear what I have to say LOL.
    1. I actually find this whole discussion rather disgusting. I mean seriously 88 posts about a fake penis, and all of the things that it can do… just yuck. We would not be having this discussion at all about a heterosexual couples sex life on ds or this blog. What makes you (Nick) think that the general public wants to know anything about those intimate details of your life? It’s not “funny” it’s just plain old rude, and drama causing.
    2. I actually don’t consider myself one bit religious. At least I hope that I’m not. I do however want more than anything in my life to follow Jesus Christ, and what He says is right in His Word. So while I 100% disagree with your lifestyle choices, I also see that as a person you are hurting, and have obviously been through a lot of pain in your life. My hope more than anything else is that somehow God is able to reach into your life, heal those hurts, and show Himself to you in a way that you can not deny. And I’m going to start praying for you and your family for this very thing.
    3. Lastly I think that as adults we all need to agree that we disagree on this issue. I actually bet that we all have a lot in common. We obviously all have strong beliefs that we are willing to stand up for and defend. We enjoy a good debate, I’d say. And sounds like we’re all at least somewhat of computer nerds, in as far as we are all on ds and a ds drama blog, lol.

    Phewww did you make it through all of that? I think I get extra wordy at night when the kiddos are in bed.

  90. not tellin says:

    i find it completely disgusting and apalling that the men keep referring to nick as a female. its truly disgusting that they are so insecure they have to attack him.

    if you feel so passionately that you dont want to hear about anything having to do with nick, use the fucking ignore button, assholes.

    and i truly feel sorry for your that your manhood is such an issue you’re so sore about this.

    again, simply disgusting.

  91. not tellin says:

    im so sleep deprived, i didnt realized i used the word disgusting 3 times, lol. :blush for a limited vocabulary after 2 hours of sleep in the past 36 hours:

  92. DSDM2 says:

    I have a plastic penis… and I love it…

    just saying… I’m heterosexual and have one 😀

  93. DSDM2 says:

    Here is the new “no penis” siggie rule from Juan:
    Siggy and Avatar Update
    If a user complains about an avatar or siggy and it is sexual in nature (meaning sexual innuendos, sexual references, sexual terms, you get the point) then we will ask them to remove it. The same will apply to negatively charged racial avatars and siggys whose intent is to segregate or be mean.

    Please report to the mods – but be friendly about it as the user who has the avatar in question may not be intentionally using it to create a stir. Place yourself in their shoes first then report.

    Thanks!
    Juan M
    DS Admin

  94. spoon Says: June 7, 2008 at 7:21 am e
    1. I actually find this whole discussion rather disgusting. I mean seriously 88 posts about a fake penis, and all of the things that it can do… just yuck.

    Spoon, if you actually READ the discussion, it’s about 85 posts about Nick’s avatar, and 3 posts that specifically talk about a “fake penis.”

  95. just me says:

    My question and this is a bit off topic, but why does DS need to be FAMILY friendly? Its not like our kids would be caught dead on DS.
    I think someone was a little biased when they reported Nick’s avi but then I am biased against close minded people especially of the religious persuasion.

  96. just me says:

    I’m with kksdaddy’s wife on this, religious stuff aside.

  97. Jennifer (ferrferr) says:

    Well.. this was a disgusting little cluster fuck. I’m glad to see that people feel their own religious beliefs trumps another persons personal choices. A+

    How absolutely pathetic.

  98. Kelolsen says:

    I don’t get why an avi w/ the WORD “penis” has to be removed but avi’s w/ boobies all over the place (i.e. breastfeeding babies/toddlers) is totally okay. IMO you either accpet them all, or accept none. And no, I don’t equate BF w/ sexuality but its still a naked boob. It doesn’t offend me, nor does the word “penis”. If anyone got upset over the boobs in the avis, people would have amassive throw down, but any man tries to do anything and he’s stomped on.

  99. The Bored Bitch says:

    People reference the penii all the time on circ threads and yet, those remain.

    Hey Nick, you can come sit next to me on the Klassy couch.
    We will be Klassy together.

    Oh and DSDM2, you slay me with the plastic penii talk.

  100. DSDM2 says:

    I’m just sayin…

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with plastic peni… and there is oh so much right with them 😉 Mine is even purple!

  101. bystander says:

    There are plenty of websites out there that will allow you to talk about your sexual selves, it doesn’t need to be brought to a freaking cloth diaper board. Plastic penis’s have no place on a parenting board, a place to talk about children. Why can’t people see that? What kind of sick sick sicko would think that would be appropriate?

  102. The Bored Bitch says:

    I feel closer to you, somehow.

    heh heh….oh…the moral minority might be offended by the penii appreciation of that confession.

    Shhhh!

  103. DSDM2 says:

    Playing devils advocate here, because I do actually agree that sex toys don’t need to be in General Chat areas, but if this is the rule, neither do boobs.

    Teenage boys may very well be aroused, and fathers may very well be offended. So ALL body parts, including nursing pics, should be made against the rules.

  104. The Bored Bitch says:

    What kind of sick, sick, sicko allows their children to read a cloth diapering board unsupervised?

  105. Jennifer (ferrferr) says:

    I don’t think religion belongs on a cloth diapering board either, but gods forbid someone should pipe up about that. That would be total blasphemy.

    Flog away.

  106. The Bored Bitch says:

    You are going to hell, Ferr Ferr.

    SInce when is DS a parenting board? I thought it was a cloth diapering forum?

  107. Jennifer (ferrferr) says:

    They changed it.. it used to say that it was a mothering community too. Now it’s “cloth diapering and parenting”.

    It should read like this “cloth diapering, parenting and religious views by hypocritical assholes that you don’t want to hear forum (PS the forum owner is clearly not to a proud owner of a penis, because he’s a farking pussy)”

    I like being pitchforked on occasion so I’m down with hell. Wait .. hang on .. I’m Pagan I don’t believe in hell! Will someone just pitchfork me real fast so it SEEMS like I’m in hell?

  108. The Bored Bitch says:

    *snort*

    DS is a parenting forum.

    Bwahahahaha!

  109. Amanda (gvroach) says:

    So…whats this all got to do with being transgendered?

  110. Amanda (gvroach) says:

    Can someone refresh my memory as to what the big JC ever said about them there gays???

    On a religious sidenote, I think Jesus would be pretty depressed if he saw what people do, think and believe, all in “his name”. From my perpective, lots of Christians are some of the lease Christ-like people Ive ever met.

    There, bam, flog me.

  111. just me says:

    Hey Jennifer if you are going to hell can I ride with you?
    The religious stuff really aggravates me. I really don’t feel it has a place on the board whatsoever. Its just sort of disciminatory to those who either practice alternative religions or are atheists.

  112. bananahammock says:

    “Teenage boys may very well be aroused, and fathers may very well be offended. So ALL body parts, including nursing pics, should be made against the rules.”

    Breastfeeding isn’t a sexual act and breastfeeding pics aren’t sexual in nature. Talking about your sex toys and what you do with them are sexual in nature and don’t have a place on a parenting/family/cloth diaper board.
    I don’t get where the penis av not being allowed has anything to do with religion as far as the board rules go. I know plenty of people that aren’t Christian or even religious at all that would agree that doesn’t need to be on ds. Think of ds as being a family restaurant. Would you be ok taking your children to a place where the servers wore Proud Owner of a Penis/Vagina shirts? ds is a public board, suitable for people of all ages. I don’t think it’s a huge deal that they ask for things of sexual nature to not be there. It has nothing to do with religion.

  113. That Daddy says:

    :scratchhead” I’m wondering when I said WHAT I do with my parts…

  114. DSDM2 says:

    He has a penis. Plain and simple. The Avi was no more offensive than a picture of a boob.

    No, nursing is not a sexual act, but there are men, especially ones who practice Muslim religions and strict Christians, who are appalled at women “flaunting” their breast. Many women even cover up while in their own homes.

    And a teenage boy sees a boob, whether a baby is on it or not. The AVI had nothing to do with how he uses his penis. Just that he has one.

    The people who are so offended are using Christian Values to say why they are offended. His penis, in the AVI, is not sexual.

  115. TisMe says:

    I have several penii AND I show pics of boobies in a bad way. I’m jumping on the shag carpet to hell with Ferr & the others.
    Bananahammock, aren’t you a wahm? You do realize that this is a public blog no?

  116. Jennifer (ferrferr) says:

    “Talking about your sex toys and what you do with them are sexual in nature and don’t have a place on a parenting/family/cloth diaper board.”

    ~~ I don’t want to hear about people DTD then. M’kay?

    I don’t get where the penis av not being allowed has anything to do with religion as far as the board rules go. I know plenty of people that aren’t Christian or even religious at all that would agree that doesn’t need to be on ds.

    ~~ There was no penis is the avi. The WORD penis was in it. clearly you have no problems saying penis, so what’s the problem with an avatar having the word penis in it?

    Think of ds as being a family restaurant. Would you be ok taking your children to a place where the servers wore Proud Owner of a Penis/Vagina shirts?

    ~~ Are you ashamed of human anatomy?

  117. lysol says:

    I’m starting to get really offended by all the Christianity crap spewed left and right on DS. You think if I start reporting threads discussing Christ and Christianity, anyone will give a flying shit? Or will the mods just move the thread to Sensitive Subjects?

    Yeah. Right.
    Actually, I was being sarcastic there about being offended. When I see a thread about Christianity, I IGNORE IT AND MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE. Just like the Christians who are offended over a lifestyle should ignore threads like Nick’s and MOVE ON.

    Get it? TURN THE OTHER CHEEK. Didn’t someone kind of important in the Bible mention something along those lines?

    The admin/mod team sucks if they play the game like this. Let’s just get rid of all the people we don’t agree with. No wonder that cultural diversity forum ain’t happenin. The same dumb shits who agreed to scrap Mindi are probably the same ones against cultural awareness. Let’s keep it mainstream and biased ya’ll.

    I hope the inept mods and admin are keeping up on this. Maybe they will see how many completely stupid decisions they are making as of late.

  118. The Bored Bitch says:

    This is a beautiful thread.

    The rampant use of the words penis and penii are just warming the ‘cock’les of my heart.

  119. bananahammock says:

    Am I a WAHM? Maybe. I’m still allowed to have an opinion.

    ~ I also don’t want to hear about people DTD either, M,Kay? I already said that above. Keep it to yourself. I don’t need to know and that goes for any couple.

    ~ I am well aware of what the av is since it is pictured above. I don’t care that it wasn’t a picture of a penis or not. I still don’t think ds is the place for that kind of adult humor when it’s supposed to be a “family friendly” board. I don’t have any problems with the word penis. We use the correct terms in out home. Nick does NOT have a penis. He has a fake plastic toy and the av was in reference to that. Even if it weren’t, I still wouldn’t think it were appropriate.

    ~ Not ashamed of the human anatomy at all. Already said above we use the correct terms in our home.

  120. TisMe says:

    Yeah, you’re allowed to have an opinion however when you are spewing intolerance it tends to remind the consumers how many other wahms there are to shop with.

  121. maree9304 says:

    Already said above we use the correct terms in our home.

    Does that include “banana”?

  122. lysol says:

    Penishammock wouldn’t be as funny or catchy, duh, maree.

  123. maree9304 says:

    What! I think it could totally catch on! Or maybe you can call it a Penis-Sling or Mai-Penis-Tei or Penis Shell. Hmm… 😉

  124. Kelolsen says:

    I have seen way more naked boob pics on DS, or pics of women w/ their lacy undies w/ their short and curlies poking through than I have “penis avis” so IMO its the women of DS who seem to push the envelope w/ what is okay to post and what’s not – the men are the small minority.

  125. just me says:

    Apparently some people aren’t GETTING it. Regardless if it was posted to cause drama it’s just a freaking WORD.
    Not like he said proud owner of a dick or something.

  126. just me says:

    Exactly Kel! I am an all or nothing person. I don’t mind the naked boobies with babies on them or anyway. I never really got the purpose of those pictures anyway other than LOOK AT MY BOOB.

  127. Kelolsen says:

    “I never really got the purpose of those pictures anyway other than LOOK AT MY BOOB.”

    I agree. I try to not look at the pics like that. I just feel like i’m invading someone’s private moment w/ their baby. when my friends BF, I don’t look at their boob at all.

  128. lysol says:

    “Mai-Penis-Tei”

    ROFFLE. I’m getting that tattoo’d across my back 😉

  129. lysol says:

    So if someones avi or siggy says something about their child’s dingaling being “uncut” or “cut” do they have to change it?
    There are quite a few siggies mentioning uncut/cut dingalings. Should we start reporting them?

  130. maree9304 says:

    I don’t get that. Who cares if your son is circ or not? Why do you feel the need to let us know about your son’s penis?

  131. http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showpost.php?p=3794730&postcount=89

    So, I guess this avi is inappropriate as well? It’s either referring to cannibalism or oral sex, correct?

  132. Michelle says:

    Yuppers! I think people are too quick to complain about everything. It’s a FREAKING avi. Seriously!

  133. lysol says:

    Srsly. Some stranger telling the entire intarwebs that their child’s dingaling is uncut is not “family friendly” to me. Just offensive.

  134. lysol says:

    Srsly. I don’t care either way. Sarcasm again. I has it. But that rule is stupid. Srsly.

  135. Kelolsen says:

    I htink my sons would be mortified to know that I described their penis in my siggy when they were babies LOL.

  136. lysol says:

    Hah! I know!
    Apparently talking about your infants dingaling is much different than talking about your 32 year old son’s dingaling.
    My mother cloth diapered my brother 32 years ago. I would be mortified if she made an account at DS and mentioned his dingaling in her siggy. I think I just threw up in my mouth a little, while typing that.
    But srsly. NO. BODY. CARES.

    Or wants to know. The end.

  137. mom3divas says:

    I’m more offended by the term dingaling than Nick’s penis avatar. LMAO.

  138. lysol says:

    I’ll give myself a strike then. Hah! 😀

  139. not tellin says:

    a little OT, but the reason i have my son’s intact status on my siggy is that i want to help dispell the whole “locker room” debate on why a mom HAS to circ.. THATS my reasoning. Too many times people say “well everyone circs, i dont want my son to be singled out in the locker room” but if all the intact boys were counted on ds, it might make it clearer that such logic is faulty.

  140. bananahammock says:

    How am I being intolerant? All I have said is that I don’t think that av is appropriate for ds? Obviously I can laugh at penis humor, hence my name here. And it suits my monster so well! 😀 Me not agreeing with the masses and seeing an issue with the av doesn’t equal me being intolerant of anyone. Simply means I disagree. You are all pointing fingers and saying people are being judgmental, but if someone doesn’t agree with the popular opinion, you judge them and say they are being intolerant. Double standard?
    I agree with lysol-I find it mind boggling what info people share in their siggy about their sons penis. It isn’t anyone’s business. And it for sure isn’t my place to talk about what we chose to do with my sons penis shortly after birth on the internet-it is HIS penis!

  141. bananahammock says:

    Oh, and didn’t you all get the memo? It is AVATAR not AVITAR. I sure hope “pixilated” doesn’t come here. She would have a heart attack seeing how many times people have typed “avi”. *insert rolling eyes here*. Her post is on page 1 of the above post linked above with the Vegetarian av in it.

  142. The Bored Bitch says:

    If you are using Firefox, right click on the avatar and adblock.
    You wont see the image anymore.
    Problem solved.

    If you are using IE…start using FF. It will make your life easier. 🙂

  143. Also, IE had an add on that is like ABP for Firefox. Just do a search for Adblock for internet explorer.

  144. liljoeysmom says:

    I’m on day 8 of extremely limited internet. Right now I’m in a Sears parking lot balancing a laptop on my dashboard for decent signal just so I can get my drama fill. Klassy, I know! So I’ll make this short
    Penis – Good! Try it you will be back for more!
    Avatars – Are we really reporting ones whose lifestyles we don’t agree with now?
    You don’t like them/their lifestyle/their avatar then use the ignore button! Ignore works well for mods too!

  145. Kelolsen says:

    tsk tsk…coming back to throw stones at others doens’t really endear anyone to your opinion 🙂 It just makes you look like a child.

  146. Jennifer (ferrferr) says:

    Lets see … “I’m offended by the use of the word penis but I have a business where I sell a product called Banana Hammock.”

    Go google Banana Hammock for me would ya’?

    1. banana hammock
    love it 529 up, 66 down hate it

    A men’s style of undergarment that holds the genitalia in a sling-like hammock apparatus, allowing the meat knot to protrude offensively. Favored by greasy Europeans at the beach, and even greasier weightlifters during competition and posedown sessions.

    Jeeze …. and that’s not offensive?

    *coughhypocritecough*

  147. bananahammock says:

    #1. Where did I say the word penis was offensive?

    #2. I don’t sell a product called Banana Hammock.

  148. lysol says:

    ROFFLE at selling banana hammocks!
    She sells them in the Daddy forum on DS. ROFFLE!

  149. sbolen says:

    Damn! I was in the hospital with my LO and missed all the fun (And now where is OOEY to comment on that).
    As far as the christianity thing, its sooo getting old on DS. I’m not into god…yet I’m smart enough not to put it in my siggy as to not offend the christians…..so why oh why is it okay for christians to be slinging their christian views in my face all the time and get their panties in a wad if I don’t agree?
    I always figure that I’d like hell….all my friends would be there.

    But seriously…..people are still talking about the word Penis?

  150. minimouth says:

    I think my husband would look hot in a banana hammock. *Takes in the visual*

  151. amy says:

    I am sick of “christians” sporting their christianiy badge while they judge left and right. Last I checked, it is not your decision to decide what is right and what is wrong. Do your best to live your own life being accepting and loving of others. Do not spew hate into our atmosphere.
    I am fine with zayvir’s daddy, god loves him too. I could give two shits about his avatar. BlSimpson, bananahammock, and the rest of you god spouting hypocrits can look in the mirror and face your own demons on judgement day when god will decide. She knows that rules and regulations are not what it is about, that is why Jesus came in the first place to hlp people see past the rules and regulations of religion men were instituting left and right to control others.

  152. minimouth says:

    I am sick of “christians” sporting their christianiy badge while they judge left and right.

    Ummm hate to inform you… you just did the same.

  153. amy says:

    Hey the difference here minimouth is that I do not claim to have God on my side. I believe what I believe and own what I say I am not putting words in God’s mouth and calling them my own.

    As for why Jesus came. I believe that is in the bible.

  154. minimouth says:

    Do you do drugs? Crackpuffs aren’t working well for you for breakfast.

  155. amy says:

    nope. no crackpuffs. What specifically, do you object to? It would be nice if you could disagree without making a vague insult. I can see why you made your orginal comment to me, but I’m happy to clarify what my opinions are

  156. minimouth says:

    “As for why Jesus came. I believe that is in the bible. I am not putting words in God’s mouth”

    Because IMO you have used the word… GOD, Jesus, the bible, judgment day more times than anyone else on this blog. It’s just funny to see you judge others and say what they shouldn’t/should do say when you did the exact same thing. But I guess that’s all good in the hood till judgment day anyway right?

  157. bananahammock says:

    I love how people put words in my mouth (or in my hands in this case) at this blog. Where did I say anything about God or Christianity? When did I spew hate? Where did I say I was judging Nick or anyone else? All I have said all along is that I didn’t think the av was appropriate for ds, and that I don’t care to hear about ANYBODY’S sex life. Gay, straight or otherwise. Like I said above, seek your own happiness, but don’t shove it in my face. I have not expressed my views on Nick’s life because it isn’t my business or place to judge anyone else.
    Before you group me in with the “Crazy Christians” and accuse me of something, read ALL the replies and then speak to me. Just because I don’t agree that the av isn’t appropriate does not mean I am hateful or intolerant. Get off the “we hate anyone that doesn’t agree with us 100% of the time” bandwagon and think for yourself.

  158. amy says:

    They can say whatever they want, but justfying their opinion of what sin is based on how they interpret the bible is what I find troublesome. There is no handbook in the bible about transgendered people. I am a religious scholar in the sense of studying religious texts so there is mention of sin, god made Zayvir’s daddy this way or that way above. I do not go to church etc. because of some of what goes on. Nor do I call myself a christian. Thanks for your response.

  159. bananahammock says:

    For your convienence amy, I’ll list the #’s of my replies so you can find it more easily. It appears you have a hard time reading, so I’ll help you a little bit. Better grab another bowl of Crackpuffs. 😀

    # 63: I don’t really think DS is the right place to parade your lifestyle. I say that av was for sexual reference because Nick stated before the thread went poof! that he had several of them in different sizes or something like that. Now that’s just gross and I don’t need/want to know that. It is one thing to be proud of who you are and who you have become. But it is another to shove it in the faces of other people that might not care to know that much information(which is all Nick has done since joining ds). I feel the same way about all the women that post nasty stories about their sex lives or share about their husbands being addicted to porn or that they are getting divorced, someone cheated blah blah blah. Some things just shouldn’t be shared on the net or at least not on such a big board like ds.

    # 68: Mindi, bitter isn’t a good look for you. Why are you attacking his wife?

    # 86: Well Nick, your need to flaunt the fact that you have a fake penis is distasteful. Why do you have to keep bringing that up? How is that teaching anyone anything? I’d be more inclined to try to learn from you if you weren’t being so disgusting. THAT is the kind of behavior that makes people shut their ears and close their minds.
    And as for the vagina av, I think Mindi said above that person was asked to change theirs too.
    Respect needs to be your lesson Nick. Respect those around you enough to not shove your chosen lifestyle in their face. Live your life and seek your own happiness, but don’t try to force anyone else to agree with you in the name of tolerance.

    # 88: How are you being distasteful? Oh, I don’t know…. “Mine won’t go limp” or “Mine doesn’t have/carry diseases” or “I’ll never have a partner complain about the size” or “You’re all just jealous/envious of my penis”. No. I’m not envious of your fake, plastic penis.
    Grow up.

    #112: “Teenage boys may very well be aroused, and fathers may very well be offended. So ALL body parts, including nursing pics, should be made against the rules.”

    Breastfeeding isn’t a sexual act and breastfeeding pics aren’t sexual in nature. Talking about your sex toys and what you do with them are sexual in nature and don’t have a place on a parenting/family/cloth diaper board.
    I don’t get where the penis av not being allowed has anything to do with religion as far as the board rules go. I know plenty of people that aren’t Christian or even religious at all that would agree that doesn’t need to be on ds. Think of ds as being a family restaurant. Would you be ok taking your children to a place where the servers wore Proud Owner of a Penis/Vagina shirts? ds is a public board, suitable for people of all ages. I don’t think it’s a huge deal that they ask for things of sexual nature to not be there. It has nothing to do with religion.

    #119: Am I a WAHM? Maybe. I’m still allowed to have an opinion.

    ~ I also don’t want to hear about people DTD either, M,Kay? I already said that above. Keep it to yourself. I don’t need to know and that goes for any couple.

    ~ I am well aware of what the av is since it is pictured above. I don’t care that it wasn’t a picture of a penis or not. I still don’t think ds is the place for that kind of adult humor when it’s supposed to be a “family friendly” board. I don’t have any problems with the word penis. We use the correct terms in out home. Nick does NOT have a penis. He has a fake plastic toy and the av was in reference to that. Even if it weren’t, I still wouldn’t think it were appropriate.

    ~ Not ashamed of the human anatomy at all. Already said above we use the correct terms in our home.

    #140: How am I being intolerant? All I have said is that I don’t think that av is appropriate for ds? Obviously I can laugh at penis humor, hence my name here. And it suits my monster so well! 😀 Me not agreeing with the masses and seeing an issue with the av doesn’t equal me being intolerant of anyone. Simply means I disagree. You are all pointing fingers and saying people are being judgmental, but if someone doesn’t agree with the popular opinion, you judge them and say they are being intolerant. Double standard?
    I agree with lysol-I find it mind boggling what info people share in their siggy about their sons penis. It isn’t anyone’s business. And it for sure isn’t my place to talk about what we chose to do with my sons penis shortly after birth on the internet-it is HIS penis!

    #147: #1. Where did I say the word penis was offensive?

    #2. I don’t sell a product called Banana Hammock.

    And #157, right above.

    Now tell me, where did I spew hate or flash a badge? Don’t lump me in.

  160. amy says:

    I am interested in what jesus said, because at its core it is a good message. But how it is used today to exclude people and minimize them is not a reflection of the literal text of the new testament. In this case, at DS family-friendly seems to mean “christian” in the sense of how some people interpret it IMO. I wish they would just call it a christian parenting cloth diaper board then. So people, like myself, who do not want to be around that mindset can just stay away. You’re right if you have picked up on the fact that I do struggle with tolerance of people who cast judgement on zayvir’sdaddy as people whom I can listen to their opinion respectfully. I can own that. But I also reserve the right to call it out. Sometimes I do a better job of that than others.

  161. bananahammock says:

    “You’re right if you have picked up on the fact that I do struggle with tolerance of people who cast judgement on zayvir’sdaddy”

    I can respect that, but I have not judged Nick.

  162. amy says:

    Are you bananahammack or minimouth. I’m confused. I read what you said. You are not tolerant of Nick’s avi. Which is your right and you have supported why you feel it is not family friendly without referencing religion. Intolerance is something we all feel about certain things. On the other hand, some of your statements like Nick is flaunting his fake penis which you find to be distateful do sound like judgements, my friend. KWIM?

    So I will not lump you in with christian badge wearers. Thank you for your effort to clarify that your judgements are not couched in terms of some larger christian sense of right and wrong, sinful etc.. At the same time, you are making judgements about what is and is not appropriate for DS. My point here is that we all make judgements and we disagree when we differ. BUT when we impose other people or not acknowledge the right to differ is what is problematic. I believe this happens on DS quite often. I’m not saying you have done this. But there are things you do not want to tolerate because you have judged them to be distasteful as stated by your posts. We all do this.
    Anytime anyone pulls out the term “family-friendly” as the way they describe what is and is not OK, I get nervous. What does that mean, exactly? Some people will use that term to mean all people who are homosexual or transgendered, not just the act of referring to a penis on DS. (which bothers me not at all, BTW) The term is so vague that it can be bent to suit the agenda of the owner of DS at his discretion. This may be his right since it is his board, but it makes it hard for the rest of us who see it differently to participate in the board without knowing we may accept things that other define as not family-friendly.
    Also, why do you call yourself banahammock, a euphemism that evokes a penis image, when you feel the way you do about Nick and his avi referring to a penis? You evoke the image with your name… When I see bananahammock or penis written, I think about the same thing. Is this an OK place for it but not DS? Why is this blog different? Not being snarky, just curious.
    So sorry to lump you in where you feel you do not belong. I’m glad we can have this disucssion and clarify what we each mean.

  163. Mamatutu says:

    Spoon,
    You said

    “You are right we are not meant to judge other people, but the Bible is really referring to us deciding/judging who is or isn’t acceptable to enter Heaven, and thank God that I don’t have that responsibility. But we are also supposed to call sin… sin. Not just sit by, be all politically correct and afraid of what people will think of us you know what I mean?”

    I am never surprised when I see ppl saying that the “no judgment” idea was for something other then what they are doing so that they can get a way with it.

    Anyway WHO gives a rats ass what they are doing? Mindi is my girl from WAY back and I love her, if she is happy and is not hurting anyone, then who the heck am I to call it a “sin”? No one, that is not my job nor is it yours any of you. Nick likes to push buttons that is what he does, should he have refrained from doing what he did? Maybe. Should Mindi been demoted? No, Do I think some ppl have nothing better to do then get involved in other ppls lives? Hell ya and I think it is shitty. (See there I judged, but like spoon said, I am not judging weather or not they get into heaven so it’s all good)
    We are a county at war, paying almost $5.00 a gallon for gas and with a poor economy. So I guess I can see and understand getting your entertainment via the internet so carry on.

  164. icantwin (Birdie/bananahammock) says:

    *changing my name from bananahammock as to not confuse anyone and be neutral*

    I don’t make the rules on ds and all I have been trying to relay is that I don’t think that is the appropriate platform for discussing your sexual lifestyle and/or preference. And, as already stated, I feel that way about ANY couple. That’s all. I wasn’t trying to judge anyone or force anyone in to “family friendly” views. All I have been trying to say is that I can understand why that rule is in place. Do I agree with it? No. There are a lot of rules there I don’t agree with. But ds is useful for me to B/S/T diapers and that’s about all I use it for. I use another forum for adult discussions and chit chat with internet friends.
    I can’t win here and it’s frustrating. I feel like I have said over and over why I feel the way I feel, but nobody wants to hear it. You all want to step on me because I’m not 100% in agreement with you and that doesn’t seem fair. Seems like you’re being intolerant of my opinion and view while at the same expecting me to agree with yours and get in line. Why is it OK on the blog? Because this blog doesn’t promote being “family friendly” and my username was a joke given to me by another blogger. It used to be Birdie, but I was being mistaken for a crappy ds member, so I changed it. I really don’t understand how me saying the penis and vagina av’s are inappropriate means I am being intolerant or judgmental. We all have our own comfort levels. And those are beyond mine for reasons already stated.

  165. icantwin says:

    Oh great! Now I look like Scammy Sam of DT with my 3 names in one place. lol. I never tried to hide! Just trying to not cause problems so I got rid of banana. 😦

  166. DSDM2 says:

    Oh, hon, I didn’t think you were hiding! I was just putting the names so that others could follow.

    You used the same email and all, there was no mischievous behavior, and I will only do that this time 😉 Not in trouble or shady.

    In no way are you as ignorant as Sam.

  167. The Original Just Me says:

    Wow! Ferrferr I think I’m in love with you! LOL!

    I noticed there were several posts saying how they don’t like Nicks lifestyle and choices being forced down their throat. Well, excuse me but how many posts do we see DAILY on DS with members bashing other members and trying to force THEIR choices down other peoples throats? This may be a bit OT here, but it is similar. Like the freakin 85784758457 posts on how awful formula/circumcision is. Seriously, if you don’t like posts simply do not open it. You have every right to state your opinion, just as the people with whom you disagree with.

    And for those of you wanting to call Nick a “she” because thats is what “she” is, well there are plenty of names I would like to call you because it IS what you are, however out of respect of calling you what you would like to be called, I shall refrain. 🙂

  168. The Original Just Me says:

    Birdie/Banana/icantwin

    It’s great that you have other forums/outlets to discuss adult matters, however not everyone else does, and it’s possible they simply don’t feel like posting on more then one message board. You (or maybe I’ve confused you with someone else in this particular blog- if so I apologize) have stated that you don’t like when people post certain personal threads that you dont think belong on the net… well, some people disagree with you. Since it is their life, they have every right to post what they want. AGAIN, it is not that difficult to avoid posts that you do not want to read. Some people have what the consider close friends on DS and want to get their opinion on certain matters. Can they do it in a pm or some other method? Sure! But sometimes they like to get a general opinion on things. I don’t think there is anything wrong with people posting about their personal life.

  169. cassie says:

    goodness. so many replies since i’ve been gone. birdie/bananaboat/ifyouain’tfirstyerlast:

    i respect your opinion.

    that is all.

  170. liljoeysmom says:

    Was Mindi unbanned?

  171. Mindi says:

    ‘Was Mindi unbanned?’

    I was never banned, just removed as an administrator.

  172. Obaby says:

    So, this is all so hilarious. I know this is an old post, but had to comment-
    Everyone is so upset at the sexual nature of either breasts, penii, and who knows what else because this is supposed to be a family community?
    Did they all forget the fruitcakes that find wearing cloth diapers sexy? Hello!!!!!

    Oh, and I too am getting sick of all the f*ing double standards that are thrown around on ds. Make up your damn mind already.

  173. Obaby says:

    So, this is all so hilarious. I know this is an old post, but had to comment-
    Everyone is so upset at the sexual nature of either breasts, penii, and who knows what else because this is supposed to be a family community?
    Did they all forget the fruitcakes that find wearing cloth diapers sexual? Isn’t that what the whole cummunity is about? Hello!!!!!

    Oh, and I too am getting sick of all the f*ing double standards that are thrown around on ds. Make up your damn mind already.

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