The thread is gone, but this troll was nuts. Great story line for Jerry Springer!
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Mod mamas please delete this totally out of control thread
SEEING AS HOW THIS THREAD NO LONGER HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE ORIGINAL POST I THINK IT WOULD BE BEST TO LET IT DIE OR IF THE MODS CARE TO ASSIST BY DELETING IT!
In the most Polite since I can possibly come up with this morning, WTH is going on in here! First off I can honestly say I didn’t ask for flames about my life or my choices and definitely didn’t ask for anyone to make negative comments about my relationship. WTF no one on here actually knows the whole story start to finish and now taking bits and pieces of it some of you have decided to make some opinions and comments that are unnecessary. I am aware that people have different opinions and I am human to, I often see post in here that I completely disagree with the way people are running their lives but I wouldn’t post hurtful or judgemental messages about it. I think it is an absolute shame that I wrote a post in a rare cute girly moment to brag about the man I love and ALMOST NO ONE HAD ANYTHING TO SAY ABOUT IT, that is of course until things that aren’t related to the op came up and negative things could be said. I also wanted to add that I made it to about page 4 or so before I stopped reading the replies, I refuse to continue to get more and more upset over it!
Also it kinda really hurts my feelings that my BF did come to check out DS because I told him how great it was and he gets to be welcomed with things like this!I just have to brag that my boyfriend is awesome. lol He is hooked on DS he started lurking a few days ago and signed up Also we have been dicussing when we would TTC (for those of you who don’t know his ex wife has twins due any day and hoping to god nothing changes he will get full custody) So I told him a few days ago that we wouldn’t be ttc until he saved up the money for a midwive and a home birth (tricare will hopefully cover part of it and maybe in a few years when we are ready they will be less stingy about it then they have in the past) anyways he of course looked at me like I am a nutso. and was like mmmhmmmm w/e I will change your mind blah blah blah. WELL last night he sat down and watch The Business of Being Born with me!!! He is now completely on board with the plan. I never really knew there were guys like him out there I thought other women made it up when they said all the great things their SO’s did for them. Anyways he is at work being ran like a dog (like most military guys are) and i was just thinking how very awesome he is and had to share lol
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[quote=toni520;7879568] I just have to brag that my boyfriend is awesome. lol He is hooked on DS he started lurking a few days ago and signed up Also we have been dicussing when we would TTC (for those of you who don’t know his ex wife has twins due any day and hoping to god nothing changes he will get full custody) So I told him a few days ago that we wouldn’t be ttc until he saved up the money for a midwive and a home birth (tricare will hopefully cover part of it and maybe in a few years when we are ready they will be less stingy about it then they have in the past) anyways he of course looked at me like I am a nutso. and was like mmmhmmmm w/e I will change your mind blah blah blah. WELL last night he sat down and watch The Business of Being Born with me!!! He is now completely on board with the plan. I never really knew there were guys like him out there I thought other women made it up when they said all the great things their SO’s did for them. Anyways he is at work being ran like a dog (like most military guys are) and i was just thinking how very awesome he is and had to share lol[/QUOTEthats me she talks about lol “BOOM BOOM BOOM RAINING HELL ON THE ENEMY” “BOOM ARTILLERY” ran into the ground is an understatement ran through mud and hell of rain to bring the support needed to bring the troops home its only training but when i go there again hell will be brought upon them and we all will come home to drink the beer we oh so want!!!!!!v
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its also fishy that she said in her first post that they watched “the business of being born” together a few nights ago, and then a few posts down she makes a comment about waiting till he gets back to the states to decide about his brother…ummm, okay so is he here or there?it would be interesting to see if they really are the same person though. Don’t you get banned for having 2 user names?
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Originally Posted by sbbeana Hey I found the thread you were talking about and just read it. Now I’m confused more than ever.
Holy bat boogers! I had no idea there was a preface to the story! I was just going on what I was reading here!
Honestly, DS mods are going to have to do something… She is in Germany, her boyfriend is overseas, she is state side thinking of joining the army, she is living with the boyfriend overseas, she is living in the US waiting for the boyfriend to get back, the boyfriend has 3.6754 kids in uteros scattered all over the world, the husband is making babies with the roomate’s boyfriend #2 (don’t ask don’t tell), the best friend is snorting shrooms, and the mailman is getting screwed into paying childsupport! Yeah, real fair!__________________
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Here’s her first post on that thread:
http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=794092
Pretty much hurt and devestated
I am sitting here first thing this morning crying and upset. I really am torn about what to do. I have always loved coming to diaper swappers even tho by the time I found it DS was already potty trained. Now I finally am going to be able to buy fluff again but everytime I look at Diaper swappers right now I feel hurt. I have been a member in this forum for years now. I often times haven’t posted anything about my life for fear that people would say nasty things to me. Now I wrote a completely innocent post and had some people say some very nasty things to and about me. So I feel very torn about what to do. 1. I could leave ds and not deallwith it 2. I could attempt to ignore it all or 3. I can sit here and write out the entire story so that maybe a few mammas on here would read it and maybe not judge me as much, but also risk getting flamed twice. It just really sucks that i feel i have to defend my entire life.So instead of running I am going to try to explain some of the questions that I saw come up and turn into nasty comments. From the top shall we. I am 22 years old and have a 4 year old son. I am currently in college working on my associates in criminal justice. i finish it in about 4 months. I got married at 17 and I was married for 5 years to an abusive man. It isn’t something i like to talk about or share with other people but my husband was physically, verbally, emotionally and sexually abusive. I decided it was time to be done with that and I would be completely divorced right now except he doesn’t want a divorce and is fighting me on everything.
I am dating someone else, and yes my soon to be ex husband knows about it. (before i go any further i also want to make it clear that i am aware that people have opinions on moving on before the paperwork is done i know some people dont agree. i understand but would like to ask u to refrain from flaming me over it). As for my bf yes he is also waiting on his divorce to be finished. He got back from iraq in Nov. got married in Dec and was working on his divorce by feb. It was a big mistake and both parties agree. His paperwork would be complete right now but because she told him that she has miscarried his twins and was no longer pregnant all the paperwork was done for a simple uncontested divorce with no kids, so everything has to be done again because there are children in the picture now. I honestly never believed in love at first sight until i might him. but yes i am in love with him and no things are not ideal because of the timing but i wouldnt ask any other momma to walk away from tru love because of bad timing and i wont do it either.
In may I found out I was pregnant and my bf and i were excited. once again bad timing we knew that but a baby is a blessing. (yes i had been ttc with my ex for awhile with no luck but i went back on the bc because he got physically violent with my son and i told him i couldnt have any more kids with him because i didnt want to see his violence turn on my kids. i didnt want to have to leave with 2 small children.) On the Forth of July we found out from a friend of my bf that his ex was indeed still pregnant. That night i started cramping and bleeding (also a very hard thing for me to talk about) so over the past few weeks the focus has been directed towards the twins a boy and a girl.(Trystan Michael and Tryniti Marie) officially due on the 31st of next month but expected to be 2-4 weeks early. As of right now the mother has not told anyone in her family she is still pregnant and most of her friends dnt know either. bf is doing everything he can to rush the divorce being finished ASAP so that she can sign over all rights at birth and hopefully we wont have to worry about her changing her mind, but yes i am terrified of that idea even tho she has displayed that she wants nothing to do with the kids and yes even said she would drop them off at a fire station if he didnt pick them up from the hospital.
I realize it is a very drama situation and kinda sounds crazy(I even agree with some other posters that it sounds like a soap opera) but i think i will go with what my dad said about it “it isnt drama toni it isnt a mess this is just the kinda stuff that happens in Life”
My other post if anyone didnt manage to read it did mention that bf and i were talking about when we would ttc. not that we are going to now. i am not foolish trying to concieve now would put us taking care of more kids then i could handle even with a great support system that i have with my family and more then we can afford. maybe we are just odd but i thought talking about the future and things like when would it be good to try for kids is something most couples discuss i am sorry if it confused people into thinking we are rushing back into something we cant handle we arent. We know $$ is tight and that is why i said that (in several years it is gonna take to save the money for it) we could talk about ttc when we had the money for a home birth.
Also it really upsets me that someone would say that bf is not an honorable military man. he works very hard and has deployed to iraq for a 15 months tour and he is a good soldier. Yes he is a little nuts for getting on ds and posting crazy artillery sayings but really just an attempt to get me to smile at him being a nerd. It worked Another thing that got to me is that some mammas seem unaccepting of the fact that i plan to join the military. Someone asked why and the answer is because that is what i have always wanted to do. I have lost over 100 pounds training with just that in mind. I did say i am looking at the reserves now because for the time being bf is AD and with the kids being so young dual military would be very hard (but yes possible and for the mama that asked yes i can go AD with a dual military waiver once bf and i get married and yes we would have a family care plan and yes i have family that would help. let me add here that i am an army brat and my family is willing to help under the circumstance that i deploy or am training etc. we dont believe in letting anyone else raise our kids just for the sake of it, this would only be on the chance that bf and i deploy at the same time.) Also Bf may not stay in the army forever. Right now he is in college to trying to make sure that when his enlistment is up he has options.
so now that this seems to have turned into a novel I think i am done for the time being.Oh well I would also like to add that we dnt sit at the computer all day checking DS although sometimes it is very very tempting to do just that. and that we didnt stop writing last night because I am a crazy middle aged man making stuff up. We closed ds to work on our homework after i saw that things were getting all heated up for no reason on that thread we finished homework late at night (we are in a very different timezone them most other mammas) and although bf wanted to read more post i asked that we just go to bed and look at it in the morning so i wouldnt be upset before bed.
I dont know if anyone is going to read this whole thing if you did thank you i appreciate it. I hope it cleared a little up for some of the moms who were upset by what i can only assume was misunderstanding and then well the mob effect. And really in advance i recieved pretty much enough flames on the other post to know how most mamma feel about anything to do with my life and i would really rather not have this post backfire and turn into the same thing so please No flames
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I just wish he didn’t want to eat everything off my plate. 
It’s difficult to schedule everyone to eat when my ds eats, so that’s not really an option. We just have to continually distract him from our food. And he’s also nursing 4 times a day, quite heartily. I just worry about letting him eat too much. But apparantly I’m starving him. 
